This is my first year teaching all honors students, and the difference in behaviors is noticeable. In the past, most of my students were several grade levels below. While my classroom management improved each year, even at my best, I'd feel like I needed to constantly monitor the class or else chaos would erupt. I'd avoid assigning group projects except on rare occasions because many kids would end up wandering around, arguing, or just avoiding the work.
Today, I assigned a group project, and except for a handful of kids, everyone was on task and contributing. I even had one group decide to split into two groups to avoid any arguments, and I was like, "They problem-solved without me needing to step in."
Obviously, kids will be kids, and there are still times when I need to step in or redirect students, but it's so much less than what I was doing before. I've been wondering why each day feels so much quicker, and I think it's because I rarely have to deal with the behaviors I was dealing with before.
It feels like what school was like when I was growing up: most kids are on task and listening to the teacher. A few kids might get off task, but they're easily redirected. Sometimes a bigger issue comes up, but not often.
It's still early in the year, so I'm hesitant to consider this the norm for the year, but it feels nice not having to be hyper vigilant. I genuinely love teaching, and I tried to be a supportive teacher even for my toughest kids in previous years, but I could always feel how anxious my body would get on certain days. Now, there's still stress, but its not the same kind of stress nor to the same degree.
I feel like this is what teaching should be, and possibly what it used to be like. Like no class or teacher is perfect, but our nervous system should not be constantly on edge because of behavior issues.