r/ForeverAloneDating 10h ago

F4M 21 [F4M] Usa/Anywhere looking for that special someone 🫶🏾

18 Upvotes

When I say that special someone I mean the love of my life, my soulmate, my player two or simply my sweet boyfriend 😊

I’ve never been in a real relationship before so I’m trying my luck everywhere. I’ve been feeling so lonely searching far and wide. I keep getting ghosted and have gotten nowhere with people. I tried dating apps but they don’t really work out for me so now im trying reddit again. I’m crossing my fingers I actually find success this time 🤞🏾

I’m a 21 year old black female from Atlanta Georgia, I’m chubby but losing weight (lost 55+ lbs), 5’9, brown skin with brown eyes and medium length dreadlocks. I love music, video games, tv series/movies, shopping, discovering new places and journaling. I want to get more into fashion and cooking. My personality is introverted but sweet and goofy. I love to laugh and I’m pretty empathetic. I’m open minded as well and love people for who they are. I love creating inside jokes, flirting lots with the person I’m dating and I live for romance!! My love language is quality time and words of affirmation

What I’m looking for is..

someone loyal (of course), with a sense of humor, affectionate, mature, caring, and goofy. We can do FaceTime calls, regular calls, play video games together, have deep conversations, share random music or memes, flirt and laugh with each other. I would hopefully want to meetup someday so I hope I find someone willing to travel (Or I could travel myself) Please be hygienic and open minded. Sfw chats only

Please dm me with your age and maybe something about yourself, it doesn’t have to be a paragraph but just don’t say “hi” give me something to work with


r/ForeverAloneDating 15h ago

F4M [28F] Prague, Czech Republic – looking for a genuine connection

17 Upvotes

Hi everyone. I’m Vlada, 28, living in Prague. I’ve been single for a while and decided to try my luck here.
I’m a fairly active and curious person. I travel around Europe quite often, love discovering new places and trying local food. I have a small dog who is basically my daily companion. I do sports regularly, cook a lot (I really enjoy trying new recipes), and paint in my free time. Overall I try to keep my life varied and interesting.
I’m looking for an interesting man for something real — someone I can talk to about everyday things, share travel stories with, and maybe build a connection that goes beyond just chatting. I value kindness, a good sense of humour, and the ability to hold a proper conversation. Ideally someone who is also based in Europe or open to that.
I’m not looking for anything casual or short-term. Just hoping to meet a genuine person.
If this resonates with you, feel free to message me.


r/ForeverAloneDating 18h ago

F4M 22 [F4M] online/chicago looking to meet someone :)

14 Upvotes

i’m looking to meet someone i genuinely click with and see where things go. i’d love to start by talking and getting to know each other, but i’m definitely open to it turning into something more if we end up having that kind of connection.

i’m 22 and from the chicagoland area. i’m 5’0, brunette, mexican and italian, and chubby. i’m pretty laid back and definitely more of an introvert. outside of work, most of my time is spent reading, binge watching shows, listening to music, going to the gym, crafting, or being on tiktok lol.

i’m really big on personality and how well we get along. i like someone who can make me laugh, joke around and tease me, but can also have an actual conversation. i’m affectionate once i’m comfortable and really value consistency and effort. i’d much rather have something that develops naturally than rush into anything.

i’d prefer someone around 21 to 27 and preferably somewhere in the US, especially around the midwest :) i’m attracted to someone funny, masculine, and a lil mean if that makes sense. i’d be happy to exchange pics once we’ve talked a bit.

if you message me, tell me a little about yourself like ur age, where ur from, what ur into, what you’re looking for, all that mumbo. so yea, idk what else to say so msg me and find out the rest :)


r/ForeverAloneDating 20h ago

F4A 29 [F4A] Alberta, Canada looking for something real.

