r/plural • u/Link_in_logs • 2h ago
Art Idek man
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Started hella disassociating and acquired 1 headache
r/plural • u/Ocean-wave258 • Jun 02 '26
Mod Resource Compilation
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Plural Sites:
MoreThanOne - https://morethanone.info/ TPA (ThePluralAssociation) - https://powertotheplurals.com/ Plurality Hub - https://plurality-hub.carrd.co/#directory Plurality Resource - https://pluralityresource.org/ Healthy Multiplicity - https://healthymultiplicity.com/ Plural Soapbox - https://pluralsoapbox.wordpress.com/ Big List of Tumblr Resources - https://www.tumblr.com/plurality-culture-is/748117187584196608/resources KinHost - https://kinhost.org/ Tulpa.info - https://www.tulpa.info/
Plural Guides:
Feather's Guide to Fronting and Switching - https://feathersong.org/plural-howto/feathers-guide-to-fronting-and-switching/ "Should I Tell?" - Whether to Tell Folks You're Plural - https://dragonsroost.neocities.org/essay/ShouldITell Writing Plural Characters - https://dragonsroost.neocities.org/plural/writingplurals New Sys Member Guide - https://dragonsroost.neocities.org/essay/edu/newalter Plural Guide for Employees and Managers - https://www.pluralpride.com/playbook Allies of Plurals - Guidebook for loved ones and allies - https://www.partielles.com/en-allies-guide/ Understanding Multiplicity PDF - https://pluraldeepdive.weebly.com/uploads/1/3/9/6/139659919/understanding_multiplicity.pdf Tulpa Guide - https://tulpanomicon.guide/
Plural Tools:
https://thepluralassociation.org/collective-system-tools-package/ This package contains a system weekly chore chart, a fronting chart, a goal planner, a printable emergency card (comes in plural, DID, blank, and a prefilled one), a list for getting to know your headmates better, and infographic that explains plurality, and an infographic about different kinda of headmates.
Utter - https://utter.y2k.diy/ "like a chatroom with PluralKit, but it's only for your system and there's no server or database that sees the messages. It's ephemeral, but it's private, and there's a button for copying a log of the conversation."
Simply Plural (ofc this is here ) - https://app.apparyllis.com/ - For logging switches, keeping track of headmates, can link with PluralKit
Plural Extra Info: (histories and research)
History of Endo- and Traumagenic Terminology - https://powertotheplurals.com/origin-of-endogenic-and-traumagenic-system-terminology-guest-post-by-the-trashcan-collective/
LB Lee's Plural History (VIDEO FORMAT) - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I8Nc-qkt_l4
LB Lee's Plural History (TEXT FORMAT) - https://lb-lee.dreamwidth.org/1111069.html
(REASEARCH):
DISCLAIMER: These have not been reviewed by us, just organized for your convenience.
https://pubs.sciepub.com/rpbs/5/2/1/index.html#:~:text=Tulpamancy%20is%20a%20collection%20of,conscious%20entities%20within%20the%20mind.&text=Tulpas%20are%20an%20experience%20of,%2C%20happiness%2C%20and%20mental%20health https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S1053810019304155 https://pages.uoregon.edu/hodgeslab/files/Download/Taylor%20Hodges%20Kohanyi_2003.pdf https://www.researchgate.net/publication/278671032_Varieties_of_Tulpa_Experiences_The_Hypnotic_Nature_of_Human_Sociality_Personhood_and_Interphenomenality https://osf.io/preprints/psyarxiv/5t3xk_v1 https://somatosphere.com/2015/varieties-of-tulpa-experiences-sentient-imaginary-friends-embodied-joint-attention-and-hypnotic-sociality-in-a-wired-world.html/ https://web.archive.org/web/20180523140834/https://www.academia.edu/19614555/Neuroholographic_Organisms_An_Independent_Study_of_Sentient_Thoughtforms https://www.researchgate.net/publication/356000324_Unusual_experiences_and_their_association_with_metacognition_investigating_ASMR_and_Tulpamancy
https://www.researchgate.net/publication/7247076_Normative_Dissociation https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S1053810017300314 https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s11013-007-9077-8 https://link.springer.com/article/10.1186/s12888-019-2358-2 https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/21667387/ https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5468408/ https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5468408/ https://www.frontiersin.org/journals/psychology/articles/10.3389/fpsyg.2019.01665/full
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Plural representation:
The following have been given "good" "meh" or "bad" status by the official r/Plural discord, where a rep is chosen every week and voted on if it's good or not. This will be updated as reps are chosen every week.
