r/AskAChristian 3h ago

God Why are Christians against abortion but not against God killing babies, especially when the Bible contains passages where God commands the killing of children and infants?

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As the title asks, why are Christians opposed to abortion when the Bible depicts God commanding the killing of innocent children and infants?

1 Samuel 15:3 states:

“Now go, attack the Amalekites and destroy everything they own as an offering to the Lord. Don’t let anything live. Put to death men and women, children and small babies, cattle and sheep, camels and donkeys.”

If Christians argue that deliberately ending innocent human life is inherently immoral, how is this reconciled with a passage in which God explicitly commands the killing of children and infants?

It seems contradictory to claim that killing an unborn child is inherently wrong while simultaneously accepting that God could command the killing of infants and, by implication, pregnant women.

If the act of killing is morally wrong in itself, what principle makes it permissible when God commands it but immoral when a human being does it?


r/AskAChristian 6h ago

Sin Why isn't sleeping around and promiscuity held in the same regard as LGBT people?

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As an atheist, it has come to my attention that promiscuous people tend to get much more free passes than LGBT people. Now I understand that standard Christian doctrine discourages people from that, however, the experiences I've had with Christians is completely opposite to that.

To put it simply, promiscuous people are NOT held to the same standard, especially promiscious men. There are no laws dictating how many people aomeone can sleep with. There isn't public outrage when someone (more specifically, a man) sleeps around. There are no protests saying promiscuous people can't marry. There is no outrage when a "womanizer" character is portrayed in media.

So what's the deal? It doesn't feel consistent at all. If all sexual sin is held in the same regard, than why not publicly rally against promiscuous people the same way you do against LGBT people? Now of course I have no problem with people who want to sleep around or not, but why can't Christians seem to be consistent eith their beliefs in sexual sin?

As a final point, I'd like to add that my points primarily apply to men. Women who sleep around are MUCH more scrutinized than men are, and again, it doesn't feel consistent or make sense.


r/AskAChristian 20h ago

Sin Do you think God considers eating factory farmed animals a sin?

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Im not really asking if he’ll send anyone to hell for it.

Do you think he considers it a sin tho? Should ppl be repenting for this?


r/AskAChristian 22h ago

Abortion Why are modern Christians so obsessed with abortion?

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Inspired by all the abortion related questions lately:

From my understanding, the Bible seems to understand abortion as a property crime against the father and personhood to begin at first breath, in line with the ancient Hebrew belief that life began with the breath. Not to mention the Catholic Church only extended excommunication to the abortion of a formed fetus, fitting the Aristotelian view.

Given this, why are so many modern Christians so ready to legally push their modern beliefs on abortion legally on those of other faiths, when they can’t even agree among themselves? And why is it such a big talking point, is this just another symptom of the politicization of religion?


r/AskAChristian 7h ago

If a Christian Family gives Birth to someone who has both male and female parts what should They do about it?

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r/AskAChristian 3h ago

What are your opinions on the shroud of turin?

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r/AskAChristian 23h ago

Capitalist or Christian? A question about the elephant in the pew

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As I've pointed out in the other post, this is one of my prefered passages in the Bible: "It is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God" (Matthew 19:24).

There is no ambiguity in the fact that Jesus told a rich man to sell everything and give to the poor. The early church "had everything in common" and "no one claimed that any of their possessions was their own". (Acts 4:32)

Jesus blessed the poor, warned against storing treasures and said you cannot serve both God and money.

Now here's my question: and I'm asking sincerely (It is NOT a "Gotcha!"):

If Jesus walked into your church today and said "sell everything and give to the poor", would you recognize him? Or would you call him a socialist and show him the door?

Because this tension no one will ever deny: American Christianity has married itself to capitalism, private property, and individual wealth accumulation. The prosperity gospel is just the unashamed version of what many quietly believe, meaning that God wants you to be comfortable, successful, and secure.

But was Jesus "Confortable"? He was homeless as far as I can tell. He told his followers to have no bag, no money, no extra tunic. He said "blessed are the poor" and meant it, right?

So I'll ask plainly:

Do you follow Jesus, or do you follow the American Dream? Because the two paths diverge pretty dramatically at "sell all".

You can't serve both God and money. Jesus said that. Not me.

So which one are you serving?


r/AskAChristian 19h ago

Hell Did my dad lie about his opinion of our afterlives? (Heaven/Hell)

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So, I'm an ex-Christian atheist. Had to be honest about it eventually. And one day I realized, oh ... my parents think I'm gonna be tortured forever by God. And they're gonna be in Heaven.

