I need a fresh perspective. After going through hundreds of names, I'm fatigued from the pressure to decide, and they all look the same now.
We currently live in Germany, but both of us are expats and we aren't sure if our child will grow up here, so please don't emphasize the German context too much.
To summarize our criteria:
- should more or less work in both Europe and the US
- must have an intuitive pronunciation
- ideally, it should have only one or two alternative spellings. We want to avoid him having to constantly clarify which Phillip, Philipp, Filip, Philippe, Felipe, or Filippo he is
- it shouldn't be too long, edgy, or pretentious. Archibald, Bartholomew, are are too much
- popularity is not a dealbreaker. My partner doesn't mind a top-5 name, but I would personally prefer him not to be the third Noah in his class.
Thank you!
EDIT: Where we're now:
She is stuck with Theo. My silly objection is that it's too Biblical. Literally God is in the name and none of us is religious. Plus, it's extremely popular in Germany to the point of being boring.
I like Lem and Kai, both got rejected.
Tolerated middle ground so far is Edgar, Erik, Oskar, Dominic, Vincent.