I’ll start by saying, I have not lived in or near a major Canadian city in about 10 years, but my family and I do frequent Halifax for both pleasure and medical appointments about 6 times a year - when I used to work in Halifax I would often recognize homeless people, some I would be concerned about if I hadn’t seen them in more than a week. As a male, I’ve never once felt unsafe around homeless or transient people, and any real interaction has always been positive.
Today was different. My wife, our son, and I were at the IWK for a full day of appointments. We decided to walk down to e-joy during a 2hr break between appointments. We’re about to cross South Park Street to Clyde St, and I purposefully avoided walking through Victoria Park because I was unsure of what we might encounter, low and behold a topless female, guessing in her 60’s, is yelling at random people that she is allowed to be topless - mind you, from what I can tell no one is interacting with her. What actually caught my attention is that she (who looked and sounded like a man until she turned and faced me) was making a threat to a lone elderly lady.
We have no where to go but cross the street and for some reason she targets us, yelling that I am a pervert for looking in her direction, my wife is a pedophile for “touching” our son (guiding him as parents do to steer him away) - I made sure my wife and son stayed a fair ways ahead of me, while the woman continued to follow and yell, I kept looking back because I didn’t trust her behind me. We never verbally responded to her at all.
Eventually we crossed Clyde and she sat down by the NSLC and continued to yell at random people.
My son, who is old enough to understand everything that was going and being said, was visibly distraught by the whole thing. Unfortunately while in Toronto earlier this year, while walking, my son and I happened upon a man naked from the waist down sitting in a puddle trying to make eye contact with passersby while pointing at his genitals… but at least that person was seemingly “Harmless” and easily avoided.
This is the first time I’ve ever been followed and felt a bit threatened, or would potentially need to physically defend my family and I.
Obviously this person was not in an ideal mental state - but those of you that presumably encounter this daily, how do navigate this? Do you report it? Do you respond? Do you ignore it? Do you accept it as “normal”?
Edit: Fixed some typos.