r/Frat 1h ago

Serious I’m in a gay fraternity, what should I do?

Upvotes

Like 13 dudes in the past 6 months have come out and 5 of them are dating. 1 of the couples is a throuplet.

Anyway, they all just talk about glory holes and white wine and nothing else. It’s like they became new people. They used to just be kinda boring and just talk about work and sports.

Anyway the president tried to make pledges walk in the pride parade and we lost like 21 dudes. Our chapter is low key falling apart.

Instead of littles and bigs, it’s bigs and littles you know what i mean?

I go to a horizon league school in the Midwest


r/Frat 19h ago

Rush Advice Thoughts on army vet rushing a frat at cu Boulder?

3 Upvotes

Got out of the army with a green to gold scholarship. Did 2 years active duty enlisted, now I’m in rotc. Would it be worth it to rush a frat? Would it be possible to fit a frat into the rotc life?


r/Frat 23h ago

Frat Stuff How bad is hazing at certain schools?

23 Upvotes

I’m a high school Senior starting college apps. And I know I wanna rush. How’s hazing at schools like VT and UMD, or even smaller schools like Bucknell or Temple? Is it worse than a lax locker room?


r/Frat 11h ago

Megathread Frat. Or Not Frat.

4 Upvotes

Since y'all like shitposting asking if random things from water beds to which New Balances are frat, here's the place to do it.

We've turned down the frequency of these posts from weekly to monthly. This way it doesn't clutter up the sub.


r/Frat 21h ago

Frat Stuff Mechanical Bull at a Darty?

9 Upvotes

Got the go ahead from my risk manager and president to rent out a mechanical bull for our darty but is it worth it? Worried about the liabilities but it would be sick