r/AMA 5h ago

I'm a 82 year old fellow who retired at 73 and i was a attorney, AMA!

244 Upvotes

Hello to all my lads, i'm Arthur. Recently i had turned 82 (August 27, 1944) so i thought creating an AMA was a good idea.

I personally didn't discover reddit until a month ago. And it seems so interesting.

My career is long.

I graduated from Northwesten Pritzker School of Law (1970) with a JD!

I currently have 6 children (all of these born in the 1970s-early 80s) and, sadly. Almost all my family is dead.

My wife (1946-2024) left me on 2024 due to cancer. And i was and i'm still destroyed today.

Did not fight in vietnam, I'm not a Vietnam Vet.

I play golf, i like to read. Etc.

I'm not abandoned by my children, they still care for me. I feel grateful, proud.

I hope to answer all the questions (obviously, as i'm old. I could have bad memory or understanding, or maybe some typos) you make here

Thanks for reading!.


r/AMA 9h ago

Got laid off last year, finally got a job last week. AMA

107 Upvotes

Software Engineer who got laid off in August of last year. Went from making decent money to living day to day. After a year of constantly applying to jobs (unsuccessfully) I finally accepted an offer last week. Been through all the thoughts and emotions regarding a job search so AMA.


r/AMA 1h ago

My son made it to the Little League World Series. Ama

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Growing up in Florida, it was always mine, along with everyone I knew's dream to make it to the LLWS. But our district was tough and we had to make it through a gauntlet of 13 teams just to make it to sectionals so unfortunately I never came close, nor did anyone that I knew. But I wouldn't trade it for the world that my boy got to experience it!

I would love to share my son and I's experience for those who are interested! Not only would I love to discuss the details, I also hope to inform the parents of others on what to expect!

Please ask me anything!


r/AMA 8h ago

I am a teen mom AMA

58 Upvotes

I am 17F and a teen mom to my 2 year old son . Growing up, I was never the kid anyone thought would end up getting pregnant. Honestly, when I was younger, I never even wanted kids. I used to despise being around them, mostly because I found my younger siblings annoying, I grew up bapist and was more religious then most of my siblings I went tk chruch every sunday everything

But when I was 14, I ended up pregnant and gave birth to my son when I was 15. His dad and I co parent, and we're on good terms. A lot of sad things happened that year when I got pregnant, and I was honestly doing anything I could to distract myself and get my mind off everything that was going on. That's how the situation happened. Basically and I dont want anymore kids at all, Ama

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r/AMA 11h ago

I'm a male massage therapist. AMA

86 Upvotes

There ya go, exactly this. I'm a 52 year old man that provides massage services from my home studio in the country. I've been in the business for twelve years now. I never thought i'd be doing this as a career. Ask me anything!
This is officially edited now, if there are any more questions about erections or inappropriateness, they won't be answered. If you have legitimate questions about the field or modalities, please ask away. Otherwise you perverts can go straight to H E double hockey sticks


r/AMA 48m ago

I, 19M, was raised in a Nudist household. AMA!

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I 19M, was raised in a nudist & body positive household since birth. Posting the ama mainly to clarify any misconceptions Gen Pop might have towards nudism. I can say with 100% confidence that being raised this way helped me be less self conscious and far more confident in myself and my body. AMA!

Edit-For whatever reason, some comments are not visible for me to reply to. Apologies.


r/AMA 4h ago

I survived a severe traumatic brain injury, AMA

13 Upvotes

Three years ago, I sustained a severe traumatic brain injury falling from an heigh.
This resulted in multiple neurosurgeries, a two months ICU stay and seven months hospitalisation for rehabilitation. I had to rebuild my life from scratch: first I had to learn how to breathe autonomously again, then how to eat, to speak and finally how to walk.
This was probably the hardest thing I did.
Having spent so much time in the hospital, I learned a lot of things and gained some new perspectives on reality. I don’t think other people can fully grasp.
I also met a lot of amazing people I will forever be grateful for.
I came back to thank the doctors, nurses and hospital staff who cared for me in the intensive care unit; meeting them, contacting them, talking to them meant a lot to me and made my life much more richer.
I am now facing a hard challenge: coming back to normal life after the word quite literally fell on me.
I study literature in university, I do para climbing as a sport and every week I go to therapy and physical therapy to always try to become a better version of myself.
I am a writer, I write mostly poems and sometimes short stories. Writing has been truly therapeutic to me and has helped me a lot on my journey.


