r/feminineboys Jan 06 '26

Discussion if you are a minor i honestly recommend you read this…

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I’m going to say this how it is supposed to because it needs to be said and I do not think I have seen a single person mention it all.

If you are a minor (under 18), sexualizing yourself online is not empowerment, it is extremely dangerous.

I do not care if “everyone is doing it” because I do not, seeing thighs or bulges from a 13 year old child is absolutely disgusting especially when I am 17, and these are coming from teen subreddits.

I will prob sound like your parent or legal guardian when I say this but whatever you post, it is in sharpie. It will never leave the internet. People screenshotting, downloading or even worse, in places you will never see. (ie: the dark web on websites where creeps sell certain types of images).

Deleting a single reddit post doesn’t erase it. The image stays on Reddits internal servers, Screenshots exist. Archives exist. Private DMs get leaked. Stuff you post at Age 14 can resurface when you’re Aged 18, applying for college, jobs, or just trying to live your life.

The internet will never forget — even if you forget.

Posting Sexualised images of minors is illegal in many places, even if you post them yourself. That means:

• Platforms can report it

• Accounts can be investigated

• Parents can be contacted

• Police can get involved

You don’t get a free pass just because it was “your choice.” Also, the ones accessing it will also be breaking the law.

I am not trying to scare you, I am trying to keep you safe from the creeps of Reddit. The mass amounts of DMs I have had to deal with over the years shouldn’t be relived. Please keep yourself safe.


r/feminineboys Nov 15 '25

Discussion This is a community by femboys for femboys. With that in mind, some advice to visitors:

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We do not want to hear how horny femboys make you. No one wants to hear that.

We do not want to hear how much you want to date/cuddle/copulate with a femboy. It makes you look desperate.

If you want a friend who’s a femboy while not being one yourself, fine, but you better have a normal explanation as to why specifically it has to be a femboy.

We are not “better women” or replacements for them. If women are rejecting you on mass, it ain’t them it’s you. It’s insulting to suggest we have lower standards or would want to be your backup.

Building on that, we are not all magically more empathetic and “soft” than women. Don’t use us to justify misogyny.

This is not a dating pool. Go away. Bye bye.

This is not a place for you to experiment.

I do not care how innocent or wholesome your intentions are, the rules of the subreddit are clear. This isn’t a place to inflict your desires onto us.

We are not trans women. Femboys and trans women are two different groups, none of which exist solely for your gratification.

We will check your post history and if it’s just low effort hookup posts, bye bye.

Finally. Yes. It’s gay. Deal with it. (Edit: I mean it’s gay to like femboys if you are a guy.)

Edit 2: Not only is this not a place to find love/intercourse/femboys in general, this is also not a place to find personal therapists. Femboys are not here for you to trauma dump on, we are people too.

Edit 3 (yes we’re still going): We are not all gay. Some are straight, bi, ace etc. Even the ones who are gay are not exclusive to a specific dynamic (bottom). If you think femboys are all gay bottoms, I recommend you log off of orange and black YouTube and go outside.


r/feminineboys 13h ago

My mom did something I didn’t expect

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So I come home from a long away game for football. It was a 2 hour drive to there and 2 hours back and we spent a solid 10-11 hours away. So, I come home and find my stuff misplaced. I see that my pillows (I store my short shorts and thigh highs under it) are also moved. I start to panic but see one pair of thigh highs in my sock drawer and my short shorts also in my drawer. I can’t find the other one so I eventually ask my mom, she says there is only one and will try to find the second one. We talk later in private and she says she’s disappointed in me for not telling her bc she could have gotten the clothes. I asked how my dad wouldn’t find out. She deadass said “Just say it’s for football or smth” and couldn’t be any less happy. My mom finally said that she’d be happy and proud of me with what ever clothes I wear 🥹😭


r/feminineboys 4h ago

Discussion I have a question...

