r/atx4atx 6h ago

FWB 39 [T4T] [T4F] trans girl seeking femme connections

1 Upvotes

Hi! I’m Charli. I’m a NB transfemme, bi, poly, and hoping to make some good connections (and maybe get into different kinds of trouble). I live in Round Rock, and depending on my schedule, I can travel pretty easy.

To be specific about what I’m looking for: a friend connection first, and maybe something else if it feels right.

Some stuff about me: I’m a massage therapist by trade, a novelist by force of will, a musician in a past life, and a current homebody with lots of indoor hobbies. I’m a reader—nothing quite like curling up on the couch with my reading device of choice and whiling away a few hours with a book. But sometimes my Steam Deck or Switch work, too. Just depends on my mood and energy level. Fantasy and sci-fi are my preferred genres, and I’m always up for recommendations, and if I’ve read it, to gab and gush (or vent and lament, depending).

I love good conversation about whatever has a hold of your attention at the moment—for me, it’s Vampire Survivors, just can’t get enough of it, and every new DLC is enough for me to pick it up for another twenty hours. I just love learning about people. And if you’re worried: there’s always something interesting about someone, nobody’s actually boring.

I’ve got a wife, a dog, and lots of free time. Always ready to chat—I respond fast!


r/atx4atx 10h ago

Activity Partner Climbing buddy Mesa Rim

1 Upvotes

Just started climbing at Mesa Rim and would love to go on weekdays and weekends! I’m 21 and a senior at UT and just trying to be more active this semester. If you like hiking as well that’s a plus! Would love to grab a bite after or explore the coffee scene here in Austin!


r/atx4atx 2d ago

Activity Partner 43 [M4A][M4C,M4M,M4F] Indian guy, looking for a chat/game buddy

2 Upvotes

Hi,

I am a 43 year old married male. Pretty content with my life but looking for some chill friends irrespective of gender to talk to. Specially interested in activities around sports, games, or a visit to Hippie Hollow (Something I have never done and probably will need someone's help with)

Chill non-judgemental, open to discussion on any topics


r/atx4atx 4d ago

Activity Partner 30 [M4F] Indian guy, new to Austin — Bollywood DJ night tonight, anyone want to join?

0 Upvotes

Just moved to Austin and still figuring out the scene. There’s a Bollywood night / dance event tonight, I figured I’d throw this out there and see if I can find a dancing partner.

If you’re into bollywood, dancing, or just want a low-key night out, hit me up, happy to share details.


r/atx4atx 4d ago

Activity Partner Tennis East Riverside?

3 Upvotes

I'm looking for someone to play tennis with near Oracle HQ. The only courts I know nearby are the ones in town lake apartments, so if you live there, great! For my ranking, I'd say 3ish-3.5. I have pretty good endurance, am working on speeding up my game, and am overall working on getting better.

If it's a no on tennis, I could consider some other form of cardio as well


r/atx4atx 5d ago

Activity Partner 37F4A looking for a running buddy

10 Upvotes

I’m trying to run for a half marathon I signed up for this October(first timer) so I’m looking for a running buddy for my long run on the weekend around Town Lake. Saturday or Sunday (Sunday for this weekend) early morning then take a dip in Barton Springs pool after the run. I have very short legs so I can’t run very fast. I’m just trying to run farther not faster. I’m at 10 mile nonstop and hopefully 11 mile this weekend just so you know where I’m at.
I’m not particularly a big fan of joining running clubs.


r/atx4atx 8d ago

Friends 25F4A Do you like crafts and night clubs?

8 Upvotes

Hey y’all! I’ve realized that I’ve been so locked in at work that I haven’t really had time to focus on my hobbies or go out with friends. The few friends I do have are growing distant lately, and I think it just might be time for a change.
I really enjoy going out dancing, whether we’re in downtown Round Rock, the Domain, or Downtown Austin, I just love to move to good music. Outside of that, I love being crafty and making things! I primarily enjoy making taxidermy beanie babies (I know, a strange hobby haha), thrifting and sewing, and I’ve been learning how to crochet as well! I’d love to get coffee and swap skills or just sit together and work on projects, anything! I’m a hispanic girl with curly hair, glasses, I’m plus sized, and I’m currently staying in Round Rock/Georgetown. I’d prefer to be friends with someone around my age, but if we have things in common I don’t mind a gap! I’m left-leaning politically, I’d love if you are too. I love different kinds of music, but lately I’ve been into dance/electronic, alternative rock, and some pop!
Thanks, y’all! I look forward to chatting!


