Hey, I'm Raine! I'm 19 (they/them) from Florida. I'm looking for a serious, long-term relationship with a guy. I'd love to build a life together eventually, but I want to take our time getting to know each other and let things develop naturally.

I'm a beginner artist, a gamer, and a professional victim of the YouTube recommendation algorithm. Most of my free time goes toward music or playing Roblox, though I regularly lose four hours to obscure internet mysteries I wasn't even looking for. My tastes run heavily toward animation, internet lore, horror, and indie games (Helluva Boss, Hazbin Hotel, The Owl House, The Walten Files, FNAF, Scott Pilgrim, and Digital Circus).

Because I'm autistic, direct communication works much better for me than trying to read hints. I'm pretty affectionate once I trust someone! Physical touch like cuddling is great, but everyday routines matter just as much. I love morning calls, checking in on rough days, and keeping the plans we make. For dates, I'd love to walk around parks, check out local carnivals, or finally go to an arcade (which I've somehow never done). A trip to Universal is also on my bucket list.

I am strictly monogamous, asexual, and completely sober. I'm looking for a partner who shares these exact boundaries-no drinking, smoking, vaping, or drugs.

Long distance is fine for now (US, Canada, or the UK preferred), but the end goal would be living together in Florida.

If this sounds like a match, send me a message with a bit about yourself and what we have in common!

Hey there! I hope you are having a lovely day. I love music and everything that comes with making it and simply enjoying it. I appreciate all types of art, especially photography and filmmaking.

I am a Christian, and I am on the left end of the political spectrum. I am looking for the same in a potential connection. Treating people with kindness and being considerate is very important to me. It’s better to say the hard thing than to disappear.

I like going to concerts, checking out museums, taking photos of architecture and nature, taking portraits, writing music, and visiting scenic parks.

I have a life full of love from family and friends, packed with fulfilling projects, and I would love to add someone special to the mix.

I want to meet someone based in the United States between the ages of 30 and 36 who is a Christian, on the left end of the political spectrum, childfree, and has never been divorced (you can’t say the word that rhymes with “carried” in this subreddit, haha).

If you feel inclined to reach out, please confirm that you are a Christian, on the left end of the political spectrum, childfree, and have never been divorced.

Please also share your age, where you are based in the US, and your hobbies and interests.

I am looking forward to hearing from you! :)

Hi everyone. I’m Vlada, 28, living in Prague. I’ve been single for a while and decided to try my luck here.
I’m a fairly active and curious person. I travel around Europe quite often, love discovering new places and trying local food. I have a small dog who is basically my daily companion. I do sports regularly, cook a lot (I really enjoy trying new recipes), and paint in my free time. Overall I try to keep my life varied and interesting.
I’m looking for an interesting man for something real — someone I can talk to about everyday things, share travel stories with, and maybe build a connection that goes beyond just chatting. I value kindness, a good sense of humour, and the ability to hold a proper conversation. Ideally someone who is also based in Europe or open to that.
I’m not looking for anything casual or short-term. Just hoping to meet a genuine person.
If this resonates with you, feel free to message me.

I'm here looking for a true connection, a soulmate, hopefully a lifelong partner, to build a future with.

I'm only interested in something serious. I'm someone extremely sentimental, loyal, consistent and honest, with high moral standards, good communication skills and emotional intelligence. I expect the same things from you in return.

I'm Asian, 5'5", hope you are at least above 5'9". I need you to be between 25-35, have a stable life and solid career, no kids, not religious. Physical attraction is important to me, so I hope we can exchange pictures early on. I don't have tattoos or piercings, hope you don't have them either. I'm usually physically more into guys with short hair, light colored eyes, clean shaven, fit/medium build, and around 6 feet tall.

I'm currently in a very flexible period of life. I used to work as a software engineer for 9 years, got laid off a few months ago, recently moved to a small city in southwest China where life is quite cheap and cozy. Now working on some indie game projects of my own, which is where my true passion is. I was just amicably divorced last year, with no kids. For a new relationship I would want to do long distance first no matter where you are, time difference is something I can handle. Long-term wise, if we build something stable with time, I'm willing to close the gap and relocate anywhere for you if you are my right person and I still have the current flexibility. I'm always highly committed in relationships and can put every effort to make things work.

In terms of hobbies, I'm pretty much into musical instruments and literature. I've learned a traditional Chinese musical instrument called Guzheng since I was a kid, and got quite proficient in it. I play some piano and guitar too, though not as well, but still learning. Virginia Woolf is my favorite writer, I like the stream of consciousness style and I share quite a lot in personality with her. I have a degree in Arabic literature too if you find it interesting.

