A longer Saturday for the long weekend: we’re opening an hour early for 3 full hours of fun.

Brooklyn Jacks is Brooklyn's huge group masturbation event. Come solo or bring a friend. All men welcome.

Saturday, September 5 • 3–6 PM
Pickles Playground • Park Slope
📍 RSVP HERE FOR STREET ADDRESS: brooklynjacks.com/rsvp

$30 general admission • $25 for ages 18–25 and current students.
Mandatory and secured clothes check is included; phones stay checked.

Is anyone planning to go to Gunninson this Labor weekend? Me and my best friend are planning to go at least two days. We’ll be driving there.

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I’m wondering what to expect. I decided to spring for one since it’s only about $150 OOP. Since PreP, most hookups have been condom free then doxy pep happened and condoms all but disappeared. Now rates of anal cancer are rising among younger adults and HPV is the leading cause. I just figured it’s time, but I’m wondering what to expect for the test itself and what if it comes back abnormal. We’re high risk after all.

Title says it. I'm curious about finally getting over my nerves and going.

35 black dad bod.

Any advice or heads up would be loved

there's plenty of complaints about flakes, and there are even stories of people flaking when the hookup is in front of their building. Is turning hookups away after letting them in their apartment a thing people like to do and are proud of it?

Hit up this torso on grindr. Profile was simple and generic, conversation was all about sex (position, into, etc). Shared pics and verified over video chat. Got to the guy's place, he hit me with "I don't have sex unless I have an emotional connection"

I thought I might as well play along and have a conversation with this guy because I already made the trip to his place. This guy talked about how special he is, how good his last hookup treated him, how good his d was, how selective he was because he frequently turn guys away after they get to his apartment, some he would deny right at the door without letting them in. Pure egotistical BS at its finest.... I told him I am not nearly as selective as him and he kind of slut shamed me. He did ask about me but I was so turned off by this whole scheme so I gave him nothing, kept asking him questions and playfully shaded him whenever I could. I landed a really good shady comment and then he asked me to leave.

Of course I am not entitled to a hookup just because I traveled there and anyone has the right to turn people away. I'm not so bothered by the fact that he didn't pick me to have sex with. He complimented my appearance and I been around long enough to know my personality ain't horrible. What I was bothered by was the time wasted and being misled.

I recently attended and it was nuts lol. I saw like 4 medium to major onlyfans personalities and a bunch of people I recognized as super hot Grindr torsos who I’ve vaguely chatted with but are hard to actually pin down to meet.

I have heard this party has been criticized for an “exclusive” vibe but there were very, very attractive men all VERY actively playing. I did notice that some people didn’t get action and if you’re not Asian, I would not go unless you’re quite attractive as it is expensive and probably not worth the price for what will happen. If you are quite hot or if you are Asian (and therefore what many people at the party are seeking out) I really would recommend going.

To me, this party has the vibe of early GBU before it got a little more permissive with entry standards, for those who remember back to those days.

Anyway those are my thoughts

What is up with the scene gays in the city being so into instagram connections. My bf has a couple thousand followers and is chatting on it all the time. He and his friends mention somewhat frequently other peoples’ number of followers etc. it seems bar and party scene centric. But what am I missing? Why all the work to connect with people we don’t know and worry about how many connections people have? Why all the effort to connect with new people?

Total long shot, but what the hell.

To the cutie I met on Eagle's dance floor last night:

You: mid-to-late 20s, blond, white, smooth chest, about 5'6"-5'8", no glasses

Me: 45, black, wearing a bulldog harness and glasses, 6'1"

I was talking to a buddy when you passed by and you and I began to make out a little bit. I believe your name is Ken.

Anyway, nice meeting you. If you get this, DM me.

This Wednesday at the Hombre Lounge located at 85-28 37th Ave, Jackson Heights, New York 11372

Hot dancers, amazing drinks, lap dances, dark room, and just an all around great time. The fun starts around 11 but 10 PM the place starts to fill up

Yes I know, I know. But seasons coming up and I'd love some folks to share the misery with. I mean fun. This is fun. 🙃

I'd also take any recommendations for fun sports bars to hang at. Anywhere with a good atmosphere + chill folks, big preference for a dive but not necessary.

Like the title says, I (19M) just transferred to Manhattan and am trying to make other queer/poc friends, but the city's sort of overwhelming and a lot of social events need me to be 21. Any places I can go?