r/atx4atx 9d ago

Activity Partner slayyyter concert 9/17

3 Upvotes

anybody else going to the concert? itll be my first time in austin! 24m from pittsburgh pa, ill be there for a couple days before n after, im also looking to get a new tattoo while im there! friends or a lil fling(gay) are ideal!!


r/atx4atx 10d ago

Activity Partner 33 f looking for friends to join at eazybaked/distinct motive at concourse tonight

2 Upvotes

Would love to find people to vibe with at this concert tonight. I personally think I’m a good time haha, unfortunately my friends don’t like this type of music so looking for people to vibe with tonight


r/atx4atx 11d ago

Activity Partner Barton Springs 25M 23F

2 Upvotes

My gf and I will be going to Barton springs August 21. It’s usually more fun when we go with friends and would love to have some cool people join us. DM me!

We’ve been in Austin for about a year, and love meeting new people.


r/atx4atx 12d ago

Friends Looking for friends for Wurstfest

4 Upvotes

New to Austin but born and raised Texan from Houston. I have family in New Braunfels and friends here in town but there is no appetite for Wurstfest.

Looking for a group of friends to go with! I’m 30M, German and Hispanic descent, can rock a lederhosen, and I own a dachshund!


r/atx4atx 13d ago

Friends 23y/o F - looking for artsy friends! :) -

2 Upvotes

Hi! I recently moved to Austin with my boyfriend, and I work remotely, so I haven't really been able to meet many people here. I am a recent SCAD grad, and I am a graphic designer! I would love to meet some other (maybe similarly aged?) women to hang out with.

A little about me:

  • I am a little shy at first, but warm up really fast!
  • I love outdoor activities, and have found myself enjoying walking along the Ann and Roy Butler trail.
  • Thrifting is my shit. I am all for the thrill of the find.
  • I collect plants! I had to relinquish many of my plants when I moved, but trust it will be restored
  • I have a cat (yes I am a cat person in a dog city) whomst I love very dearly. He's orange if that tells you anything
  • I am a creative person, and I could probably talk your ear off about design (dont let me bc it won't stop). While the majority of what I do is digital, I do have a bunch of crafting supplies, so I am always down for a crafting in the park experience :)

anyways, sorry for being so long winded, its kinda my first time posting on reddit. SOOOooo if some of those things sounds cool, lets talk!


r/atx4atx 14d ago

Date 29 [F4M] I don’t want to become cynical about relationships… anyone else?

20 Upvotes

29F, Indian techie in Austin. I’ve been seeing someone for about a year, but there’s been very little commitment from the other end and some cheating involved too. At this point, I honestly don’t know where it’s going.
But as I enter my 30s, I really don’t want this experience to make me cold or mechanical about love. I still want butterflies. I want to get excited about someone, have stupidly long conversations, get emotional, get angry, care about things. I don’t want to constantly think about whether I’m being “too available” or “too attached” or follow whatever relationship rulebook the internet has decided on.
I have a pretty good life otherwise — I’m in tech, independent, curious, love deep conversations, trying random things, traveling, art, etc. I think I just miss having an emotional connection and genuine companionship.
Not necessarily looking to jump straight into another relationship. I’d just like to meet someone I actually connect with, talk, hang out occasionally, and see where it goes. I’m okay with something private/non-traditional too.
If you’re somewhere in the same boat, feel free to DM me. :)


r/atx4atx 14d ago

Friends 26F4A (Looking for more friends!)

15 Upvotes

Hi everyone! I made a similar post about a year ago and met some absolutely incredible people and thought why not try it again?!

I’m definitely still introverted, but 1000% more willing to try new things and hangout with new people.

I’ve been loving HotWorx lately and pay for a Crux membership (although I rarely use it 😅). I love taking walks around Lake Pflugerville or Walnut Creek and have a definite goal of eventually seeing the Austin bats! I’ve made it a life mission to introduce as many people to playing Dice Throne as I possibly can because as a self-proclaimed board game hater, it’s literally such a fun tabletop game to play! I’d love to take more crafty classes, like working with stained glass or even learning how to sew. I also think it would be so fun and beneficial to start taking some beginner Spanish lessons. I’ve been currently enjoying keeping up with the drama on this season of Big Brother and I sometimes scour the internet looking for parts for a car that I impulsively bought from an auction website…..

