I remember watching Saucy Santana's interview with Cam Newton and he said he was in a casual romantic relationship with a transman. I'm thinking it's more common than I think it is.

Is there a particular site you favor or would recommend in regards to undergear, i.e., jockstraps, boxer briefs, trunks, bodysuits, thongs, g-strings, etc.? Any lead(s) would be appreciated. Thank you.

Ok, so just hear me out. As a married Dl Tops, I feel like there not really a community for us. I wish there was group or place to find other masculine discreet dudes that just like chillin, talking shop and seeing where shit goes? Like taking back to college days with the homies that understand the culture, jokes, and nuances feel like a dream. But on the flip side when you not feeling that “ itch” you can talk parlays, baby momma drama, without feeling weird like you got to fuck or something…

Am I the only one?

I don’t know if I’m the only one, but the constant public nudity for content from creators is a disgrace especially in broad light on public streets. I saw a creator on X having intercourse at a gay event on the street in broad daylight around apartment buildings and it grossed me out! There’s no regard for minors that may be in those apartment buildings that look out those windows and see the nonsense going on. I respect the community, but we have to be honest and real with ourselves and how bad it looks. These companies that throw these events need to be held accountable and set strict guidelines because it looks very predatory, irresponsible and sick!

I'm 23M and pretty skinny, and sometimes I wonder if that makes dating harder than it needs to be. Being gay where I live adds another layer to it because LGBTQ+ relationships aren't exactly accepted or easy to navigate here.

Every now and then it gets pretty lonely, and I find myself wondering whether I'm actually struggling because of my circumstances, my appearance, or simply because I haven't met the right person yet. 😔

For the guys here, especially those who are skinny or have dated while living somewhere that's not very LGBTQ-friendly — did you ever feel the same way?

What helped you eventually find someone who genuinely appreciated you?

Hey y'all ... Last week I was in the men's room at work and my manager came in. I was washing my hands, when all of a sudden I heard this "whoooooooosh!". His urine stream was long and forceful (like a gotdamn Super Soaker) and I was slightly turned the fuck on.

I'm not into water sports (although I would allow him on my chest and azz cheeks). Is that a thing, to be aroused only by the sound of a man's #1, especially if it's strong? (I feel like it's something to do with his virility, or some shit like that.) Thoughts?

How you got aware of your dick size, rather it's average, big or small ?

Have you ever had a hookup that truly made you feel like a million dollar bill afterward?

I’m 36m and crazy about this guy who is more than a decade older than me.

It’s been a year with no commitment but three kinda breakups. Each time, that pattern’s the same. I love on him more and more, feel him pull away, and then comes the kinda breakup. I fall back, and a week or so goes by before he reaches back out and maybe tells me that he misses me. THIS is where the confusion is and it’s happening right now —

He asks me about who I’ve been with, who they are, what we’ve done, and so many other details. The first kinda breakup, there was nothing to tell. The second one, I told him about this guy and he lost it. Still brings it up but its crazy because he’s told me about many many other people he’s been with since the beginning and told me he’s not looking for anything. This time, there’s nothing to tell again because the connection I feel for him is so strong that I can’t allow myself to go further with any guys. Told him this and he accuses me of lying.

What is this pattern? If I were your friend, what would you tell me? Especially want to hear from anyone who’s been through this.

The heretic or the eagle in ATL? I hear they both have a dark room. Which darkroom is more active? Plan on going for black gay pride

Just a casual observation, at times it appears that if a Black gay man doesn’t subscribe to a popular thing or idea within Black gay circles, ostracization is usually the next step.

For example, I can’t stand any of the Housewives shows. I don’t see the point of it and when I would try to watch it with my gay friends as a communal experience I was just so turned off by it all.

Naturally I couldn’t get into the conversation about the show because it doesn’t resonate with me and you would have thought I orchestrated a hit on Beyoncé when the room discovered I just looked at the show with them, I don’t care for it personally.

This is just one example of something a majority of Black gays enjoy communally that I don’t but I’m sure there are others.

So i tried to look up the promotoers in Atlanta that throw black events on Twitter, gemini, and Claude but I kept getting sex parties.

Does anyone know any promoters in Atlanta? Im trying to find more events for Black Pride next week that are not circuit parties.

Is there an excel spreadsheet like there was for DC Pride?

I'm assuming there more events than are being advertised on the atlblackpride website.

In the United States, I know there has always been racial bias. But is it just me, or does it seem like the division between white (and white passing) gays and the other POCs (especially black) is growing. It seems like the community at large exclusively pushes a very specific brand of gay—white, fit, masc-presenting—and everyone is now chasing that. Or maybe it’s just my algorithm lol?