r/feminineboys 20h ago

My mom did something I didn’t expect

764 Upvotes

So I come home from a long away game for football. It was a 2 hour drive to there and 2 hours back and we spent a solid 10-11 hours away. So, I come home and find my stuff misplaced. I see that my pillows (I store my short shorts and thigh highs under it) are also moved. I start to panic but see one pair of thigh highs in my sock drawer and my short shorts also in my drawer. I can’t find the other one so I eventually ask my mom, she says there is only one and will try to find the second one. We talk later in private and she says she’s disappointed in me for not telling her bc she could have gotten the clothes. I asked how my dad wouldn’t find out. She deadass said “Just say it’s for football or smth” and couldn’t be any less happy. My mom finally said that she’d be happy and proud of me with what ever clothes I wear 🥹😭


r/feminineboys 17h ago

my brother almost saw my skirt

67 Upvotes

holy shit I am shaking

he randomly came into my room for the 4th time today, and asked me for this bag I borrow from him to carry stuff when I’m out with my friends so I don’t have to use my school bag, problem was I hide the skirt in that bag. I mentioned that I need to get my stuff out of it and after stalling for a bit he made a joke about me hiding some stuff in there and I played along, luckily he needed a shower so I was able to get the skirt out and shove it in the box that I store my mega drive games in since nobody looks in there


r/feminineboys 19h ago

Big Emergency, Please Help if You Can

41 Upvotes

This is my first post here, but I've always been here. I'm a closeted feminine 19 year old Filipino boy from the Philippines who lives in a conservative family. The past year has been a wonderful and enlightening experience in realizing my feminine side. I've had a lot of supporters from my friends, old, new, online, and face to face, and my brother and a lot of my extended family also surprisingly supported me and helped keep it a secret from my parents. Even my drivers, helpers, and work friends of my parents know and support it too. I had so many wonderful experiences thanks to them helping me explore myself (Turns there's always been signs they noticed when I was very young and throughout my life, and aren't that surprised).

Ok now for the problem. Today at college, my girl friends gave me a makeup session, and it was an enchanting and thrilling experience, and a lot of people called me cute. When my driver picked me up from college he liked my makeup and asked for a picture. I told him not to tell my mom who he picks up as well from work and he agreed.

A few hours later until now, my mom and older brother got home, and it was then he told me what happened privately. My driver told my mom that I had makeup (I fear he forgot that he wasn't supposed to tell her, but I'm not mad at him and please don't be too), and my brother has been lying and trying to cover it up for me, saying that it was just for school.

I'm so horrified rn and this ain't the first time my mom has to deal with this. She has seen me shave my legs, shave my facial hair, wear non-masculine clothing publicly, growing out my hair, and using ear pins (like earrings but just pins on instead of having to be used for those with piercings). The leg hair shaving and the ear pins angered her the most and accused me of being gay (which I kinda am, bc I'm Pansexual).

I had my makeup removed before she got home, but now she knows. What should I do?


r/feminineboys 22h ago

Discussion Femboy = twink?

37 Upvotes

Someone told me they think that femboys have to be twinks. I don’t agree and think it’s more about clothing than body type. What do you think?


r/feminineboys 11h ago

Discussion I have a question...

28 Upvotes

Hiiii everyone :3 so I need to know why some femboys are femboys? I lack masculinity and I really love to be cute and soft ^-^ I still struggle to accept it but I really love the whole thing about femboys haha


r/feminineboys 13h ago

My conservative mother didn't mention the femboy clothes...

27 Upvotes

To begin with, my mother is a very conservative woman. She, of course, does not recognize the LGBT community.

I keep my various femboy clothes in one big bag in the closet: panties, stockings, etc.

And recently, when she was rummaging through my closet to find something, she accidentally pulled that very bag out of the closet, and something even fell out of it.

I was completely horrified and immediately chased my mother out of the room (she didn't seem to have time to notice what was in the bag).

However, when, after a few days of my absence (I was at the cottage), upon arrival, I see that the closet has been completely cleaned of junk and, MOST IMPORTANTLY, that very bag was lying on a completely different shelf of the closet!

Mom didn't say ANYTHING about it later, as if she hadn't even seen what was in that bag (although she most likely looked into it).

Either my mother is a holy woman, and therefore, when she saw my undoubtedly mind–boggling items of clothing, she didn't say anything. Either that, or she was really SURPRISINGLY decent at not looking into that bag out of curiosity!

