Hello. I’m a guy looking to meet another guy to chat with, get to know each other, and hopefully build a long-term, serious connection. I know what I’m looking for, and I’m hoping you do too.

I’m originally from Mexico but currently living in the U.S. I’m 26 and, like many people at this stage of life, I’m figuring things out and building the life I want. It can feel a little lonely sometimes, but I have plenty of dreams, goals, and things I’m working toward.

I currently work part-time at a job I genuinely enjoy, and I recently finished two internships. I’m academically and professionally ambitious, and I’m looking for someone who has that same drive and wants to build something meaningful for themselves.

A little about me: I love reading, writing, listening to music, and going for walks. I also care a lot about taking care of myself, both physically and mentally. I go to the gym, have a skincare routine, try to eat well, and meditate. I value a healthy lifestyle and a healthy mindset.

Ideally, I’d like to meet a masculine guy around my age who is also ambitious, goal-oriented, and takes care of himself. I’m a pretty normal guy with softer facial features and personality traits, but I’m not that feminine.

I’m open to long-distance if there’s a genuine connection and, importantly, an actual plan to eventually meet. I’m not interested in significantly older or younger guys; I’d prefer someone around my age.

I’m also here for genuine conversation and getting to know someone, not just exchanging hi's and disappearing.

If you made it this far, send me a 🌮 taco emoji and a little introduction about yourself so I know you actually read my post. Tell me a bit about who you are, what you’re looking for, and what you’re passionate about.

I’ll always put effort into a conversation, so I hope you will too. Good vibes, genuine intentions, and let’s see where it goes. 😄

Hey Everyone,

I'm trying my luck here to find love and companionship. I'm living in New Delhi, India and I am up with long distance as well. I believe everything can be made possible if two people want to be with each other.

Professionally, I am a post graduate in Development Studies and planning to start my PhD in Public Policy. Also, I am building a non profit around mental health.

I don't have much to write here but I would love to connect and talk. My DMs are open. Thank you.

Hey. I’m 28 from Malaysia. Standing tall at 163cm lol, weighing at 47kg. Kinda slim here. I’d love to meet a white/arab/indian/desi in Malaysia to explore possibilities with.

Some things that I like to do: Jogging, watching movies, listening to songs, reading and doing photography (Oh, I’m still bad at it!). I’m currently learning to swim. So it has been fun.

Also, I’m a bottom who really loves to show affection 😋🩷

DM me if you’re interested

Hi my name is Hugo, I'm looking for an online or in person serious relationship preferably with someone older than me around 24-40 | love to hike and fish but I'm also a pretty avid gamer, 1 play a little bit of everything, I also love movies mainly trilogy's and some shows just depends. I’m overall a pretty open person 🙃

I’m looking for a real relationship with a kind, emotionally available guy who genuinely likes closeness, consistency, and staying in touch. I’m looking for lean/skinny guys (18-28) and masculine energy.

I like connections where you naturally talk every day, randomly update each other, call for hours without noticing, and slowly become part of each other’s life instead of just “talking.”

I think there are bonds that survive even time itself. I want the kind of connection people write novels about. I want the kind of love that makes ordinary days feel extraordinary.

I’m not really into ghosting, mixed signals, or people who treat online dating like temporary entertainment.

I read a lot, love music, write love letters, and can somehow go from being extremely romantic to sending you twelve messages about something completely unimportant because I got excited.

If you want something affectionate, loyal, and genuinely meaningful, message me.

Hello all, as the title says m23 London here looking for long term chatting and relationship with a guy. Would be great to get to know someone and chat about anything we like, with the intention of a full relationship. It’s worth stating that this means we would have to be committed to texting fairly consistently and open to talk as this would be our main form of communication until other plans. Don’t have to be in the United kingdom and I don’t mind any height, weight, body type etc. As for myself I am 5ft7 and asian here with slim but not super athletic physique. I would prefer either around my age or older guys. (Vers here but would prefer bottom for older)

In terms of hobbies I like to play games a lot (Primarily PS5 but also a bit of pc, would love to join each other if you do too but not necessary!) as well as drawing and practice a bit of archery too. DMs open tell me a bit about yourself and let’s chat!

Hey there! :)

I'm a 24 year old trans man from Moscow, looking to meet someone I can genuinely connect with and, hopefully, build something romantic with.

