r/ApplyingToCollege 1h ago

Serious PSA: "First in my family to do Undergrad in the US" does not mean First Gen

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Quick Caveat: Always look at a school's specific definition for this question, because schools ask about your parents' educational background differently. For example, I believe some of the UCs ask specifically if anyone in your family obtained a bachelor's degree from a school in the United States.

For the VAST MAJORITY of other institutions, you do not qualify as a first generation student if your parents did their undergrad abroad. This applies equally to international students and to US Citizens whose parents did their undergrad abroad.

Apparently this needs some rehashing after a Harvard Tiktoker, Olivia Zhang, made many videos implying that she is first gen, despite having parents who completed undergrad, masters, and PHDs abroad (and even an MBA in the United States).

Can we please take a moment to understand why those who have parents with bachelor equivalent degrees abroad do not qualify as First Gen. "First Generation" is a status designated to recognize the unique challenges that students who are the first in their family to go to college face. These students are unable to rely on parental advice for navigating seminars, academic advising, office hours, and many other elements that are crucial for college success. It is not a coincidence that the First Generation community overlaps significantly with those from blue collar, working class, and low income backgrounds.

Students with college educated parents are advantaged in this respect. They are not complete outsiders to the realm of higher education and its practices. Their families are more apt to recognize and emphsize the importance of education, and to thus better prepare and equip their children for the higher education landscape.

Obviously, foreign schools have their differences from American universities. If your parents received their education in China, or Brazil, or England, your experiences in college in the US will look different than theirs. But to equate these differences to a First Generation experience is improper and frankly insulting.

Especially for someone like Olivia, her parents' 15+ combined years spent in higher education will no doubt equip them with wisdom to share and privilege to pass on to their children. She will not be the first in her family to author a research paper, receive advising from a professor, or work in a white collar career because of the privilege her college degree will bestow upon her. Furthermore, she grew up with parents who emphasize the value of education, good grades, and hard work, because they first hand have been able to experience the upward mobility that graduate and professional degrees from top universities can bring.

I understand that the nature of social media and college admissions encourages students to market and sell themselves with compelling stories. While being the first in one's family to attend a university in this country comes with its unique challenges, it is not comparable to the first gen struggle. If it were, then plenty of wealthy, international students would fall into this category.

It really does hurt to see someone distort their story and obscure their privileged background so blatantly to build a following. It hurts more to see people defend this behavior, say that "its not that deep," and to empower someone to build a platform off of the false suggestion that she is first generation. It is always a shame when creators who build accounts to bring transparency to the admissions process are the opposite of transparent when it comes to representing their backgrounds.


r/ApplyingToCollege 8h ago

Application Question Strongly recommend this new episode of "Inside the Yale Admissions Office"

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For many of the high school students (or their parents) here on A2C interested in a top US school like Yale, today the "Inside the Yale Admissions Office" podcast released possibly the most useful episode over the past few years.

It is titled 'what Yale looks for (part 1): academic strength' and it covers easily 80% of the questions frequently asked on this subreddit about getting into the very top colleges.
- how important are recommendation letters really?
- what do interviewers (if you get an interview) listen for?
- would a very high standardized test score offset weaker grades?
- what stands out academically?
- do having a few B's on my transcript kill my chances?
- what % of applicants pass the academic screening portion of holistic admissions?

I recommend taking a listen to it, as it echoes a lot of the very best advice on A2C as well.

https://yalepodcasts.blubrry.net/2026/09/01/what-yale-looks-for-part-1-academic-strength/


r/ApplyingToCollege 2h ago

Application Question Submitting applications early

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How early is too early to submit a college application? Or, if you’re genuinely finished with it…is it ok to just hit “submit?”
It’s just a regular decision application, but is there any benefit of submitting it earlier this fall versus before the deadlines and early January? Are there any merit scholarships that may be available if I submit earlier?


r/ApplyingToCollege 53m ago

ECs and Activities do i need to do anything extracurriculars wise as a freshman?