15 Upvotes

I’m a 29 year old (I turn 30 in just over a month) nuclear medicine technologist who loves a good romance novel, movies, music, and finding new things to get excited about. I’m a little nerdy, very sentimental, and probably more emotional than I’d like to admit. I’m happiest when I’m laughing with good people, getting outside for a walk, or attempting to convince myself that I’m actually good at climbing. 😅
I’m looking for something real—someone kind, affectionate, emotionally open, and genuinely interested in getting to know each other. I want the kind of relationship where we can be each other’s favourite person, make each other laugh over stupid things, and actually want to spend time together.
Bonus points if you’re patient with my terrible food preferences, can appreciate a good Simpsons reference, and won’t judge me for reading an objectively ridiculous amount of romance. ❤️


r/ForeverAloneDating 13h ago

F4M 39 [F4M] Asia/The World #An invitation for a deep conversation

13 Upvotes

(with the hope of a long term monogamous relationship)

Heya anyone pass by this post!

I'm a single, straight, without attachment (no kid, no ex that still communicates), 39 y/o woman from Asia (as well as living here) is looking for someone to enjoy a conversation with.

Be it about a dream society that you could think of, or the meaning of existence, or how to be kind without being taken advantage of, take life seriously or just go with the flow.

Of course, I enjoy small talks and daily life stuff as well. Food, music, movies, book, travel.

But I can't keep my mind off some deeper topics.

A bit about me:

When it comes to love & relationship, I'm intentional into finding and being with my one & only.

I'm still finding a balance between not-needy and don't care, catering to my own selfish desires and just learn to accept life.

I'm described as a good listener and I'd like to think about myself as an empathetic being.

I try to understand people but I don't have to stay where they are.

I'm better at recognize my emotions and thought pattern and work on them.

For me, looking at stars during a dark night is as interesting or more than an extravagant experience, since it's way harder to see stars nowadays.

I mostly only use social media for what is needed.

I'm not attached to any religion or faith though I respect all believes.

What I'm looking for is my best friend, with the hope that we could completely trust each other, and help to bring out the best in each other, going through thick and thin of life together.

Even if life could be hard, we could still look at each other and smile because we've found the best thing happened to each other's life.

I understand that all other info such as appearance, location, career, life goals are important, those would be gradually exchanged with someone suitable when we're both comfortable.

We are just two strangers trying to find out: if the other person is even real with genuine intention; if we match up in values, life goals, characters and chemistry; if we both determine to make things work.

I feel like I match best with people closer to my age, non-smoking, minimum drinking, without or minimum tattoos, without long hair, pursue a healthier lifestyle.

Of course, those are preferences and by the end of the day, being with someone decent is probably better than dying alone, those are just some directions to see who I could match best.

So if you feel that we could have some decent conversation and could determine to make something work, reach out to me!

Tell me any (small) act of kindness that you personally observed, could be recently or long time ago?

How do you think is the best way to handle negative experience or negative emotions? Example: neighbor opens music too loud and doesn't appreciate your feedback.

And since this is the internet, what do you consider is ghosting and what's the best way to communicate when you don't want to talk anymore?

If that is too much question, only the last one is needed to answer.

Giving myself a chance is giving you a chance, and vice versa, however, please don't be fear of missing out. Probably dying alone is still better than getting a really bad match, though.


r/ForeverAloneDating 5h ago

M4F 41 [M4F] Online, Anywhere, Australia. Looking for my forever soulmate

3 Upvotes

G'day.

I really suck at describing myself but anyway. I'm 41 and ive in sunny downtown Brisbane, Australia. I just recently came back from my 6th trip to Japan, I just cannot get enough of the place, I miss the food lol.

I am an avid collector of lego and an even bigger collector of bookshelves for said Lego. I enjoy playing my switch 2 and am currently playing Splatoon raiders.

I love watching movies or tv shows but I really suck at watching things I have never seen, I'm always up for recommendations and maybe we could watch a movie together.

Ideally looking for something long term which could lead to something more. I don't care where you are from, age or if you have kids, just bring the awesome conversation. More than happy to share pics once we have talked for a bit.

Look forward to hearing from you


r/ForeverAloneDating 19h ago

M4F 38 [M4F] - Maryland/North America; Still looking for my person

5 Upvotes

Hi there! James here, I am 38 (soon to be 39) from Maryland (Anywhere in the US/Canada is fine too; you don't have to specifically be from Maryland. I can freely travel/relocate due to WFH) and looking to chat and see if chemistry develops. I am on here looking for someone that matches my energy. I've been snipped for 4 years, full transparency.

