I’m a U.S. citizen currently in Denmark on free 90 day visa stay and preparing an AO1 application as the parent of a minor Danish citizen. I’d be very interested in hearing from anyone who has had a similar case, especially recently.
My situation in brief:
* I’m American and my daughter is a 2-year-old Danish citizen who has always lived in Denmark.
* Her mother is Danish.
* Her mother and I are not a couple, but we have a very good/cooperative co-parenting relationship.
* We have joint custody.
* Before moving here, I traveled between the U.S. and Denmark regularly (every 3-4 months for about 3 weeks at a time) to maintain my relationship with my daughter and had daily FaceTimes with her while apart. They also came to visit in the states 1-2 times each year.
* I sold my home, left my job and traveled to Denmark August 1st 2026 and currently live in the same home as my daughter and her mother. (Financially secure even though not working right now, so no issue with finances during the anticipated long wait)
* I’m actively involved in my daughter’s daily care and routines, including things like daycare/vuggestue drop-offs and pickups and normal day-to-day parenting.
* By the time the AO1 application is submitted, we will have been living together in Denmark for roughly 2 months.
* While the application is pending, I expect to remain in the same household if procedural stay is approved and continue the same daily parenting arrangement.
* Long term, once I have residence and can establish myself independently, I plan to get my own apartment nearby, while continuing frequent/daily co-parenting. The intention is not to end the parenting arrangement—just for her mom and me to have separate homes.
* My attorney is planning to use AO1 / Article 20 TFEU as the primary basis, focusing on the dependency relationship between my daughter and me.
* The application will also raise EU and international family-life/children’s-rights arguments as a secondary basis, including the importance of a young child being able to maintain a meaningful relationship and regular contact with both parents.
I’d especially like to hear from anyone who:
* applied as a non-EU parent of a Danish child;
* was not in a romantic relationship with the Danish parent;
* had joint custody or a substantial shared-care arrangement;
* lived separately from the other parent, or planned to do so;
* applied after only a relatively short period of living together in Denmark;
* stayed in Denmark on procedural stay while the case was processed; or
* received an initial refusal and later appealed.
If you’re comfortable sharing, I’d be very interested in how long your case took, whether you were approved initially or on appeal, whether you were allowed to remain in Denmark during an appeal, and what evidence seemed most important in your case.
Also, anyone with legal expertise that has an opinion on my likelihood of approval?