Just finished rewatching Game of Thrones, and I honestly cannot stand Sansa. For me, she is one of the most frustrating characters in the entire show, mainly because the series eventually tries to present her as some political genius when so many of her own decisions created problems for everyone around her.
1. Her obsession with Joffrey and becoming queen mattered from the start.
When Ned wanted to send her back to Winterfell because King’s Landing was becoming dangerous, Sansa was more worried about leaving Joffrey and losing her chance to become queen.
She eventually became a Lannister hostage, which gave them a huge advantage over the Starks.
2. Her captivity contributed to the Jaime disaster.
The Starks had Jaime, probably their most valuable prisoner. But because Sansa was still a hostage, Catelyn became desperate and released Jaime hoping to get her daughters back.
That decision weakened Robb, helped create the Karstark crisis, and became one more domino on the road to the Red Wedding.
I’m not saying Sansa caused the Red Wedding, but her being a hostage absolutely affected the decisions that weakened Robb.
3. She kept trusting Littlefinger over people who genuinely wanted to protect her.
Brienne offered to protect her because of her oath to Catelyn. Sansa refused and stayed with Littlefinger.
Littlefinger then took her straight into the Ramsay Bolton nightmare.
Obviously what Ramsay did was not her fault, but it makes the later idea that Sansa became some brilliant judge of character pretty funny.
4. The show acts like suffering automatically made her smarter than everyone else.
Yes, Sansa suffered terribly.
But so did Jon, Arya, Bran, Theon, Daenerys and basically everyone else.
Jon literally died. Arya watched her family get destroyed. Daenerys lost almost everyone she loved.
Yet somehow Sansa’s suffering becomes proof that she is now the smartest person in Westeros.
5. The Battle of the Bastards makes no sense from her side.
She knew Littlefinger and the Knights of the Vale could potentially help.
She secretly contacted him.
But she never told Jon.
Jon was desperately searching for more men and was badly outnumbered. Even if Sansa wasn’t sure the Vale would come, why not tell him they were a possibility?
Jon could have planned around them.
Instead, Jon and his men nearly got wiped out, then Sansa arrived with the Vale at the perfect moment and later reminded Arya that she was the reason they won.
6. She clearly wanted power in Winterfell.
When Jon was named King in the North, she didn’t exactly look thrilled.
Littlefinger had already been feeding her ideas about power and ruling Winterfell.
I’m not saying she wanted Jon dead, but she clearly wanted more authority than she had.
7. Jon understood that the White Walkers mattered more than Northern politics.
Jon risked everything to get Daenerys’s help.
And people forget that Daenerys agreed to fight the Night King before Jon bent the knee.
She lost Viserion saving Jon and his men, then promised to fight for the living.
Jon bent the knee afterward.
And honestly, Jon choosing survival over a crown made sense. Torrhen Stark literally did the same thing with Aegon.
8. Daenerys came North to save them, and Sansa treated her terribly.
Daenerys brought the Unsullied, Dothraki and dragons to fight a war that threatened the North first.
Sansa’s response was hostility, smug looks and arguments about independence.
There is a time to discuss politics.
Maybe wait until after the woman finishes risking her life to stop the dead from killing everyone in Winterfell.
9. Daenerys actually fought for Winterfell.
She fought on dragonback, fought on the ground, nearly died and lost Jorah.
Sansa stayed in the crypt because she wasn’t a fighter, which is completely fine.
But then maybe stop acting like the people outside risking their lives are all idiots.
10. Even after the battle, Sansa was still incredibly ungrateful to Daenerys.
Daenerys brought armies and dragons North, lost huge numbers of Dothraki and Unsullied, fought personally, and watched Jorah die protecting her.
Yet afterward, Sansa basically dismissed all of that with “Arya killed the Night King.”
Yes, Arya delivered the final blow. But she didn’t win that entire battle alone.
Ignoring everything Daenerys sacrificed just because Arya got the kill shows exactly how unwilling Sansa was to give her any credit.
11. Jon trusted Sansa with his secret, and she immediately broke that trust.
Jon made Sansa and Arya swear not to tell anyone about his parentage.
Sansa told Tyrion almost immediately.
Tyrion told Varys.
Varys started plotting to replace Daenerys with Jon.
That is exactly what Daenerys feared would happen.
12. Sansa didn’t cause Daenerys’s downfall, but she absolutely helped destabilize her.
Sansa revealed Jon’s identity knowing exactly what it could do politically.
Then Varys turned against Daenerys, Jon and Daenerys’s relationship broke down, and Daenerys increasingly felt betrayed and isolated.
Add Jorah’s death, Rhaegal’s death and Missandei’s execution, and everything started collapsing around her.
That does NOT excuse Daenerys burning King’s Landing.
But Sansa absolutely helped plant the political seed that made things worse.
13. And somehow Sansa benefits more than almost anyone.
Ned dies.
Robb dies.
Catelyn dies.
Rickon dies.
Daenerys dies.
Jon saves everyone multiple times and ends up back at the Wall.
King’s Landing gets destroyed.
Bran somehow becomes King of the Six Kingdoms.
And Sansa?
She gets her own kingdom and becomes Queen in the North.
The girl who started the story dreaming about becoming queen somehow ends the story with a crown while almost everyone around her loses everything.
And don’t even get me started on Bran.
Because after rewatching the show, Bran and Sansa somehow look like the two people who benefited the most from everyone else destroying each other.
Bran gets six kingdoms.
Sansa gets the North.
Jon gets exile.
Daenerys gets a knife in the heart.
Tell me again who actually won the Game of Thrones.