For video games, I'm more into cozy ones with high freedom and a lot to explore, like Stardew Valley and Minecraft. I have a special favor of puzzle indie games too, like Chants of Sennaar, Baba is you, etc. I don't like combat that much, nor do I enjoy competition in any form. I once made a decent success in my career for survival and social expectations, worked at a couple of big techs, which did grant me some self confidence, but I hate all the competition I experienced in that process, and I don't take that success as a core value of my life. As a line in my favorite movie Dead Poets Society said: "Medicine, law, business, engineering, these are noble pursuits and necessary to sustain life. But poetry, beauty, romance, love, these are what we stay alive for."

I'm an INFP-T, hope you are an N person too, NF would be better. I naturally experience all emotions more intensely than most people, that being said, I love hard and also hurt hard. I take it as a costly gift because it helps me a lot in creative fields like game design, though I've been constantly working on my emotional stability and struggled with it a lot. I also went through a lot of depression in the majority of my life, still occasionally fighting it now, yet always willing to devote all my heart to the person once I fall in love. I hope you are a more emotionally mature person, not necessarily perfect, but please always be patient and give me the closeness when I need it.

I appreciate that you made it here. If you decide to message me after all this reading, please phrase the first message carefully and tell me something genuinely unusual about yourself. I need it as a first impression of you, and will probably remember it for the rest of our lives. Low effort messages wouldn't be replied.

I don't want to rush anything, but I can't wait to meet you.

How do you do fellow kids?

I'm chubby 6' tall woolly guy with kinda long hair (I'm going to be Hagrid when I grow up) But I prefer skinny girls, what an irony. Height doesn't matter, you can even be taller than me, that will be funny.

Usually I behave like a recluse in the woods, sitting in my bachelor's den and avoiding strangers, but I can pretend to be a normal guy for a while. I can jump on a scooter and go get some pineapples, like normal people do.

I love nature, watching all sorts of animals and insects. I especially love cats. I guess I was raised by cats, but that’s not certain. In school, I won a physics competition by building a Tesla coil from an old TV and telling the jury some nonsense about its fantastic properties. And I used to be a tattoo artist. And a furniture designer. Yep looks chaotic but that's the way.

I feel great on my own, and I’m afraid of people who are actively looking for relationships. Why the hell am I looking for someone then? To get a residence permit in your country Well, I think it would be great to find someone who’s on the same wavelength — to watch cartoons together, observe animals, and laugh at silly memes. Without any toxic interdependence, like two adult, self‑sufficient cats who just feel comfortable together.

If you don’t know how to start - send your favorite meme or some funny fact about yourself.

Hi, my name is Nile. I’m a 29yo amateur mangaka looking for a girlfriend. To be frank I have had little luck with dating, since my work is nsfw commissioned art and my core passion is erotic manga, of which I am writing and illustrating my debut one shot.

It would be incredible to meet someone who is into manga, even better someone who is into erotic manga or more nsfw content within it. It’s not a common hobby and I’m hoping to find someone who enjoys it too. For context I mainly write and illustrate romantic futa content.

I love to travel and fine dinning is a massive love of mine. I’m looking to travel South America at some point, it would be amazing to have a partner who I can travel with. See new places try awesome new food!

Aside from art and my hobbies, fitness is a big thing for me, I run a lot, not so much weights anymore but lots of cardio. Hiking is also something I want to get back into.

If it matters, I’m 5’11, brunette, white, slim built but athletic.

Danish trans man, 33, living in Denmark 🇩🇰
Adopted from India, raised in Denmark. I work with wind turbines, and I’m also a trained painter 👷🏾
I’m a dad of two, grounded when it matters, but otherwise I’ve got plenty of energy. Training is a big part of my life, but so are friends, family, music, road trips, spontaneous plans, good food and laughing way too much along the way 😄
I’m drawn to women with warmth, confidence, humor and their own life. Someone who takes care of herself, can give a little back and doesn’t take everything too seriously.
I’m not here to force anything. Give me good conversation, mutual attraction and that little spark of curiosity, and let’s see where it goes 😉
I’m open to distance, but I’ll admit there’s something extra nice about a woman who can speak Danish too 🇩🇰😄
If you’re curious, say hi. Tell me a little about yourself.

