Let’s take Reddit for example, I got banned from a sub for telling someone their story wasn’t believable. I wasn’t even rude about it.

I’m from the time online when you could say anything you wanted to. Now you get reported and possibly banned for any sort of pushback.

I really liked anonymous forums back in the day for the open honesty, if some hostility.

So. I don't know is this the place to post (since i am high) but have you noticed that how suddenly very many children are labelled as prodigees, genius children and exceptionally talented kids...

My nephew is, too! But i have started to wonder is it because the average is so low nowadays? They demand way less from kids than like... In 1997. Nowadays "normal" kids with normal achievements are Geniuses, I feel.

OR. Am i just one misguided millennial who is turning to something like our parents were?

note:- this continues off of the post on the other end of this link:- the month children's teleivsion died and how kids born in 94, 95 or 96 surely saw it without identifying it : r/mediastudies

When broadcast TV removed all entertainment for ages 6–11 in September 2002, children with cable simply migrated to the pay‑TV tier. But children without cable were left in a cultural wasteland — not because they changed their behavior, but because the free tier stopped serving them.

In 2001, I watched broadcast blocks first and switched to cable afterward. After the eviction in 2002, I simply stopped using the antenna‑only TV except with VHS tapes. This is exactly what happened in middle‑income homes nationwide: kids migrated to cable and abandoned antenna sets entirely. But lower‑income kids had no cable to migrate to.

Lower‑income kids didn’t migrate to cable because they didn’t have cable. And they didn’t migrate to E/I programming either — Nielsen recorded literal 0.0 ratings for many E/I shows even in the late 1990s. Human taste cannot be legislated, and children older than five have an extremely sharp sense for when content has an agenda.

When children’s entertainment vanished from antenna TV, lower‑income kids defaulted to whatever remained — daytime talk shows, courtroom shows, soap operas, infomercials, and adult sitcom reruns. The free tier didn’t become “educational”; it became adult‑only. This is the direct consequence of removing the universal tier. Even though my family were not themselves in that demographic; there is one anecdote I have that illustrates this well.

When we were stuck in that apartment around 2007 — a cramped, temporary place with most of our belongings locked away in boxes — the TV had only an antenna. No cable, no DVR, no kids’ channels. My little sister was seven or eight, exactly the age the old broadcast blocks were designed for. And every time she turned on the TV, she found nothing for her. One afternoon, around 3:30 PM — the exact time slot where broadcast kids’ programming used to live — she was flipping through channels while Mom was out shopping. With nothing even remotely aimed at children, she landed on a rerun of adult animation. When Mom came home and saw it, she exploded. She kept calling it “Homer Simpson,” yelling that my sister was way too young for it, and threatening consequences if she watched it again. I walked in from another room because the yelling was loud enough to carry through the apartment. From the few seconds I saw, it was actually Futurama, but the distinction didn’t matter — what mattered was that this was the closest thing to children’s entertainment available on antenna TV in Fort Collins, Colorado in 2007. There was literally no children’s programming on any broadcast station at that hour. The only reason this didn’t happen again is that we got cable back a week later. But lower‑income families don’t get a “cable back” moment. For them, this wasn’t a one‑off incident — it was the permanent media environment their kids were stuck in. A decade earlier, my sister would have had multiple age‑appropriate options. In 2007, she had Futurama.

My sister would have gladly watched almost any cartoon or live‑action kids’ show that broadcast stations used to air a decade earlier — or any of the kids’ content cable still carried in 2007 — far more than Futurama. But the moment cable disappears, even briefly, that entire universe of age‑appropriate programming vanishes from the dial. Switching to another channel wouldn’t have helped her; every alternative was just another adult‑targeted program: infomercials, Jerry Springer, courtroom shows, or soap operas. And no, none of the usual “well, she could have done something else” objections work here. She couldn’t read a book — almost all our books were locked in moving boxes, and the few she had kept out were already finished. We hadn’t yet gotten a local library card, so she couldn’t check out new ones. She couldn’t play outside — the apartment grounds had almost no space for it, and the only viable park was several blocks away, which we had already spent hours at earlier that day. Her toys were boxed up too. There was simply no alternative activity available. If children’s programming had still existed on broadcast TV, she would have watched that instead of Futurama. This wasn’t the only moment when the absence of kids’ content was felt in that apartment, but the incident where she got yelled at for watching adult animation is the one that burned itself into memory. And in lower‑income households, this isn’t a rare, memorable event that happens during a move — it’s the day‑in, day‑out status quo.