Are there any gay hiking groups in nyc? I was looking to go for a chill hike somewhere near one of the Metro North stops this weekend and would love some gay company.

Hey Ya’ll!

Unexpectedly will be in FIP for Labor Day Weekend. Any unique events happening there? Never been during what I feel is possibly the most packed weekend outside of July 4th.

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Hey all! I’m a huge gaymer and trying to make more gay friends! How’s the atlas social club game nights? Are they busy, what kind of games other than smash? Thanks , all! :)

This is probably the millionth post here lol about this but Im planning to visit soon with a colleague but we will go seperated ways ! Id stay there for the day and id like spending that day not alone if it makes sense lol.!
Im 23 , a medical student back home and am here on those exchange work and travel programs !
If anyone wants to get to know eachother and maybe meet while there feel free to reach out

Curious what ppl’s experience has been as of this summer + the demographic there. From reading some reviews I’ve heard they’ve been pretty strict about what happens in the steam rooms etc.

There’s this guy at my gym that has been staring holes through my skull for weeks now.

Today, we ended up in the steam together as we have in the past but this time it was him and I along with a third guy. Once the third guy left, I expected him and I to have a moment, instead he got up and left behind the third guy. After waiting a couple beats, I walked out into the shower and saw him and the third guy cruising each other. I walked away and got dressed. As I got dressed I could feel the guy almost hovering over me but I ignored it and left.

I could approach him myself but I feel a weird intimidation by how fit he is. This guy is a little above the fit gay archetype. He isn’t juiced but he has god tier natural leaning physique with ab and muscle cuts everywhere, he looks phenomenal naked, so much so that when I have seen him getting out the shower I felt a gasp by his physique alone. I get shy about getting naked in front of him due to the difference in muscularity alone.

I cant help but feel a bit confused.

In my experience gymbros like that, want guys who look like them and i don’t necessarily blame someone for being attracted to someone who puts in the work the way they do. Im fit and attractive too but Im not at his level yet. I look good naked but he looks like Abercrombie model no lie!

Has anyone else been through this or have advice on what I should do next?

i know about scum, funfckers and lodge. any others out there?

37m, East Village, and need to expand the rave/club/dance family 🤙

Tend to skew more house, disco, and darker melodic techno. I’m generally at Basement, Signal, Paragon, etc almost every weekend

Boyfriend and the rest of the friend group usually only accompany me half the time and not for as long as I’d like to stay 🥹

If you’re in to dancing the night and morning away, Instagram is the same username, say hi! ♥️

just moved to the east village recently from the midwest and was a little taken aback by the lack of diversity in the area as a 22 year old black guy. Given that the guys I'm typically into are older and are people of color, are there any group chats or particular places (aside from bars and clubs) that you would recommend for me to check out.

Heading to the 7pm showing of Colony at AMC Empire 25 this Wed (Sept 2) and figured i'd see if anyone wants to join.

Please note the movie will be in Korean with Eng sub.

Drop a comment or shoot me a dm if you're interested!

Sometimes I see mutual friends on Instagram with large friend groups and I wonder... how? I've been in NYC for over a decade and never truly found a group. If I did have a group... we slowly vanished because several people moved to Los Angeles, Miami, etc.

I know majority of these large gay friend groups have all hooked up with each other. It seems like gay friendship is hook up first, friendship next. If if no one wants to hook up but the other does, the firendship becomes awkward.

It seems like guys want to hook up first before anything.

I met a guy at the gym, we chatted, found out we have a lot in common, exchanged numbers and IG and he kept messaging me to hang out. I'm like yeah lets get something to eat or go see a movie. He tells me "Well... I kinda also like Netflix and chill" so thats a given sign he just wants a hook up.

Another guy I hooked up with first, hit it off. We both like the same things. Then he text me literally the next day about wanting him wanting me to come over hook up. I initiated hanging in the city, and he left me on read.

I can go on and on about meeting guys out in the city that reject the idea of meeting for a coffee but immediately say yes when it comes to a hook up.

Majority of my friends are girls and straight guys. I dont go circuit partying, basement parties. I like intellectual conversations, movies, broadway, maybe a drink or two at a bar.

I just need to know I'm not the only one who feels this way.

Any recos for which bars have a sizable crowd on a Sunday night?

Entertaining visitors and I don't go out around there much. Friends aren't too picky, just looking for a critical mass of people.