r/DecideThisForMe • u/digitalvits • 2d ago
should i keep this up?
okay going on years of body dysmorphia ngl, do i look fat in this? obviously im not skinny but i posted this from my trip to colombia and i keep going from idc ima just leave it up to i don’t really like this. thanks in advance:)
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u/lolliscicle 2d ago
Yes! These are great photos!
One day you will look back and see yourself the more loving eyes. - Practice ignoring your inner critic now!
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u/digitalvits 2d ago
thank you, i really appreciate it lots, im really trying to stop judging myself cus ik in the future even my
worse pics will be my favorite lol
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u/Sweet_Sheepherder_41 2d ago
You don’t look fat. You look like you have a normal, curvy body. I’d keep it up, but the lighting is a bit dark!
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u/NeedAMozzarellaStick 2d ago
You do not look fat at all. Try to not use that word. You look healthy and radiant. A wonderful dress and flower in your hair.
Look at this photo and remember the feelings from this moment, experiences and memories from the trip, not your weight or look. Don’t waste time overthinking. There’s so much more to life! (Easier said than done, but so so so freeing to shed the burden of worrying about how others perceive you. Love yourself. You look great, and what really matters is who you are inside and the experiences you accumulate over your lifetime with people who matter to you)
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u/Luna_beu 2d ago
I’m skinny, short 157cm and like a child …:so and even if I try my best to grow up, it's an impossible gene so I envy it when I see a curvy woman like this it’s super gorgeous❤️
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u/Independent-Summer12 2d ago
Take it from the indelible Moira Rose. She’s absolutely right.
Moira Rose: I am suddenly overwhelmed with regret. It's a new feeling for me, and I don't find it at all pleasurable.
Stevie Budd: You regret that embarassing photos of you aren't online?
Moira Rose: No, I regret that they're lost. They were the one perfect memorial to who I once was. And I should've appreciated those firm round mammae and callipygian ass while I had them.
Stevie Budd: If you're talking about your body, uh... I think you still look amazing.
Moira Rose: Then allow me to offer you some advice: Take a thousand, […] pictures of yourself now. You may currently think, "Oh, I'm too spooky." Or, "Nobody wants to see these tiny boobies." But, believe me, one day you will look at those photos with much kinder eyes and say, "Dear God, I was a beautiful thing!"
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u/No_Interview_2481 2d ago
No, you do not look fat.