Just a fully transitioned guy looking for true and meaningful connections, whether you are looking for a friend or lifelong partner, count me in

I'm 31, soon to be 32 in a couple months. FTM, started 5 years ago with HTR and surgery, if that's important. I can share pics of my looks once we get comfortable with each other but I've been told that my beard is awesome 😅

Weight: 155 pounds (69kg) / Height: 5'7 (170cm) latin american genes can't be beat

Taking care of my body and mind is the main goal everyday. I work out 6 days per week, altering from cardio to weight lifting. I eat mostly homemade meals, focusing on good fats and protein ... but I'm also the kind of guy that enjoys a good pizza with a pin of beer every other weekend

I love music, wouldn't be here today without it. My top 3 favorite bands are Green Day, Kings of Leon and Twenty One Pilots but I listen to pretty much any gender, from kpop to death metal or dubstep, you name it ... ofc there are exceptions when it comes to some artists but rest assured I've tried with pretty much every artist and gender. I listen first then judge

My motto or mantra is pretty much live and let live. If someone is doing something, is not harming anyone and is happy, then why should I judge them?

ISTJ if that's important as well

Within the activities I engage in my free time: I love art and doing DIY things/props, painting or drawing. I also love watching movies, anime (currently rewatching Death Note), series, playing videogames, cooking/baking, watching sports like UFC, football and baseball... trying so hard to get into reading at the moment.

I love animals and nature as well, fully into outdoor activities mainly like taking a one day trip to the beach or going for a hike.

I work full time, from monday to friday, but that's no obstacle to keep in touch everyday with chatting about random topics or sending memes, reels, photos.

I studied digital animation, and currently work on a design related job. Fun fact: I created a short manga for Uni

I'm on the mindset that I should never stop learning, whether is something technical or manual. I'm pretty handy with house chores/maintenance. Next thing I want to learn is to weld

My red flag is that I'm too neaty with my space. I need to keep things clean and organized. Same with my looks. Can't go out with dirty sneakers, dirty car or a wrinkly shirts ... I'm pretty sure there's a name for this 😅 not sure if it's OCD, hopefully not

In regards of relationships and my view of love, I'm old fashioned in the sense that I need to have feelings for a person first before thinking of kissing or intimacy. So no "one night stands" for me or casual things. I express love with details: something I made or giving you something that reminded me of you just because... cooking something for you or recommending you a song that made me thought of you.

I hope I can get into a relationship one day with a really special woman that would accept me for the way I am and love me unconditionally because that's exactly what I will commit to do. I can say for certain that I'm a hopeless romantic

If we get to chat and we find that we have mutual feelings for each other, I'll do what is posible to meet in person. I'm from Costa Rica but can make it happen and travel anywhere. In the meantime, videochat would do hopefully

Thanks for reading to this point. Hit me up if you're interested with a fun fact about yourself or your favorite movie and I'll hit you with one back

A little about me: I'm 30 years old, 195 cm tall, with brown hair, a bit of a goatee, and eyes that are a mix of green and blue.

By profession, I'm a programmer working from home. It's a lifestyle I genuinely enjoy, though it also means I spend more time within four walls than I'd sometimes like. To balance that out, I've been getting more into working out, partly to stay healthy and partly because I enjoy seeing the gradual progress.

Gaming is probably my favorite way to unwind after work, but I don't like feeling like my whole world exists behind a screen. When I start feeling cooped up, I need to get outside. Sometimes that's as simple as grabbing a coffee with friends and talking for hours. Other times it's taking a long walk by the sea with music in my ears and no destination in mind.

And when even that isn't enough, I get in my car and disappear for a while. I love road trips—the kind where the destination matters less than the drive itself. Good music, open roads, spontaneous stops, and the freedom of not being in a hurry are some of my favorite things. If you're the type of person who'd rather chase a sunset than a schedule, we'll probably get along.

Personality-wise, I'm definitely an introvert. I'm comfortable with silence, I enjoy my own company, and I don't need constant excitement. But with the right person, I can happily spend hours talking about anything and everything—life, random thoughts, games, travel, psychology, or just sharing how our day went. Good conversation is something I genuinely value, and I'd like to have more of it.

I'd describe myself as calm, patient, and emotionally available. I appreciate honesty, kindness, and people who can laugh at themselves. I'm not looking for perfection or someone to fit a checklist—just someone who's genuine and enjoys building a connection at a natural pace.

As for what I'm looking for, I'm open-minded. Whether it starts as friendship or develops into something more, I'd rather let things unfold naturally than force expectations from the beginning.

