r/ask Aug 16 '25

A Reminder About Suicide-Related Posts

308 Upvotes

Every once in a while, we see posts from people asking about things like the “least painful way to die” or “how much alcohol would be fatal.” These are serious cries for help.

If you come across a post like this:

  • Please don’t comment advice or suggestions -- even good willed comments can make things worse.
  • Instead, hit report so the mod team and Reddit safety can step in quickly.

If you’re ever feeling like you’re in that dark place yourself, you don’t have to go through it alone:

The best thing we can do as a community is to look out for each other. If you see one of these posts, report, don’t reply.

- r/Ask Mods


r/ask 7h ago

Popular post Parents forcing their boys to get circumcised is wrong?

176 Upvotes

I think circumcition is a permanent removal of a body part and permanent change to an organ of a human. And I think such changes can only be done by a consent of a person but the problem is that children cannot consent thus boys or young teenagers having one should not be allowed and only must be done if an adult male decides to go through it themselves. Many parents do that to their boys and I believe being a parents do not give them a permission to remove even such a small body part from a a person

I was circumcised as a child. I don’t hate the fact that I am circumcised I just hate the fact that it was forced and done without my consent I wish I would have had the opportunity to choose it for myself when I am an adult.

What do you think ? Do you agree or disagree

English is not my native language so sorry for grammatical mistakes


r/ask 4h ago

Is it worth asking to hang out with friends again or do I just let this die?

29 Upvotes

I made 2 friends for the first time in years after attending a 2 week program. I organized a hang 2 weeks ago at an arcade bar and we all enjoyed our time there. Our group chat was popping off for a few days after the hang but it declined to the point where I would try to have conversations but I get met with just sparse "haha" or love reactions here and there. The last message I sent was 4 days ago and no one has said anything since.

I want to schedule a hang this weekend and I think an escape room this time but I'm wondering if it's worth putting in the effort. I don't want to annoy them but I still want to spend time with them. They're my first friends I made in years and I don't want to lose them because I enjoy their presence and conversations but I can't force anyone to stay. I think you can tell already that I'm very rusty with how to navigate friendships.

Should I still send out an invitation to them anyway? My anxiety is holding me back right now.

EDIT: I had my message typed out and I just sent it. We'll see how it goes...

EDIT 2: Will be taking this down soon because they said yes. You don't know how relieved I am right now


r/ask 16h ago

Why the hell do I look so ugly in camera but so good in the mirror?

217 Upvotes

And well, which one is more accurate? 😭 and the back camera does the MOST damage, some selfies are at least look-able


r/ask 31m ago

How to deal with my "fawn response" when i get yelled at?

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(24M) Since i was a kid i've been yelled at by my dad when things don't go the way he wants. Sometimes i've had answered him with yelling too, and things got even worse. When i just quietly hung my head, he relaxed, but it was like swallowing shit, if you understand me... He lacks empathy at this point. He talks to others the way he wants, but doesn't like others talking to him like that.

I've met hundreds of person with this same behaviour, annd my response doesn't change. I just freeze. Sometimes i get the control and just keep doing my stuff quietly, but i still get hurt.

Like when i was working at a retail drugstore. Several times came a customer complaining and being agressive to me. I just freezed. Then i had to hear more complaints, from the customer and from my manager, for being slow. It was too much for my mind.

I felt like Alex from Clockwork Orange, when he is at the aversion therapy with Dr. Brodsky, being beaten and insulted for no reason in order the become "civilized" hahahaha

It is frustrating to me, bc i want to just "don't care", but i cannot. It is a mind control i fail to have, but i like to change that. I don't want to feel week and harmless anymore.


r/ask 6h ago

Why does everything in existence from atom to stars to galaxies are so perfect and in order while being random at same time?

6 Upvotes

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r/ask 4h ago

I am an analytical chemist, 25 years experience, what jobs would be a good segue from my current job?

1 Upvotes

I just know that management is looking for reasons to lay me off based on their lack of adherence to GMP rules that I keep calling out. I am looking for a way to bow out gracefully before I get fired. Going back to school is not an option. Does anyone have any suggestions?


r/ask 15h ago

What's a party/friend-group game you play that almost nobody else has heard of?

7 Upvotes

What's a party/friend-group game you play that almost nobody else has heard of


r/ask 6h ago

What is covered for the domain of leadership and domain of professionalism in the AUPHA 2024-2025 Body of Knowledge?

1 Upvotes

My partner is working on their degree and has concerns about the class that covers (or is supposed to) Leadership and Professionalism per the AUPHA accreditation standards.

Health Care Professionalism and Leadership is the class title.

The Course description is: development of professional and leadership skills and attributes necessary for success in healthcare, including values, character, behavior, teamwork, and assessing leadership qualities in ourselves and others.

class assignments are: responses to interview questions, resume creation, job search and cover letter creation, job pitch video, LinkedIn profile creation, and an email request for a letter of recommendation from a professor or an employer. **these assignments are noted in the syllabus to cover the Health Communications sub domains of professional writing and use of electronic technology.

These are the certification areas that would concern Leadership and Professionalism.

What is covered in the AUPHA 2024-2025 Curriculum Guidance on:

topic 1: considerations/relationships between competencies, learning objectives, and content

-and-

topic 6: considerations for assignments that align with competencies, content, and levels of learning.

Thanks for any and all insight you can offer.


r/ask 18m ago

What is the 3rd best band you have ever seen live?

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You know what number one is and you probably know what number 2 is..

Maybe thought that number 3 deserves a shout out?


r/ask 1d ago

I have terribly bad breath that I can’t figure out why, I brush floss and clean teeth quarterly, is it possible that my cheek biting addiction is causing this?