I moved out of a shared place a month ago after a falling out with the friends I used to live with, so now I'm on my own for the first time – currently learning how to live in solitude without it being lonely (which is an experience). I'm enjoying it, but this change also made me realize that I'm ready to make room for someone special in my life and actually give dating a shot.

About me:
I'm a bit of a jack-of-all-trades when it comes to my interests. I've dabbled in many activities over the years, so yes, basically I'm that kind of a guy, who's into all sorts of things – from 3D printing to baking :ъ
My main interests, though, are creative writing, gaming and urban hiking. I love art in all its forms and been particularly into fantasy/medieval stuff lately – Tolkien, George R. R. Martin, D&D. I've also been meaning to get back to drawing and reading, but work has been kicking me lately, so my main hobby for now is occasionally lying down and resting from existing.

I've been on T for a while now and have a pretty clear idea of where I'm headed, so I'm quite comfortable with who I am as a trans man.
My experience with sexuality is a little different, though. I've only relatively recently came to terms with being gay, and while I've had some experience with men, I've had very little experience actually dating them. So I'm probably going to be a bit inexperienced and occasionally awkward – but I'm genuinely excited to experience this side of my life with the right person.

Who I'm looking for:
I'm generally attracted to men who present themselves in fairly masculine way and I do have a soft spot for older men, but I don't really have a strict age range in mind. You can be just three years older than me or twenty, if you're my guy, you're my guy :D

Beyond that, I'm much more interested in the person than in a shopping list. We might be completely different people, but I'd like someone mature yet still curious about life, honest and thoughtful, who can both ask questions and share about themselves. I want someone to talk to about daily things and big ones. I'm especially fond of conversations that start from discussing weather and spiral into venting about urban planning atrocities of a particular city and its quality of life implications.
And I'm happy initiating conversations, asking questions or keeping things going, especially if you're a little shy. I only struggle when the interest feels consistently one-sided.

Things I'd love to do together:
I'd love to exchange photos of our everyday lives, send voice messages, watch movies together, play games, or maybe even D&D if that's your thing. I'd also really like to do voice/video calls once we're comfortable with each other and our schedules align. Fair warning: I haven't had the opportunity to use my spoken English in what feels like FOREVER, so it may be quite rusty and accented, thus, please, bear with me :')

Dating/Relationship:
I'd like dating to actually feel like getting to know someone with romantic possibility in mind – talking regularly, flirting, teasing each other, sharing little pieces of our lives, spending quality time together, and going on virtual (or real, if possible) dates. Basically, gradually finding out whether there's chemistry and whether we make each other happy.
I'm not expecting either of us to know from the beginning exactly where this will lead. I'd rather get to know each other first, be honest about how we're feeling as things develop, and figure out together what we want. If that eventually turns into a serious relationship, I'd be very happy about that!

As for the long distance: I'm very open to it – realistically, that's probably what I'll have to work with for now, since I'm somewhat tied to my home country while I'm sorting some things out. I'm also hoping to move to Spain eventually, so my long-term location is a little uncertain anyway. And hey, it doesn't necessarily mean the distance has to stay long forever :) We'll figure it out.

So... if any of this resonates, send me a message! Tell me about yourself – your age, where you're from, what are you into. Or, if you're not sure how to start, tell me about your favourite kind of light – is it the golden hour one? Or maybe the one before rain comes? Something else entirely? Let me know! <3

P.S. I'd appreciate exchanging face pics if you decide to message me. No need for anything fancy – I'm just curious who I'm talking to :)

Hello there, I’m Jake! I just stumbled across this subreddit and am now on a whim posting.

I’m twenty-one years old and searching for someone close to my age and masculine (I’m sorry it’s the only think I’m into idk why), I’m about 6’3, like to think I’m a pretty nice guy, and would like to find a special someone 😁

I’ve never had a bf before because I live in a very intolerant part of Texas lol. I very new to being out so bear with me 😊

I’m currently attending college full time as a pre med major! I like to play video games, but I like to collect every achievement for some reason lol. I also like to collect figures and chill with friends. Don’t hesitate to say hi!

Hey, I’m Chris!

I’m a Clemson grad and new-ish to North Carolina. I love the gym and would love someone to train with!