If any of this resonates with you, I'd genuinely love to hear from you. Tell me about yourself, what makes you lose track of time, your favorite place to escape to, or the song that's permanently earned a spot on your road-trip playlist.

One small preference: I'd really like to keep this within Europe. It's nothing against anyone from elsewhere—I simply think similar time zones, the possibility of meeting someday without crossing half the globe, and sharing a bit more cultural overlap give things a better chance of growing naturally. So if you're from Europe and anything here resonated with you, I'd be happy to hear from you.

Hey guys I'm 27 years old and from California. I won't say my name on here but I'll let you know if we're talking. I've been single for quite a while which is why I'm here i guess. Anyways I'll list somethings that I like, my type, and stuff about me.

Hobbies:

I have lots of hobbies but the two that I do the most are collecting various action figures and drawing. I also watch lots of anime and go to conventions every now and then. I also enjoy gaming but mostly on my Nintendo switch. I also like playing card games such as yugioh and pokemon and used to go to local tournaments. I'm a really big fan of star wars and Harry potter and just started watching LOTR. So if if you like fantasy and sci-fi then let's talk about it.

My type:

I don't really have a specific type tbh but I do seem to getting a long better with people that have similar interests as me. I'm a tall guy so if you're tall that's a plus for me but not a deal breaker. I'm opened to getting to know anyone and seeing how we match.

My appearance:

Im Latino from California and lived here my whole life. I'm pretty tall with longish messy black and brown eyes. Skin tone is kinda pale atm cause it's winter haven't gotten much sun but becomes tanish in the summer. I'm a little chubby rn but not too much but it's fine since I'm pretty active and workout a good amount. If you're curious to see what I look like feel free to ask or stalk my insta that's on my bio.

Anyways if I seem interested to you feel free to dm and say hi. I promise i don't bite :)

I am a nerdy guy, and I like everything from gaming, to miniature building/painting, MANY types of crafts, 3d printing, and I also play D&D

What I an specifically looking for.

- Casual/friendly chat at first, but can evolve if we click.

- Someone from Denmark preferably

- Someone who is open minded and understanding

- At least 18 of course

That's basically it. I don't know if that's too much. I just really want someone who actually cares about me.

I prefer chatting on here, but if we click, then we can move to discord etc.

You can start the chat by maybe sharing some of your own Interests or a completely random fact about something!

I am looking forward to chatting with you

I've noticed I'm in this awkward spot where I don't really meet people around my age anymore. So this is my attempt at putting myself out there. Know that I haven't had much romantic experience in my life so if that's a problem for you fair enough.

Mutual attraction matters to me so fyi I'm a 5ft 7(170cm) slim afro-caribbean(I think is what they call it) dude with medium length hair(probably my most complimeneted trait). I can't say I have a singular type physically it often depends but not in really in rush to reveal who's behind the curtain so soon.

Bit about me I'm introverted but sometimes yap to people 1 on 1 for hours. I'm a huge nerd for STEM, psychology, anime and games(currently playing OMORI). I've also started drawing recently.

I often come off as a serious person(i am kinda) but I tend to be bit sarcastic and enjoy indulging in light banter when I'm comfortable with someone.

Be warned I do deal with some anxiety(mostly social kind) and end up reading into situations more than necessary and overthinking a lot, in fact I tend to often grt lost in a sea of thought

Anyway there's other stuff i could've gone into but shouldn't that be part of the whole "getting to know each other" thing. So if I've somehow caught your interest feel free to message about something. Like what song is your literally me song rn(mine is Pleaser-wallows). Maybe you got a terrible pick up line to try. Maybe you want to see the sleeping hisui zoroua I drew. Any goes as long as it gets the conversation going.

Thanks for reading this far if you did. oh yeah I'm AST...that might be important

Hi, I'm Mo, currently in italy, started searching for a relationship, I'm currently doing a Master's degree, mmm, i like watching movies, kinda a hime guy who like to spend the time with the family, i play football, study, work, go to the gym, started needing for my half 😄, i wish i find it here, idk what else to say, you can ask me later if I'm missing important info

i’m looking to meet someone i genuinely click with and see where things go. i’d love to start by talking and getting to know each other, but i’m definitely open to it turning into something more if we end up having that kind of connection.

i’m 22 and from the chicagoland area. i’m 5’0, brunette, mexican and italian, and chubby. i’m pretty laid back and definitely more of an introvert. outside of work, most of my time is spent reading, binge watching shows, listening to music, going to the gym, crafting, or being on tiktok lol.