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looking to get into osu and maybe t20’s


r/ApplyingToCollege 4h ago

Rant Worked and studied a full year to afford going to my dream college, to just disappoint the university commissioners with my portfolio

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I don't think I'll get accepted, i gave it my all during the last year, trying to manage full time work and studying and practicing, barely getting out to spend free time...

I waited 8 hours sitting on the floor outside the room with other applicants with 4 hours of sleep since i quit my job yesterday and i finished late, and then I walked in the room and they said this wasn't exactly what they were looking for... I couldn't even reply or debate since i was so out of words.

I'm losing my mind, it's like I've wasted an entire year of my life... I'm feeling angry, sad and ashamed that i couldn't do better.


r/ApplyingToCollege 1h ago

Advice Linear alg or APES?

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Aiming for ivies/t20s and majoring in engineering/cs. Linear algebra is a 4.5 on our gpa scale (considered as an honors class) and apes is a 5.0 cuz its an AP. Ik linear algebra is college level, but most colleges wont even accept the class for credit cuz its not even a dual enrollment class, it’s taught by the school math teacher.

Since its not DE, considered an honors class and is a 4.5 on our gpa scale, and i wont get college credit for it, should i take APES instead?

APES will boost my gpa and is much much easier. The only thing is is since im an engineering major ik colleges want to see more math classes on my schedule, but linear alg will actually bring my gpa down.

Linear algebra honors or APES? Ty for help


r/ApplyingToCollege 2h ago

Application Question What to add to the Honors section of common app?

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I’ve been hearing mixed responses on what to add to this section. I was wondering, would DECA, BETA, and HOSA, etc awards be acceptable to add to this section? Or should I rely on only like AP scholar and GPA awards.


r/ApplyingToCollege 7h ago

Application Question uiuc doesn't take acts taken in 2026 😭

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help it won't let me put in an act date taken in 2026? is anyone else experiencing the same issue


r/ApplyingToCollege 18h ago

Discussion Ultimate directional schools ranking

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I took into account USNWR ranking, Niche ranking, acceptance rates, graduation rates, test scores, and overall prestige/program strength.

  1. Northwestern University (Evanston, IL)
  2. Northeastern University (Boston, MA)
  3. University of the South (Sewanee, TN)
  4. Southwestern University (Georgetown, TX)
  5. Northwestern College (Orange City, IA)
  6. Southern University (Baton Rouge, LA)
  7. Southeastern University (Lakeland, FL)
  8. Northwest University (Kirkland, WA)
  9. Eastern University (St. Davis, PA)
  10. Southwestern College (Winfield, KS)
  11. South College (Knoxville, TN)
  12. University of the Southwest (Hobbs, NM)
  13. University of the West (Rosemead, CA)

Should I make any changes, and am I missing any schools?


r/ApplyingToCollege 14m ago

College Questions Need blind ivies for international students

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Are the supposedly need blind ivies for international students like Harvard, Yale, Princeton, brown, Amherst and the others genuinely need blind? Or do they just say that?


r/ApplyingToCollege 18m ago

Advice Is it possible to transfer to UC schools with a 3.6 GPA next fall?

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I still have biology and the organic chemistry series left to take, which should help my GPA. Would it also be worth adding classes like ethnic studies or PE to boost it further, or do those not really move the needle?

I'm also pretty involved outside the classroom (senator for student government, tutoring, a club leadership role, volunteering, part-time work) not sure if that's relevant to the GPA question, but figured I'd mention it in case extracurricular course load factors in.

Mainly wondering: is it too late in the game to meaningfully raise a GPA and if not, what actually works best for doing so?😅


r/ApplyingToCollege 21m ago

Advice Making Passion Projects meaningful

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I think a lot of us have gotten caught up in the idea of having a “passion project” for college. But I think the more important question is what you actually do with that project.

Having an idea, building something, or spending hundreds of hours learning a skill is great. But at some point, there is a difference between making something for yourself and trying to make it useful to other people.

That doesn’t mean every project needs to become a nonprofit, startup, research paper, or some huge organization. And I don’t think colleges expect everyone to have some massive impact story. But if you already have something you care about, it makes sense to see how far you can actually take it.

One of the biggest problems is that most of us try to do everything alone.