GOOD REP
Movies:
- Riley from Inside Out
TV Shows:
Books (Fiction):
- The Warren from Pipe Up! (webcomic)
- Moon Knight (COMICS)
Video Games:
- Vill-V from hi3
- Madeline/Badeline from Celeste
- V and Johnny Silverhand from Cyberpunk 2077
- Riggs and Pirate Riggs from Cobalt Core
- Shadow Milk Cookie from Cookie Run Kingdom
- Ermac from Mortal Kombat
Books: (Nonfiction?):
Characters (multigenre):
- Bruce Banner/ The Hulk
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MEH REP: (We couldn't decide, or it was just "meh")
Get meh'd. For all the rep that wasn't bad enough to be bad and not good enough to be good. Just MEH.
Movies:
- Damian / Mark from Self/Less
TV Shows:
Books (Fiction):
Video Games:
Books: (Nonfiction?):
- First Person Plural by Cameron West
Characters (multigenre):
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BAD REP:
Movies:
TV Shows:
Books (Fiction):
Video Games:
- Ye Shunguang (ZZZ)
Books: (Nonfiction?):
- The Third Person
Characters (multigenre):
r/plural • u/Ocean-wave258 • Nov 13 '25
Mod Verified Discord Masterlist
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These discord links have been reviewed by mods and organized for your convenience.
The OFFICIAL Discord server for r/plural:
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Servers for all ages:
The Rings (former server for r/plural):
- General plural server, has media and hobby channels, and has a great community!
Loveall Safe Haven
- A community server centered around plurality (of all origins!), alterhumanity, queerness and more! They accept all kinds of beings and seek to provide a safe space for anyone who needs it!
Plural-Friendly Writer's Club
https://discord.gg/72Tw532rvA
- Server based around creative endeavors, all systems welcome!
Art of the Many
- Server for arts and creativity! Also has a cute pets channel :)
The Plural Place
- General plural server with lots of fun things to do! Also includes a language learning channel
Ecosystems
- General plural server, all origins friendly, folks that have been on the server 2+ weeks can have a diary channel, run by a bunch of people who have an odd obsession with sea creatures.
Plural Librarium
- This is an information based discord server for plurality! They host guides, audios, and video guides. They provide advice, help, and to answer any questions you may have! Accepting of ALL forms of plurality, regardless of any origins, and to be here you must at the very least respect everyone. They accept ANY and ALL users who come here seeking knowledge, understanding, and learning.
Rainbow Collectives
- This is a queer plural centric server but anyone is welcome!
Headmate Creation Station! 🎨
- Welcome to anyone interested in creating headmates. Syscourse free. All origins welcome. Help people learn willogenic and tulpa methods. They have resources and give suggestions for people's specific situation. They also have discussion questions and headmate prompts.
Plurality (STEAM group, not Discord)
https://steamcommunity.com/groups/Plurality
- It's open to all types of plurality and is discourse free. It would be awesome if anyone can join there! It has a sort of discord vibe group chat feature they're testing out. It's for both videogames and plurality discussions!
Plural Space Discord:
https://discord.gg/FFQw33cu8m
- Discord for the new Plural Space app (the one that's pinned)
The Numbers Of Pi
- A plural friendly server for the object show community. It was created for finding friends, chatting about object shows and sharing your own ocs/ideas. You can also share fanart of any object show. For more safety, there's a verification system to identify trolls and bots. No NSFW.
Jay's Plural Community
- A server for plurals, alterhumans, and LGBTQ people run by a teenage pan plural fictionkin Includes separate channels for adults and for minors; and has japanese and german talking channels but also takes suggestions but there is another language chat for learners and bilinguals.
