I was going to ask r/etsy but I wasnt too sure, and I was wondering if there are any other reddits I can post in aswell?

I don't want to ask AI's "opinion."

Hi, I’m looking for a subreddit where I can ask a question regarding a disruption regarding my mother in law, sister and law and husband.

Hi everyone! I'd like to hear your perspectives as men.

I've been with my kids' father since I was 13. At 15, because of problems with his family, he moved in with mine (he was 18), and after we got caught in the act by mom, who naively trusted us to be celibate, we got engaged when I turned 16. I got pregnant at 17 and had our first daughter just shy of 18. Today is actually my daughter's 17th birthday, and I'm reflecting back on all these years of motherhood and dealing with him. I got pregnant again, just six months after I gave birth. I was on birth control pills, so I'm not sure what happened then. By 19, I had two babies, and we moved out to our own place. We had fights, and he would leave and come back after a while. I was too young to realize he would cause the fights to go get drunk and do drugs, and normally felt bad because I was the one who yelled and lost my shit. Finally, after I'd had enough, I moved back in with my mom and took care of my two kids on my own. He never paid child support; I worked and went to school part-time, so I wouldn't miss too much time away from the kids. I never kept them from him unless he was actively using, so he was in and out of their lives. I allowed him to spend the night from time to time and go on vacations with us, where I had already paid for everything. I'd lent him money when he needed. This went on for about 7 years, and during this time I didn't have any relationships and hardly went out because I was devoted to the kids. At 28, my mom passed after a short battle with cancer, and after the funeral, he offered to stay over and take care of my younger sister and me and the kids. He was really nice, took care of the kids, and cooked for us while we grieved and adjusted to the emptiness we felt. He would always ask for sex, and I finally agreed. We did it one time; it lasted less than 5 minutes, and a month later I found out I was pregnant. I did not want to keep the baby; I wished to miscarry or have something happen because I was so sad and scared to be tied to this man who was never there for my older two and was still in addiction. We kept the baby, and he was the biggest jerk during the pregnancy and postpartum. He would continue to leave and get high, wasn't there for her first birthday, etc. I went through severe Postpartum Depression, and I 1000% feel it had a lot to do with him (at one point I was so bad I couldn't sleep for days and couldn't stop crying; I felt so bad I had thoughts of Sui**de. He was asleep, and I woke him because I needed someone so much in that moment, and he told me to go do it already and leave him the F alone). It also happened during the pandemic, so I was not working, which was a huge change, grieving my mom, dealing with him, and nursing my most difficult baby. I would spend my own money (my mom left the kids and me money from her life insurance, and I used my credit cards. When I ran out of money, he did not want to help me pay them, so I ruined my credit and have slowly brought it back. He finally got sober, and I felt so happy, feeling like my prayers had been answered. I was truly in love with him again. I treated him like a KING. Not exaggerating. Home-cooked meals ready when he got home, ironed clothes laid out, packed lunch, took care of everything essentially.

Fast forward to now, I manage everything. I work part-time from home and once a week outside of my home, take care of the bills, finances, planning anything and everything, cars, kids. We had another baby, and she just turned 3. I'm going to be starting a second job 30hrs a week where I used to work before my mom passed away.

I'm 34 now, and he's 37. We have s*x mostly when I initiate, sometimes beg for it. He won't let me give him oral, which is such a turn on for me, and I really, really enjoy doing it. I've tried to tell him in so many different ways how much I am starving for affection and connection. He doesn't kiss me; if I kiss him and want to make out, he'll push me away. I beg him to hug me for at least 5 mins, and he does it like a chore. I love to touch him, caress him, and massage him because I'm a very affectionate person. He sleeps in the living room because I bug him, and he doesn't want to wake me. He works from 3-1ish, so long hours, and gets home, eats, stays stuck on his phone, and then goes to sleep. Everyday. On his day off, he also rests but does take the kids to school and picks them up; sometimes helps cook, and doesn't take care of anything else. We don't talk, and when we do, I upset him, or he's completely checked out.

Over the past year, I made a really good friend at work; he's a gay man who just turned 40. From the first conversation, we just clicked, and I figured since he's gay, it's ok for me to be friends and talk to him all the time. I ended up falling for him; obviously, it's not reciprocated since he likes men, but the feelings he awoke in me felt nice. My man started to act jealous when we started going for drinks at gay bars after work and has broken up with me over it, but has not moved out. I'm indifferent about it; honestly, it does hurt because of the kids. I remember how my older ones missed him, and imagining the little ones going through it breaks my heart. I am also sad that I am older with two more kids and am aware dating isn't in the cards for me, as I have never wanted to give my kids a stepdad due to my own traumas. We had a conversation yesterday about when he moves out, and he basically said that he will fight for half custody so he doesn't have to pay any child support and wants to be involved this time around. I don't know what to do; I can't imagine being away from my kids, especially the younger two (3,6). My older two (15 & 17) tell me it's ok to leave him, as it's obvious to them we are not compatible. My sister also chimes in that, financially and in this economy, one paycheck doesn't cut it for a family this big. (I manage both our incomes, and he's very laidback on my spending. I buy everything he needs, so he hardly spends on his own, and as long as we have money, he lets me buy the girls whatever, or we go on little trips I plan. I'm confused and scared. His coldness and constant rejection affect me. I'm on antidepressants and sleep medication. I feel like a weight will lift when he leaves, but I'm also scared of making the wrong choice for my family.

