r/nudism • u/Effective_Clock1728 • 10h ago
DISCUSSION Am I the only one?
I was raised by very old school conservative parents. You didn’t talk about sex or bodily functions beyond basics, and no sex before marriage. That also meant you keep your body covered. It was always considered indecent to show it and you shouldn't look at other people's bodies. I've found that this creates not only a certain discomfort regarding our bodies, but a generally unhealthy preoccupation with nudity and sex as a whole.
I've always had a strong desire to see as much nudity as possible, probably because it was always so taboo and "not proper" and it has always made me feel borderline creepy or that there's something wrong with me. Spending more time naked at home and venturing out to more public nude spaces is helping to normalize naked bodies for me, and I am already starting to feel less voyeuristic when around nudity. I don't know that I will ever be completely free of that voyeuristic tendency, but I belive being in those spaces where nudity is no big deal to anyone is having a positive effect on my overall mindset. Im already finding myself being more ambivalent around naked people, which is good because I don't like feeling like im being creepy when I sometimes can't seem to help but look.