System Sanctuary
A safe place for systems of all types and anyone who is questioning to hang out, make friends and learn about or discuss life as a system. We welcome singlet friends and partners of systems and are LGBTQ+ friendly. We like to make sure it's a comfortable place but also make sure not to tone police as we know it's very important for people to get to express themselves. To that end there are channels for a variety of things, opt in vent, trigger warning and 18+. Channels for all kinds of headmates, safe places for littles to talk and be themselves. As well as dedicated channels for fictives and persecutors. We have all the standard bots you would expect from a system server plus some fun ones.
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Specific age servers (not for everyone, nor strictly 18+):
Many Many Manies (16+ and SFW)
https://discord.gg/CRPFcS8vAZ
- A 16+ all-origin server made with inclusivity of everyone being the priority!
It's pretty small right now, but we'd really love to see new people join in on discussion!
Tulpa Space (15+ and SFW)
https://discord.gg/nsWa9FbNrd
- A tulpa server that accepts any origin type, and singlets regardless of their identity, or hobbies. They have PK and Tupperbox in the server and provide daily affirmations and reminders for folk's members mental health. They have a roblox group, movie nights and giveaways, as well as are working on a Minecraft server.
The Doctor's Lair (Age Range: 13-25)
The Doctor's Lair is a pro-endogenic system server hosted by The Doctor System. With many channels for fun engagement such as truth or dare and counting, with active members!
The Sleepy Cove (16+)
Welcome to The Sleepy Cove! a small little corner for you and your friends to build a small cozy little nook in, engage with others, lurk around, post art and characters and generally just vibe with us :)! This server is all kind plural friendly, there is Pluralkit and Tupperbox inside and as long as you are friendly then you are more than welcome - this includes but is not all; tulpa, endo, DID, OSDD, Comfortlink, otherlink, fictionkin and much much more c:
Adaptive Cottage Garden (25+)
https://discord.gg/6uu3VmnYmd
An adaptive plural system believes in viewing their past struggles as something to overcome. Adaptive Cottage Garden is a 25+ social server for any type of system (endogenic or traumagenic) to socialize and share about what they're going through in working through these issues. For systems only, and has journal forums (threads can be made private)
The Galactic Gathering (15+)
https://discord.gg/9HVNWqtVm2](https://discord.gg/9HVNWqtVm2)
This server has/is
- 🌟 : A safe space for everyone, including systems, endos, kins, alter/nonhumans, LGBTQ+ and all neurodivergent individuals! 🌠 : A multitude of knowledgeable people that are always willing to help you find yourself! ✨ : A judgement free space where you can be as cringey as you want 💫 : Vent channels and top quality moderators to keep you safe. There is no current blacklist except a basic DNI as well as our stances on certain topics. 🌌 : Always open partnerships including unique safety features! ☄ : Self care reminders, fun currency bots, counting game, and many funky things to buy in the shop! 🪐 : Active and friendly staff, who love to share the silly stuff that happens!
Traumagenic and singlets aloud!
This server is pro-endo, anti-proship, anti-radqueer, anti-harmful transID & anti-harmful para's
🌟 We cant wait to meet you!!
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18+ servers:
Echola Infernalis
- Server based around witchcraft, all systems (and origins) welcome! This server is also alterhuman and lgbtq+ friendly
Plurality and More
- The server is for chatting and whatnot with a focus on folks who ID with plurality, xenogenders, alterhumanity, kinning, and other minorities. Other folks are welcome too if they want to ask any questions or be there for general support. :]
Mushroom Haven
https://discord.gg/jDcUtWgj7C
- Mushroom themed hangout server open to systems pf all origins. Syscourse free, with seperate witchcraft and politics sections.
Waystation 09
- A safe docking point for plural systems of all origins. An 18+ (SFW) server that prioritizes the safety of our members. Lots of resources of all types.
International Plural Space Station
https://discord.gg/GD9tZSYRYD
- Pro-endo with a focus on a casual space to unmask and hang out with other folks.