i’m really big on personality and how well we get along. i like someone who can make me laugh, joke around and tease me, but can also have an actual conversation. i’m affectionate once i’m comfortable and really value consistency and effort. i’d much rather have something that develops naturally than rush into anything.

i’d prefer someone around 21 to 27 and preferably somewhere in the US, especially around the midwest :) i’m attracted to someone funny, masculine, and a lil mean if that makes sense. i’d be happy to exchange pics once we’ve talked a bit.

if you message me, tell me a little about yourself like ur age, where ur from, what ur into, what you’re looking for, all that mumbo. so yea, idk what else to say so msg me and find out the rest :)

I’m a 29 year old (I turn 30 in just over a month) nuclear medicine technologist who loves a good romance novel, movies, music, and finding new things to get excited about. I’m a little nerdy, very sentimental, and probably more emotional than I’d like to admit. I’m happiest when I’m laughing with good people, getting outside for a walk, or attempting to convince myself that I’m actually good at climbing. 😅
I’m looking for something real—someone kind, affectionate, emotionally open, and genuinely interested in getting to know each other. I want the kind of relationship where we can be each other’s favourite person, make each other laugh over stupid things, and actually want to spend time together.
Bonus points if you’re patient with my terrible food preferences, can appreciate a good Simpsons reference, and won’t judge me for reading an objectively ridiculous amount of romance. ❤️

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I'm looking to start something long term with someone who is okay with doing long distance for a bit at the beginning then meeting up down the line

I'm 27 from Europe

I'm into gaming mostly marvel rivals, league of legends, valorant dead by daylight

And some other single player games

Can always stream my games for you

I also like watching movies, shows sometimes anime

Also into football (soccer In case you're American)

Really into traveling too

I don't really smoke or drink

Im a Scorpio (if you're into that)

ISTP

Appearance wise

I have brown eyes, brown hair and I'm skinny, 186cm (6'1)

built like Slenderman pretty much

Would love to have someone to hangout with and spend time together whether it's gaming or just calling and chilling together

Would love to hear from you and thank you for reading

Hey there reddit you can call me kai(only a nickname), I should start by saying that this isn't my first post here but i've decided to try my luck again. Im here again searching for a genuine relationship and I know reddit isn't the best place to look for a relationship but I've never gelled with dating apps so here i am. Im 22 from the uk specifically the south of England and i would prefer someone also from the uk as It would make meeting up easier if things progressed that far but im also not in a rush to start a relationship and wouldn't mind taking the time to get to know eachother properly first.

Anyway here's a little bit about me.

Im 5'9 with a decent build exercising is a hobby of mine whether it be weight lifting or cycling i enjoy it all the same. I have long brown/brunette hair down past the shoulders now, which tends to be curly at the ends and also on the thicker side. My eyes are a lighter shade of blue tho ive always thought they were more of a grey colour. My skins on the paler side most of the year apart from summer cus I tend to tan easily but it never lasts long. I have no tattoos or any piercings tho i wouldn't mind getting some tattoos down the line.

Personality wise im definitely more introverted then extroverted so definitely prefer a night in as opposed to going out partying. Ive often heard people describe me as a quiet person so theres that's and I do admit i have no problems just keeping to myself. I would say im care free and pretty easy going but can be quite sarcastic and enjoy self deprecating humour so that could be a draw back. Also while I dont show it very often I am quite the nerd and enjoy geeking out about things.

Hobbies and interests:

.Video games(pc only)Some examples of my favourites being

Yakuza, persona, forza, nier, expedition 33. I mainly play single player games and rpg/jrpgs but do like the occasional multilayer games especially if I have someone to play with.

.I love listening to music and like most people I tend to listen to a little bit of everything but manly rap/hiphop especially the stuff I grew up listening too tho I'm always on the lookout for new artists and genres. Im also into podcasts and the occasional audio book anything that can keep me amused while working.

.Cars and motorbikes but i only currently have a bike licence, im also into moto sports but the only one I watch regularly is f1.

.Most weeby things like anime,manga/manwha some examples of my favourites being steins;gate,berserk,death is the only ending for the villainess.

. I really like animals and have kept quite a few pets over the years tho I currently only have a axolotl.

What im looking for in a partner

Someone around my age tho i don't mind someone older than me. Someone who i can consider my best friend as well as a partner, someone who's kind and wants to spend the time to get to know each other. Having the same hobbies would of course be nice as it would make starting a conversation a whole easier but isn't necessary as I'm always down to being introduced to new things. To be completely honest i dont have much of a preference when it come to physical appearance so whether tall or short, 2 arms or 10 i don't mind as long as there a connection there thats all thats matters.

