r/GayMen 23h ago

Update on my situation

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On my previous post I told the story how I was curious so I tried with a guy for the first time ever but I had that quilty and disgusting feeling afterwards. So I processed it, thought about it, had flashbacks of everyhting that went down with this one twink and how I enjoyed it. And I will say that I would definetly want to try again. The way I felt when he took the lead and took the charge, when he kissed me and grabbed me everywhere without asking me (we both agreed on that), the way I was so turned because of it and not to forget the first time getting a bj from a guy and also giving a bj to a guy for the first time. All of it was great.

So it is safe to say that the guilty feeling and disgust in my throat dissapeared and I would definetly want to try again. (but only with a twink, femboy or feminine guy. They are the only ones that turn me on).

Now one question remains. Does this make me officialy bi? I never imagined myself being part of LGBTQ


r/GayMen 21h ago

Finde es geil sexuell betrogen zu werden! Cuckold !?

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Hallo Leute, Ich würde gerne Wissen wie ihr dazu steht? Ich habe es an mir entdeckt nachdem Ich mein Partner beim Fremdgehen erwischt habe. Er macht es immer noch, immer wieder mit verschiedenen Jungs - Männer, Dates über dating apps und in sex-clubs , bars, ect. Und ich finde es mittlerweile geil. Am liebsten ficke ich ihn davor und danach 😛

Was ist daß? Das ist doch nicht normal oder? Am anfang war ich verletzt und böse, doch musste feststellen dass er ein geiles schwein ist der wohl nicht anders kann und es immer wieder tun wird. Also entweder trennen oder akzeptieren. Ich liebe ihn und finde ihn sexuell auch noch so geil anziehend daß Ich es akzeptiert habe und daraus hat es sich irgendwie entwickelt dass Ich es jetzt richtig geil aufregend finde wenn er fremdgeht. Sehr geil macht mich daß wenn er denkt Ich wüsste Nichts davon daß er gerade bei jemanden war der ihn gefickt hat und dann ficke ich ihn geil danach.

Grrrr. Ich weiß für den einen oder anderen wird es unvorstellbar sein. 🤷🏼‍♂️


r/GayMen 20h ago

Other ways to meet gay guys

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Hello, just an advice abot if you guys know about meet other guys here on Reddit. I’m in FL, so, that’s all.


r/GayMen 17h ago

Non sexual reasons. What do you like about being a gay guy?

78 Upvotes

Question is as it stands. Outside of sex are there aspects to gay community and life that you actively enjoy? Would you change it if you could?


r/GayMen 5h ago

Too late to back out of a nude photography project?

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I’m (33, M) modeling for an artistic nude photography series celebrating the male body - all different types of men. I spent most of yesterday completely naked. Everyone on set was gay, incredibly kind, respectful, and professional, and the photographer is a close friend - a gay Vietnam War veteran and established artist. I trust him completely.

What caught me off guard was how emotionally vulnerable I felt. I’m actually pretty shy, and my body has always felt very private. Standing there naked for hours, knowing everyone could see everything, was embarrassing in a way I wasn’t expecting. People had to adjust the lighting, point things out, discuss what they were seeing, etc.

Nobody made me uncomfortable - it was just the strange, intense feeling of having absolutely nothing left to hide. My penis was literally just out there for everyone to see.

Now I keep wondering if I’m really okay with fully nude photos of me existing in the world for other people to see. Part of me thinks it’s meaningful and beautiful, but another part feels incredibly exposed and wonders if I’m making myself too vulnerable.


r/GayMen 23m ago

advise on virgin bottom?

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(19M) I have a friend in college who is curious and wants to lose his virginity. He knows I'm bi and asked me to top him bc he wants to bottom. I'm ok with it and am kinda into him, but I was looking for tips on how to make it enjoyable for him? I also don't want to hurt him as I am way more muscular than him and have a larger dick. Looking for some advise (reply or DM is fine)


r/GayMen 14h ago

Coming out later in life

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Hi guys! Bi - probably gay - guy here (48). I would love to hear from any of you who have come out later in life. Advice needed.


r/GayMen 3h ago

was (m23) in a relationship for 4 months (also m23) and was completely led on.

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as the title suggests, my bf of 4 months (not that long, i’m aware) broke up with me today after confessing that he doesn’t, and never loved me. there were signs, but i ignored them like a moron because i need as much support as i can get right now because my father just passed away, not even a month ago. does anyone have any advice on how to move past this because it’s really crushing rn


r/GayMen 58m ago

What is your favorite gay romance movie that your obsessed with.

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I will go first. My favorite one is Latter Days 2003 film.


r/GayMen 38m ago

Hey all, I need some help with shaving.

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So i’m(24m) quiet a big guy (very chubby), so shaving is kind of hard tbh and i usually use a shaving machine, is there anything better and easier to use? And what are some tips regarding shaving do y’all have?