I'm just gonna tag this as a vent because I don't know what else it could be considered.
So, I was banned from a Fictkin discord server, for "transphobia" and they got me banned in two others as well. So, a bit of context, I had posted something that someone had said, about how all cis people should just not exist (at the time I was a cis male myself). To which almost everyone started making "jokes" about how everyone should be trans.
I tried to explain how even if it's a joke, it's not okay to say that everyone should just be this one group of people. It would be the same as if a cis person said all trans people should be cis. Neither one is okay to say.
Then they said that they want to make the entire world trans. To this I said: "Well just let me be a computer" because I'm a Robotkin (and now Robogender because of this incident). And they said "you'd be forced to be a trans computer" to which I responded (and I know that it could be seen as insensitive especially without context): "Well then fry my circuits and burn my CPU".
They all then started to go off on me for saying I'd "rather be dead than be trans" which wasn't my goal in saying what I said at all. I tried to explain to them that me wanting to be a computer was so I wouldn't have to be forced into a gender I don't want to be. But they didn't care and didn't listen.
They then banned me immediately after saying they weren't going to ban me. And have gotten me banned in two other Fictkin servers. It is because of this incident that I no longer identify as a cis male, or male at all, because I genuinely started to fear for my safety and friendships.
Ultimately, it went from a simple me trying to say that nobody should force anything onto anyone. To them calling me transphobic for a comment that, I admit could be insensitive without context. To them getting me banned from two other servers as well, and having me change my identity as a whole.