He doesn't want to leave, says he loves me and I'm his favorite person but he feels the drugs messed up his brain and he doesn't know how to connect or do what I need. He says I'm being selfish because I want to go to gay bars and hang with my gay friends. I do think he might be depressed, but he refuses to seek therapy or meds.

He ruined Thanksgiving and Christmas last year by fighting with me, sleeping, and not being present even though we rented a cabin. Feeling nervous about these holidays.

Can we fix this? I know I'm capable of choosing him again, loving him, because when he breadcrumbs, I feel that happiness and completeness. What should I do?

Looking for subreddits that can advise on necessary tasks after a parent dies.

Idk my accounts locked i have both phone number and email for verfication i just dont know my password and my accounts always give some error before locking me out for a week this has been happening for a month idk where to ask for help cuz all i can find are posts related to outlook or xbox consoles i have neither just a normal minecraft account, micrsoft got no email or direct contact services fuck that company man.

Bascially where can i ask help regarding this issue or reddit.

Maybe Reddit isn’t the place but I’m feeling a lil’ desperate and risking to sound really silly… But is there a subreddit specifically for christian conservative moms that are also on the nerdy side? Like I want to be able to talk about a cool apologetics podcast one day, share the funny stories we encounter in our daily life with raising toddlers, nerd out over whatever video game you’re into the next, then share stupid random memes? 😂 I feel like this is maybe way too specific but I feel like there’s gotta be another human out there like me

Is there a subreddit where everyone is supportive all the time and actually provide constructive feedback?

Looking for a community centered around organizing but also DECLUTTERING my home. I've seen a lot of "organizing" that is really just hoarding and stacking metric tons of garbage in an aesthetic fashion. I want to reorganize our living space in a way the promotes simple, anticonsumerist living. But I don't want to delve into the minimalist extreme where our mattress is hoisted up by wooden planks on the ground so as to not have a bulky bed frame. Bonus if child-friendly.

Need subreddits I can comments or post in to throw people off if they might think they found out it’s me.

My in-laws have gotten really into taking our family photos and tossing them into Gemini to generate those basic cartoon-ish portraits and my MIL recently even changed her profile photo to it.

As an artist myself (though not this kind of art), this really bothers and upsets me and I’d love to gently provide recommendations for actual human artists that they can commission if that’s the kind of art they want.

I’m doing research for my project and need to find records of a court case (all parties deceased).

I’m getting the run around and I need a subreddit for advice, regarding how to find court docket numbers from 1959.

I contacted the local archival group, and they told me they need the docket # and directed me to the superior court. I contacted said superior court and they told me they also need the docket number, so now I am at an impasse.

If you know à group that could point me in the right direction, it’s much appreciated!

Massachusetts, USA

I know it's a crazy concept but I need one or two mods for here and for discord and I'd like to know if there's a place where people volunteer for that

Ive been looking but havent found a specific subreddit for it. I want to make one with apples but can't find any recipes that don't have cinnamon, was hoping to find a subreddit to ask for people's recipes or suggestions

Any names?

I am looking for a subreddit/subreddits to post about the ex-Austrian politician and now entrepreneur of more than 10 companies with valuations of each more than a few billion USD.

I would also like to post about his right-wing community which helps him in his entrepreneurships.

hi! i'm looking for a sub that's centered on interior design that actually has a firm ban on genAI content. i've glanced at the several that come up on google, via reddit, etc, but it seems like none are what i'm looking for and i'd love to know if any exist. ty in advance if anybody has any!

I found an account, I'm thinking now of giving up because a suspicious pfp isn't enough to go off of; but I couldn't find any results when reverse image searching their pfp so I'm not entirely sure what to do. It's got blood in it though so I don't want to break any rules.

I was going to try relationship advice but they have rules against posts involving AI.

Hiya! Would be grateful for a place to share memes/irony about football without being constantly flagged/moderated etc. I mean we all know some subreddits are just a nightmares when it comes to free speech. Best for me now is r/soccercirclejerk but still sometimes I get some weird post deletion.

Need to find a subreddit to ask some questions about detonation engines. Something related to propulsion, rockets or ship engines

Good afternoon I was hoping if you guys can help me find a reddit where they can help me find how much these exclusive Star wars employee clothing they are worth