r/poverty • u/Any_Angle_8831 • 2h ago
General Discussion I moved to help my mom and now Iām screwed
Hi my name is Jay , and for some context I moved down to Jacksonville, Florida with my mom recently to help take care of her father who has Lewy body dementia. I never had a solid relationship with my mother, many reasons but one main one being because she cannot save her money.
My whole entire life as a child she spent money on things that we did not need. Now that sheās older and needs help taking care of her father I figured coming down to Florida was a good idea. My problem with this has been. Iāve been extremely poor since being here. Iāve only just been able to get a job, my paycheck hasnāt hit and will not hit for a little while. We have been faced with eviction multiple times. The only reason we are still here is because family members have been able to help out financially. I have tried so many different things to get my mother to understand that we are in a situation that will not end well. She currently does not have a job, and is not getting paid for taking care of her father.i have nowhere else to turn too , I just need to rant. All of my insurance is for a different state so as much as Iād like therapy I canāt seek it out. We also have cats, that weāve been struggling to take care of . I donāt know what else to do. I know I need a second job and Iāve been trying to get one. I just havenāt had luck in the job market. The fear of being homeless is so severe, but I donāt know what else to do. at this rate, we will be homeless.