r/gaydating 14h ago

25 | New Delhi, India | Looking for a Long-Term Relationship

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Hey Everyone,

I'm trying my luck here to find love and companionship. I'm living in New Delhi, India and I am up with long distance as well. I believe everything can be made possible if two people want to be with each other.

Professionally, I am a post graduate in Development Studies and planning to start my PhD in Public Policy. Also, I am building a non profit around mental health.

I don't have much to write here but I would love to connect and talk. My DMs are open. Thank you.


r/gaydating 16h ago

24 | Moscow, Russia | Looking to build something genuine and lasting, open to long distance

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Hey there! :)

I'm a 24 year old trans man from Moscow, looking to meet someone I can genuinely connect with and, hopefully, build something romantic with.

I moved out of a shared place a month ago after a falling out with the friends I used to live with, so now I'm on my own for the first time – currently learning how to live in solitude without it being lonely (which is an experience). I'm enjoying it, but this change also made me realize that I'm ready to make room for someone special in my life and actually give dating a shot.

About me:
I'm a bit of a jack-of-all-trades when it comes to my interests. I've dabbled in many activities over the years, so yes, basically I'm that kind of a guy, who's into all sorts of things – from 3D printing to baking :ъ
My main interests, though, are creative writing, gaming and urban hiking. I love art in all its forms and been particularly into fantasy/medieval stuff lately – Tolkien, George R. R. Martin, D&D. I've also been meaning to get back to drawing and reading, but work has been kicking me lately, so my main hobby for now is occasionally lying down and resting from existing.

I've been on T for a while now and have a pretty clear idea of where I'm headed, so I'm quite comfortable with who I am as a trans man.
My experience with sexuality is a little different, though. I've only relatively recently came to terms with being gay, and while I've had some experience with men, I've had very little experience actually dating them. So I'm probably going to be a bit inexperienced and occasionally awkward – but I'm genuinely excited to experience this side of my life with the right person.

Who I'm looking for:
I'm generally attracted to men who present themselves in fairly masculine way and I do have a soft spot for older men, but I don't really have a strict age range in mind. You can be just three years older than me or twenty, if you're my guy, you're my guy :D

Beyond that, I'm much more interested in the person than in a shopping list. We might be completely different people, but I'd like someone mature yet still curious about life, honest and thoughtful, who can both ask questions and share about themselves. I want someone to talk to about daily things and big ones. I'm especially fond of conversations that start from discussing weather and spiral into venting about urban planning atrocities of a particular city and its quality of life implications.
And I'm happy initiating conversations, asking questions or keeping things going, especially if you're a little shy. I only struggle when the interest feels consistently one-sided.

Things I'd love to do together:
I'd love to exchange photos of our everyday lives, send voice messages, watch movies together, play games, or maybe even D&D if that's your thing. I'd also really like to do voice/video calls once we're comfortable with each other and our schedules align. Fair warning: I haven't had the opportunity to use my spoken English in what feels like FOREVER, so it may be quite rusty and accented, thus, please, bear with me :')

Dating/Relationship:
I'd like dating to actually feel like getting to know someone with romantic possibility in mind – talking regularly, flirting, teasing each other, sharing little pieces of our lives, spending quality time together, and going on virtual (or real, if possible) dates. Basically, gradually finding out whether there's chemistry and whether we make each other happy.
I'm not expecting either of us to know from the beginning exactly where this will lead. I'd rather get to know each other first, be honest about how we're feeling as things develop, and figure out together what we want. If that eventually turns into a serious relationship, I'd be very happy about that!

As for the long distance: I'm very open to it – realistically, that's probably what I'll have to work with for now, since I'm somewhat tied to my home country while I'm sorting some things out. I'm also hoping to move to Spain eventually, so my long-term location is a little uncertain anyway. And hey, it doesn't necessarily mean the distance has to stay long forever :) We'll figure it out.

So... if any of this resonates, send me a message! Tell me about yourself – your age, where you're from, what are you into. Or, if you're not sure how to start, tell me about your favourite kind of light – is it the golden hour one? Or maybe the one before rain comes? Something else entirely? Let me know! <3

P.S. I'd appreciate exchanging face pics if you decide to message me. No need for anything fancy – I'm just curious who I'm talking to :)


r/gaydating 3h ago

28 | Penang, Malaysia | Looking for a genuine connection

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Hey. I’m 28 from Malaysia. Standing tall at 163cm lol, weighing at 47kg. Kinda slim here. I’d love to meet a white/arab/indian/desi in Malaysia to explore possibilities with.