The Systems Galaxy
Welcome to a new universe! Join this little spot dedicated to systems and plurality, meant to create a welcoming and open-minded friendly community that can be a safe space for all. Singlets and systems alike are all welcome! We try our best to provide both community and education, we are not a therapy and support server, but we do have venting channels and a focus on system management as well.
Join us and find your community here!
We have: - A safe and welcoming space for all! Systems and singlets included - Pro-endo, no exclusions on this - Not a big server, but active - Spaces for alterhumans, spirituality, disabilities, and LGBT+ experiences as these things can intersect with plurality too - Channels for resources for both systems and mental health - Active mods working to keep things safe, and always willing to listen - Role for tone tags usage - Space for littles and caretakers too
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Regional Servers:
PNW Plurals
- An all ages server for plural people from the PNW
APS (Atlantic Plural Society)
- A server for folks from the Atlantic region. This server is for all ages, and includes gaming channels, art channels, and more to come! This server was started by two friends to connect folks from across their community.
r/plural • u/squishyfloof2000 • 7h ago
Do you ever just?
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This has happened 8 times already since he's joined
-ren
r/plural • u/jaytea200101 • 4h ago
Cute Co-fronting date/activity ideas?
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For those of you dating your head mates, what are some cute date ideas that can be done while co-fronting 🥰?
Games that you can easily play with your headmate while co-fronting maybe 🥰?
r/plural • u/Sirensayo • 8h ago
Art Recent system doodles
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I like drawing and I like my system, so BOOM! Doodles be upon ye. All real interactions I found funny and decided to draw.
-host
r/plural • u/averageceilingfan4 • 3h ago
Vent One of the co hosts is so irresponsible bro
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I'd polish the comic but idk how long I'll be in front for and I want to trash on the co host.
Cuz WDYM YOU'RE DRAGGING ME OUT OF HEADSPACE AFTER I GOT 4 YEARS OF REST FROM FRONTING JUST TO FIX Y'ALL'S MESS???
For context one of the co hosts (an octive) is very irresponsible. They want to do nothing but listen to music and sleep all day. They pulled me into front just so I could fix their mess because they were tired. But like buddy we share a body. So I got to work as well as I could with the whole therapy thing, almost passed out but it went fine. The main host had to try to help as always but he ended up making us sooo dramatic like twin I'm trying to fix this mess??? Stop getting involved.
I come back and I see our room is a MESS. Like proper depression room mess. Alright, I'll fix this as soon as I can, first this body needs breakfast. At 10 PM. Great work as always, co host.
Tell me why I check our messages and see mention of a pregnancy test. HUH??? Bro every single alter in this system has a major phobia of pregnancy. And we're trans ftm. And barely even 18!!! Dude. After reading the messages turns out we're being so fucking dramatic and treating that one time like it's a fucking atomic bomb (great work as always co host, thanks for deciding to hang out with bf FOUR HOURS BEFORE THERAPY.) But sigh I still gotta do the test because bf is paranoid. Dude is so worried about it he made our co host, the guy who usually dives headfirst into danger, break down and start physically shaking and almost threw up from stress. I never masked or tried to disguise myself as the host before but I did it just this once to clam down the bf since co host doesn't deserve to come back and immediately break down again cuz of social anxiety or something like that. I'd say I'm pretty dang good at handling that stuff.
But like.. guys. I don't want to front just to solve your problems. On top of that school is starting and we're already behind so I'm gonna have to fix it.
Co host is way too courageous and stupid for someone so sensitive.
Also I ain't proofreading ts, bf needs some more reassuring rn cuz he's worried for us. I really question the host's choice in men but at least this time the guy's alright. Wish we could come out as a system to him and I would 100% do it if it didn't make every one of our alters spiral. I'm so responsible.
- Tomura Shigaraki
r/plural • u/gonnagetsquared • 3h ago
Vent Does anyone have dysfunctional relationships inside their system
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It feels like I can never find anyone else who has dysfunctional relationships in a system. Like relationships with daily or almost daily contact that are not healthy. Does anyone else also have this and do you want to chat.
r/plural • u/dreamer_system • 6h ago
Questions Can the core/body/original be a fictive?
