r/veganr4r 12h ago

Vegan Singles. Let's Find Your Green Partner In Crime 🌱💚 - September 2026

24 Upvotes

Please state the following so you can find the right partner for you without being disappointed with differences that matter to you:

Your age and your age preference for a partner.

Your location and if you're looking for local or online/anywhere.

Whether you're child-free or you want children/already have children.

Good luck! 🌱💚


r/veganr4r 3d ago

[M4F] [32] [NYC] Active, plant dad seeking vegan partner to get dumplings with 😋

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r/veganr4r 6d ago

22M4F - SoCal/Anywhere/Online - Vegan looking for someone to share my life with 🌱

8 Upvotes

Hi!

I'm looking for a monogamous romantic relationship. Realistically, I expect it would start online/long distance and become in person in the, hopefully near, future. I live in Southern California, however I’m not sure I’ll stay here long term. I’d like to live car-free so I may move to the East Coast or the EU. I’m also open to friendship if you’re nearby :)

I’ve been vegan (for the animals, of course) for 3 years.

I’m childfree. Planning on getting a vasectomy at some point.

My interests/passions include about philosophy, ethics, politics, nutrition, health and public health, urban planning, natural bodybuilding (hobbyist), and miscellaneous science. I love learning and I try to be well-educated (college educated; BS in Environmental Engineering). I enjoy reading, podcasts, and YouTube. I like some video games, such as Risk of Rain 2, Terraria, and (modded) Minecraft.

I like stability and consistency. I’m not big on traveling (especially flying). I'm an extrovert but not a party person. I especially enjoy quality time and physical touch. Let's have deep conversations, hang out at a park, go hiking, hit the gym together, or stay in (movie, games, etc.). I’m a decent cook, I’d be happy to make something for or with you.

I find compassion, honesty, good communication, intelligence, and a desire for growth attractive in a partner.

Worldview:
- Pro-science/evidence-based; I try my best to be educated (including social issues)
- I'm atheist and non-spiritual
- I care about reducing suffering best I can (for all sentient beings, including insects).
- I’m frugal, not materialistic. Related to above, I plan to give significant amounts of my income to effective charities.
- Progressive (e.g. anti-Trump, protecting the rights of all people, expanding society to include the interests of non-humans)

Looking for:
- Age: preferably 19-25, but flexible
- Ethical vegan
- Takes care of your health, preferably enjoys an active lifestyle. Bonus if passionate about lifting in particular
- Shares a similar worldview (minimally religious, politically left, etc.)
- Drug-free and non-smoker (caffeine is fine, unless extreme)
- Moderate drinker at most, preferably teetotaler
- Preference: shorter than me at 175 cm (5’9”)
- Preference: Pet-free. I love animals but prefer having more freedom and a clean, peaceful house (not a dealbreaker)

Here are some (older) photos of me:
https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/10oVh1YFwf3FYWVGm5SZJR8Erh2gOHK4-

If you message me, please include some photos of yourself in your intro.

My DMs are open :)


r/veganr4r 6d ago

33 [F4M] Melbourne, Australia

8 Upvotes

Curvy goth girl, 6 years vegan, I land in Melbourne tomorrow and will be there until Monday, any sexy vegans around?


r/veganr4r 8d ago

Looking for vegan or atleast veggie friends in Shropshire

5 Upvotes

I’m 25M and I have recently moved down in between Shrewsbury/Telford and I am looking to connect with more likeminded people, none of my friends currently are vegan or veggie and just don’t get it and I’d love to connect with more people who share the same energy and outlook on life.

I’m pretty open, into most things and always open to new experiences and would love to share these with other people. It doesn’t specifically have to be in person - I’d love to connect with vegans all over the world! Pop a DM if interested


r/veganr4r 8d ago

24m - Looking for one (1) person with a big personality and a lot to say

11 Upvotes

If you're 21+ and sufficiently talkative, kind and interesting, I want to talk to you. Text or call, small-talk or opinions, benign and mundane or deep and personal, I'm up for every type of conversation about near enough any type of thing

We don't need to share hobbies/interests, but I'll list the big ones: video games, cooking (vegan!), walking in nature, logic/maths puzzles, philosophy and political/cultural/social issues. Bonus points if you write well

I value openness, confidence and curiosity above all. Tell me about your life without restraint, and ask me about mine. Try to convert me to your hobbies/interests (I'm open to them!), and let me excitedly (charmingly) babble about my own. Be as eccentric and dynamic as you want - act how you would if you had no fear of the other person judging you, because that's something I'll never do.