Edit: I forgot to tell that I live in Russia, I think it changes a lot.


r/feminineboys 17h ago

Let’s talk: Cute misconceptions about us femboys! 💕✨

20 Upvotes

Hey lovelies! 🌸(^v^) I wanted to make a sweet little post today to clear up some things about being a femboy.First of all, we are just normal people (•ω•) Some people out there think that every single one of us is just posting NSFW or nude photos all the time. But nope We are just regular human beings with our own unique tastes looking for real connection Sure (¬_¬) there might be a small but loud minority looking for casual stuff but that’s definitely not all of us. Speaking for myself, I’m not looking for anything NSFW or casual (≧◡≦)I’m just a cute femboy looking for genuine love (•ω•) while staying true to my morals and principles. 💖Secondly we have standards morals and we are absolutely NOT commodities ( ̄^ ̄)ゞ I know a lot of people adore femboys and sometimes objectify us, but that doesn't mean it’s okay to treat us like objects or a trend. We deserve respect just like anyone else. ✨Love you all (❤ω❤)


r/feminineboys 14h ago

I got 2 cool tales for yall :3

17 Upvotes

So the first one: I was going for my walk in the park and i saw these people having some sort of party, initially i didn't mind it because people have parties and weddings there all the time. but then i walked just a few clicks away next to a nearby bench where these folks were setting up presents n shit. and i stg one of them was a femboy!!! tbf it could've just been a girl with short hair wearing a maid dress but COME ON!!! and as i was leaving (they were kind of talking loud) i definitely heard a male voice out of the group and they were all dressed femininely so ONE OF EM was definitely a femboy! The second story is a little shorter: i was at the fair and we were leaving. we were waiting for our ride just outside the area and i was sitting on a curb. and then some guy in a car drives up and asks "you ok, girl??" i was totally fine and after i told him i was a guy he drove off lol. but it still felt good -u- i wasn't even dressed femininely or anything so that was awesome sauce :3


r/feminineboys 16h ago

I cant resist the urge to become a femboy

13 Upvotes

Ok hiii so i started studying graphic design and programming last year, about to do my second year now. ever since i started ive been feeling so feminine and wearing girly stuff :3 but i wanna know why has it only happened after i started studying these two!? :o swear i started studying then was wearing a skirt... its time for me to become one of you


r/feminineboys 5h ago

Discussion Whats your experience been like ?

10 Upvotes

So i would say Im a bit more closeted femboy and i eventually would like to not be, Im curious to those who have gone from the typical male fashion to a more feminine one and what their experience is like. ie maybe wearing shorter shorts, shaved legs, exposing more skin, maybe wearing makeup and doing your nails ? All of this i want to do but feel will affect my image and peoples view of me. Was your experience generally positive? Or did you lose friends and relationships over it ? How do people treat you in public when you’re out and not necessarily trying to be super passible but maybe just cute boy with feminine features?


r/feminineboys 9h ago

Advice How do people find Femmine friends that’s sfw everything isn’t

8 Upvotes

I’m 18 and have no friends 😭lol looking for cool and interesting people!


r/feminineboys 3h ago

Advice Foxboy Wants Soft Cute Skin,,,

7 Upvotes

hi hiii, here's a post I've promised for a while, and I'm excited to look foolish ehe,,,

With that being said! I've already begun shaving most and soon to be all of my body, and am very curious about the right path of skincare so that I can be as smooth and soft as I want to be.

After researching a lot of skincare routines on how to clear up sensitive and irritable skin, here is my current plan to get to when it comes to a proper routine.

  • MORNING
    • Shower (Yet to research body wash, shampoo, and conditioner, as I need to use up the rest of what my lovely mother bought me that I don't care for:p)
    • Salicylic Acid Body Cream on body (Likely CeraVe SA Cream)
    • Exfoliating Toner for face
    • Moisturizer for face (Currently use CeraVe but am more than open to getting alternative!)
    • SPF30 sunscreen on face and body (EltaMD Sunscreen, although the price is steep if I wanna use that on full exposed body,,,)
  • NIGHT (all for face)

    • Skin Cleanser
    • Exfoliating Toner
    • Oil Free Serum
    • Moisturizer
  • I also want to look into shaving cream/aftershave to use during/after shower shaving. I've researched that very little!

This is what my research has led me to! I would probably add one or two things slowly over time as to not irritate and overstimulate my skin because I'm a smart fox!(surely...) Is it wrong? Is it silly? Probably! But I'm eager to learn and curious where to improve :3

Please please please tell this silly wannabe femboy where he's going wrong and what he should research or learn! Where am I going wrong?!?!?!?! Is there something I'm missing? Something I don't need? Something unrelated to the list that I should do or get?