r/AMA 8h ago

I’m a professional Santa Claus, aka “North Pole Representative” 🎅🏼 AMA

23 Upvotes

I’m a lot younger than most Clauses out there, which has more advantages than disadvantages. Been doing this for multiple years now. There’s lots of “rules” to being Santa, and I live strictly by about half of them, and proudly break the other half. The beard is real. The suit is custom. I’m based in NY. Ask away.


r/AMA 2h ago

Title: I spent 6 years building a medical device for my mom's chronic pain, and this month I got over lifelong stage fright to pitch it live in front of 30,000+ people. AMA

7 Upvotes

I'm 26. At 20 I was a college soccer player with zero engineering experience cutting up a 7UP can in my dorm room trying to build something for my mom's arthritis. Six years later, 8 prototypes, 300 cold LinkedIn messages, an engineer who took our money and delivered nothing, and a lot of ramen, it's a real product going through regulatory clearance now.

The catch is I've had terrible stage fright my entire life, and this month I had to pitch it at a live competition. A few hundred people in the room, 30,000+ on the livestream. I wore camera glasses on stage so there's actual POV footage of exactly what I saw up there.

We won.

Ask me anything. Building hardware with no background, chronic pain, cold emailing 150 investors a day, sleeping in my car, stage fright, my mom, whatever you want.

Proof / the POV footage: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qr64JQadQpo


r/AMA 11m ago

Ramp Worker at DFW AA for 15 yrs AMA

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8 years as a clerk, 7 as a Crew Chief.

I've seen a lot in my time here and I still have a hopeful, 30 more years.

Common questions:

Are bags marked Fragile actually taken seriously? Depends on the person, but generally i'd say yes. But if you are traveling with wine bottles or other breakable valuables always do the best you can to protect it yourself.

Best suit case? Easily the hard cover, 4 wheel ones. Protects from rain and easier to clean.

Why are passengers asked to gate check bags when there is still space? Because they want to speed up the boarding process. Gate agents get 20 minutes to get 170+ people on a plane sometimes.

AMA else!


r/AMA 1h ago

My college career has lasted 12 years, involved 6 schools, and I'm still going. AMA.

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Over the last 12 years, I’ve attended six different colleges.

After all of that, I’ve earned one bachelor’s degree, and I’m currently working on my master’s.

My path through college has been anything but straightforward. I’ve spent a lot of time figuring out what I wanted to do, navigating different schools, and continuing to move forward even when the process took much longer than I originally expected.

At this point, I’ve experienced college from a lot of different angles, and I’ve learned quite a bit about transferring, starting over, sticking with it, and what it feels like to still be in school more than a decade after starting.

Ask me anything about the six schools, why it has taken 12 years, transferring, finally finishing my bachelor’s, graduate school, regrets, mistakes, or anything else you’re curious about.


r/AMA 3h ago

I (29M) dual citizen German and Jordanien AMA

6 Upvotes

As the title suggest, i grew up in Jordan most of my life and moved to Germany 6 years ago.

I studied, Worked (got laid off as well), got married, and became German citizen at the end.

I visit Jordan 2-3 times a year now.


r/AMA 1h ago

I have been researching viruses for a while, AMA

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I like to find out cool stuff about viruses (not computer viruses!) such as unique vulnerabilities which can be used against them. I'd love to answer any questions you might have about viruses or anything related to infections.


r/AMA 15h ago

I'm an NHS 111 Health Advisor in the UK. Ask me anything!