I’ve got a million “wants” on my to-do list and would like to find more people to share new hobbies with or even just be exposed to others passions and hear about everyone’s life goals.

With everything going on in the world right now, I think we could all use more friends. ❤️


r/atx4atx 14d ago

Long Term Early 40s couple looking to make some friends and engage in group games, activities, etc

2 Upvotes

Hi,

We have quite a few friends here but we are looking to build new friendships that do not come with any sort of baggage or judgements. We can talk, meet, and go out. Key idea is to be able to talk to someone freely irrespective of the topics of discussion.


r/atx4atx 15d ago

Date Transman looking for a date!

1 Upvotes

Hello! I am looking to visit a coffee or ttrpg store with someone.

Somethings about myself:

I am fat! While I'm happy to take a photo before we meet, know that I am a chunky lad. I am very hard of hearing, and neurospicy (AuDhD), so there is probably a fair amount of patience that one needs to have before interacting with me.

I love all things creative and enjoy ttrpgs. Some of my hobbies include: crochet, beading, digital art, creative writing, sculpting, and gaming (my favorite is Vintage Story).

While admittedly I would love to meet with other Trans folk, I am mostly just wanting out of the house for the evening. I have a lot of anxiety so, again, please be patient with me!

I am around Round Rock, willing to meet at the store/shop we choose. Let's get to know each other beforehand, in dm! Thank you in advance for your interest.


r/atx4atx 15d ago

Friends Early 40s couple looking to make some friends and engage in group games, activities, etc

2 Upvotes

Hi,

Looking for some fun couples, who we can discuss and talk to about everything, engage in fun activities, double dates for hobbies, etc.

In addition, we prefer someone who is atleast 35+ years of age. This is primarily because of expectation of similar challenges, and life stage we are in


r/atx4atx 15d ago

Date [M4F] 33 trying to find my future wife

5 Upvotes

Like the title says, seeking that endgame relationship

Full custody father of a 9 year old girl, college educated, currently a butcher living in central Texas, born in Cali, raised in Chicago. Family oriented, I love skateboarding, watching movies television playing games of all sorts, tatted, a 420 smoker, love travelling, cooking, cooling, laughing, creating

I'm 6'2, mixed race, black and white

Genres I love, Resident Evil, Metal Gear Solid, Cyberpunk, Star Wars, the backrooms, I love sci fi, horror, comedys, action but I'll watch anything especially trash TV right after work

Musically I'm big into all rock and rap but I'm currently in a country tribute band so lol

Hard working, aware, eager

My entire vibe is kind of Nirvana and Eminem meets Prince and Tears for Fears

Shoot me a DM if you think we could get along and want to learn more


r/atx4atx 17d ago

Friends 23m recent grad in south austin looking for chillers

2 Upvotes

recently graduated and moved to south austin from Louisiana. looking for people to grab beers with, play pickleball, go to the gym, or really anything fun and outdoorsy. big into cars and that whole scene so it’d be good to meet some people that share that love. also don’t mind having nights in and playing board games or just having dinner. honestly, if you’re chill, we’ll probably get along just fine. dms open 🫡


r/atx4atx 18d ago

Friends 28 M4F - Someone to hang out with and watch movies

2 Upvotes

Hey y'all, I've been living in Austin for some time now (close to 4 years). I have a decent number of friends but I usually only hang out with them during a specific activity or event. I'd really love to meet someone to spontaneously just hang out with and watch movies. I'm a big movie buff and I sometimes get the urge to watch stuff but feel like it would be more fulfilling with another person. If we get to know each other well we can also extend the spontaneous hangouts to other types of activities too.


r/atx4atx 18d ago

Friends I need women friends!

1 Upvotes

Hi,
29 year old female here. Looking for female friends in their 20’s + to craft, go to a park, idk anything! I like reading, taking walks, and would like to learn how to sew. Message me if you’re interested!

Preferably you have no husband/kids.. since they’re a huge responsibility (not being creepy)


r/atx4atx 21d ago

FWB 38 [M4F] Active, nerdy dude seeking connection + fun

9 Upvotes

Buenos dias! I posted on one of the spicier Austin subreddits under a throwaway recently, but figured I'd forego the second account and post here instead.

I'm a 38-year-old Hispanic dude looking for connection and possibly an ongoing FWB situation if it's something we both end up gravitating towards. I’m happy to share pictures and verify that I’m a real and upstanding member of society before potentially meeting up.

