25 F - Am I repeating the same relationship pattern because of attachment issues?

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I feel like I’m struggling with attachment issues and keep repeating the same pattern. I’ve dated two guys offline, and initially both were extremely sweet, attentive, and constantly talking to me. But once I got emotionally attached, got close, and things became physical, their behaviour changed. They started ignoring me and would only be sweet when they wanted something.

Now I’m wondering if my attachment issues are making me overlook red flags or get attached too quickly. Has anyone else experienced this kind of pattern, and how did you break out of it?