You might be really good at programming and build an amazing technical foundation for an app. You might be good at music and make something you genuinely care about. You might have an idea for a nonprofit but have no idea how to market it or reach people.

Eventually, though, you hit a wall.

You need someone who can design. Someone who can code. Someone who understands marketing. Someone who can make music, write, research, organize, or whatever else your project needs.

And there are probably a lot of students who have those skills but have the opposite problem. They’ve spent years learning programming, engineering, design, business, music, etc., but don’t really have anything meaningful to apply those skills to.

That’s actually why I built larpable.me.

The basic idea is pretty simple: connect students who have ideas with students who have skills.

If you’re building an app, starting a company, working on a nonprofit, making a game, doing research, or just have an idea you want to take seriously, you can find other students who can help you build it.

And if you have skills but don’t know where to use them, you can find projects that actually need those skills.

I think there are a lot of students in both groups. We just usually never find each other.

Maybe the best way to make a passion project meaningful isn't to come up with a more impressive idea. Maybe it's to find the right people and actually see what you can build together.


r/ApplyingToCollege 28m ago

Application Question What's a minimum SAT score that is essentially qualifying for all universities

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What's THE ABSOLUTE MINIMUM SAT score that is basically good for every single college where focusing on the rest of your application should become a priority instead. Consider schools like Stanford, Princeton, Harvard, etc. (Let's exclude MIT for the sake of this question).

As in you won't get rejected because of your sat score but rather it would be (most likely) a different part of your application.

I want a general definitive answer so I know when to stop trying for this godforsaken test.


r/ApplyingToCollege 4h ago

Advice I am unsure if I should attend Cal State LA or Cal State Dominguez Hills for a CS bachelors degree.

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I am not sure if many people will be familiar with both schools. I also applied to Cal State Fullerton, and Cal State Long Beach, but I am unsure if I would get into them. I already got accepted into Cal State LA, and Cal State Dominguez. The truth is that Cal State LA and Cal State Dominguez would be much more convenient due to my work/home location.

Unfortunately, there is a little bit of a stigma with CSULA and CSUDH, especially CSUDH. I am worried about graduating from a school that is seen as a "joke", and being unemployed/underemployed.


r/ApplyingToCollege 36m ago

College Questions Is self studying worth it

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My school caps aps based on gpa. I'm allowed to take two, only got accepted into one and am feeling pretty defeated. Is it worth it to self study? I've self studied 1 ap a year since freshman year, earning 4s on both of them. However, now that I'm a junior, I'd like to amp it up to 4 or 5. Is it worth it or do I just take the L? Ik for european unis I need to but will US colleges care ro value the self study 4s or 5s


r/ApplyingToCollege 39m ago

College Questions Is there any actually difference between a polytech a institute of tech and a university

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i don’t get it. some poly techs have like a English degree if I majored in English at a Polytech or an IT school would it be any different than a university or a lac?

would it look bad or weird?


r/ApplyingToCollege 1h ago

Application Question Weird question about disciplinary action

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The UIUC application has this

"The University of Illinois is committed to maintaining a safe and ethical environment for all members of the university community. A disciplinary history does not automatically bar admission to the university but does require review. You may be asked for additional information and/or to sign releases if you answer yes to any of the following questions. If you need to submit more than one incident for either of the categories, email the information to our office at [admissions@illinois.edu](mailto:admissions@illinois.edu). "

This is just high school right? I had a few incidents when I was in middle-school and don't want to withhold information/lie if they want it


r/ApplyingToCollege 1h ago

Advice Reducing hours spent on searching program info

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The hardest part of school apps for me is finding info. Scrolling through a million different pages for different info. Where you can apply with your GPA, what requirements are needed for each program, a million other bs criteria you can’t be bothered to filter through.

Tell me the subject, your GPA, location and I’ll show you a list of programs with all their info in one snapshot.

I’m testing a university search tool I built. It’s an AI powered tool that searches through websites and pages of universities and their programs to bring all the information you need in one place. 

And if you want to try yourself, it’s: enrolledhq.ca


r/ApplyingToCollege 1h ago

Advice do i NEED. A science class in senior year?