There's plenty more that i could waffle on about but it's probably best to save that for now, so if im someone who seems like your type or at least interesting to talk to please do send a dm and please include a bit about yourself instead of just hi and maybe your favourite pokemon if u have one(my favourites snivy)

What is love? Different people might have different interpretations of it. For me, it has always been something I’ve had plenty to give but have never truly received in the way I long for. After being unlucky in love, after giving my all, healing others, and never quite getting the same in return, I figured it’s finally the time for me to give this world of internet a try, so let’s see how it goes.

I’m a 24-year-old Indian guy pursuing my master’s in Europe. Kinda tall, but what really matters to me is having a kind of conversation that feels like peeling back layers after layers, you know where every message will draw us in a little deeper, where words just flow effortlessly, and suddenly it’s 3 AM, and neither of us wants to be the first to say "bye" or "goodnight." I crave exactly those rare connections that just have the ability to make time irrelevant, where we can jump from deep talks about life, career and ambition to laughing over the dumbest jokes, while feeling like we’ve known each other forever.

My Interests:

I just love dissecting pieces of entertainment, if I come across any interesting movie, series or even music, just be sure that I'm going to dive deeper into them, and just dig out their themes & meaning. So, if you’re the kind of person who loves discussing your favorite movies or songs in detail, well we just got another thing to talk about.

The Kind of Connection I’m Looking For:

I’d love to connect with someone around my age (21-24) who enjoys such meaningful conversations. Someone who’s open to talking about her day, her thoughts, and even her random 2 AM ideas, whatever feels right for her at that moment. I’m not here for just basic small talks, I want to know what makes you thrive, what excites you, and what you’re passionate about in your life.

You see, I’ve had some tricky experiences with women who carried the weight of their past, the ones who weren’t truly ready to move forward. And what usually happens is that I'd give my all, be their safe space, help them heal, and while they’d appreciate me for it, they were never able to truly reciprocate because a part of them was still stuck in what came before. In the end, it always felt like a one-sided effort, which obviously gets exhausting. So, I hope that if we connect, you’re someone who’s ready to look ahead, not just back.

What do I bring to the table:

I consider myself as a good listener, like not the kind who nods along just to appear interested to you, but someone who truly listens and remembers your little details. Whether it’s a childhood memory you shared or some random gossip, I’ll hold onto those moments because I genuinely want to know everything about you. I might forget the formulas for my classes, but I’ll never forget the things that matter to you.

Plus, I value building a connection first, so I don’t send pictures right away, not because I’m hiding anything, I just like to make sure that we trust each other, and once we’re comfortable, we can definitely exchange photos.

If any of this resonates with you, send me a message, let’s start the conversation here and see where it takes us. I am a great texter and all for deep texting, but I also believe that real connection thrives when we hear each other’s voices. When we’re both comfortable, I’d love for us to share voice notes or even hop on a call. There’s something about tone, laughter, and pauses that texts just can’t capture. But no pressure, we’ll take it at a pace that feels right for both of us. Looking forward to hearing from you, I'll be waiting.

Trying this again! Have had some great conversations with great people on here so far so I’m remaining optimistic that I’ll find my person on here. Please make sure you’ve read the whole post before you reach out, if you decide to. If you decide to reach out then please tell me about yourself (your age, where you’re from, your interests etc). Please don’t send a one word message like “hi” as I receive a lot of them and it’s incredibly frustrating to deal with when I’ve put a lot of effort into communicating who I am and what I’m looking for.

About me:

- I’m 23 and live in the UK not far from London.

- I’m childfree by choice, have known for the majority of my life that I don’t want to have kids, to be honest as far as “types” of childfree people go I’m definitely more on the don’t like kids at all side, I don’t hate them but I’d never choose to be around them. I am planning to get a vasectomy in the future, I don’t have an exact timeline on when I’ll get it yet but I WILL be getting one. I’m not opposed to getting a pet in the future but I wouldn’t want to have lots of them, I’m definitely not someone who goes crazy over animals.

- I’m 5’10 or 178cm, I’m not particularly athletic or sporty, I enjoy long walks and swimming a lot, I usually swim lengths for an hour 3 to 4 days a week.