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Hiiii everyone :3 so I need to know why some femboys are femboys? I lack masculinity and I really love to be cute and soft ^-^ I still struggle to accept it but I really love the whole thing about femboys haha


r/feminineboys 9h ago

my brother almost saw my skirt

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holy shit I am shaking

he randomly came into my room for the 4th time today, and asked me for this bag I borrow from him to carry stuff when I’m out with my friends so I don’t have to use my school bag, problem was I hide the skirt in that bag. I mentioned that I need to get my stuff out of it and after stalling for a bit he made a joke about me hiding some stuff in there and I played along, luckily he needed a shower so I was able to get the skirt out and shove it in the box that I store my mega drive games in since nobody looks in there


r/feminineboys 2h ago

Advice How do people find Femmine friends that’s sfw everything isn’t

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I’m 18 and have no friends 😭lol looking for cool and interesting people!


r/feminineboys 5h ago

My conservative mother didn't mention the femboy clothes...

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To begin with, my mother is a very conservative woman. She, of course, does not recognize the LGBT community.

I keep my various femboy clothes in one big bag in the closet: panties, stockings, etc.

And recently, when she was rummaging through my closet to find something, she accidentally pulled that very bag out of the closet, and something even fell out of it.

I was completely horrified and immediately chased my mother out of the room (she didn't seem to have time to notice what was in the bag).

However, when, after a few days of my absence (I was at the cottage), upon arrival, I see that the closet has been completely cleaned of junk and, MOST IMPORTANTLY, that very bag was lying on a completely different shelf of the closet!

Mom didn't say ANYTHING about it later, as if she hadn't even seen what was in that bag (although she most likely looked into it).

Either my mother is a holy woman, and therefore, when she saw my undoubtedly mind–boggling items of clothing, she didn't say anything. Either that, or she was really SURPRISINGLY decent at not looking into that bag out of curiosity!

Edit: I forgot to tell that I live in Russia, I think it changes a lot.


r/feminineboys 6h ago

I got 2 cool tales for yall :3

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So the first one: I was going for my walk in the park and i saw these people having some sort of party, initially i didn't mind it because people have parties and weddings there all the time. but then i walked just a few clicks away next to a nearby bench where these folks were setting up presents n shit. and i stg one of them was a femboy!!! tbf it could've just been a girl with short hair wearing a maid dress but COME ON!!! and as i was leaving (they were kind of talking loud) i definitely heard a male voice out of the group and they were all dressed femininely so ONE OF EM was definitely a femboy! The second story is a little shorter: i was at the fair and we were leaving. we were waiting for our ride just outside the area and i was sitting on a curb. and then some guy in a car drives up and asks "you ok, girl??" i was totally fine and after i told him i was a guy he drove off lol. but it still felt good -u- i wasn't even dressed femininely or anything so that was awesome sauce :3


r/feminineboys 12h ago

Big Emergency, Please Help if You Can

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This is my first post here, but I've always been here. I'm a closeted feminine 19 year old Filipino boy from the Philippines who lives in a conservative family. The past year has been a wonderful and enlightening experience in realizing my feminine side. I've had a lot of supporters from my friends, old, new, online, and face to face, and my brother and a lot of my extended family also surprisingly supported me and helped keep it a secret from my parents. Even my drivers, helpers, and work friends of my parents know and support it too. I had so many wonderful experiences thanks to them helping me explore myself (Turns there's always been signs they noticed when I was very young and throughout my life, and aren't that surprised).

Ok now for the problem. Today at college, my girl friends gave me a makeup session, and it was an enchanting and thrilling experience, and a lot of people called me cute. When my driver picked me up from college he liked my makeup and asked for a picture. I told him not to tell my mom who he picks up as well from work and he agreed.

A few hours later until now, my mom and older brother got home, and it was then he told me what happened privately. My driver told my mom that I had makeup (I fear he forgot that he wasn't supposed to tell her, but I'm not mad at him and please don't be too), and my brother has been lying and trying to cover it up for me, saying that it was just for school.

I'm so horrified rn and this ain't the first time my mom has to deal with this. She has seen me shave my legs, shave my facial hair, wear non-masculine clothing publicly, growing out my hair, and using ear pins (like earrings but just pins on instead of having to be used for those with piercings). The leg hair shaving and the ear pins angered her the most and accused me of being gay (which I kinda am, bc I'm Pansexual).

I had my makeup removed before she got home, but now she knows. What should I do?


r/feminineboys 1h ago

Advice Copy and paste from another post I have no Karma 😭

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So I’ll start of by saying I’m a straight male, 5’6 weighing roughly 120, and I’m using a possible throwaway/burner account.

