Hei! My (broad) question: could you think of any physical or language mannerisms that American immigrants specifically have that are irritating to you, or come across as strange? I am thinking along the lines of body language, noises, mannerisms, ways of speaking. As an added bonus, is there anything that you notice when Americans speak Norwegian that is a little irritating or off? I'm not thinking of tone or pronunciation, more like using certain words or phrases over others, talking with their hands, etc.
If we want to get really broad: what are some things that American immigrants do that annoy you? OR what are some things that you would want to see American immigrants do more of?
Some extra context: I moved to Norway (Trondheim) a year and a half ago from the US, and work in an office where the working language is Norwegian. I understand and speak passable Norwegian (B2). The other day, I was reading an email that had the text "fint om du kan prioritere dette". In Norwegian, this is a completely acceptable sentence, but if someone sent an email that said "nice if you could prioritize this" it would come across as passive aggressive. It got me thinking about the unseen things I may inadvertently/unknowingly do that irritate my Norwegian friends and coworkers.
Another example I can think of: English is a lower -context language compared to Norwegian, and Americans have a tendency to over-explain something to the point of nausea because in the US you are not always sure the background of whom you are speaking with. After over-explaining in a handful of meetings, my co workers explained that it is better for me to start with a broad idea, then go into the details when asked. If they hadn't pointed that out, I would have continued to bombard my coworkers with a word avalanche. In retrospect, I might be doing the same thing in this post...
My goal in posting this is to help me (and possibly other American immigrants) find blind spots or assumptions rooted in my own culture, so that I can assimilate into Norwegian social and working life well.
Happy to clarify more or go into more detail if asked!
Edit #1: fixed the English translation of "fint om du kan prioritere dette."
Edit #2: mixed up higher/lower context - English is a LOWER context language than Norwegian (ie less dependent on context clues to interpret meaning). fixed that! But compared to languages like Japanese, Norwegian and English are much closer to each other. I’m not describing a huge gap, just certain differences I notice between the two here and there :)