Some things that I like to do: Jogging, watching movies, listening to songs, reading and doing photography (Oh, I’m still bad at it!). I’m currently learning to swim. So it has been fun.

Also, I’m a bottom who really loves to show affection 😋🩷

DM me if you’re interested


r/gaydating 5h ago

18 | New Mexico Albuquerque, United States of America | looking for serious relationship

1 Upvotes

Hi my name is Hugo, I'm looking for an online or in person serious relationship preferably with someone older than me around 24-40 | love to hike and fish but I'm also a pretty avid gamer, 1 play a little bit of everything, I also love movies mainly trilogy's and some shows just depends. I’m overall a pretty open person 🙃


r/gaydating 9h ago

23 | London, United Kingdom | Looking for Long Term Dating and Relationship.

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Hello all, as the title says m23 London here looking for long term chatting and relationship with a guy. Would be great to get to know someone and chat about anything we like, with the intention of a full relationship. It’s worth stating that this means we would have to be committed to texting fairly consistently and open to talk as this would be our main form of communication until other plans. Don’t have to be in the United kingdom and I don’t mind any height, weight, body type etc. As for myself I am 5ft7 and asian here with slim but not super athletic physique. I would prefer either around my age or older guys. (Vers here but would prefer bottom for older)

In terms of hobbies I like to play games a lot (Primarily PS5 but also a bit of pc, would love to join each other if you do too but not necessary!) as well as drawing and practice a bit of archery too. DMs open tell me a bit about yourself and let’s chat!


r/gaydating 13h ago

21 | Abilene, United States of America | looking for a caring and masculine boyfriend

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Hello there, I’m Jake! I just stumbled across this subreddit and am now on a whim posting.

I’m twenty-one years old and searching for someone close to my age and masculine (I’m sorry it’s the only think I’m into idk why), I’m about 6’3, like to think I’m a pretty nice guy, and would like to find a special someone 😁

I’ve never had a bf before because I live in a very intolerant part of Texas lol. I very new to being out so bear with me 😊

I’m currently attending college full time as a pre med major! I like to play video games, but I like to collect every achievement for some reason lol. I also like to collect figures and chill with friends. Don’t hesitate to say hi!


r/gaydating 6h ago

25 | Buenos Aires, Argentina | Would you like to say you’re taken?

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I’m looking for a real relationship with a kind, emotionally available guy who genuinely likes closeness, consistency, and staying in touch. I’m looking for lean/skinny guys (18-28) and masculine energy.

I like connections where you naturally talk every day, randomly update each other, call for hours without noticing, and slowly become part of each other’s life instead of just “talking.”

I think there are bonds that survive even time itself. I want the kind of connection people write novels about. I want the kind of love that makes ordinary days feel extraordinary.

I’m not really into ghosting, mixed signals, or people who treat online dating like temporary entertainment.

I read a lot, love music, write love letters, and can somehow go from being extremely romantic to sending you twelve messages about something completely unimportant because I got excited.

If you want something affectionate, loyal, and genuinely meaningful, message me.


r/gaydating 2h ago

26 | El Paso, United States of America | Hoping to meet someone for long term

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Hello. I’m a guy looking to meet another guy to chat with, get to know each other, and hopefully build a long-term, serious connection. I know what I’m looking for, and I’m hoping you do too.

I’m originally from Mexico but currently living in the U.S. I’m 26 and, like many people at this stage of life, I’m figuring things out and building the life I want. It can feel a little lonely sometimes, but I have plenty of dreams, goals, and things I’m working toward.

I currently work part-time at a job I genuinely enjoy, and I recently finished two internships. I’m academically and professionally ambitious, and I’m looking for someone who has that same drive and wants to build something meaningful for themselves.

A little about me: I love reading, writing, listening to music, and going for walks. I also care a lot about taking care of myself, both physically and mentally. I go to the gym, have a skincare routine, try to eat well, and meditate. I value a healthy lifestyle and a healthy mindset.

Ideally, I’d like to meet a masculine guy around my age who is also ambitious, goal-oriented, and takes care of himself. I’m a pretty normal guy with softer facial features and personality traits, but I’m not that feminine.

I’m open to long-distance if there’s a genuine connection and, importantly, an actual plan to eventually meet. I’m not interested in significantly older or younger guys; I’d prefer someone around my age.

I’m also here for genuine conversation and getting to know someone, not just exchanging hi's and disappearing.

If you made it this far, send me a 🌮 taco emoji and a little introduction about yourself so I know you actually read my post. Tell me a bit about who you are, what you’re looking for, and what you’re passionate about.

I’ll always put effort into a conversation, so I hope you will too. Good vibes, genuine intentions, and let’s see where it goes. 😄