I’ve never been into the whole femboy scene or any of that but recently, I’ve had a slight curiosity because on my main account. I’ve had other femboys message me, asking if I was into it. according to them I have the “typical fem” body type. I have hyper metabolism so I can’t gain weight no matter how much I eat. I have a really thin waist that gives an hourglass figure, and I skate board so my glutes, and especially my thighs are a little thicker.

My gf and me are very open, and I’ve worn fem cloths for her before since its what she’s into. lately I’ve noticed I kind of like it, and have thought of possibly having an alt account, kinda like a second “personality” posting as a femboy.

Is there any straight males who have had the same experience, and any positives of posting their fem content during their alone time. PS: sorry for the long read/ramble

TL:DR: Girlfriend turned me into a femboy in my alone time, looking for advice on posting as a femboy on their private time.


r/feminineboys 8h ago

I dressed up as a femboy

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Hii! It's my first time posting on a Reddit.

I've been dressing in girls clothes since middle school. but being in a strongly homophobic and Muslim country I've kept it as a secret. but I've always liked it. I felt beautiful and liked myself in those clothes. but I stopped it for 5 years

a week ago my friend (a girl) and I decided to try to dress me as a femboy, and do a makeup. It was really surprising, how much it felt good. but now I question my sexuality, and a lot of other things, and wanted to discuss it somewhere. I guess Reddit is a good place for it?

I showed it to two of my friends, and they really liked it, but weren't really supportive, since it's actually dangerous to have such a secret.

Can we please talk about it? I can't find anyone to talk.


r/feminineboys 4h ago

Discussion Self Discovery

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Hi. A few years ago I thought to myself that I was tired of being masculine. I just kinda put that thought to the back of my mind to not think about it, but it just kept on returning. Eventually I discovered what Femboys were and I really liked the idea of it, but decided against it because I thought that I wasn't feminine enough after years of weightlifting, so I just filed that thought away as well.

Recently I've decided to stop pushing those thoughts away and decided I wanted to try it out. So I talked to my Partner about it and they were 100% accepting about it and wanted to support me. So we got a dress, fishnet stocking, and a chocker for me to try out, and I loved it.

I want to continue being a femboy but I also like the idea of building muscle and powerlifting. I know powerlifting and being a Femboy isn't a one or the other thing so I just plan on doing both, even though I'll probably be a bit bulky.

Does anyone else have any advice on combining the two? Or maybe know an example of someone that is a Femboy powerlifter?

P.S. I found this community recently and it has definitely helped me come around to the idea of being a femboy. I just love how everyone that I noticed so far has been really kind and actually supportive of each other, so I just wanted to say thank you.


r/feminineboys 9h ago

Let’s talk: Cute misconceptions about us femboys! 💕✨

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Hey lovelies! 🌸(^v^) I wanted to make a sweet little post today to clear up some things about being a femboy.First of all, we are just normal people (•ω•) Some people out there think that every single one of us is just posting NSFW or nude photos all the time. But nope We are just regular human beings with our own unique tastes looking for real connection Sure (¬_¬) there might be a small but loud minority looking for casual stuff but that’s definitely not all of us. Speaking for myself, I’m not looking for anything NSFW or casual (≧◡≦)I’m just a cute femboy looking for genuine love (•ω•) while staying true to my morals and principles. 💖Secondly we have standards morals and we are absolutely NOT commodities ( ̄^ ̄)ゞ I know a lot of people adore femboys and sometimes objectify us, but that doesn't mean it’s okay to treat us like objects or a trend. We deserve respect just like anyone else. ✨Love you all (❤ω❤)


r/feminineboys 8h ago

I cant resist the urge to become a femboy

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Ok hiii so i started studying graphic design and programming last year, about to do my second year now. ever since i started ive been feeling so feminine and wearing girly stuff :3 but i wanna know why has it only happened after i started studying these two!? :o swear i started studying then was wearing a skirt... its time for me to become one of you


r/feminineboys 14h ago

Discussion Femboy = twink?