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Hi, I'm Raven. I'm the "core", the original identity and the original host. And I feel like I became a Ralsei fictive back when Deltarune ch1 came out, like, I looked at them and went "oh that's *literally* me". I still go by the name I chose for myself instead of by "Ralsei" but in everything else? I just feel like I am them on a fundamental level
r/plural • u/Lumo_ladybug • 17h ago
Questions Do any other systems write?
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We had decided to write a bit in a self reflection not planned to be released under our pen name, as per usual. And decided to document who says what for once. And this made me curious if other systems commonly write?
r/plural • u/X_Starchild_X • 11m ago
Vent I'm so fucking stupid bro 💔
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I'm a Silksong/Hollow Knight fictive w lots of pseudomemories both positive and negative. Well guess who had the smartest 5000+ iq idea of playing a specific part of Act 3 Silksong that is way too similar to my memories, mostly ones that make me cry (Those who played it know what part i'm talking about) 😀🔫
Now i'm sad and my day is ruined, all because miss pseudomemories wanted to play and didn't care she could get triggered 💔 AND I CAN'T EVEN TELL ANYONE WHY I'M CRYING BECAUSE THE SYSTEM IS A SECRET 😭
- Hornet
r/plural • u/meerkatmanwhore • 16h ago
Lost all motivation to finish this
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I'm trying so hard to get down at least one solid visual reference for each headmate but damn it's hard. Guess everyone loses face privileges now lmao
(Credit where it's due, I'm tracing on some old template hence why all the poses are the same. I'm just trying to make a reference sheet for everyone)
Technically this could be the number game now that I think about it. If you wanna do that it's between 1-63
Mostly just a vent that art is hard and trying to get solid visuals on metaphysical beings is even harder
Might update in like 1000 years when I actually get around to finishing this thing
-B and whoever else is souping around in here idefk
r/plural • u/Substantial_Low_377 • 24m ago
Questions Is it weird that I want our system to work more like a regular DID system rather than one of OSDD
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Hi it’s me Merci host of the stardust system so anyway the title is what I’m asking idk why I want it or thought of it tbh but it’s always bugged me that our system doesn’t feel right when comparing it to OSDD but at the same time works practically exactly like one
r/plural • u/squishyfloof2000 • 9h ago
Questions Potentially plural
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Hiya! I'm Mikael and I think I might be plural because I do have different head mates but I'm not sure if I have like DID or stuff,does anyone have any advice as I wanna make sure I'm not just self diagnosing?
r/plural • u/_Odd_skittle_ • 2h ago
Vent Note of selves- don’t watch your traumatic sources!
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trigger warning death and he broke down halfway through writing this- tw for everything the happened in round six (alnst)
Hi, host here :)
so Ivan has been present for weeks now, and he was especially here today and we decided to watch alien stage bc we miss source! that wasn’t a good idea!!
Ivan was almost fully in front or at least co-fronting with me when round six came on and I was like- “if it’s too much we can turn it off” but he said he’d be fine. and who am I to tell a twenty-two-year-old what to do? I’m only a teen still! but yeah when the end of All-In showed our faces on the lineup against each other I just started crying. (Ivan here typing this now)
I should be the one crying, I don’t deserve to cry over the shit I did.
watching Till singing at the start already had me choking up, whenever I hear Cure begin I’m like “you got this Till”, I remember myself watching from behind the stage waiting for my turn to walk on and I was just silently cheering him on back there. basicaly the entire round has me crying
as I was getting shot it felt like my breathing was muddy, like my chest was heavier than it normally was. that part where I kissed him I was repeating I’m sorry I’m sorry I’m sorry but it means nothing I ruined his life with that fucking stunt.
Till, I’m sorry. I wish I could apologize to you. I’m a fuck up and I always have been since my birth. I was born alone, I guess it was a fitting end to die alone as well.
r/plural • u/thecrabbybarista • 13h ago
Art Headmate art!