Still looking for my person...

I am 6', black hair, hazel eyes, love working out/lifting weights! It is as good for you mentally as it is physically. Willing to share pics as well!

Some of my hobbies/interests:

* Lifting weights

* Videogames

* Movies (HUGE Marvel fan; love anything HORROR/sci-fi/comedy/action/high fantasy primarily)

* Huge music fan (of all kinds; primarily of the 90s/early 2000s variety)

* Road trips! (Tons of fun, especially with the right co-pilot)

* Traveling

* Stand-up comedy

* Socialize with friends (can have just as much fun staying in too)

* Drinks occasionally

* Sports

* Learning to play electric bass guitar

* Voice calls/voice messages (It's way easier and more fun to get to know someone/talk with them via voice; much easier to convey sarcasm as well 😁)

* Audiobooks

* Being active and outside (LOVE the beach!)

* HALLOWEEN IS THE BEST SEASON.

Shoot me a message if you're interested, and a pic since attraction is important; wouldn't want to hit it off like crazy and find out we're not attracted to each other.

Here is my voice to show I am not a bot, if you're curious:

https://voca.ro/17YDWuF7kFeE


r/ForeverAloneDating 20h ago

F4M 29 - [F4M] - Tennessee - Looking for a considerate, curious, kind, and genuine connection

4 Upvotes

Hey there! I hope you are having a lovely day. I love music and everything that comes with making it and simply enjoying it. I appreciate all types of art, especially photography and filmmaking.

I am a Christian, and I am on the left end of the political spectrum. I am looking for the same in a potential connection. Treating people with kindness and being considerate is very important to me. It’s better to say the hard thing than to disappear.

I like going to concerts, checking out museums, taking photos of architecture and nature, taking portraits, writing music, and visiting scenic parks.

I have a life full of love from family and friends, packed with fulfilling projects, and I would love to add someone special to the mix.

I want to meet someone based in the United States between the ages of 30 and 36 who is a Christian, on the left end of the political spectrum, childfree, and has never been divorced (you can’t say the word that rhymes with “carried” in this subreddit, haha).

If you feel inclined to reach out, please confirm that you are a Christian, on the left end of the political spectrum, childfree, and have never been divorced.

Please also share your age, where you are based in the US, and your hobbies and interests.

I am looking forward to hearing from you! :)


r/ForeverAloneDating 22h ago

M4F 20 [M4F] #Online | looking for a genuine relationship

3 Upvotes

hey im SalahEddine 21M

im not here to collect matches or talk to someone for two days then disappear

id rather meet one girl get to know her properly and see if something real grows from it

im into movies marvel football books psychology content creation and random conversations that start stupid and somehow turn deep at 2am

im usually calm at first but once im comfortable i talk a lot joke around tease a little and ask too many questions

i recently finished my degree in commerce and marketing and rn im figuring out what comes next

also i use a wheelchair

i prefer saying it early instead of hiding it and making it some awkward reveal later its part of my life but definitely not my whole personality

im from morocco 🇲🇦 and im open to long distance i dont care much where youre from if we genuinely connect

i dont drink and im monogamous i value honesty loyalty affection communication and someone who knows how to laugh

im looking for a girlfriend eventually but i dont want to rush into calling something a relationship after three conversations

id rather talk get comfortable learn each others weird little habits and see where it goes

if you message me tell me your age where youre from and one random thing about you

anything except just hey 😭


r/ForeverAloneDating 8h ago

M4F 30 [M4F] EST/Anywhere — Maybe we can make each other a little less lonely?

3 Upvotes

Hello fellow redditors,

I’m writing this because lately I’ve been missing that kind of connection where you genuinely look forward to talking to someone at the end of the day. Coming home and having someone ask how your day went, laughing about stupid things that probably aren't even funny, or just lying together watching a show until one of us inevitably falls asleep. I’d really like to find someone I can share those little everyday moments with. Maybe that could be you? :3

A little about me: I'm a 30-year-old Hispanic software engineer living on the East Coast of Canada. I'm 175cm (5'9") and around 80kg (175 pounds). I'm fit enough to convince myself that I'm fit, but not fit enough to run for more than a few seconds when I see my bus leaving. I'm also apparently decently good-looking, according to several completely unbiased sources: my mom, my grandma, and a nice old lady I helped on the metro who called me handsome. So the evidence is clear xD

As for hobbies, I like to exercise daily, by which I mean the one sit-up I perform every morning to escape my bed. I enjoy watching shows and anime, although I haven't been following anything too seriously lately. Grimm and Game of Thrones were some of my favorites back in the day (we don't talk about that last season). Steins;Gate is probably still my all-time favorite anime. Tell me what you're watching!