37 Upvotes

Feel free to ask me about the service, the job, the behind-the-scenes info, the calls we receive - whatever you like, and I'll do my absolute best to answer what I can (obviously without compromising confidential or sensitive info, or info which might identify me or my workplace/employer/region)

For context, NHS 111 is the urgent-but-not-emergency-but-still-needs-help medical phone number in the UK. Sort of like 999's (our 911 or 112) little sibling. Much fewer ambulances and a lot more same-day primary care, ED, urgent treatment centre, minor injury unit, etc. referrals. Maybe the closest USA equivalent is a 24/7 nurse advice line? (except we're free of charge, no insurance required, just like the rest of UK health services except weird outliers like prescriptions, dentists and opticians) ((but some people still get those for free if they qualify)) (((just flexing sorry 😚😛))).

We also handle miscellaneous admin or internal healthcare/social care requests, e.g. emergency prescription refills, palliative care teams, expected deaths, members of the public seeking health or medication advice/info, etc. We do it all, really.

A 111 health advisor is the person that picks up the phone when you ring 111. That's me. I'm sure most people in the UK are familiar.

I'm sure most questions (if i get any that is) will be from UK residents though. I imagine this is all quite boring to those who don't live here. But anyone is welcome to ask!!!

I'm also very aware some will have their grievances. It's sad to see the stories people have about their interactions with the service, when they've been let down, or left worse off for whatever reason after contacting us. I'd love to hear these and maybe clear some things up or clarify things, but remember that we are people on the other end of the line, often acting as the first point of contact for a crumbling health service, and we really do try our best. Or I do. I can't really speak for anyone else. But I'd like to think they try their best too!

many thanks guys ask away if you wish


r/AMA 2h ago

AMA: I'm an on-call Diener/Autopsy Tech making $8 an hour to just wait to get called in.

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r/AMA 1d ago

Doctors threated me almost 40 years like a hypochonder, plottwist: I was not. AMA

294 Upvotes

I am a 40 year old female, living in Germany. I was a sick child, growing up to be an even sicker woman. I was diagnosed with everything under the earth, besides what I really have.

My former diagnoses were:

-Fibromalgia

-Anxiety disorder

-Psychosomatic pain

-Hashimotos (ok, this was right at least)

-Adipositas

-Being a hysteric young woman

At the age of 37, I went to a new orthopedist, as a last try.

At this point my pain was umbearable, they said it is because I am fat.

I had episodes where my heart was racing with a bpm of 240 on and off. They told me it was anxiety and send me away.

I was falling because my joints just folded away, they said I am clumsy.

I had constant blood sugar crashes, no matter what I was eating, they said It is because I don't lose weight enough.

I could not even keep myself sitting up anymore and was fighting to have some quality of life with this exhaustion, they said I am too lazy to work.

I lost a lot of weight, my legs became bigger and deformed and burned like fire, they said it is because I don't do sports.

I was getting super high puls with just standing up, they said I am dramatic.

I told the orthopedist everything. He looked at me like I am indeed crazy but he started to examine me. The look on his face changed. He ordered like 1 million X-rays on the same day. I was there for quite a long time. He came back and said he will send me to the university hospital close by, into the human genetics laboratory. He also sent me to the MRI for the knees.

The human genetics guy diagnosed me with 2 mutations: 1 that causes colon cancer and 1 tnxb mutation, that caused Ehlers-Danlos-Syndrom. What followed was more MRI visits, countless of specialists who now all of a sudden did all what they could, including a heart catheter.

The Result was:

Ehlers-Danlos-Syndrome

Insulinresistance

Lipedema and Lymphedema

The electric stimulus of my heart is fucked up

Me/cfs

Pots

Hypermobility (obviously)

Chronic gastric issues

osteoarthritis grade 4 in both knees

osteoarthritis in most joints

Swan neck deformity all fingers, also osteoarthritis

Snapping hip Syndrome

Chronic Piriformis-Syndrome

Polyneuropathy in feet and legs

Hashimotos (we knew that)

I am living in an assisted living. I have a 90% disability card and care level 2 (we call it Pflegegrad in Germany). I have to wear braces on both legs, feet and the whole right arm. Outside I am using an electrical wheelchair. I had several surgeries and many longer hospital stays.