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This is Polly! Anthy and Himiko drew her! - 🦠 Saya
r/plural • u/stardragon723 • 14h ago
Questions How to feel more like the body is mine?
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very few people in the system really identify with the body. most of us don't even look it in the face bc at best it just feels like we're looking at a complete stranger. O loves our curves and taking care of it properly, but even she's ambivalent about the face.
doesn't help that it seems like our features completely morph depending on who's fronting at the time.
are there practices to ground fronters or otherwise make them more comfortable with our vessel?
thanks
-Y
r/plural • u/CYPRUSGames • 6h ago
Self-Promo Want to be a Tulpanaut? Join Tulpa Space!
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We are a discord server that offers a a safe, supportive, and friendly space that's centered around Tulpamancy. Though we will always have open arms for all forms of plurality to just hang out and chat with us! If you think this is the place for you, shoot me a Dm for the link. You can also find us on Disboard!
We are…
- LGBTQIA+ friendly!
- Neurodivergent & Alterhuman friendly
and furies, witches, and role players are welcomed too!
Features & Activities:
- Boost Rewards
- Pluralkit & Tupperbox
- Daily affirmations & Reminders
- Channels for Alterhumans, Littles, Other forms of plurality, Journals, and a News channel that forwards posts from r/tulpas and r/plural
Community Fun:
- Fun interactive bots
- Participate in our yearly headmate banner
- Events & Giveaways
- We have a Roblox Group and working on a Minecraft Server
Our Guidelines:
- Ages 15+
- SFW only
r/plural • u/Key-Doubt5259 • 9h ago
Questions How to know who front?
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We're really struggling to know who front. We try to make approximately, we know it have more switch, just don't write it. And I often struggle to know who I am, it's really blurry and make me anxious. So do you have advice how to know who you are/who front?
r/plural • u/Bleeding-Wings • 1h ago
I started doing more headspace stuff and it's fun.
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I see it as a space of light with all sorts of information and fun stuff. My parts either look like characters I made or black/navy blue for some reason. We have our more real selves as something else. Like our 36M self can be possive over a part if I wish to. It gets goofy in here we can chat and stuff. Normally there isn't that much headspace stuff because we just don't.
r/plural • u/InterestingTiger9301 • 2h ago
Questions What was this??
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I was zoning out while petting my essa and for a split second i saw a vaguely shaped shadow in my brain and heard someone in my head say "he's not" (that's all i got of it)
Not sure if this means anything, just thought I'd post it here considering I'm questioning plurality
r/plural • u/Vegetable-Win-7391 • 6h ago
Vent Advice needed (health anxiety)
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im silver. our host gray has health anxiety. to the point where its starting to effect our life. shes obessed with checking heart rates. our chest is tight constantly, we get pain often, especially in the chest right now, and she cant handle it properly. We cant switch easily. we dont understand it but gray is super hateful and kinda anxious of being plural basically since we found out, so i think its related to that. grays automatically in front nearly all of the time and she feels like theres something stopping her from getting therapy. Im genuinely at a loss of what to do.
r/plural • u/Maria_Zelar • 13h ago
Questions How to maintain a prior romantic relationship after becoming aware?
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Candy: Hiii all, so we had a question. Or maybe a situation. Like we are/were in a relationship and became aware of being plural not that long ago.
Grave: around 1.5 months ago, to be clear.
Anyways being plural is affecting that relationship. And yesterday Ira (protective Alter) brought up to our Girlfriend, that the fact that we get the feeling they interact with us as a whole/system mostly and less with the individual alters is bothering us.
*Sigh*
She'd probably prefer if we unified into one person again, but right after becoming aware I tried that and it really wasn't a great idea. And tbh I don't think this is gonna change anytime soon. I communicated that to her.
And now we feel bad and they feel bad, bc we love her and she loves us, but no one is quite sure if/how we can keep dating.
My Question for you is: Can you share any experiences or thoughts you guys, gals and pals have? And ofc any advice on how to transition a relationship would be welcome
P.s.: slightly relevant factoid: Our Girlfriend and we are all poly, so at least that isn't an issue