People are endlessly interesting, it's up to us to find out how

(I didn't turn my profile history off on purpose. Because my government is stupid, Reddit is making us 'prove that we're adults' to access 'adult features' like post history, and fuck if I'm giving my private information to them)

Edit: I'm not sure why, but some people seem unable to DM me. If that's the case for you, leave a brief introduction in the comments and I'll DM you

Hope to hear from you all soon!


r/veganr4r 8d ago

30+ [NB4A] Ukraine / Online anywhere - Looking for more vegan people to talk to

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r/veganr4r 11d ago

[F4M] [28] [NorCal]

13 Upvotes

hello :)) i’ve been vegan for 5 years now and just recently started making vegan friends, but i would love to make more vegan friends and potentially date. im open to anything!

i’m vegan for the animals, and living an ethical life is very important to me. im an alt girlie and would love to meet some other alt vegans, but im open to friendships with anyone! otherwise, i love art, hiking, concerts, anything outdoors, but also enjoy movies and games.


r/veganr4r 12d ago

[F4M][33][Australia]

13 Upvotes

Hello beautiful people! 🌱🖤

I’m 33F, vegan, northern NSW, Australia . I love scuba diving, freediving, snorkelling, and anything else that involves being underwater. When I’m not swimming around, you’ll probably find me reading, getting lost in true crime stories, or playing video games.

I’m looking to meet someone who is vegan, emotionally intelligent, kind, gentle, and has a good heart. Someone who values compassion, curiosity, and a little bit of adventure.

If you’ve been hoping to meet a curvy goth girl who loves animals, the ocean, books, and travelling, maybe you’ve found her. 🖤

If you’d like to chat, send me a little about yourself. I’d love to hear who you are, where you’re from, and what makes you unique!


r/veganr4r 13d ago

[M4A][27][Chicago]

13 Upvotes

Hi, I have never been in a relationship and I have been sadly scammed by a couple of women for money and stuff like that.

I'm currently looking for a vegan girlfriend and also guy friends too. I'm straight male vegan male. My interests are investing in the stock market, songwriting, producing music at home, statue and action figure collecting, drawing, gaming, exercising, YouTube, and a whole bunch of other stuff. I'm a talker and love calling and texting and playing.

I currently do tax returns for work. Relationshipwise I'm flexible. I'm hoping find people who are funny and don't mind laugh at things.

Here are pictures of me and Rex my brother from another mother. And my work area.

https://www.reddit.com/r/VeganDating/s/shlnybi5cF


r/veganr4r 14d ago

36 [M4F] #Berlin Let's create something special and exhilarating!

9 Upvotes

Hi there <3

I’ve been single again for a few months now, and instead of overthinking dating apps, I figured I’d try something a little more human and just see what Reddit brings my way.

I’m 36, born and raised in Berlin, childfree by choice, and currently very much in my gardening era. I got my own garden last summer and genuinely love spending time there, getting my hands dirty and watching things grow. I don’t drink, live almost vegan, and enjoy a slower, more mindful pace of life.

I love reading, especially historical literature, and I try to travel to other countries a few times a year. Culture plays a big role in my life — musicals, theatre, museums — luckily Berlin is pretty perfect for that. I also really enjoy day trips to Brandenburg, long walks, and hiking when I need to clear my head.

I work as a social worker with people living with mental health challenges, which says a lot about my values. I’m politically left-leaning, care deeply about social justice, and social engagement is important to me — not performative, but sincere and grounded.

As for you: looks aren’t a big deal to me. I’m drawn to someone who is natural, open-minded, emotionally aware, and not afraid to think for herself. I have a lot of love to give and would love to meet a woman who can talk about feelings, share some values and interests, and where the vibe just feels real and easy.

