I just got reminded of something now, I just watched a TikTok video.

Kid is called Trevor, and apparently an uncle has been to their home.

This was how their conversation went;

Trevor: Uncle?

Uncle: Yes Trevor

Trevor: When are you going back to your home? You have been here like for one week, for us we are tired of you.

Uncle: I'm going, I'm going, I'm going to go back tomorrow or Tuesday.

Trevor: You should go back to your home or you should go back to the village, for us we are tired of you here.

Uncle: Ok, I'm going to go back.

Trevor: I'm going to tell my father to only give you today, ok we are going to give you only the last chance so that you can sleep here.

Uncle: Ok.

Trevor: You go and never come back here.

Uncle: I will go.

Trevor: Uncle?

Uncle: Yes, yes Trevor.

Trevor: Uncle Moses, who produced you? Who is your mother?

Uncle: Grand, grandmother. Grandmother is my mother.

Trevor: Grandmother is the one who produced you?

Uncle: Yes, grandmother.

Trevor: Now, why are you poor and yet my father for him he has money?

Uncle: It is just the world, that's how things come out, it doesn't, it's me that's the fate.

Trevor: So, for you just, you don't have, okay, but you will go back to the village tomorrow, I don't want to see you here. This is my father's home, are you listening?

Uncle: Yes I'm listening, Trevor.

Trevor: Ok.

Uncle: I will go back tomorrow, it is okay.

Tell me, what do you think about this situation?🤷

Work for one of those reputable corporate companies in K’la and recently realised that my employer has either not been remitting my NSSF contributions or has been significantly under declaring them. This appears to have been going on for the 3-4 years I have been here

It is quite unsettling knowing how many long hours I worked, often to the point of burnout, only to find there is barely anything to show for it in my pension pot.

Is this common practice? This was my first proper job

Every other day, i keep asking myself this, i constantly fall into depression, then i wonder, i never ever heard my grandparents and parents say the same.

Infact it became alot common among the 2010s, when the mental health awareness spiked.

My question, did the older generation not face the same? How did they manage it? Because they still live longer than we do anyway. Yet we have been made more aware and are even have alot of help and support available.

Or is it one of those situations of, what you dont know doesn't kill you 🥲.

Why are countries not letting us get double citizenship especially here in Africa expect for investment etc?

I knew life after campus is hard but these hunger games😂 if I don't eat anything by 6pm I'ma pass out

I buy cloths based on the material's easiness to wash. 90% of my shirts are nylon, 60% of my pants are what we call "gentles".

I am a single male living alone so laundry is a burden and that's why I implement this principle when cloth shopping

I really need help please because I talked to him about everything but either to let me stay in the house or pay me and said he will not give me anything and if I go to police I will not win because he have big people in police 😔

Looking for what 40+ are doing inorder to stop those ones from cracking , i can not climb stairs without pain an also breaking a sweat , I am also not able to stand for long without feeling dizzy , At my sex feels like an up hill task it do it and leave me the hell alone . Help a 40+ get her groove back .

Just picked my bachelors degree certificate from school and the parents are telling me to start looking for a job, ati applying for masters

Naye nze ku business kwessiva

I accepted myself as an entrepreneur long ago
They will accept it too when they start seeing the real money

A year ago I didn't think I would make it this far, yet here we are

Nature can be therapy for better health

My mum’s eldest brother has been sick for quite some time. Recently, he had been staying at his mother’s (my grandmother’s) home, where my mum and some of his siblings were helping take care of him.

His wife, who normally lives with him at their main home, was also there helping look after him.

Then, all of a sudden, she said her husband was tired of staying at his mother’s place and wanted to leave. She asked for money for fuel, and my mum made a Bank to Momo....

She then left with him, telling the family they were going to Mulago Hospital.

From that point, she switched off her phones and the family couldn't reach her for THREE DAYS.

Nobody knew where my uncle was. Even other family members & his wives who wanted to help take care of him couldn't get through to her or find out where he had been taken.

Then yesterday, after being unreachable for three days, she suddenly called and told the family that my uncle had died.

And then she switched her phones off again.

This morning, she called again and said she had taken his body to a hospital somewhere around Wobulenzi/Luwero in mortuary. I'm not certain of the exact hospital because I've been getting most of the information through my mum.

This is where the whole thing becomes extremely disturbing.

She left Gayaza saying they were going to Mulago. She then disappeared with a sick man for three days, switched off all her phones, and the family had no idea where they were. Then suddenly, she announces that he has died and that his body is somewhere around Luwero/Wobulenzi.

There are also concerns because she is the person who lives in the main family home and knows where many of my uncle's properties, documents and other belongings are.

We are now wondering whether something happened to him during those three days. There are all kinds of allegations and suspicions circulating, but we don't actually know what happened yet. I personally think she took him in a shrine... to seek treatment.

I'm not saying she killed him. I'm saying the circumstances are strange enough that the family wants answers.

Why was a seriously ill man taken by force.. & arrogantly?

Why were all her phones switched off for three days?

Where exactly was my uncle during those three days?

Which hospital was he taken to, if any?

And why was the family only informed after his death?

At this point, I think the family needs to stop speculating and establish the facts. The exact location where he was taken, hospital records, the circumstances of his death, and potentially a post-mortem should all be established before the burial.

Meanwhile, they're preparing for burial..

What's that one moment you'll never forget or something that you will you missed out on