Big into movies/film and love to go to the theaters when I can. Also a bit of a gaymer and quite great at Mario kart :) but can also get sweaty on COD lol

I’m working toward my civil engineering licensure currently, with the hope to achieve my PE in about 2 years - I currently work at an engineering firm. This also means I love math and science haha

Struggling to really find much locally, so giving this a shot. I really would like the chance to get to know someone genuinely.

I’m 6’6 too if that helps! Very much a gentle giant type :)

Love the outdoors and getting into jogging/running recently

Hey there :)
I’m 35, and from the south of England.
I’m 5’10”, average build - I’m not winning any body building competitions… think “dad bod.” I’m a work in progress, slowly but surely!

I work in the marine industry, and have an established and stable career, something I’ve worked towards for the last 20 years (which makes me sound and feel very old!)
I’m a cat dad too! Had them for 9 years and they very much own the place. They’re more like my landlords tbh.

I’m a bit of a nerd - I love sci-fi, fantasy and fiction. I’m into Star Trek, Star Wars, Stargate (all of the Star ones lol). Also into historical wartime fact and fiction.

I enjoy fixing cars too, although this is a hobby rather than anything else. I do it because I enjoy it, and it’s something to help me unwind.
I also enjoy crafting - making things like notebooks, clothing repairs, or bags etc :)

I enjoy growing things - mostly fruits and veg, and then cooking too. I like to experiment with new things. Asian or Indian food is my favourite, but you can never go wrong with a good pizza!

I love swimming, boating and sailing - could spend all day in/on the water :). But… deep water freaks me out quite a bit! Who knows what’s lurking beneath you…

Family is super important to me, and I’m very close with mine. I make effort to see family whenever I possibly can, and have a great bond with them.

I’ve watched The Office more times than I care to admit! Also a huge Brooklyn 99 fan, and Parks & Rec! I definitely relate to Ron Swanson… he’s my idol.

I’m a pretty simple guy… low maintenance and very easily pleased, it doesn’t take much to make me happy!

Who I’m looking for:
In all honesty, I don’t have a “type”. I prefer a personality and a vibe.
I don’t mind what your location is, what your race, religion, background, or culture is - if we vibe well then that’s what counts.
But I’m looking for a relationship, and something genuine :) so let’s do that!

Give me a short introduction and let’s go from there

I live in southeast Kansas on the Kansas Oklahoma border an hour from Tulsa . I am open to long distance providing we both are willing to work together to where it isn't long distance forever. Your man isn't always in your back yard unfortunately . I love animals and I have alot of animals, dogs cats and chickens . I have always had alot of animals so a animal lover and someone who isn't allergic is a must . I enjoy slow dancing I love R&B romantic nights out or at home. Im into cars and gardening . I work full time and own my own home . I love road trips , late night movies and volunteering at animal shelters. If any of this sounds good please reach out . I do prefer talking versus texting. Goodluck to everyone

Single chubby gay guy, 5'11, 233 lbs, looking for a relationship.

I'm actively working on getting back into shape.  
I currently work the night shift as a Maintenance guy, a job that I enjoy.

I'm not in school/college, as it has not been for me, although I have graduated high school.

I love to play video games (Resident Evil is my favorite series). I have interests in psychology, philosophy, nutrition, food science, biology, art, and a lot more.

I don't smoke.  
I drink only once in a blue moon.  
I'm not religious, and prefer someone who isn't as well.  
Politically speaking, I'm much on the left.  
I don't have nor want kids.  
I love cats and dogs, but I'm more of a cat person.  
I am only monogamous.

I'm a simple man who wants simple things.

I value honesty, respect, clear communication, and consistency.

Relationship wise, I want a man (preferably gay) that's sure of himself, knows what he wants and has similar values and morals. A man's character and integrity is more important to me than anything.

My preferred age range is from 27-55.

I like men of all shapes, sizes, and races, but men of substance will always get my attention.

I don't want to meet up with anyone right now and I don't give out my personal contact details to someone I don't know well.

Don't be afraid to reach out if you think we're a match!

However, when you do, please mention something about yourself, where you're from, and things that are correspondent to my post. Apologies ahead of time, but I won't reply to anyone who doesn't. 

And please do send a face pic or two, when I accept the chat, so I know who I'm communicating with. 

