We adopted a sweet maltipoo/mystery mix boy 11 days ago. But his rescue story changed daily for a few days. When we adopted him from the rescue we were told:
- Heโs 3 years old
- Came from a trainer who dropped him off after his owners were in a car accident
- Dog friendly
- Kid friendly
- Fully vetted
Well that wasnโt the full story. We have since learned he actually belonged to the trainer, who dropped off a bunch of small dogs that belonged to him/his wife.
We found out through the microchip agency that heโs actually 10 years old! In addition:
- He has hookworms (getting treated now)
- He has allergies (environmental and/or food, itโs a long process to find out)
- His fur was severely matted (we got him shaved)
- His previous owners didnโt believe in heartworm prevention
Iโve wanted to rescue a dog for so long, and now I can shake the lingering feeling that we jumped the gun on getting him. He was very shut down when we picked him up - not fearful, just aloof. Since then weโve found:
- Heโs very picky, is used to farmers dog style fresh food and refuses anything else.
- He hates out roommate - barks at him whenever heโs around, run away from him.
- Heโs been so itchy from the allergies, vet gave him cytopoint.
- Heโs refusing walks. We got him totally cleared by the vet, but he just digs his feet him now and he wonโt walk.
- When he does walk itโs very slow - I have ankylosing spondylitis, so the slow walking is a concern for me because it aggravates my back. He does get very playful at times and loves fetch, so we know heโs got more movement in him.
- He hates grass, refuses to step on it or poop on it. Heโd rather poop on the pavement, much to our neighbors dismay.
- Heโs fearful of strangers in general.
- He showed some ressource guarding with a chew - growled at us when we had to take it away because he was chewing it so intensely his gums started bleeding.
- Heโs not a cuddly boy and has yet to wag his tail. Will lie near us, but doesnโt want to cuddle.
- Big begger - barks and whines whenever weโre in the kitchen.
I know about the 3-3-3 rule, and heโs only been with us a very short timeโฆ but Iโm so scared we made a mistake getting him and heโs not the right dog for us and would be better suited with a different family. Weโre a young couple with friends visiting often. We go on roadtrips and hikes. We live with a roommate who is a close friend of ours, and itโs difficult seeing them just not get along. Is it just puppy blues? I just feel these are so many more behavioral issues that we were prepared for, especially with the medical stuff.
I feel so awful, like absolute human trash for even thinking like this about this sweet little boy whoโs entire world changed so fast. Is this normal? Will he get there with time?