If you have any questions I will answer anything as well! I will also likely make a follow up post of this when I start to implement some stuff/research further.

Okay that's alll, love u all :3


r/feminineboys 5h ago

I think there's someone who genuinely thinks I'm a girl...

6 Upvotes

So I've just started posting on tumblr as well as here, and someone's been reblogging my posts. However, all of their other reblogs are of women. All of my posts are tagged crossdressing, so do they not realise I'm a dude? Just something funny.


r/feminineboys 9h ago

Advice Copy and paste from another post I have no Karma 😭

7 Upvotes

So I’ll start of by saying I’m a straight male, 5’6 weighing roughly 120, and I’m using a possible throwaway/burner account.

I’ve never been into the whole femboy scene or any of that but recently, I’ve had a slight curiosity because on my main account. I’ve had other femboys message me, asking if I was into it. according to them I have the “typical fem” body type. I have hyper metabolism so I can’t gain weight no matter how much I eat. I have a really thin waist that gives an hourglass figure, and I skate board so my glutes, and especially my thighs are a little thicker.

My gf and me are very open, and I’ve worn fem cloths for her before since its what she’s into. lately I’ve noticed I kind of like it, and have thought of possibly having an alt account, kinda like a second “personality” posting as a femboy.

Is there any straight males who have had the same experience, and any positives of posting their fem content during their alone time. PS: sorry for the long read/ramble

TL:DR: Girlfriend turned me into a femboy in my alone time, looking for advice on posting as a femboy on their private time.


r/feminineboys 11h ago

Discussion Self Discovery

7 Upvotes

Hi. A few years ago I thought to myself that I was tired of being masculine. I just kinda put that thought to the back of my mind to not think about it, but it just kept on returning. Eventually I discovered what Femboys were and I really liked the idea of it, but decided against it because I thought that I wasn't feminine enough after years of weightlifting, so I just filed that thought away as well.

Recently I've decided to stop pushing those thoughts away and decided I wanted to try it out. So I talked to my Partner about it and they were 100% accepting about it and wanted to support me. So we got a dress, fishnet stocking, and a chocker for me to try out, and I loved it.

I want to continue being a femboy but I also like the idea of building muscle and powerlifting. I know powerlifting and being a Femboy isn't a one or the other thing so I just plan on doing both, even though I'll probably be a bit bulky.

Does anyone else have any advice on combining the two? Or maybe know an example of someone that is a Femboy powerlifter?

P.S. I found this community recently and it has definitely helped me come around to the idea of being a femboy. I just love how everyone that I noticed so far has been really kind and actually supportive of each other, so I just wanted to say thank you.


r/feminineboys 14h ago

Support I am restless

7 Upvotes

29, Just came here to vent a little so be supportive 🥲.
Haven’t got the chance to dress in a while (like almost a year ) due to personal reasons..
And the urge is killing me and consuming me.
Its all i can think about, i see women in the streets and just think how can i be her and how the fit would sit on
me, i go to work and scroll online shopping sites dreaming of buying something, i come home and its all i do i waste hourssss on subreddits and sites.
Do any of you guys had long stretches without being able to show your feminine side ? How did you cope ?


r/feminineboys 7h ago

Discussion Sports

5 Upvotes

Do any of y’all play any sports, if so, which sport(s). I play football and throwing for track and field


r/feminineboys 12h ago

Some quick disconnected questions I wanna ask

5 Upvotes

How do I apply black nail paint? Can I remove it quickly before my parents come home or does it stay a long time?

Will people judge me for wearing those cool band shits if I don't listen to the band? I liked the designs on em and I saw some stuff online of people interviewing people with band shirts and judge them if they don't know the song names and call them a poser

For working out my main goal is to lose tummy fat, and get super good at hugging (/ref /j) ,but now Ive come across creatine and asking myself if I should it? I heard it's safe but I'm still skeptical about taking external vitamin powders, +I don't really care about getting big arms or nothin


r/feminineboys 17h ago

Advice New closeted femboy here, couple questions

4 Upvotes
  1. How do I get feminine clothes without anyone knowing. I have access to a Kmart, but I can’t hide stuff in my school bag. I’m willing to do some homemade stuff. That would make it easier to hide…

  2. I’m a gym nut. Protein protein protein. But because of that I have an extremely masculine build. How could I… change that? I don’t really want to lose my muscles, but weight loss is in the question. I could also go harder on certain exercised. Any help with this one would be great!

