r/GrindsMyGears 20h ago

people who have their calls on speaker phone in public

51 Upvotes

i used to work at a mall so i unfortunately i saw people doing this ALL THE DAMN TIME!! like why do you want the world to hear about your best friends divorce?? (yes this was an actual call that me and my co workers overheard).

it’s such a non issue but it annoys me so much-


r/GrindsMyGears 4h ago

De verjaardagskring is het slechtste sociale idee dat we hebben.

0 Upvotes

Je spreekt alleen de twee mensen naast je, en met de rest wissel je hooguit een blik uit over de schaal kaas.
Staand met een borrel in de hand praat je met vijf keer zoveel mensen.

Waarom doen we dit nog?


r/GrindsMyGears 5h ago

Jealousy is a curse, resulting in emotional exhaustion & hyper- vigilance.

1 Upvotes

I've suffered with this for my whole adult life; during every intimate relationship, and it makes me feel awful.

I think it's time I learned to get it under control - there's no help coming from anywhere else.

I've asked for help via the usual medical routes, but they act like it's not a valid enough reason to warrant the help.

I'm sure the ones on the receiving end of my jealousy would disagree, likewise, so do I, as its damaging effects are severely underestimated.

I don't have green eyes for nothing that's for damn sure & it's putting me off future relationships 😐


r/GrindsMyGears 6h ago

"Sign in to prove you're not a bot! Also, can we interest you in some AI?"

1 Upvotes

If you're a large corporation / business, and you've jumped on the AI bandwagon, don't ask me if I'm a robot or not! At that point, what does it matter if I'm a human or a bot. You (or rather, your wallets) have already decided that you prefer bots to humans.

IDGAF about DDoS or spam. That's your problem. My problem is that Captchas and the like have become insufferable. I can't even watch a YouTube video without signing in any more, if not because of equally BS age-restricting, but because Google - the company that gave us Gemini AI - still wants actual human beings to watch content posted to the very same video sharing website that they've already ruined.

And this is coming from someone who thinks the "anti-AI" crowd are grossly uneducated.


r/GrindsMyGears 2h ago

People who don't tip and act like they're "changing the culture" are just pieces of shit who have managed to delude themselves into a rationalization that make 0 sense at all if you think about it for 2 fucking seconds.

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r/GrindsMyGears 23h ago

Endless LOLZ

2 Upvotes

Nothing is that funny, that you need to add LOL at the end of every sentence, and there's no way these people are actually laughing at that exact moment, after whatever shit they've just typed.

Its like "I fell down the stairs & was paralysed from the neck down lol"

Grow up, stop using lols as a default replacement for actual punctuation when what you're saying isn't even remotely funny half the time.


r/GrindsMyGears 9h ago

This is a photo of me and my best friend from 2014… is this photo racist?

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0 Upvotes

People keep calling this photo racist

How?


r/GrindsMyGears 16h ago

Are you a good little Goy?

0 Upvotes

How much human capital are they extracting from you weekly? Do you enjoy being a caged factory farmed cattle? When you should be free roam frolicking in the fields. Do you enjoy LARPing clocking in to your meaningless job?
How having about having to listen & take orders to your Boss? Imagine spending the little time you have left in servitude of some drongo. We have collectively lost our humanity when we put profit above all else.


r/GrindsMyGears 1d ago

How to fight people who talk behind you

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1 Upvotes

If they talk behind you to stop them fart.


r/GrindsMyGears 1d ago

Is calling a journalist “rude” an effective way to avoid answering an uncomfortable question?

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r/GrindsMyGears 1d ago

Why lie!??

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r/GrindsMyGears 2d ago

What's something completely normal that instantly makes you dislike someone?

7 Upvotes

For me its when someone constantly interrupts me when speaking. like bruh,lemme finish


r/GrindsMyGears 2d ago

Is anyone else sick of banal chit-chat & how do you deal with it?

7 Upvotes

It's like I can feel my life force draining out of my body.

I'm not interested in whether Tesco has changed its layout again or your weather updates. Give me 'meat' to feed my soul & leave me craving more, God dammit.


r/GrindsMyGears 1d ago

I’m mad that the best strongman gym in my area is run by strongmen….

0 Upvotes

Seriously I love the actual workout…. The Nazi overtone is deterring me…


r/GrindsMyGears 2d ago

It annoys me so much that a wine or beer daily at home is perfectly respectable, but smoke a spliff and suddenly you’re a “druggy”

14 Upvotes

New the site and to be honest, I’m actually happy to vent somewhere now lol.

I wonder if everyone will disagree here tho but What really annoys me about this is the double standard.. My mother-in-law has a glass of wine every day, and my father-in-law will have his few beers at night in front of the TV. Nobody bats an eyelid because it’s seen as completely normal.
But mention having a joint and suddenly people are judging you and treating you like a druggy outsider.