558 Upvotes

I have terribly bad breath that I can’t figure out why, I brush floss and clean teeth quarterly, is it possible that my cheek biting addiction is causing this?


r/ask 1d ago

Smashing birthday cake into someone’s face. Why?

55 Upvotes

I have seen this multiple times on the internet and I don’t understand the purpose of doing this.

Is it a cultural thing? A tradition from far back? And what does it signify?

I don’t understand why you would want to waste perfectly good cake. It’s not a thing in my country and I only seen it online. If I remember correctly, it was Spanish speaking people.

I know of giving your best friend the first piece of cake but not the cake smashing.


r/ask 6h ago

Is Alternate a good website to buy pc components on ?

0 Upvotes

I found great prices for pc parts on Alternate, I plan on buying the parts to finally be ablr to build my own gaming pc but I wonder if this website is actually safe or some kind of scam.

Even tho it looks professional, I'm still asking myself because I'll spend quite a lot of money for the pc parts and I don't want that money to vanish because I trusted a random website.


r/ask 1d ago

Why do ancients say music calms the beast?

20 Upvotes

A common ancient trope is a hero stopping monsters or beasts using music, but why?

I assume it's that music affects us so deeply that they just add that characteristic to animals. I've never really seen music have any considerable effect beside pet birds dancing.


r/ask 6h ago

Anyone here knew how to “make out” and have sex the first time you did it?

0 Upvotes

Im aware the first time people have no idea what they’re doing, but were you one of those who knew what to do?


r/ask 9h ago

Would Universal Basic Income make world less polluted? My thinking is that most car usage is going to work and back to home?

0 Upvotes

Title


r/ask 1d ago

What could this weird oscillating sound at night that I've recorded twice now be?

5 Upvotes

Last month I heard a strange oscillating sound at night, I couldn't find anything about it online and once it stopped I just forgot about it. However earlier today I noticed it again. I tried to search it up again but couldn't find anything relevant in my area, just reports of electronic humming and screeching but nothing with an oscillating or pulsating sound.

The following timestamps are for when I decided to start recording, not the exact time at which the sound started at. You'll have to maximize your device's audio to hear the sound.

July 6th ~1AM:
https://files.catbox.moe/bdiila.m4a

August 31st ~2AM:

https://files.catbox.moe/jod8gs.m4a

Both recordings also have this strong rumbling noise if you turn the volume up but there wasn't a storm or anything. Earlier today it was a bit windy but I remember July 6th being fairly calm as it was the middle of summer. I don't know if that rumbling has anything to do with the oscillating frequency as it may just be my phone's mic being weird (As you can only hear it when you raise the volume really high up).


r/ask 1d ago

What muscle gets pulled when you yawn?

10 Upvotes

Something on the region on the underside of my jaw feels like it shiften to my chin when I yawn. It has only happened to me about 5 times my whole life and I wanna know if it means anything is wrong. The feeling goes away when I press against the new lump on the chin and kind of pull it back then the feeling subsides. The feeling is tight, sudden and painful


r/ask 1d ago

Are there really people who "make" their significant others get rid of their long term pet/pets just because they don't like that certain type of animal?

53 Upvotes

Am I weird if that sounds really sad to me?


r/ask 1d ago

Why reality is so disappointing?

9 Upvotes

I am really afraid of reality


r/ask 2d ago

Physically speaking, how much water do Ineed to drink, while sitting on a toilet, to generate a continuous stream of water in --> pee out, in one sitting?

66 Upvotes

I just thought of it and I want to know. Im a female and im 158cm tall. Maybe that halepful. I need the exact quantity please.


r/ask 1d ago

How long of a time, does it take for someone who was "cheated on", perpetually, to recover mentally, and otherwise?

2 Upvotes

In particular, if it was "not their fault".


r/ask 2d ago

how do i stop hoping my ex and i will get back together when we both still talk occasionally?

13 Upvotes

so me and my ex broke up mutually 3 weeks ago. we care for each other, but i think we had to work on our own problems by ourselves because it wasnt working out. my ex texted me a few days ago, saying he missed me and he hoped i was doing okay. we talked a little, and he was saying things like you can talk to me if you need anything, ill always care about you, i want to see the person you will become, etc. so i was inclined to ask if he would br interested to try again in the future, and he said that he would never rule out the possibility, but he wouldnt wait for me and i shouldnt either.

i know i should not wait for him, and i want to live my life, but its hard getting rid of that hope knowing the possibility is there. it is also hard when he says really sweet things to me after we split up. he says he wants to catch up every few weeks, and he guarantees ill speak to his family again. so im not sure if he has hope either or he is trying to move on.

im in a place where i know i have to move on and im doing a lot better than i was, but i feel like this is lingering in the back of my mind


r/ask 20h ago

I recently told my wife im okay with her seeing other men outside our marriage , did i do wrong?

0 Upvotes

Not sure if this is the right place to post this. Not long ago i became aware of my wife sexting other men. One time while she was in the shower i noticed her phone ring, as i looked at it, i could i read the word “wish i was there to scrub your back”. That text message answered many of my questions as i was already being suspicious. After thinking about it for a week or so i came to the conclusion that she was happy, and seeing her happy made me happy. One day while having dinner i decided to talk to her about it. I looked at her straight in the eyes and told her i knew about the other guy she had been sexting with. She looked at me with no facial expressions at all. I proceeded to tell her that i was not mad, upset or disappointed. I told her that i loved her no matter what and seeing her happy made me happy. She continued to just look at me and without saying a word, she leaned forward and kissed me. We continued with our dinner and have not talked about it since. Did i do wrong?


r/ask 1d ago

How to restore deleted YouTube channels?

2 Upvotes

I deleted two YouTube channels a few weeks ago and was wondering how to restore them? I would ask Google/YouTube support but I’ve been searching and it seems like Google and YouTube don’t have a support email or support chat option?