r/GirlDinnerDiaries • u/TeamLaurent Raccoon Queen 🦝 • Apr 11 '26

MOD MESSAGE The One Where The Sub Goes Semi-Private ‼️

What this means: the general public can read, but their comments/posts are held for approval.

Who this applies to: new and current gals & pals alike! Everybody must get added to the approved users list to post/comment. Pro-girl men may be approved with a 🩵dude flair💙 and some comment restrictions.

How to get approved: 20 seconds, 2 steps! Send the time-honored password “girls rule” in a ModMail to prove you're human (or specify "dude joining" if you're a man). Then add a user flair. Easy peasy 🍋

Note: clicking Join only adds GDD to your feed and doesn't change approval status.

When restrictions apply: 4-20-26

But why: girl space is sacred 😇 intentional participants > drive-by commenters

Need help with flair? Message us first and get instructions in the ModMail reply! Other questions? Check out our wiki for rules & FAQs!

MWUAH 💖

~your adoring ModSquad

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u/Klutzy-Ad8180 Thick Thighs ⏳ Thin Patience May 30 '26

My toddler unjoined on my unwanted behalf, do I have to send another modmail.

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u/hornmosapien 🦇 Fruit Bat Baddie 🍊 May 17 '26

Flair check 

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u/Wolfsification LET ME EAT CAKE 🍰 19d ago

Flair tcheck

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u/RecipeLongjumping367 Femininom(nomnomnom)enon May 27 '26

Flair check

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u/Cute-Obligations Snack Goblin 14d ago

I think this is my favourite flair so far. Although it's made me think of Feminecronomicon and now I love that too lol

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u/Heather3Feathers Cleavage Crumb Collector May 25 '26

Flair check

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u/Exiled_In_LA Livin' on a Purse Snack 👜 Jun 05 '26

Flair check, i love u mod squad

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u/TeamLaurent Raccoon Queen 🦝 Jun 05 '26

Love you too bby

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u/omgmlc Purveyor of Purse Snacks Jul 25 '26

Purse snacks for life

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u/thrifthuntres Let The 🥭 Jul 03 '26

Is my flair better than the fireworks? I sure hope so!

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u/Ok-Data-6165 hot girls have tummy troubles May 24 '26

checking if I'm approved yet

3

u/Head-Delay-763 🩵🙋‍♂️💙 May 30 '26

Flair test?

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u/Belphie_Stan I ❤️ Other People's Business May 31 '26

Yay me too ive officially joined the drama

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u/paribanu white girl with ☝️😌 a full spice cabinet Jun 11 '26

new flair!

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u/omgmlc Purveyor of Purse Snacks Jul 25 '26

High five for seasoning our food!!

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u/Street_Capital_1991 Internet Auntie May 17 '26

Flair testing too 

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u/SD-everytime Femininom(nomnomnom)enon Jul 09 '26

I almost picked internet auntie! So fun!

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u/No-Scratch1655 APPROVED✨ May 18 '26

Flair testing

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u/Isla_Knight 🩷Bi💜 May 27 '26

Flair check

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u/kiwipoppy Eating For Two 💕 Jun 03 '26

Flair check

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u/Both_Register_277 PO🥔TAY🥔TOES Jun 05 '26

So happy to be here!

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u/anxious-doorknob 🪄 Sauceress ✨ Jun 07 '26

Testing my flair 💅

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u/teachinglittlebeings Sugar, Spice & Not Very Nice 💕 Jun 18 '26

making sure i’m approved

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u/CraftyAd4573 Kitchen Witch 12d ago

Flair check

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u/[deleted] May 08 '26

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u/[deleted] May 11 '26

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u/TeamLaurent Raccoon Queen 🦝 May 11 '26

😱😱😱 noooooo por fa, ten compassiionnnnn

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u/[deleted] May 16 '26

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u/madame-maitre-d Overthinker 💭 May 20 '26

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Please leave the criticisms, pushback, and tough love for woman-to-woman callouts in this women's space. We got it. Thank yooouuu.