- I currently work in a pub, I enjoy it but long term my goal is to be a software engineer, I have a computer science degree and am currently just getting my CV ready to start job hunting, just getting my programming skills back up to scratch, building projects and all that good stuff. Job market right now isn’t great so I don’t expect to find a job quickly but it is what it is.

- I’m not a very family orientated person, I do have a good relationship with my parents but I’m not close to most of my family, my life in general isn’t heavily based around family and I would like a partner who has the same mindset.

- I’m neurodivergent and an introvert, I’m definitely someone who values their quiet time and likes to spend a lot of time just chilling, gaming, watching my favourite shows and all that good stuff. Relationship wise I have very little tolerance for yelling at each other. I want the kind of relationship where we can both feel safe around each other and discuss things calmly if ever we need to resolve an issue.

- I’m quite nerdy, I play a lot of video games, recently I’ve been playing Assassins Creed Black Flag Resynced and plan to get Halo campaign evolved soon. I’m a big Star Wars fan although I haven’t kept up much with the shows recently, I love horror movies as well.

- I’m very affectionate both physically and verbally, I love cuddling and just existing together.

- I like travelling, I’ve been to 7 countries so far in my life, I’ve been to Spain many times, Germany a lot since I started going on solo trips, I’ve also been to Ireland, Turkey, Sweden, the US and Poland. I want to travel all around the world in future, I enjoy both sightseeing and relaxing resort type holidays and definitely want a good mix of both in the future. It might sound a bit odd but I wouldn’t say I’m a very adventurous traveller like I’m not really into doing crazy activities or staying in sketchy places or anything like that.

- I do drink alcohol from time to time but I don’t smoke or take drugs.

- I’m financially literate and responsible with money, I would like to retire early in the future if possible.

- I’m an atheist.

- I would like to live in a big city in the future or at least within commutable distance to one (which I already do but I don’t want to live in this specific area forever).

- I don’t have any specific preferences for body type of my partner, I do like a big booty though.

- I would like to get (can’t use the word here but should be obvious) in the future (it will likely be a necessity anyway if we’re not in the same country) however I do NOT want to have a “normal” wedding, I absolutely want to elope just the two of us. I know that’s very forward to say right away but I don’t want to waste anyone’s time if that’s something that’s important to them.

What I'm Looking For:

- You’re 18-23 years old and live in the UK, it doesn’t matter where in the UK you currently live as long as you’re willing to potentially move in the future, I’m also open to moving in the UK if that’s the best option for us. I’m also open to people from other European countries as well, we can do long distance and visit each other and eventually close the distance.

- You don’t want to wait forever to meet in person.

- You’re firmly childfree (you do not have or ever want to have children). If you want to get sterilised in the future that’s a plus although it’s not a hard requirement.

- You are not religious.

- You are not very family orientated.

- You want to get (again can’t use the word here) in the future but also don’t want a “normal” wedding/don’t care about having one.

If you’ve read to the end regardless of whether you match what I’m looking for or not then thank you! If you do match what I’m looking for and decide to reach out then I look forward to hearing from you!

When I say that special someone I mean the love of my life, my soulmate, my player two or simply my sweet boyfriend 😊

I’ve never been in a real relationship before so I’m trying my luck everywhere. I’ve been feeling so lonely searching far and wide. I keep getting ghosted and have gotten nowhere with people. I tried dating apps but they don’t really work out for me so now im trying reddit again. I’m crossing my fingers I actually find success this time 🤞🏾

I’m a 21 year old black female from Atlanta Georgia, I’m chubby but losing weight (lost 55+ lbs), 5’9, brown skin with brown eyes and medium length dreadlocks. I love music, video games, tv series/movies, shopping, discovering new places and journaling. I want to get more into fashion and cooking. My personality is introverted but sweet and goofy. I love to laugh and I’m pretty empathetic. I’m open minded as well and love people for who they are. I love creating inside jokes, flirting lots with the person I’m dating and I live for romance!! My love language is quality time and words of affirmation

What I’m looking for is..

someone loyal (of course), with a sense of humor, affectionate, mature, caring, and goofy. We can do FaceTime calls, regular calls, play video games together, have deep conversations, share random music or memes, flirt and laugh with each other. I would hopefully want to meetup someday so I hope I find someone willing to travel (Or I could travel myself) Please be hygienic and open minded. Sfw chats only

Please dm me with your age and maybe something about yourself, it doesn’t have to be a paragraph but just don’t say “hi” give me something to work with

(with the hope of a long term monogamous relationship)

Heya anyone pass by this post!