If someone is sitting at home, minding their own business and smoking harmlessly.. why is that somehow more deserving of judgement than someone drinking wine or beer every night?

Ahh have to vent about it somewhere, it actually bugs me to the core.


r/GrindsMyGears 2d ago

Why do left handed scissors also have to be blunt?

4 Upvotes

I always found it a bit of an insult that just because I'm left handed scissors making companies also seem to assume I'm clumsy too.


r/GrindsMyGears 3d ago

People who just reply “This” - does it bother anyone else?

213 Upvotes

Does anyone else get annoyed by people who only ever reply “This.” or “^This” to comments on Reddit?

I get that it’s meant to show agreement, but I find it often comes across as:

•Condescending, like they’re stamping the comment as “the final word”

•Lazy, with no actual input or perspective of their own

•A bit self-important, as if their agreement somehow validates the original comment more than an upvote would

• Low-key narcissistic, in the sense that it’s more about them positioning themselves as the person who “confirms” the truth than actually contributing to the discussion

It feels less like genuine engagement and more like performative agreement. If you strongly agree, just upvote. If you have something to add, add it. But dropping a single “This.” and acting like you’ve contributed something meaningful is pretty grating I find it so cringe I get secondhand embarrassment when I see it on here.

Edit: This


r/GrindsMyGears 2d ago

Business English

0 Upvotes
  1. Meetings do not have a "readout" but they might have a "summary" of what was decided. TV reporters covering foreign affairs use this a lot.

  2. "Surface" is not a transitive verb unless you are aboard a submarine. So you can not "surface that as an issue".

  3. You might start up a new service offering but you don't "turn it up" as though it had a volume knob. Marketing people trying to sound technical might use this.


r/GrindsMyGears 5d ago

People who stop walking the second they enter a store

523 Upvotes

You walk through the door behind someone and they immediately stop. Right there. In the entrance.

Not to look at anything important. Just to figure out where they want to go while five people pile up behind them.

You had the entire parking lot to prepare for this moment. Please pick a direction


r/GrindsMyGears 4d ago

The bullshit in TV

6 Upvotes

What really grinds my gears? Shows that depict women getting tickled in a cute way! Go home and tickle your woman and tell me if she doesn't turn into Mike Fucking Tyson in .75 seconds.


r/GrindsMyGears 4d ago

Voice to text that doesn't effing hear me correctly and I have to type it all out anyway

7 Upvotes

I suffer from a medical condition known as fat fingeritis, so I dictate into my phone. Kind of a lot. And sometimes, my phone can't hear me properly, and it writes words that it thinks I said, but the closeness can range anywhere from "understandable homophone" all the way to "What the fuck, are you on crack?" So then, not only does it interrupt the flow while I'm talking, but I have to go back through and type it anyway with my fat fingers, so it's like what's the point?

And the worst ones? When I'm in a hurry to get a point out, so my dumb ass doesn't proofread, and I end up posting pure nonsense sentences.


r/GrindsMyGears 5d ago

When people think it's cool or quirky to dislike a word.

135 Upvotes

We get it, you don't like the word "moist" or something. No one cares, it's not a slur or anything it just means wet. Oh, it sounds sexual does it? Grow up...

I used to get annoyed a lot by my ex with this stuff. She'd have a list of names she hated and she'd make this big song and dance about it if anyone used one around her. Moist of course was on said list and I remember having to sit there in dumbfoundry as she and 5 other women had a discussion about how gross that word is and how it should be banned etc.


r/GrindsMyGears 5d ago

Picking up the phone and not saying hello first

199 Upvotes

I am noticing nowadays that more and more people do not say "hello" after picking up the phone. I am from a company, and we do not cold call people. We call people back returning missed phone calls and voicemails.

There are a good amount of times that a person picks up and waits in silence. It is pretty universal and expected standard protocol for the older generations that the person who picks up the phone initiates the "hello". Now with the changing times, since the person who is picking up the call doesn't say hello, is it always now on the onus of the person calling? This is awkward for the caller since there is sometimes silence during transition periods to voicemail or when calling, so the caller does not know 100% that silence indicates that someone actually picked up or that it is still transitioning. The person calling would then have to keep saying "hello" over and over again and just to hope that someone did actually pickup and someone is on the other line.

Why do I get the feeling that the people who answer phones in silence also probably call with silence too and expect a "hello" first on the other receiving end, so that they never say "Hello" first in any phone situation. Am I wrong with this assumption?


r/GrindsMyGears 5d ago

Does anyone else hate when people answer the phone and just… say nothing?

13 Upvotes

Maybe I’m old-fashioned, but if you pick up the phone, at least say “hello” 😭 Lately I’ve had so many calls where the other person answers and there’s just silence until I speak first. Why did answering the phone turn into a staring contest?


r/GrindsMyGears 4d ago

White people that use AAVE.

0 Upvotes

You grew up in a white neighborhood. You are doing a fake accent basicly. Even before zoomers I hated this. Now i hate it more.