  3. I have multiple friends who would stop talking to me, and a few that just… don’t understand lgbtq? This is stopping me from coming out, also family is supportive of this stuff they just… don’t “feel” supportive. (I mean my mom is bi, and I think my parents know I’m not straight even though I haven’t come out)

  4. Can I style a mullet into feminine hairstyle? I love my mullet.

Happy to provide any bonus info (within reason) if needed. Also if I don’t respond don’t worry I’ve just turned of notifications for this post.


r/feminineboys 14h ago

Heya guys, need advice for my physique

3 Upvotes

soooo I’ve been training my legs and my hip for like 3 months, but I've only seen a little growth in my thighs, I have muscle, but not the enough fat cause I’m way too skinny, I was wondering if any of you could tell me which food can help me with my situation, hope u have a great dayyyy ^^


r/feminineboys 15h ago

Maling breast forms more realistic

3 Upvotes

Im on the skinnier side (under bust is 26”) so I can’t find a breast plate that doesn’t look baggy on me but i still don’t like the edges on silicone breast forms. How have yall made breast forms look more seamless/realistic even on low cut tops/topless


r/feminineboys 16h ago

Discussion Kuriose Geschichte😩

3 Upvotes

Ich bin heute nach dem Arbeiten nach Hause gekommen ,und meine Mutter hat obwohl ich 20 bin einfach mein Zimmer komplett durchsucht bzw. Rucksäcke aus den Schränken genommen reingeschaut,Schubladen, Flaschen die ich noch da hatte alle zusammen gestellt usw.
Jetzt der Knackpunkt genau in dem Schrank wo meine Femboy-Klamotten sind ist nichts angerührt sowohl die ersten Abteile auch als ganz unten wo viele kleine Amazon packete sind wo sich die Kleidung befindet
Und ich bin 100% dass die packete so letztes Mal schief lagen wie jetzt,darher gehe ich davon aus dass ich sehr sehr viel Glück hatte.
Sonst ist mein normaler Kleiderschrank auch unangefasst.
Was meint ihr dazu?


r/feminineboys 21h ago

Discussion Straight guy from an extremely conservative background, femboys/trans girls have me confused and I need perspective

1 Upvotes

Throwaway for obvious reasons. I'm from an extremely conservative environment (like, extremely) and I'm trying to figure out my feelings.

I've always considered myself straight. I'm fully into girls - that's never been in question. I've had some confusing almost-relationships with girls that didn't work out, but my attraction to women is 100% there.

But here's where it gets messy. I discovered Lily Lankska and Dinapoison online (if you know, you know). These two look so feminine - honestly, better than some girls out there IMO. And something clicked. I realized I'm kinda into femboys and trans girls too, specifically when they're super feminine. I feel really dominant in that dynamic and it just... works for me mentally.

I was never anti-LGBTQ or hostile. I just never really thought about it or engaged with it. But after seeing some stuff and actually paying attention, I kinda dig feminine-presenting people regardless of what's in their pants. The femininity and submission aspect is what does it for me.

But I can't see myself ever fully committing to a masculine guy. It's specifically the feminine ones. And I still want a girlfriend/wife eventually. So am I just a straight dude with a specific type? Am I bi? Gynosexual? Finsexual? I saw that term somewhere.

I guess my question is: can I still identify as straight if I'm only into feminine-presenting people (girls, femboys, trans girls) and not masculine men at all? Or is that just denial? Has anyone else here been through this, especially coming from a conservative background? ALSO I WILL BE MOVING TO GERMANY NEAR HAMBURG AREA WAT ARE SOME GOOD ADVICE TO EXPLOR THE COMMUNITY AND APPS IG?

Sorry if this is rambling. My brain is fried trying to figure this out.


r/feminineboys 22h ago

Support How to make skirt poof out

3 Upvotes

I have multiple skirt and they all sit flat, I want them to poof out a bit, and how do girls roll them up whenever I do it it’s ugly,
Ribbit


r/feminineboys 2h ago

Finally did it

2 Upvotes

I’ve been wanting to go and buy some more basic stuff like some oversized tees and different types of booty shorts and I finally did. Along with some comfy thigh highs. I’m hiding from my roommates in my bedroom but I feel so cute and comfy wearing them. I’m bummed I waited so long I would’ve really pulled these off three years ago.