In both 2002 and 2007, about 15% of American households relied entirely on an antenna for television reception. Those households included millions of children, even though the programming available on broadcast did not reflect that reality. These antenna‑only homes disproportionately cluster in the lower‑income brackets, meaning the children most dependent on free TV were the ones most affected by the disappearance of kids’ programming. Is it any wonder that so many lower‑income kids became regular viewers of adult daytime content? When the universal tier stopped serving them, adult programming was all they had left.

Make no mistake: the popular entertainment that culturally elite adults dismiss as disposable is still culture. In childhood, media was one of the main topics of conversation — at lunch tables, on playgrounds, during recess. Even when we didn’t all watch the same shows, we had at least heard of the things other kids talked about. In my childhood, video games and TV were the two dominant forms of media kids discussed on their own, without adult prompting. That’s why the harm of the 2002 eviction goes far deeper than “low‑income children lost access to one program.” When an entire group of children is cut off from the mainstream entertainment all other kids enjoy, they lose the ability to participate in the shared cultural conversations of childhood. They can’t contribute, can’t compare notes, can’t join in. They are excluded not just from the shows themselves, but from the social world built around those shows.

While paywalling access to culture is already problematic for adults, it becomes far worse when it concerns children’s culture. A child’s access to paywalled content is completely outside their control in a way an adult’s access is not. If an adult desperately wants something behind a paywall, they can choose to work more hours or sacrifice other expenses — not ideal choices, but choices that exist. A child has no such options. They cannot increase household income, cannot reallocate spending, and cannot legally earn or manage money in their own right. For children, access to mainstream culture depends entirely on whether their parents can afford it. I knew even in my own childhood that some kids had fewer cable channels than I did, and there was nothing they could do about it. Zero action a child takes can change the amount or distribution of household income. When children’s content is paywalled, access becomes a class system, where cultural participation is determined not by the child’s interests, but by the family’s economic position.

Nothing is recognized as high art by the cultural establishment when it is new. In Shakespeare’s own day, his plays were treated as disposable popular entertainment — the kind of thing ordinary people watched for fun, not the kind of thing elites treated as cultural pillars. When I read a few of his plays myself, I was surprised at how many low‑brow jokes he slipped in between the parts everyone now quotes as timeless literature. But because Shakespeare has been dead for over 400 years, his work has passed through the long prestige‑lag cycle, and the establishment now treats him as the absolute center of English‑language culture. Dickens followed the same pattern: in his own era, he was seen as a writer who sold serialized stories to the broadest, least prestigious readership. Today he is taught as canonical literature. This pattern repeats endlessly. The fact that the cultural elite dismiss certain media today — including children’s media — says nothing about its actual merit among ordinary people, and nothing about how it will be regarded 200 years from now. Prestige is not a measure of quality; it is a measure of age.

The disappearance of children’s entertainment from broadcast television in 2002 was not a minor scheduling change but a structural cultural eviction. Middle‑income children migrated to cable because they could. Lower‑income children, who relied on antenna‑only households at rates of roughly fifteen percent nationwide, had no such option. They were left with adult daytime programming, infomercials, courtroom shows, and reruns — not because they chose it, but because the free tier stopped serving them. This exclusion reached far beyond the television screen. Childhood culture is built on shared media: the shows kids talk about at lunch, the characters they imitate on playgrounds, the stories they trade even when they don’t all watch the same things. When access to that culture becomes conditional on parental income, children lose not only entertainment but participation in the social world of their peers. Paywalling children’s culture creates a class system in which belonging itself becomes a luxury good. And because the cultural establishment has never recognized contemporary children’s media as “real culture,” the collapse went unnoticed by the very people who might have defended it. The result was a silent, class‑gated cultural extinction — one whose consequences fell most heavily on the children least able to escape it.