They "fixed" the heart issue and I am taking Metformin for the Insulinresistance. I am taking around 15-20 pills each days. I have a disability assistance 3x a week and need lifelong physical therapy twice a week. I never really sleep.

I am over all of it. I am over the system, I am over everyone who was invalidating my feelings and pain. I will tell this story to the day that I die. So everyone will hear what they do or don't do to people, especially women in the health care system.

One year ago I was in a pain clinic. They helped me a lot. They listened, looked at everything and really tried. This whole clinic was full of people like me. None of them had EDS, but all of them were very sick and all of then went into the "psychosomatic" corner of the german healthcare system, before they got diagnosed. Unfortunatly, lots of these people where there for palliative pain treatment. May this be my indictment.

If you have any questions about this, go ahead.


r/AMA 4h ago

I stop playing the sport I played for 12 years despite getting college offers AMA

3 Upvotes

I’m 17F, and I quit soccer after playing for 12 years. I started playing when I was 5 years old, and soccer was baiscally the biggest part of my life growing up. I played center midfielder and spent years practicing playing games and traveling going for tournaments.

I started getting attention from college coaches and received offers to play at the college level. But I decided to quit I realized I didn’t want to continue playing anymore, and I don't want to go to college


r/AMA 22h ago

I have 8 sisters AMA

51 Upvotes

I am 19F and have 8 sisters. Our ages are 26, 25, 23 21, 20, 19, 19, and 16. I am a triplet Growing up, we were all very close and had a strong sibling bond. But since I left home, my sisters haven't been happy with some of the decisions I've made in my life. But i dont really care Despite our age differences and everything that has changed, we were all incredibly close growing up and girls run in our family my mom had all sisters and her mom had all sisters, but my first kid a boy so I broke the cycle


r/AMA 20h ago

I eat the same meal 99% of the time AMA

36 Upvotes

I work a lot and I’m pretty busy in general , so I don’t always have time to cook everyday. Instead , I meal prep the same meal each week ( I only eat once a day) and I portion everything out based on what I need to get me through the day .


r/AMA 1h ago

I'm an undercover water rock analysiser AMA

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AMA MY NAME Dr. Elias Reed and his AI-powered underwater rock analyzer, R.A.Y., discover glowing rocks in the unexplored Silent Valley. Their scans reveal the rocks are connected to an ancient artificial structure buried beneath the ocean floor—and may be transmitting a signal into deep space. After escaping as the structure awakens, Elias realizes they may have triggered something far beyond Earth.


r/AMA 6h ago

I'm from an extremely big extended family. Ama

2 Upvotes

I have 16 aunts and uncles (excluding their wifes and husbands) and more cousins than I can count.

I thought you might find it interesting so I decided to make and Ama. Ask me whatever you want and I'll answer.


r/AMA 4h ago

23y/o guitar repair tech. Ama

1 Upvotes

Guitar repair tech/luthier, 23 years old, (just started a few months ago) stuck at work for a few hours. I got plenty of time to kill. Ask anything, anything goes. DM if you wanna ask something privately.


r/AMA 8h ago

AMA: I’m Garrett Graff, 9/11 and national security journalist, Historian & Host of "Long Shadow." I’m here to talk about the 25th anniversary of 9/11 — ask me anything!

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r/AMA 1d ago

I was 350 pounds at my worst now I’m about to be under 200 for the 1st time in 17 years. AMA

62 Upvotes

Hello nice to meet yall. I’m 33 m and I have lost a total of 250 pounds all together. I lost 150 then gained back 100 and lost it again ! Dm me or just respond on here and I will respond to as much as I can.


r/AMA 21h ago

I improved my 10k running time from 44:59 to 37:51 (same course). AMA

16 Upvotes

Also, by the way, I was the slowest guy in school - literally everyone was faster than me - boys, girls, my first win was against an ex wheelchair guy. vo2max improved from 37 to 62.
i was lean and skinny