Thank you for visiting and reading until the end!

hello !! let’s chat, talk about our interests, our lives, and just get to know each other in general !! 😊

i’m 18, from cambodia, looking for relationship (distance or not)

i’m on the chubby side (hope that’s okay with you lol), and i’m fine with any ages (that’s older than me)

i’m currently working and studying university right now but I’ll still make time for you if we clicked 🥺

I prefer someone who likes to “lead” in a relationship

it would be really nice to have someone interested🫶

and please be sure you are looking for a relationship. i don’t want someone who just wants “casual friendship”.

DM me if you’re interested !!

FYI : I don’t want any sexual relationships. 😑

My work/life balance is balanced, my exercise routine is almost consistent, and my social circle is solid. All I'm missing is someone to skip the small talk with and dive straight into the "we’ve known each other for years" energy. If you have a hobby, open with something about it. If you're interested in it, so am I!

About me: A nerdy guy who actually has it figured out. I have lots of hobbies, games of the board nature, some of the video persuasion, but I also do art and writing. I do enjoy the outside, especially during the winter.

About you: You’re passionate about your own thing. Whether it’s your career, a niche hobby, or a specific craft, I love people who love things. Ideally, you’re around my age and based in the South of England.

Let’s grab some tea (or a coffee) and see if we click.

Hey! I'm just looking for a guy with whom I can vibe with and to whom I can love. We all deserve to be loved and have a nice life partner and so here I am taking my chances. Love doesn't see anything, doesn't judge, it only cares about other person and I hope I find someone who I can care for and who will do the same. I don't know if this matters but im a pretty short guy 5'0" so yeah just keep that in mind if you're comfortable dating a short guy lol.

Thank you, wishing you all the best.

Hello everyone! My name is Robin and I've been single my whole life and I would like to change that. I'm looking for a romantic relationship (long distance is acceptable) with a person who is kind, open minded and who is ready for the long haul. He are some things about:

○ I'm a gamer who spends most of his time playing overwatch or rpgs. When I'm not playing you can probably see me watching some youtube vids.

○ I'm a radical leftist, if you think that may be an issue for you then I completely understand, but I won't change my world views for anyone.

○ I love kpop but recently I've been trying to get back more into the EDM space, so any recs are really appreciated.

○ I want to get married and have kids, so please take that into consideration if you're thinking of getting in touch with me.

○ I'm looking to start again my fitness and weight loss journey (dropped it earlier this year) so I would love to have someone with whom I can share my progress with ❤️

And I think that is all, I'm sure the person of my dreams is out there and I hope that person can be you. If you've liked what you've read so far, drop a dm without a doubt. I'll answer as soon as I can :) see you all around.

​Hey there! I’m Kevin, a 26 year old guy living in Sweden. I’m currently studying assistant nursing, which is a fancy way of saying I genuinely care about people (and can probably patch you up if you trip).

​I’m a solid mix of indoor cozy and outdoor active. My weeks usually involve a bit of gaming, swimming, hiking and baking. I also just started hitting the gym, so I'm in my "learning what all these machines actually do" era

A little about me:

​I’m a romantic at heart who thrives on honesty and open communication. Friends like to tell me I should try stand-up comedy. I can't promise a full Netflix special, but I will definitely keep you laughing and I'm 170 cm of pure good intentions.

What I’m looking for:

I’m looking for a serious relationship with a masculine guy (aged 22-32) living in Europe. Ideally, you’re someone who values consistency, no mind games or disappearing acts, I want real communication. Since I'm working on my fitness goals, a guy who loves the gym would be amazing so we can motivate each other. Being taller than me is a huge plus, but my main priority is finding someone genuine who is excited to meet up and see where things go

Feel free to dm

Looking for a long term relationship, preferably with someone I can connect with in terms of mutual interests and attraction. I value emotional intelligence and communication, yet I have a reserved personality. I speak Turkish, English and French. Have lived in Paris for 4 years, hence I can say I like discovering new cultures and meeting new people. I also like animals, art, history, literature and travelling.

In all honesty, I haven't had much luck in love lately, and had a pretty bad relationship that ended with me being cheated on. Since then I became somewhat cynical about love but I think I'm finally ready to put myself out there.