Review the Gentleman's Guide to GDD.

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u/madame-maitre-d Overthinker 💭 May 18 '26

Hey, seems you're new here! 👋 🥰 You need to take 10 lil seconds to become an approved user to participate in r/GirlDinnerDiaries. We're holding your comment for review til then.

2 quick steps:

  1. If you're a dude, just let us know by replying "dude joining" to this comment. If not, reply with the classic pillowfort clubhouse password: "girls rule". 😇
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u/[deleted] May 23 '26

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u/madame-maitre-d Overthinker 💭 May 23 '26

⛔️ Approved dudes can best support the GDD girlies via GIFs and [most] emojis (meaning no eggplants, ya buncha stinkers). Text comments are held for review. ModMail a comment link to request a quicker exception if you feel yours meets our criteria.

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u/[deleted] May 26 '26

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u/madame-maitre-d Overthinker 💭 May 26 '26

Hey, seems you're new here! 👋 🥰 You need to take 10 lil seconds to become an approved user to participate in r/GirlDinnerDiaries. We're holding your comment for review til then.

2 quick steps:

  1. If you're a dude, just let us know by replying "dude joining" to this comment. If not, reply with the classic pillowfort clubhouse password: "girls rule". 😇
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u/Zestyclose-Ear-3534 💚 Pickle Freak 💚 May 27 '26

Flair checkkk

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u/omgmlc Purveyor of Purse Snacks Jul 25 '26

Pickle freak was a close second flair choice

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u/beepbeeepboooop 🤍🧡Sapphic Snack🧡🤍 May 27 '26

Flair check

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u/wildeap Taco Belle May 31 '26

Flair check

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u/scarletmuerte 🫘 Beans & Rice & Everything Nice 🌮 Jun 01 '26

Flair check

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u/thealicat13  ⚐ Marked Safe From My Almondmom Jun 01 '26

Flair checkkk

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u/N1ghtPr0wler Groupchat Pot Stirrer 💬 Jun 02 '26

Testing

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u/Trvp_Reptile Sugar, Spice & Not Very Nice 💕 Jun 03 '26

Flair Check 💖

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u/[deleted] Jun 03 '26

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u/madame-maitre-d Overthinker 💭 Jun 03 '26

Hey, seems you're new here! 👋 🥰 You need to take 10 lil seconds to become an approved user to participate in r/GirlDinnerDiaries. We're holding your comment for review til then.

2 quick steps:

  1. If you're a dude, just let us know by replying "dude joining" to this comment. If not, reply with the classic pillowfort clubhouse password: "girls rule". 😇
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u/villanelle543 what that mouth do is gossip Jun 04 '26

Flair check

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u/villanelle543 what that mouth do is gossip Jun 04 '26

Kmt

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u/GloomyHoneycomb nom-nom-nombinary Jun 05 '26

Flair check

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u/RecentWorldliness20 hot girls have tummy troubles Jun 05 '26

Flair check

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u/Void_Tea_Rex eat hot chip✔️ be bisexual✔️ Jun 06 '26

Flair check

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u/[deleted] Jun 06 '26

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u/[deleted] Jun 06 '26

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u/xtine_t_ling2wannab Kitchen Witch Jun 06 '26

Flair check

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u/Fancy_Razzmatazz_332 Feral Til Fed Jun 06 '26

Flair test

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u/sonnetsays APPROVED✨ Jun 07 '26

Girls Rule

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u/Many_Guava_1102 Thick Thighs ⏳ Thin Patience Jun 08 '26

Flair check

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u/sarahateschocolate eat hot chip✔️ be bisexual✔️ Jun 08 '26

Flair check!

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u/Nagaman7 nom-nom-nombinary Jun 08 '26

Additional flair check

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u/Quick-Ad-8523 girl du fromage 🧀 Jun 09 '26

flair checkity check

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u/sad_maybe_ in my [rotisserie] bag Jun 09 '26

Testing testing!