One small but important thing: I have ADHD — it’s part of who I am, and I like being open about it. Maybe that resonates with you too?

Also it would be great if you life in or around Berlin maybe, since my life is centerin around Berlin and I'm not really planning to relocate :)

So far and maybe I read from!


r/veganr4r 16d ago

27[F4A] Anywhere/NYC - Looking to game!

17 Upvotes

Hey there!
To be quick with it - I just want more people to game with. It’s not location specific but if you do live near NYC, we can go out to eat and maybe watch a musical!
I mostly play League when it comes to multiplayer, but I do have a ton of other games too.
I’m just looking for friends :)


r/veganr4r 23d ago

42 [F4M] VA/Northeast US - Looking for my sarcastic soulmate

15 Upvotes

I’ve tried all the dating apps at various points in time and they just haven’t really worked for me. So, I figured I would try this one last time in the hope that maybe I would meet someone simpatico.

I’m 42 and based in Virginia. I work full-time in an office job that I like (but if I won the lotto, I’d definitely be out). :D

Aside from being childfree and wanting the things that are important in relationships (communication, emotional intelligence, shared values, honesty), the thing that is most important to me is finding someone who has a good sense of humor/loves witty banter and understands sarcasm. I joke that my love language is sarcastic banter. I love to laugh. Life is too short to be serious all the time.

About me:

- 5’6.5” (had to add that half lol ), spiritual, left-wing, childfree, non-smoker, don’t do drugs, drink socially, plant-based (the non-judgmental kind), cat lover (allergic to dogs).

- Love going to comedy clubs, musicals/plays/live performances of any kind, grabbing dinner with friends, going to a happy hour every so often, reading, a good binge-watching session, kayaking, sitting out on a patio when the weather is lovely, going to veg fests and having friends over for dinner and game nights.

- As an introvert/ambivert, I love my alone time. I love being at home and enjoying my own company. I like to play violin, listen to music while I cook and just relax with some tasty food and a good show at the end of a long day.

- I’ve reached that age where I’m feeling a little restless. I have a good career, fabulous friends, a place that I love, etc. However, I’d be lying if I said I wasn’t feeling ready for a new adventure. I want to start traveling and I’d love to have someone to do it with.

- An abuser of “lol” in text messages. With that said, I much prefer sending voice notes or having a good, old-fashioned conversation in-person or on the phone.

- My goal (which I am always starting tomorrow) is to start working out and get back in shape. If you used to hate exercising and now love it, I’d love to hear your tips.

I’m looking for:

- A serious long-term and monogamous relationship. I am not interested in hearing from anyone that is looking for hook-ups or short-term situationships.

- 35-48, male, childfree.

- US-based, preferably Northeast or Mid-Atlantic.

- Non-smoker and no drugs. Not a heavy drinker.

- Politically left and not super religious.

- Someone emotionally available, kind, honest, mature, communicative, similarly independent, and knows what they want. Someone who has a real interest in meeting in-person and going on dates.

- Someone that enjoys learning and is curious about the world. Someone that enjoys deep conversations.

- I looooooooove a well-dressed, well-groomed man that smells good. 😍

- Willing to move to Virginia if he doesn’t already live here.

What I would love to know:

- If you could change one thing about our country right now, what would it be?

- What is a skill you have that you are most proud of?

If this sounds like you, please send me a DM with a bit about yourself and your answers to the above. Your photo gets mine.

Thanks!


r/veganr4r Aug 02 '26

24 (NB4A) in Meckelnburg Vorpommern GER looking for Friends

7 Upvotes

Hello lovely people. Im looking for Vegan Friends near me and I want to try and build a friendgroup with them. (For me that means friends that are friens with eachother). I can also offer some other Vegan and Vegetarian friends.

About me: I love fashion, philosophy and force free dog training. In general I'm a very Chill and agreeable person and I consider myself very funny and a good cook.

Looking forward to vegan cookouts 💪


r/veganr4r Jul 29 '26

34 [M4F] Europe/Americas — From today’s intellectual spark to building the life we imagine together

7 Upvotes

There is no scientific consensus on the role that body odor plays in attraction. What do you think comes first: liking someone, or liking how they smell?