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I’m planning on applying for CS major, aiming for ivies/t20s and i’ve ALREADY taken 4 years of science btw:
Freshman yr: honors physics(required)
Sophomore year(doubled up): Honors chem + honors bio (both required)
Junior year: ap physics 1

Now im a senior and deciding if i should take AP physics CEM or AP cybersecurity. If i take cybersecurity then i wont have a science class in my schedule at all for senior year.

I’ve already taken 4 yrs of science cuz i doubled up sophomore year. But my guidance counselor is saying colleges like to see 4 yrs of science distributed, and that i should do AP physics C over ap cybersecurity. I want to take cybersecurity cuz it aligns with my major and is WAY easier than physics 😭

Should i take ap cybersec over ap physics? Is it bad if i dont have a science class senior year if ive already taken 4 yrs of science?


r/ApplyingToCollege 2h ago

Personal Essay Personal Statement Advice

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Would it be a bad idea to have my personal statement be about why I want to pursue medicine because I know it might overlap with a why this major essay, or does it really not matter?


r/ApplyingToCollege 2h ago

Application Question Is putting that i ran an xbox gaming club on xbox worth putting on my ECs?

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I ran it for a year before Xbox their club platform down. I was the founder as well. I also was the one who recruited people and moderated the club. I gained a 120 members and had 10-15 active members per day. Probably spent an hour a week doing work related to it.

I just feel like that since it was an Xbox club it sounds more...weird ig? I dunno.

What are ur thoughts?


r/ApplyingToCollege 2h ago

Advice NMSF to finalist with a C?

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1560 SAT and 3.7 UW, 4.15 weighted. I got a C in APUSH. I just meet the California NMSQT cutoff. Will I be rejected from National Merit semi finalist to finalist? Anybody with a single C rejected?


r/ApplyingToCollege 21h ago

Advice Parents chose my college major and now I regret it

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Ended up switching my major in the end so all is well but could've been so much easier if I just did what I wanted. My mom was very righteous and thought she was doing the right thing for me but I could've saved my sanity and happiness. She basically just asked to see what I was applying for for every college and I couldn't submit my college apps without her approval and if she didn't like my major she would pick what she thought I should do. If you're applying, please just do what you want, do what's right for you, it's your college life and what you might end up doing for the rest of your life. Parents might think they know better than you but you need to start making decisions for yourself and I regret not doing that.

edit: I feel like some of u guys are intentionally missing the point. I wanted to double major in data science and public policy (or something in relation to that). I really like working in the civic space but also being able to use technology. My mom wanted me to be a comp sci/ computer eng major because she was a software engineer. Sure she can give me advice on what to do but she also literally went out of her way to search up every single school I was applying to and then select the specific major she wanted me to enroll as. Decided that it really wasn't for me the end of my freshman year after and decided to declare environmental engineering as my major with a public policy minor (something that would have been VERY hard to do as a computer engineering major) because it aligned with my future goals. No I do not hate my mom she was fine with my decision bc she saw how much I wanted to switch. Yes, its fine for parents to give advice but I KNEW that I did not want to do comp sci or computer engineering anything related to that for the rest of my life and did not get any say.


r/ApplyingToCollege 6h ago

Financial Aid/Scholarships Question about Financial Aid.

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I'm slightly confused on whether when we fill the CSS profile and send it to colleges, do we ourselves choose an EFC, or does the school calculate, or both?
Does this policy change per school, can i provide a different EFC to different schools? Do schools take it into account?

Net Price Calculators will likely give me a lower EFC than what I'm willing to put, and i can realistically afford more, and am willing to put a number higher than that to increase my chances at need aware schools.

How does this work? Please someone shed some light

Thank yew


r/ApplyingToCollege 3h ago

Application Question Illinois Wesleyan University Personal Stayement

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So on common app it says personal statement optional, and I went and wrote one out for them, it’s curated towards my experiences with the area, my interest and focuses, basically what was asked on the prompt. So now out of curiosity is this the same as an essay, if so do I put it on both my writing and my personal statement, or do I put it on my personally statement only and they ignore the writing, or what I’m just very I’m confused honestly😭