These days I've actually been spending a lot of time on YouTube, mostly watching video essays about movies, documentaries, and random topics that somehow convince me to spend an hour learning about a topic I didn't know existed about five minutes earlier.

Gaming has also been a big part of my life. I used to play a lot of Apex, Overwatch, and especially Smite. I enjoy competitive multiplayer games, but I also love getting lost in single-player games like The Witcher and God of War. Lately I've been tempted to jump back into some survival games but I'm not convinced since they easily eat up all your free time.

I used to read quite a bit more recently I've been keeping books more than an arm's reach away.

I'm definitely more of an indoor person, but I do enjoy getting outside from time to time. Usually that's to see friends or take a walk along the river near my place when I want to clear my head. I don't think we need to have all the same interests either. Having some things in common would be nice, but I'm just as interested in discovering new things we can introduce to each other.

Personality-wise, I'm pretty laidback and don't tend to stress too much about things. I have a fairly dark sense of humor and I'm not easily offended. I like being able to joke around and not take everything so seriously, while also knowing when it's time to have an actual serious conversation.

Ideally, I'd like to meet someone somewhere around my age, probably 20-40, although I'm not particularly picky about that if we get along well. I don't have a specific type or preference when it comes to appearance, but I do think some degree of physical attraction matters when you're looking for something romantic.

One small warning: there may still be some NSFW pictures of me hiding somewhere on my profile. They're old and were posted during a period when I wasn't exactly doing great. I tried deleting them, but apparently Reddit has decided that “deleted” and “actually gone” are two completely different concepts.

So if curiosity gets the better of you and you go digging, you may end up seeing considerably more of me than you were expecting. Let's just say some rather personal details and features are no longer much of a mystery. 😅

I do kind of wish those pictures weren't still around. It definitely takes some of the fun out of getting to know someone when they can accidentally skip ahead a few chapters. 😅 But hey, if you happen to stumble across them, be it voluntarily or not, I won't hold it against you. Though, you might as well come say hi afterward since you already know a little more than most people do.

If you've made it this far, feel free to send me a message. We can talk, get to know each other, and see if there's a connection. No pressure, no expectations — just two people seeing where a conversation takes them.

Hope you're having a great day or night, wherever you are. And thanks for reading all the way through.


r/ForeverAloneDating 9h ago

M4M 23 [M4M] Online, Fem dork looking for people to spend time with!

3 Upvotes

hey there, i'm tris!

a little about me: i'm 22, 6'0, white, and assigned male at birth but fem leaning (still figuring out gender)

i'm a dork who loves playing games (league, valorant, overwatch, nintendo, etc) but i also love going out on big walks (preferably a boardwalk or by the river) and drawing/painting with any medium.

i'm a bit lonely as of recent and i'm looking to see if i can find anyone to spend time with. i love gaming with people, watching movies, or just talking! i'm pretty introverted and shy though, so it might take me a while to warm up fyi :p

in terms of a potential partner i tend to prefer confident people with a good sense of self. i will say bi people to the front, i can be a pit offputting to any other sexuality as im very fluid in my gender presentation

my dms are open to anyone, i just prefer an introduction and to use discord instead of reddit, but i welcome all discussion/questions!


r/ForeverAloneDating 15h ago

M4F 30 [M4F] Europe/Online - Introverted, curious, and hoping to meet someone genuine

3 Upvotes

A little about me: I'm 30 years old, 195 cm tall, with brown hair, a bit of a goatee, and eyes that are a mix of green and blue.

By profession, I'm a programmer working from home. It's a lifestyle I genuinely enjoy, though it also means I spend more time within four walls than I'd sometimes like. To balance that out, I've been getting more into working out, partly to stay healthy and partly because I enjoy seeing the gradual progress.