Human relationships are weird. We've built algorithms to recommend almost everything, yet we still don't really know why one person feels like home and another doesn't.

Anyway, enough philosophy. Let's get straight to the point.

I feel genuinely loved and appreciated by the people around me. I'm happy with my friendships. But I've also seen how people's lives often become richer when they find the right partner. I want that for myself too. I know I have a lot to offer, and I'm ready to share my life again with a partner in crime.

About me

My name's Uri. I work remotely in tech, and I've lived in Spain my whole life. If it matters, my MBTI flips between INTJ and INFJ. Some say I'm neurodivergent, but I don't like that label (or most labels, honestly). I'm curious about almost everything, which means I keep accidentally collecting hobbies: social movements, photography, hiking, volunteering, construction, rewilding, plant-based cooking, gardening.

👁️ Socially & politically aware and engaged

❤️ Progressive and open-minded

🚭 No alcohol, drugs, or smoking

🌱 Powered by plants

🛠️ Handyman

🌟 Mindful and detail-oriented

🧶 Curious and playful

🏡 Living on my own

🪁 No family obligations

What I'm looking for

A long-term relationship. Not because I need someone to make my life complete, but because I believe some parts of life are simply better when they're shared.

The biggest thing I'm looking for is intellectual compatibility.

I love people who are genuinely curious. The kind of people who reads an article just because the title raised an interesting question. Who enjoy changing their minds when they're presented with a better argument. Who get excited explaining something they care about.

I don't expect us to share every hobby or every opinion.

I do hope we genuinely enjoy each other's minds.

This is the kind of relationship I hope to build

Two independent people who choose each other without losing their own identities. Instead, they create a third one together.

A relationship built on emotional safety, trust, patience, mutual respect and empathy.

A relationship where we support each other's goals instead of becoming each other's entire world.

Where we have shared projects, but also our own hobbies and friendships.

Where we can be playful one moment and have a deep conversation the next.

Where disagreements aren't battles to win but opportunities to understand each other better.

We'd probably get along if...

  • You enjoy conversations that wander into unexpected places
  • You like staying connected throughout the day
  • You value kindness over status
  • You care about what's happening beyond your own bubble
  • You can laugh at yourself
  • You appreciate honesty, even when it's uncomfortable
  • You believe relationships are something we build, not something we find
  • We are around the same age

We probably won't be compatible if...

  • Your Instagram looks like a travel agency catalog
  • You only think short-term
  • You see your body as a canvas
  • You're unwilling to question your own beliefs from time to time
  • You're addicted to adrenaline
  • We grew up in very different cultural contexts — I'm preferring Western world
  • You're religious or spiritual

Dealbreakers

  • You smoke or use recreational drugs
  • You've already decided you never want children
  • You can't stand a year of long-distance

If you've made it this far...

I'd love to hear from you. Drop me a few lines introducing yourself! I'm available in English, Spanish, and Catalan.


r/veganr4r Jul 25 '26

30+[NB4A], Ukraine - Looking for vegan gaming friends in Europe or beyond

11 Upvotes

Hello, although ideally looking for IRL gaming people, currently barely even got anybody to play with remotely...

I'm not a massive gamer of recent games, so have played basically zero of these, other than Disco Elysium. However I finished around 350 games from the 1990s-2000s era.

Maybe someone has other, non-gaming ideas for remote socialization.


r/veganr4r Jul 20 '26

33 [F4M] #Laos - currently, soon to be Thailand

14 Upvotes

Hello beautiful people!

I'm 33, female, I'm a digital nomad, I gravitate to SEA mostly. I'm into scuba diving, freediving, snorkeling, (anything in the ocean really), reading, true crime and video games.

I'm looking for someone emotionally intelligent, kind and gentle.

I've you're interested in chatting, please send me a little about you


r/veganr4r Jul 19 '26

[M4F] [53] [Anywhere] Looking for my forever partner

89 Upvotes

I am a physician, author, and public speaker who runs a nonprofit focusing on reducing suffering looking to share his wonderful life with someone similarly dedicated to making the world a better place.

