So for a little bit of context I was groomed into being in a relationship with an 18 year old (hes 19 now) we were dating for almost 5 months and 2 months ago we broke up because his parents found out, it took some encouragement from my friends to finally report him and I did last month. Today I had got a call from an organization that works with the police and tomorrow someone from the organization and a policeman will be coming to my house to question me about my report I had sent to them.

Hopefully they take action against him :>

EDIT: stop assuming that the only reason I considered it grooming was because of the age gap theres a whole full story behind it and you people who are feeling bad for the son of a bitch is damn right disgusting he is a pedophile regardless stop sympathizing with him. "you could've just stopped talking to him from the start"  yes I did choose to talk to him and I could've chosen to stop. we were friends at first we bonded over a game we both loved but he started being weird with me and because I had absolutely no one at the time no friends and nobody to talk to I didnt want to lose someone who made me feel cared about for once so I just gave in. Pedophiles go after vulnerable people because they are the most easiest to manipulate and groom. Mind you im not his only victims theres more minors out there even ones younger than me.

EDIT: since you guys want the full story so badly and wont leave me alone about it then here you go

Last year around December I posted a comment on a tiktok that said "bmf" (= be my friend) someone messaged me about my comment and it was this guy (lets call him chris) who basically shared all my interests with me which for me back then I was finally happy to get a friend because I had sadly lost all my friends due to petty drama my sister got me into so my mental health was terrible at the time. Me and him bonded pretty quick over a game I really loved we would play together and call and because of how lonely and depressed I was back then it left me in a vulnerable spot. He was the only person at the time who made me feel cared about for once in so long so I didnt want to lose someone like that. He started being weird towards me but I would always excuse it and avoid it. I never liked any of what he would talk to me about, he would talk about his hookup that he had you know all the weird stuff etc. Then he randomly asked me out one night he said over text if I dont date him then he would leave me and expose everything we ever talked about to my family and the internet. I was scared shitless because majority of the stuff we had talked about was very private and personal so I gave in and said yes. I had to put on a fake act everyday to make him forget about him messaging my family. During the relationship he was even weirder he would always ask me for s#xual favors and whenever I said no he would bring up my family. He made me believe he was the only person who loved me and cared about me. Fast forward to around the end of our relationship he broke up with me because his family found out about us, I had finally thought it was over until someone messaged me about him. An ex friend of chris messaged me about him and showed me messages between him and girls younger than me (young as 12) he was in a s*xual relationship with them. I felt disgusted I had a big mental breakdown then she just kept on going on and on about what else she (his ex friend) had found out about him and she came forward to me about about how he had found bad sites and about how he tried to be a father figure to ageplayers (it was weird). a week after that my mum admitted me to therapy and I got the help I needed I started gettign better friends and because of them I had enough courage to report him and today we will see if I will get justice. And also I am in a country where age of consent is higher than the age I am now.

Thats basically the full story leave me alone about it and next time dont assume shit when you dont know shit and thank you to everyone who supported me. sorry for the bad spelling mistakes I just woke up.

Also I am not supporting rape or whatever. I am just saying its logically shit. I can explain a ton of reasons.

Okay so first of all. The most important one. You dont need an vaginal plug to prevent rape. You need a self defense equipment if you feel unsafe.

Second. Rape is not usually just a sexual process. The attacker will probabiy break your head in half after its done. Or before. it would just make the person angrier. I can and will probably count many other reasons

Also considering most rapes are grouped. Or comes from people near you

What I am saying is that you should stay safe. Or keep safed. You dont need a vaginal plastic plug. You need a more secure environment. And More police help.

Rape is not something thats just a unwanted sexual act. its one of the worst things that can happen to you. And you should prevent it at first.

Like literally no one wants to smell your disgusting mango passionfruit lung destruction device. Whenever I use the toilets at my school or walk home it reeks of vape smoke. At least smoking cigarettes is kinda conceptually cool and different, whereas when I see people vape I genuinely think its so cringe and lame.

People wanna act like now is the worst time to live in human history, and that the past was better and the future will be better. Like most of human history was not romantic and heroic, it was significantly more miserable, with a lack of medicine and knowledge making mortality much higher, and life much more painful. There is no guarantee the future will be better, and while it likely will be, being doomer about living in the now is so pointless and stupid. Regardless of the period, all life throughout history has and always will be filled with love, and joy, and beauty that people should revel in, instead of whining about the modern world being "bad" as a whole. I see this idea said seriously and widely agreed upon, despite thinking its complete nonsense. Do you agree with this sentiment and why/why not?

Então, eu gosto dessa "garota" há quase um ano e estava tentando descobrir se "ela" era lésbica ou pelo menos bissexual. Nós quase começamos a namorar quando "ela" simplesmente me disse, do nada, que é transgênero. Eu não sou bissexual e mesmo assim ele ainda está a fim de mim. Como diabos eu digo para ele que não gosto de homens?

Edit: a very kind person told i got the typo wrong, hes a ftm (female to male)

I AM SO FUCKING HAPPY AAAAAAAAAAAA I HAVE BEEN WAITING FOR 2 WHOLE MONTHS FOR THIS MOMENT AND I REALLY STARTED THINKING THAT I WOULDN'T GET IN BUT I DID!!!!!! LESFUCKINGOOOO

Everyone should have a healthy mental well-being.

I saw the comments and 90% of comments were - even the girls are ugly💀
These posts have 100,000+ likes, who exactly are these people? 🥀