One day, I straight up, point blank, asked my dad "How would you feel if I died right now and went to Hell?" and he said "I'd be sad."

And that answer ... baffles me. Let's assume my dad is right about everything, and I'm wrong. There is a God, and He created an infinite torture pit for folks like me, and infinite bliss for my dad. I know that famous theologians like Aquinas and Augustine have said that it will be the delight of the saints to watch the punishment of non-believers.

FWIW, I've read "The Great Divorce" and I remember quite liking it, before I left the faith. And the inescapable torture pit is far from the only fate Christians imagine for me. But in that moment, in that conversation with my dad, I made damn well sure (pun fully intended) that he said that when I died, I would be tortured forever. AND ... that he would be sad about it.

So his options are limited to:

  1. Yipee! Look at what a great justice God is bestowing unto my unbelieving child! (In which case he lied).

OR

  1. Reality is lesser for the loss of my son, and I mourn that. (In which case God is not all good).

So which part of that was false?


r/AskAChristian 8h ago

God Why do I feel like God almost likes seeing humans suffer? If He cared about us and animals, wouldn't he have prevented the Fall in the first place?

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r/AskAChristian 17h ago

Why does Righteous dude allow Christians to call atheists swines, but atheists can't respond in kind?

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r/AskAChristian 6h ago

not a Christian question but why do i get downvoted on almost everything i say?

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at this point i feel like People just have Something against me.


r/AskAChristian 6h ago

Doesn’t the idea of headship in marriage presuppose a man is capable of love even though seeking headship over his wife suggests he isn’t?

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People typically don’t abuse to abuse, they abuse to control. To tear a person down and rebuild them as they want them to be. When a husband seeks a wife who’s mandated to submit to him as head, isn’t he doing the same?


r/AskAChristian 11h ago

Is jesus truly god?

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If the bible says jesus IS god, but also alludes that he is NOT god which are we to believe?


r/AskAChristian 5h ago

Atheist YouTuber

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what do yall think of the huge majority of atheist male(or female) YouTubers who tried to debunk Christianity or the concept of a God overrall?


r/AskAChristian 3h ago

How can god be considered merciful and benevolent if he expires babies and children?

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r/AskAChristian 1h ago

Old Testament What good evidence is there for Moses, mass enslavement of Hebrews, or the exodus?

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Apart from religious books and their stories (bible/OT, Torah), what good evidence is there for the existence of the OT character called Moses, mass enslavement of Hebrews by the Egyptian, or the exodus of such people en masse and led by Moses (followed by 40 years of wandering in the desert)?


r/AskAChristian 10h ago

Don’t you find this insulting, as if you were being treated like an animal ?

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How do you feel, and what do you do, when some forms require you to fill in the “sex” field: male or female?

Personally, I would fill it in if, instead of those options, they used “Mr.” and “Mrs.”

Don’t you find this insulting, as if you were being treated like an animal?


r/AskAChristian 11h ago

God knows what we're gonna choose beforehand, so when we make the wrong choice, why does he get angry?

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I've been thinking bout this for a while. Any answer would help!


r/AskAChristian 20h ago

Marriage Does Rome actually allow this?

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r/AskAChristian 2h ago

LGBT Lgbtq Christians how do you cope with the homophobic verses in the bible

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r/AskAChristian 8h ago

In psalm 40:7 it says “behold I come, in the volume of the book it is written concerning me”. In the volume of what book is David’s coming written about?

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r/AskAChristian 4h ago

Suicide Christianity and Suicide

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I know this must’ve been asked here dozens of times, but I joined here just to ask this.
Can a Christian who truly believes in God, be forgiven for ending his/her own life?
What if they’re asking for repentance as they’re doing it?

Thank you


r/AskAChristian 7h ago

Other subreddits Why do people

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Why do people post things in r/TrueChristian seem designed to damage other people's faith in God or start arguments? Maybe the community reinforces their beliefs. For me, seeing these posts makes me feel hopeless and makes salvation seem extremely difficult or impossible, while the people making those posts seem to think they're spiritually ‘in the good.


r/AskAChristian 2h ago

Faith For the Christians who are ex-atheists: Do you believe that your previous skepticism towards God was due to cognitive dissonance fueled by negative emotional attachments?

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I've believed in God for as long as I can remember, though I didn't know about Jesus until around the age of 12. It was primarily my grandmother who taught me about him, but I didn't really struggle to believe in God at any later point in my life. God just made sense to me, and I struggle to see how someone can reach adulthood without believing in God.

So I'm asking ex-atheists who have become Christians: What do you believe kept you from believing in God? Do you believe it was primarily due to cognitive dissonance?