Currently in Virginia, but will be visiting DC, Philly, and NYC in the next month or two and planning on moving to San Francisco this year, but could relocate anywhere for love.


r/veganr4r Jul 17 '26

53•[M4F] Philadelphia.

19 Upvotes

6’•fit•tattooed•pierced•salt-and-pepper beard•sly smile.

Vegan for 23 years! I’ve spent a life working in live arts/theater. Writer in the margins. Trying still, to build a less appalling life.

Abiding affection for dive bars, museums, ballgames, dogs and cats who act like retired pugilists, and conversations that trace the philosophical shape of the world.

I can discuss Celtics defensive rotations, vegan recipe workarounds and David Foster Wallace footnotes with the same unnecessary intensity.

Happiest creating things, defending an underrated film, finding the perfect word at 2 a.m., or biking home a little tipsy.

Hoping to meet someone who thinks kindness is a form of intelligence and laughter is a survival tool…** who finds sincerity attractive and irony appropriately rationed. *Bonus points if you’re emotionally fluent, appreciate radical honesty and know when a conversation is worth missing the reservation. Someone who knows co-authorship *is compatibility.

Too crusty for the sōsh crowd. Too sōsh for the crusties. I walk alone with seaweed snacks. Bring the wine?


r/veganr4r Jul 15 '26

[M4A] [34] [United States] - 👀 genuine connection

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r/veganr4r Jul 14 '26

52 [F4M] Northern New England, USA, Wildfire of chemistry, LTR

15 Upvotes

I live a beautiful life! Genuinely happy and grateful. Live my life with kindness and compassion and an open mind.

Inspired by nature. Enjoy outdoor activities the most! Love experiencing new places and seeing new things. Always learning. Curious and inquisitive. Vegan.

Appreciate intelligence and articulation. Love to be thought provoked, become immersed in conversation.

Manifesting a Hallmark-level, long-term relationship or destinationship with a wildfire of chemistry and playful exploration ;)

(Je parle un peu Français et j'espère continuer apprendre.)


r/veganr4r Jul 14 '26

Vegan Hearts Connect | July 2026

34 Upvotes

Whether you're looking to date, make new vegan friends, or just connect with like-minded people near or far, this is your space!

Be kind, be respectful, and have fun!

VeganDating thread: https://www.reddit.com/r/VeganDating/s/kRTieFO5tE

Feel free to use the format below, or write in whatever way feels most comfortable to you:

Location:
Age / Gender / Orientation:
Vegan since:
Seeking: (Dating / Friendship / Both)
About me:
Open to DMs: (Yes/No)
What made you to go vegan:


r/veganr4r Jul 14 '26

[M4A] [23] [UK]

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r/veganr4r Jul 12 '26

25[F4F] New York Trans Woman looking for a long term relationship! :)

20 Upvotes

Hey!! I’m a trans lesbian looking to find a fellow vegan partner!
I’ve been vegan for many years, like 9, because I care about animals!!

My main passions are game development and politics (I’m a leftist anticapitalist)

I’m very clingy and like a lot of attention. I also give a lot of attention and support :)

I’m okay with long distance but eventually we would have to meet up and eventually live together :D

Btw I’m open to all women (cis and trans) and some NB people.

DM me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


r/veganr4r Jul 12 '26

25[F4F], Virginia looking for life partner

12 Upvotes

I’m looking for a potential vegan female partner. I’m open to AFAB non binary people who are not planning on medically transitioning. Vegan 10 years and looking for a partner who shares my values. I live in Virginia. I love art and painting, language learning, trips to museums, hikes and good vegan food. Also into gardening, kayaking, and hiking and making my own sourdough. I am disabled- autistic and have ADHD so I have no current career prospects and am on disability benefits. Someone who’s also neurodivergent or at least accepting of it would be great. I’m ultimately looking for something long-term, but a date to start to get to know each other would be great. I’m monogamous and am only looking for a serious relationship and not something casual. I love deep thinkers, someone intelligent, empathetic, and patient. Looking for someone who will make time for me and is emotionally available, as I would for you as well. I am childfree and wish to remain that way. I don't smoke or use drugs and would prefer someone who doesn't as well. I love philosophy and deep conversations and am just generally curious about the world and always love learning new things.