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u/novapilled_ 🐟 Part Bear 🫐 Jun 10 '26

Flair test

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u/TestTube_Princess APPROVED✨ Jun 12 '26

Flair check ✨✨

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u/omnipotent_spacecow APPROVED✨ Jun 13 '26

Flair check? 

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u/[deleted] Jun 13 '26

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u/madame-maitre-d Overthinker 💭 Jun 13 '26

Hey, seems you're new here! 👋 🥰 You need to take 10 lil seconds to become an approved user to participate in r/GirlDinnerDiaries. We're holding your comment for review til then.

2 quick steps:

  1. If you're a dude, just let us know by replying "dude joining" to this comment. If not, reply with the classic pillowfort clubhouse password: "girls rule". 😇
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u/[deleted] Jun 14 '26

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u/madame-maitre-d Overthinker 💭 Jun 14 '26

Hey, seems you're new here! 👋 🥰 You need to take 10 lil seconds to become an approved user to participate in r/GirlDinnerDiaries. We're holding your comment for review til then.

2 quick steps:

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u/Zealousideal_Emu4995 FREE MOM HUGS Jun 16 '26

Flair check

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u/Traditional_Safe5503 Overthinker 💭 Jun 17 '26

flair check

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u/JJRULEZ159 New Recruit 🏳️‍⚧️ Jun 18 '26

Flair test

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u/BreyerChick 💚 Pickle Freak 💚 Jun 21 '26

Flair check

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u/BreyerChick 💚 Pickle Freak 💚 Jun 21 '26

Flair check

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u/tatum_arch 🍋 Bitter Baddie 🍋 Jun 25 '26

flair check

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u/Necessary_Ask_6610 🌶️ Spice Girl 🌶️ Jun 25 '26

Flair check :)

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u/catsrtheloml Assigned Hungry At Birth Jun 26 '26

.

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u/Fluffaykitties Delulu Jun 28 '26

Something has not been working correctly lately. I’m seeing unapproved people making posts but when they comment a reply to their post they are prompted to verify before their comment shows up.

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u/mbrjayy 🐛The Very Hungry Bookworm 📚 Jun 29 '26

flair check?

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u/simpforkaedee double chipmunk cheeked up Jun 29 '26

Hellllll

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u/palmreader27 🤎 Brown Sugar Babe 🤎 Jun 29 '26

Flair check!

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u/peashee412 Professional Nibbler Jun 29 '26

Flair check

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u/Eddie919 New Recruit 🏳️‍⚧️ Jun 30 '26

Flair test

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u/beearrdee123 Chef Tomboyardee Jul 01 '26

Flair check

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u/Difficult-Age3629 Chamoy 🥭 > Ya Boy 🤡 Jul 03 '26

Flair check

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u/[deleted] Jul 03 '26

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u/madame-maitre-d Overthinker 💭 Jul 03 '26

Hey, seems you're new here! 👋 🥰 You need to take 10 lil seconds to become an approved user to participate in r/GirlDinnerDiaries. We're holding your comment for review til then.

2 quick steps:

  1. If you're a dude, just let us know by replying "dude joining" to this comment. If not, reply with the classic pillowfort clubhouse password: "girls rule". 😇
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u/[deleted] Jul 03 '26

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u/madame-maitre-d Overthinker 💭 Jul 03 '26

Hey, seems you're new here! 👋 🥰 You need to take 10 lil seconds to become an approved user to participate in r/GirlDinnerDiaries. We're holding your comment for review til then.

2 quick steps:

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u/codeofsci Live, Laugh, Lumpia ❤️ Jul 03 '26

flair check

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u/accidentalchaos247 FREE MOM HUGS Jul 05 '26

Flair checking as well!