About me: I'm 6 foot 1 and around 170ish pounds. I'm from the Midwestern US and spent my early years living on a farm with my family. besides the farm work, I loved climbing trees, swimming, and helping out in the garden.

it was a lot of fun being outside around 75 percent of the time, It kick-started my love for the outdoors, I have never been fishing or hunting though. Other than outdoor activities, I enjoy working with/tinkering with electronics (took things apart a lot when I was a kid), learning history, reading, working on cars a little, and I just go into playing magic the gathering. I have lots of hyper fixations (probably because of my autism) and find other men who are passionate about "nerdy" things to be attractive.

My type is pretty much 20s to 30s, funny, and a teeny bit obnoxious lol, kind of like a best friend's older brother type...just don't tease me too much or beat me at Mario Kart. don't really care much about country or distance so don't hesitate to reach out no matter what walk of life you may come from. I really like the strong/silent type or men who are stoic with others but open with me. Also, I come from a military family (grandparents and uncles) so if u want to impress my folks, that's the most likely way to do it lol

I'm very serious when it comes to relationships, so really just looking for someone who'll give a damn about me and would want to get to know each other.

That's pretty much it, thanks for reading

I’m a 24yo gay guy from Ecuador looking for a long distance relationship with an older man. Though I of course would prefer to find someone locally, I haven’t had that much luck in that department, so I figured why not try and look for something online.

About me

I’m a somewhat introverted guy who enjoys going out with friends for chill plans like trying out new restaurants or bars (not really the party type). I also like to go to the movies, read, watch TV, and listen to new music. I recently started working a new job, so it’s been nice adapting to it.

Stats wise, I’m 5’11/180cm, 176lb/80kg, short hair, not a lot of body hair (I prefer to keep it trimmed anyway), and wear glasses. I don’t consider myself the most attractive person in the world lol.

About you

Ideally, you live in the Americas for time zone reasons, though I don’t mind speaking with men from Europe. You will have to be older than 35, and I would love to find a man who’s successful career-wise, so I could learn from you, as I start my professional career. Please have hobbies and take care of your body. And, most importantly, be respectful, funny, patient and kind.

I like tall men, and I love bald men with beards (not exclusively, of course). I just don’t like long hair to be honest.

What I’m looking for

So, if you read this far, I just want to find a man I can have a solid connection with. I want to be safe, and have someone who I know will be there for me despite the distance. I’d like to be the same for you.
Another thing, I love being the center of attention, so it’d be nice if you treat me as such :p. I am terrible a flirting, so don’t think I’m not interested if I’m unable to flirt back.

Also, I would like to keep the conversation as SFW as possible at the start because I want to get to know you well. By the way, I don’t mind sharing a face picture, I just don’t like doing it through Reddit.

I hope to hear from someone! Please put some effort in your initial message, so I can tell that you read my post completely.

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Hello you all,

I am a man from Germany who is looking for a guy and would enjoy a partner by his side

I studied, like cooking reading gaming some sports and I am interested in history and science

I am looking for a man who likes to lead in a relationship, who I can help thrive and who makes me feel like the only guy in the world.

I am more into character than optics. I am 6 ft white man.

I am open for any age mostly, the wavelength is what matters more to. Please put some effort in the first message ('hey how are you" are ignored) and hmu if you think we would match.

Dear future lover, it's good to meet you. I'm hoping to find someone to grow old with, laugh at my jokes, and maybe teach me a thing or two. Hoping to find a partner who thinks building a life together is the greatest adventure of all.

Some interests include reading, traveling, playing Minecraft or Animal Crossing, and spending too much time going down rabbit holes of research.

I’m looking for someone to be close to physically, so please be relatively near southern Germany / Bavaria / Munich. If you're far away, please be open to moving eventually, and perhaps we can visit in the meantime. I am okay with long distance in the short term.

Send me a message with an introduction if you're interested in speaking more. Looking forward to hearing from you!

Goooddd evening gents! Posted recently but didn’t have a picture of me so wanted to add that as well! I hope yall are doing well 🤭. I’m new to guys and still looking for my first real boyfriend. I made a point in 2026 to be the year I embrace who I am and finally start putting myself out there for the right man!

Bottom here!! 🌈

A little about me: I love being outdoors enjoying life! Love the beach, a good hike, relaxing in the sun 😊. Big sports fan, big nerd when it comes to history and geography!! Take me to either a history site or a game and I’ll be smitten 😊❤️

I know the right man for me is out there and I’m starting here 😁. Let’s get to know each other !! I’m looking forward to it handsome ❤️