Am I ugly? |19

[u/dont_askmemyname]

Okay so, I know that my personality isn’t the best because of my mental issues that project into my behaviour. Although I am trying to work on myself, I am not here to excuse my behaviour and this question isn’t really about my behaviour.
When I get confronted many times, instead of people discussing what I did wrong with me, which I’d rather appreciate, but also understand it’s not happening many times because u tend to be manipulative, I get called ugly instead. This may seem shallow of me, and maybe I am, but I do get comments like “You’re not even that pretty” or “Looks at yourself first” pretty often and that really makes me wonder where I stand with my physical appearance. I’d like to remain anonymous, so I’d rather not share my pictures or anything similar, but there is many who just comment my looks or call me ugly.

[u/xoxo__lilith]

When ppl run out of constructive arguments or feel frustrated they often resort to cheap insults about appearance cuz it's the easiest way to hurt someone Those comments say more about their lack of maturity than ur actual looks
It takes a lot of self-awareness to admit that ur behaviors need work and it's great that u're actively trying to work on yourself Don't let ppl using cheap insults during arguments trick u into believing their harsh words define how u actually look Wishing u all the best on ur journey to becoming a better version of yourself keep in mind that even if u were reallllyyyy beautiful but ur behavior is bad sorry everyone will see u ugly maybe this’s why they said that u’re ugly