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Someone told me they think that femboys have to be twinks. I don’t agree and think it’s more about clothing than body type. What do you think?


r/feminineboys 1h ago

Discussion Mom found ma stuff

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So just like all the other femboys my mom found my clothes and im scared. So my mom found my skirt, thighs highs, and my collar plus my crop top i still dont wear in public but I think my mom my get angry at me soo[oooooo[oo) what do I dew


r/feminineboys 11m ago

I dont know what to do annymore

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Ok so I have a puppyboy bf or used to have one and he said my mom doesn't want me having snap hes still online this happened 3 weeks ago and ive been depressed and thinking this is all my fault maybe I should kms and ill be happy idk what I d8d wrong I showed him a pic of me a d he called me cute and he sent a pic of him and he said thats my silly face and I was happy for like 2 days before he said that did I do annything wrong to him idk im just it always repeats


r/feminineboys 5h ago

Some quick disconnected questions I wanna ask

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How do I apply black nail paint? Can I remove it quickly before my parents come home or does it stay a long time?

Will people judge me for wearing those cool band shits if I don't listen to the band? I liked the designs on em and I saw some stuff online of people interviewing people with band shirts and judge them if they don't know the song names and call them a poser

For working out my main goal is to lose tummy fat, and get super good at hugging (/ref /j) ,but now Ive come across creatine and asking myself if I should it? I heard it's safe but I'm still skeptical about taking external vitamin powders, +I don't really care about getting big arms or nothin


r/feminineboys 1d ago

Discussion My mom found my skirt

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So I live with my family.

I had my skirt hidden behind a wall under my desk.

I was sitting in our living room earlier today, watching a movie with my younger brothers, and my mom suddenly comes up to me with my black skirt in her hands and asks me what it was.

My heart sank immediately and with a shaking voice I made up an excuse and began explaining to her how I was holding on to it for a couple of days for a friend.

I think she fell for it, but i'm still kinda scared 😭

I asked one of my friends to hold on to it while i find a better solution, and he said yes :3

But idk what to do with it...

And what if she knows?? 😭

Sorry if the grammar is bad btw.

English is my 2nd language :3


r/feminineboys 7h ago

Support I am restless

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29, Just came here to vent a little so be supportive 🥲.
Haven’t got the chance to dress in a while (like almost a year ) due to personal reasons..
And the urge is killing me and consuming me.
Its all i can think about, i see women in the streets and just think how can i be her and how the fit would sit on
me, i go to work and scroll online shopping sites dreaming of buying something, i come home and its all i do i waste hourssss on subreddits and sites.
Do any of you guys had long stretches without being able to show your feminine side ? How did you cope ?


r/feminineboys 10m ago

Im scared

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hi so um I'm closeted and I wanna tell someone but I'm scared of how they would react since I live in a small homophobic town.

I have been a femboy in secret for a couple years now but I think someone might find out soon but I don't know if I'm ready.

so um I could use your advice pretty please? Sorry


r/feminineboys 26m ago

Advice Washing your clothes >.<

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I was wondering how u wash your fem clothes without your parents finding out like where do u hide them after washing them and stuff? I’ve been trying to figure out the best way to do it without making it obvious lol


r/feminineboys 16h ago

Advice Thighs ≧ω≦

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So this is probably a dumb question but I’ve been working out my thighs for a bit now, and they’re finally starting to look pretty good But once I get them to a size that I really like, do I just stop working them out and leave them alone, or do I keep training them? I don’t really wanna accidentally make them way bigger than I want 😭 I just wanna keep the size and shape they’re at without losing all the progress I made >///<


r/feminineboys 2h ago

Discussion Was there ever signs when you were young

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i’m just wondering if anyone else loved to be feminine as a kid. when i was young id always want to dress up in cute dresses and DONT HATE ME FOR THIS but i always wanted to be a princess at dress ups and all that jazz. id shave my legs despite there being no hair on it and i’d never let a single dark hair appear on me at all. now i’m doing it every day and nothings changed but i dont know if it’s just me or not😔


r/feminineboys 2h ago

Advice How to not get caught ordering fem clothes

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Hey!! Ordering clothes around Halloween is a perfect excuse in case someone questions you about it! especially with long order times, now is a good time to order your "costumes"!

If you live in an unsafe environment where your family wont accept you. I really dont reccomend doing something risky if they find your clothes.

But if youre just shy, then this is the method!!!! Order now before its too late