Millennials

So, I’m certainly not going to downplay the extent to which culture and society shifted in the aftermath of the pandemic, particularly because I feel that many of the trends that would eventually come to define the present began to take shape during that period. Culturally, it was by no means comparable to the 2010s, but am I the only one who feels a certain degree of nostalgia for the early 2020s (Excluding 2020), when it comes to pop culture? There was still a noticeable residue of 2010s influence, and we did get a handful of good shows and films, even if the quality and consistency weren’t quite on the same level as what followed.

And while it certainly wasn’t a continuation of the distinctly millennial brand of optimism, elements of that outlook were still discernible within pop culture. I’d argue that, although a more pessimistic cultural attitude was beginning to emerge, its more pronounced negative characteristics didn’t really crystallise until the mid-2020s. In retrospect, the early 2020s almost felt like a cultural attempt to recapture the optimism associated with the early 2010s, but ultimately, the circumstances simply weren’t conducive to that kind of cultural atmosphere.

You just lost. Goodnight

M/F/nb….long hair, short hair, facial hair or not…how much do you pay for what you’re getting?

*And yes, this assumes a US audience unless you’d like to also help me with the conversion math since numbers and I have a tenuous relationship.

Who remember this circa early 2010s social media days 🤣🤣🤣

For me it’s avenged sevenfold. I thought they were unnecessarily “evil” sounding. Don’t judge me, I was sheltered until I found sex, drugs and rock n roll

Y’all. I was NOT expecting to see this pic today.

…in my DMs by a kid who thought my profile pic was actually me. We’ve made it over the hill, friends!

ETA: sorry it’s a “we’re old” type post. I’m terrible at Reddit-ing lol I was just dying laughing when I asked the kid how he knows what I look like and he said “your profile pic” ☠️☠️☠️

My dad (73) just got diagnosed. He’d been having trouble peeing for the last month and they finally sent him in for a CT scan and PSA test. For the life of me, I have no clue why they hadn’t been screening his PSA for the last decade but neither here nor there.

Anyway, his PSA came back 60 and the CT found bone lesions. So, not great. He’s seeing an oncologist in asap for next steps. Everything I’ve read online scares the shit out of me.

I’m normally not at home but have been as I’ve been dealing with my own somewhat serious health issues this year. My mom is here too.

Just wondering if anyone else has experience here and what happens next? I’m trying them to give me all the info and I believe they are but I’m otherwise flying blind. I’m scared they once it’s spread the prognosis seems somewhat not great.

Any millennials in a similar boat?

I saw a picture of old sprite can . and i got triggered

Just thought I’d uplift the mood a bit? For me I booked a holiday in October to go to Italy for the first time, quite excited about it and I hopefully will be finally looking at finally moving out of my parents house next year due to job opportunitie.

I’m 30 in case some people wondered why someone 40 years old or something was still with their parents even though that’s fine and all.

Anywats what’s your most or one of your positive things you done or even what are you looking forward too.

I’m 35M. Recently, I feel like my career, bank balance is not where I initially planned it to be by this time. Also, I don’t know if I will be any successful. But I really want to push for it. Do you guys think the same or am I overthinking ? Please share your thoughts.

https://www.southparkstudios.com/episodes/hk2x6r/south-park-make-love-not-warcraft-season-10-ep-8

Peak Millenial culture.

Watched this with the family.

Somebody posted about Pokémon and it reminded me of this thing lol. This was all the rage in college lol.

https://pokemon.alexonsager.net