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u/Decent-Tomatillo1965 I ❤️ Other People's Business Jul 06 '26

Flair check

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u/Longjumping-Bill4845 Barbecutie Jul 07 '26

FLAIR CHECK

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u/[deleted] Jul 07 '26

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u/Inevitable_Split7666 Jul 07 '26

I can’t send any emails or join. Not sure why. 🤔😫

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u/CrowMediocre4958 Foraging Bog Witch Jul 07 '26

flair checkbook

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u/Snoo10889 🧀🐾Hot Cheeto Hottie🐾🧀 Jul 08 '26

flair test?

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u/KKeeleyKKat Hot Pizza Ass 🔥 Jul 08 '26

check

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u/SummerDazzling3503 greens✔️beans✔️potatas✔️tomatas✔️ Jul 09 '26

Flair check

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u/kaysemeow 💚 Pickle Freak 💚 Jul 10 '26

Flair check

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u/Octo_Garden98 Big Back Baddie Jul 11 '26

Done :)

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u/FrankenNurse 💚 Pickle Freak 💚 Jul 11 '26

Flair check cause Android user

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u/deathcat5 PO🥔TAY🥔TOES Jul 12 '26

Flair Check

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u/The_Jade_Doll 🧂Salty By Nature Jul 17 '26

Girls rule!

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u/crystalfairie Feral Til Fed Jul 17 '26

Girls rule

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u/thatbarbielol For the Girls 👅 Jul 19 '26

Flair check

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u/chemical_lurker88 🐛The Very Hungry Bookworm 📚 Jul 20 '26

Flair check

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u/tromavillecitizen Tiny Bodega Rat 🐀 Jul 20 '26

Yassss. Flair test.

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u/chaosatnight Sweet Tooth Fairy🧚‍♀️ Jul 21 '26

Happy to be here

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u/nattyY_g0esCrazy Onigirlie 🍙 Jul 22 '26

flair check

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u/Emergency_Affect_903 hot girls have tummy troubles Jul 23 '26

Flair check

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u/blooming_lichen 🌈 Vagetarian Jul 23 '26

Flair check

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u/omgmlc Purveyor of Purse Snacks Jul 25 '26

Flair check

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u/chai-lattez ❇︎may the forks be with you❇︎ Jul 27 '26

Let’s see

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u/No-Investigator-8840 what that mouth do is gossip Jul 28 '26

check!

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u/Psychology-Obvious con todo, por favor 🌮 Jul 29 '26

Flair test 

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u/Abby-Road42 Sugar, Spice & Not Very Nice 💕 Jul 29 '26

Flair check

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u/Miserable-Idea-4430 Overthinker 💭 Jul 30 '26

Flair check

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u/haix70204 Short Story Long™️ Jul 30 '26

flair test!

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u/Veranar Chocoholic Jul 31 '26

Test?

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u/_Kathran_ girl du fromage 🧀 Aug 01 '26

Flair check 🫶

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u/cursedhijinks greens✔️beans✔️potatas✔️tomatas✔️ 29d ago

Flair check! 🥰

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u/cursedhijinks greens✔️beans✔️potatas✔️tomatas✔️ 29d ago

That just amused me wayyyy too much 🤣🤣🤣🤣

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u/meeeep_meeeep Pantry Gremlin 28d ago

Flair check 😩

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u/TheGoddessPluto 🤎 Brown Sugar Babe 🤎 27d ago

Flair Check

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u/h2twoo Thick Thighs ⏳ Thin Patience 26d ago

Flair check check

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u/[deleted] 26d ago

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u/madame-maitre-d Overthinker 💭 26d ago

Hey, seems you're new here! 👋 🥰 You need to take 10 lil seconds to become an approved user to participate in r/GirlDinnerDiaries. We're holding your comment for review til then.

2 quick steps:

  1. If you're a dude, just let us know by replying "dude joining" to this comment. If not, reply with the classic pillowfort clubhouse password: "girls rule". 😇
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u/getfreefromfood PO🥔TAY🥔TOES 25d ago

Flair check!