I'm a single, straight, without attachment (no kid, no ex that still communicates), 39 y/o woman from Asia (as well as living here) is looking for someone to enjoy a conversation with.

Be it about a dream society that you could think of, or the meaning of existence, or how to be kind without being taken advantage of, take life seriously or just go with the flow.

Of course, I enjoy small talks and daily life stuff as well. Food, music, movies, book, travel.

But I can't keep my mind off some deeper topics.

A bit about me:

When it comes to love & relationship, I'm intentional into finding and being with my one & only.

I'm still finding a balance between not-needy and don't care, catering to my own selfish desires and just learn to accept life.

I'm described as a good listener and I'd like to think about myself as an empathetic being.

I try to understand people but I don't have to stay where they are.

I'm better at recognize my emotions and thought pattern and work on them.

For me, looking at stars during a dark night is as interesting or more than an extravagant experience, since it's way harder to see stars nowadays.

I mostly only use social media for what is needed.

I'm not attached to any religion or faith though I respect all believes.

What I'm looking for is my best friend, with the hope that we could completely trust each other, and help to bring out the best in each other, going through thick and thin of life together.

Even if life could be hard, we could still look at each other and smile because we've found the best thing happened to each other's life.

I understand that all other info such as appearance, location, career, life goals are important, those would be gradually exchanged with someone suitable when we're both comfortable.

We are just two strangers trying to find out: if the other person is even real with genuine intention; if we match up in values, life goals, characters and chemistry; if we both determine to make things work.

I feel like I match best with people closer to my age, non-smoking, minimum drinking, without or minimum tattoos, without long hair, pursue a healthier lifestyle.

Of course, those are preferences and by the end of the day, being with someone decent is probably better than dying alone, those are just some directions to see who I could match best.

So if you feel that we could have some decent conversation and could determine to make something work, reach out to me!

Tell me any (small) act of kindness that you personally observed, could be recently or long time ago?

How do you think is the best way to handle negative experience or negative emotions? Example: neighbor opens music too loud and doesn't appreciate your feedback.

And since this is the internet, what do you consider is ghosting and what's the best way to communicate when you don't want to talk anymore?

If that is too much question, only the last one is needed to answer.

Giving myself a chance is giving you a chance, and vice versa, however, please don't be fear of missing out. Probably dying alone is still better than getting a really bad match, though.

Heya :) I’ve posted on here before and haven’t had too much luck, but I’m trying again. I’m looking for a genuine connection, but let’s not force things, if we don’t click then we don’t click. We might still make pretty good friends. But yeah I’d love to have someone I can chat to everyday, who I look forward to getting a message from. I’m chasing that warm feeling that u get when u meet someone new. And then let’s see how things go, I’d love if it became a long term thing :)

Bit about me: I’m 21, Australian, finished a film degree last year, films my biggest passion(I could ramble all day about movies), big music lover(all sorts of genres) I also love going for walks/hikes. However I would say generally I’m more of a homebody. But I’ve also recently gotten the travel bug, been on a couple trips overseas this year and loved it. And I’d love a future travel buddy.

In terms of relationships I can definitely be a little awkward in the original chatting phase. But I’m usually pretty good if we get along. I love to be affectionate and flirty, I think it’s fun and important for a relationship. And I’m happy to send a pic and what not to see if there’s mutual attraction :)

So yeah if ur interested introduce urself and let’s chat!

That's three "r" sounds? Hi there! M29 here from the east coast of the USA. Would love to meet someone online and become their favorite notification throughout the day! I'm sarcastic but never mean, goofy but never over the top, eager but never clingy. I'm a big reader, love fantasy, fiction, and historical fiction. I love to run and lift weights and have run multiple marathons as well as other shorter races. I love all sorts of music especially rap and excluding modern country. I'm 5'10, dark haired, hazel eyes, with a beard and some tattoos. Would love to meet anyone who feels they resonate!

G'day.

I really suck at describing myself but anyway. I'm 41 and ive in sunny downtown Brisbane, Australia. I just recently came back from my 6th trip to Japan, I just cannot get enough of the place, I miss the food lol.

I am an avid collector of lego and an even bigger collector of bookshelves for said Lego. I enjoy playing my switch 2 and am currently playing Splatoon raiders.

I love watching movies or tv shows but I really suck at watching things I have never seen, I'm always up for recommendations and maybe we could watch a movie together.

Ideally looking for something long term which could lead to something more. I don't care where you are from, age or if you have kids, just bring the awesome conversation. More than happy to share pics once we have talked for a bit.

Look forward to hearing from you