r/StudentNurse • u/Shogunmain • 22h ago
Complaint (open to advice) Cohort extremely Cliquey
Hi! I’m a sophomore and finally just started the nursing classes which have been fun and interesting since it’s a passion of mine but I find my cohorts are in some sort of clique that I can’t and I’m not sure I want to get into.
First day of classes I didn’t expect anyone to talk to each other because it was sort of the introductory day where we get familiar with the course. I arrived early because I wanted to measure out the commute and stuff I sat down and students started pooling in and sitting on the opposite side of me. There’s only two sides of tables and all but three students sat on the right side, me included.
I brushed it off as whatever since they most likely knew each other before hand since my pathway into nursing was accelerated because I joined the program a semester after school started last year.
In lab last week there was a little scavenger hunt for rooms around our floor and everyone branched off into a few groups to search for rooms. Introduced myself and they didn’t respond.
I’m also left with no partner during lab as-well.
I was a bio-chem major for my first semester in college and thought the college life was fairly nice. People would hold doors open to you and interact with you and things, when I’m not in the nursing building people still do lol.
But anyway, the energy just felt really off when I met my cohorts. I’ve also picked up on things now being there for two weeks. The girls don’t say good morning back, don’t hold doors open, and purposely close the elevator on me.
Is/has anyone else dealt with things like this in their classes? I figured with how difficult the course is there would be more camaraderie but I guess not?