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u/Ambitious_Clock_8212 APPROVED✨ 24d ago

Flair check

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u/boxcarkidz APPROVED✨ 24d ago

Flair check

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u/Pleasant-Ad7313 The Snack That Sasses Back 23d ago

Flair check <3

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u/sherunswithscalpels  ⚐ Marked Safe From 90s Diet Culture 23d ago

Flair Check

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u/[deleted] 22d ago

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u/madame-maitre-d Overthinker 💭 22d ago

Hey, seems you're new here! 👋 🥰 You need to take 10 lil seconds to become an approved user to participate in r/GirlDinnerDiaries. We're holding your comment for review til then.

2 quick steps:

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u/rathoebitch Food for Thot 💭 21d ago

testing

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u/[deleted] 20d ago

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u/madame-maitre-d Overthinker 💭 20d ago

Hey, seems you're new here! 👋 🥰 You need to take 10 lil seconds to become an approved user to participate in r/GirlDinnerDiaries. We're holding your comment for review til then.

2 quick steps:

  1. If you're a dude, just let us know by replying "dude joining" to this comment. If not, reply with the classic pillowfort clubhouse password: "girls rule". 😇
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u/MeEChyduh PO🥔TAY🥔TOES 19d ago

Yassss finally a real one flair check

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u/Shiikanokonokonoko Shart Coochie Board Architect 19d ago

Flair check

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u/SeriousJournalist472 Overthinker 💭 18d ago

Flair check

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u/_stupidquestion_ Carb-Based Life Form 18d ago

flair checkie

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u/Noxious_Strawberry Pantry Gremlin 16d ago

Flair check!

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u/92unitedfacts nom-nom-nombinary 16d ago

yay flair check

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u/PeaceLovePurpleRain Chocoholic 16d ago

Flair check

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u/bluerazzjazzhands 🍭🍬 Candy Crusher 🍬🍭 15d ago

Flair check!

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u/Omni2468 🤎 Brown Sugar Babe 🤎 13d ago

Flair check

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u/Hot-Inspector-946 🍋 Bitter Baddie 🍋 12d ago

Flair check

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u/sfdsquid APPROVED✨ 11d ago

I tried but it says "adding and editing user flair is not allowed in this community."

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u/TeamLaurent Raccoon Queen 🦝 11d ago

You need to go to the flair menu at the top of our sub page

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u/sfdsquid APPROVED✨ 11d ago

Wondering if it worked this time.

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u/sfdsquid APPROVED✨ 11d ago

Idk what I'm doing wrong. I'm so frustrated now I need a snack. I'll try again later.

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u/LandFish23223 i like eggs 11d ago

Flair check

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u/starrie 🍳 eggs? in this economy?? 10d ago

Flair check

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u/Outrageous_Title912 Seafoodie 🦀 9d ago

Flair check, where are my seafood girliesss 🦀🦀🦀

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u/allieloop Body By Cheese 🧀 9d ago

Flair check while eating cheese curds

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u/angry_or_am_I 🦇 Gossipy Goth ⚰️ 9d ago

flair check

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u/[deleted] 8d ago

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u/madame-maitre-d Overthinker 💭 8d ago

Hey, seems you're new here! 👋 🥰 You need to take 10 lil seconds to become an approved user to participate in r/GirlDinnerDiaries. We're holding your comment for review til then.

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u/[deleted] 7d ago

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u/madame-maitre-d Overthinker 💭 7d ago

Hey, seems you're new here! 👋 🥰 You need to take 10 lil seconds to become an approved user to participate in r/GirlDinnerDiaries. We're holding your comment for review til then.

2 quick steps:

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u/Vivicurl 💚 Pickle Freak 💚 6d ago

Flair check

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u/evjulie502 Purveyor of Purse Snacks 6d ago

Flair check

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u/Pretend-Menu-8660 💚 Pickle Freak 💚 4d ago

Flair check!

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u/Lopsided_Time3867 FREE MOM HUGS 4d ago

Flair check

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u/garfieldatemyson APPROVED✨ Jun 25 '26

flair check

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u/Akaito23 2d ago

Girls rule