Hello,
I need help to break up my relationship with my long distance bf. I met my bf a few years ago and he was very loving and caring.
However, as time progressed he isolated me from many people. I had to create a new social media with barely any followers (only females). He constantly needs to know my whereabouts like when I went on vacation if I didn’t update him every few hours he would cry and say I’m leaving him out. He needs me to manage his emotions constantly and tell him what to do. He won’t allow me to use certain emojis because it makes him sad and I have to say things in a particular way. In addition, I paid hundreds of dollars to help him get an iPhone and he’s in a situation now that might require me to spend hundreds more. Sometimes I feel like he’s using me because he wants to move to my country for work, am I supposed to sponsor him for a visa or marry him to become a citizen?
You might be asking, why haven’t you broken up with him? Well he threatens to kill himself whenever I do or he threatens “vengeance” like sh**ting himself in front of my house (he knows my address) or black mailing (sending my images and texts to multiple people). Even his own parents are unable to control him, he has no respect for them and doesn’t have many friends. He is mostly friendless, jobless, family-less and I believe he has nothing to lose if I leave. Hence, I’m worried about the repercussions.
Why haven’t you told your family? I come from a conservative family that taught me how to tolerate abuse. They will disown me if they find out about this and I might not have a home.
I want to break up with him and be my own person. I’ve tried everything and nothing is helping. I don’t want the breakup to result in violence or revenge. I just wish he would fall out of love with me.
Please help me, is there a spell or something similar I can do? Cord cutting? Anything.