I’m a proud nerd and unashamedly love all sorts of geeky things that would make this intro even lengthier than it already is. My interests revolve around movies, video games, tattoos, mechanical keyboards, and music, and I'd definitely love to hear about all the things you're passionate about, too.

As for the spicier side of things, I'm pretty vanilla and have a respectable dad bod carefully cultivated through Peloton, Tonal, and P. Terry's. I love kissing, cuddling, taking my time, and making my partner feel comfortable, desired, and genuinely wanted.

If you’ve made it this far and any of that sounds interesting, I’d love to hear from you!


r/atx4atx 21d ago

Date Potential missed connection @ Palomino

4 Upvotes

This afternoon @ Palomino on 12th St

You: brunette mullet-y hairstyle, tall, wearing khaki shorts & black high top Vans I think, working on your computer and had a bike lock in your lap at one point

Me: dark hair with bangs, wearing all black and red windbreaker, with my friend also working on laptop

Lowkey felt like we fully made eye contact a few times and you left right as I was going to give you my number!!!!! Hello you're cute are you single??? LMK!


r/atx4atx 21d ago

Date [23][M4F]Compassionate, honest, warm, and a good cook

14 Upvotes

I’m the kind of person who gets genuinely excited about making someone else’s day a little better.
If you mention your favorite dessert once, don’t be surprised if I show up a month later having learned to make it. If you’ve had a rough week, I’ll probably offer to cook dinner before I’ll offer advice. I think some of the best ways to say “I care about you” are homemade food, remembering the little things, and showing up when it’s inconvenient.

I’m a law student because I believe people deserve someone willing to stand beside them when life gets messy. Outside of school, I’m usually experimenting with barbecue, fresh pasta, whiskey cocktails, or homemade ice cream, painting miniatures, reading history, wandering through museums, or getting way too invested in D&D campaigns and sci-fi.

I’m endlessly curious. Tell me about your favorite book, your niche hobby, your weird obsession, or the thing you could give an hour-long lecture on with no preparation. I love listening to people talk about what lights them up.

I can be just as happy spending a Saturday exploring a new restaurant, walking through an art museum, or taking a spontaneous road trip as I can staying home with a movie, a bottle of Scotch, and trying a recipe neither of us has attempted before.

People who know me would probably describe me as thoughtful, loyal, a little old-fashioned, and someone who genuinely tries to leave the people around him better than he found them. I don’t think kindness is weakness. I think it’s a choice worth making every day.

A few random facts:
I smoke barbecue for fun and will absolutely use you as an excuse to make brisket.
I have a dry sense of humor and an unhealthy number of history references for everyday conversations.
I’m 5’4”, which mostly just means I’m easier to hug and less likely to block your view at a concert.
If we go to a bookstore together, assume we’re losing at least an hour.

I’m looking for someone emotionally available, kind, curious, and willing to build something real. Someone who believes affection should be expressed, communication should be honest, and relationships work best when both people are trying to make each other’s lives a little brighter.

I’m not looking for perfection.

I’m looking for a teammate.

Someone whose first instinct, after a long day, is to think, *“I can’t wait to tell them about this.”*
If that sounds like you, I’d love to hear your story.


r/atx4atx 21d ago

Friends 35 NB4A — low-key jazz hang + good stories

1 Upvotes

Looking for a casual hang to explore Austin’s jazz scene — and hear some good stories along the way.

NB4A (None Binary, AMAB, feminine-presenting). I’m into art, design, culture, history, museums, and movies. I’d love to check out places like Cactus Café (near UT), Monks Jazz, Antone’s, Elephant Room, Parker Jazz Club, or other solid downtown/nearby spots. Just looking for a low-key hang — good music, easy conversation, and the chance to hear a few good stories. I’m still new to jazz, and would enjoy going with someone who’s happy to share a little knowledge along the way. Not looking for a date.

You: respectful, gentle, educated, and someone who has a few good stories to share. Prefer someone under the LGBTQ+ umbrella or a genuine ally.

Deal-breakers: pushiness, judgment about presentation, smokers.

Prefer to DM first for a vibe check. If you read to the end, reply with:

  • Your intro
  • Two recent movies you enjoyed
  • What’s a risk you took that turned out well (or interestingly)?
  • Confirmation that you’re good with a no-pressure hang

Feel free to message if this sounds like your kind of thing.