Can’t remember the last time I was misgendered aside from family members I’m not out to. Still feel like I see the same person in the mirror and nothing’s changed, even though I know objectively, that’s not true.

Is there anything I can do to look less butch? I have very limited income, so I can’t really afford to buy all new stuff.

During school everyone keeps misgendering me and it's kinda taking a toll on my mental health im 15 ftm and im starting testosterone in december. I dont know what to do man.

I apologise for my awkwardness 😭 I don’t really like recording my voice 🫩

clocky^

in my defense i’m in a heavy metal band and all guys there have like 3+ facial piercings

hi i’m 19 years old and i am basically always being misgendered but i am not sure why. i know my voice definitely contributes but i am not sure what else.

I'm going to college (uk) and I want to know how well I could pass as a cis guy without people realising im trans

Like my head is so small and my chin is completely non existent. So like would t help or is my last resort fms?

They don't make binders for butts and bike/gym shorts are really just shapewear to make your butt look bigger at this point. The closest thing I have are bike shorts from 15 years ago.

My wide femme-presenting ass really gets in the way of my masculine presentation. I know a lot of it has to do with my pelvis so it's ultimately unfixable, but if you had a big butt before transition how has your butt changed?

Even if there isn't concrete advice before/after photos would really make me feel better.

41..pre top surgery, 6 years on T. Lately I've been in my head thinking I'm clocky, even though my interactions with the general public get me treated like a man. My chest is my biggest stressor at times, but as a bigger dude I think people just see it as muscle plus man boot.

So I guess I'm asking...am I clocky?

I've had a variety of hairstyles and I have no which one makes me look the most male. The one I have currently is similar to the first one, but a lot more unkept. I feel like I look more like a little boy with whatever hairstyle I have, but I'm assuming that's due to being pre t. Thoughts? (Also yes I'm terrible at taking pictures ignore that lol)

I seem to always get he/him everywhere I go and it seems most don’t know I’m trans but I’d like an option from other trans people. I’m asking about my clothes and how they work for body shape. Does my eyebrow shape , hair cut still read as man? My jaw line, brow ridge are my biggest concerns and I can’t do much about them. the piercings are more than any average person has so I don’t think they are reading feminine or masculine just excessive. But what do yall think? I think my face is still quite feminine

I don't have any pictures with my face due to facial dysmorphia

I had top surgery two weeks ago and I noticed a few days ago that my left nipple is placed higher and more to the side than the left? Idk if I’m just standing crooked but it looks kinda weird

Also are they too big? Or is this just my dysphoria fucking with my head?

I haven't started T, yet. However, I'm super short. 4'8 ft. I am heavily insecure, but I don't know if I'll even pass well, or if I'll look like an ugly man. My voice is high pitched, my face is super feminine, and I'm instead seen as a cute girl. No matter what I do, I'm always seen as a cute girl, so I'm thinking about T. However, all my friends say that I'll look so ugly with it. Should I ignore them and go on it or..?

I'm too ashamed to provide photos, I'm sorry.

my family and my irls say i do, don't know what to think about it though, currently in the process of losing weight and getting through the process to get t

i'm 18 & pre-t. my biggest problem to me is really my face... is there anything i can do before T to help me pass? is there any hope for me at all? i have restrictions on clothes due to lack of money (but most of my wardrobe is already imo fairly masculine.), but hair, voice training, exercise, etc...stuff like that i can do, i just don't know where to start. also if anyone has hairstyle advice, plz give it. my hair is completely brown right now, willing to give up dye, i just want a style that doesn't seem like it screams GIRL, ugh.

note : a lot of the photos are from when i was 16/17

i'm currently in the process of trying to get T.