Gaming is probably my favorite way to unwind after work, but I don't like feeling like my whole world exists behind a screen. When I start feeling cooped up, I need to get outside. Sometimes that's as simple as grabbing a coffee with friends and talking for hours. Other times it's taking a long walk by the sea with music in my ears and no destination in mind.

And when even that isn't enough, I get in my car and disappear for a while. I love road trips—the kind where the destination matters less than the drive itself. Good music, open roads, spontaneous stops, and the freedom of not being in a hurry are some of my favorite things. If you're the type of person who'd rather chase a sunset than a schedule, we'll probably get along.

Personality-wise, I'm definitely an introvert. I'm comfortable with silence, I enjoy my own company, and I don't need constant excitement. But with the right person, I can happily spend hours talking about anything and everything—life, random thoughts, games, travel, psychology, or just sharing how our day went. Good conversation is something I genuinely value, and I'd like to have more of it.

I'd describe myself as calm, patient, and emotionally available. I appreciate honesty, kindness, and people who can laugh at themselves. I'm not looking for perfection or someone to fit a checklist—just someone who's genuine and enjoys building a connection at a natural pace.

As for what I'm looking for, I'm open-minded. Whether it starts as friendship or develops into something more, I'd rather let things unfold naturally than force expectations from the beginning.

If any of this resonates with you, I'd genuinely love to hear from you. Tell me about yourself, what makes you lose track of time, your favorite place to escape to, or the song that's permanently earned a spot on your road-trip playlist.

One small preference: I'd really like to keep this within Europe. It's nothing against anyone from elsewhere—I simply think similar time zones, the possibility of meeting someday without crossing half the globe, and sharing a bit more cultural overlap give things a better chance of growing naturally. So if you're from Europe and anything here resonated with you, I'd be happy to hear from you.


r/ForeverAloneDating 3h ago

M4F M29 [M4F] Runner, reader, writer

2 Upvotes

That's three "r" sounds? Hi there! M29 here from the east coast of the USA. Would love to meet someone online and become their favorite notification throughout the day! I'm sarcastic but never mean, goofy but never over the top, eager but never clingy. I'm a big reader, love fantasy, fiction, and historical fiction. I love to run and lift weights and have run multiple marathons as well as other shorter races. I love all sorts of music especially rap and excluding modern country. I'm 5'10, dark haired, hazel eyes, with a beard and some tattoos. Would love to meet anyone who feels they resonate!


r/ForeverAloneDating 11h ago

M4F 29 [M4F] Melbourne, Australia - a nerdy, different soul searching for a fellow nerdy, different soul!

2 Upvotes

Hi! Pleased to meet you. From one neurodivergent soul to (potentially) another, this post will give you an insight into me, my hobbies and interests and what you can expect chats with me to be like. So, let’s read on.

I’m a 29-year-old man from Australia, so you can expect laid-back conversations. I enjoy finding out new things about people and new things about the world, in general. You will find I’m loyal, love chatting about anything and, best of all, I speak fluent GIF.

My main hobbies are watching and discussing films, older TV shows, finding gold on YouTube/Internet Aechive and playing 80s/90s video games. I also like to write on occasion, and honestly it’s such a good outlet for pretty much anything.

I do have a facial difference also, so I wanted to be upfront about that. I might be a little shy to send pics, but I don’t bite and love answering respectful questions about it.

I’m looking for a chill gal around my age (27+).. Ideally someone also who is neurodivergent to some degree, and someone who likes deep, random, sometimes chaotic chats. And yes I do have ADHD, to boot! Hooray for chaotic chats!

In your opening message, tell me about a current hobby you have, or a hyperfixation you’re still in the grips of!


r/ForeverAloneDating 11h ago

M4F 27 [M4F] Colorado - Hoping for someone who will love me for me

2 Upvotes

Hi, I’m going to give this my best effort but I’m not good with writing, so please don’t judge me too harshly.

I’m an introvert but I can hold a conversation, even one sidedly. A lot of my interests and hobbies are focused on indoor, geek/nerd stuff, my main hobby being video games. I would also like to go camping sometime as I like camping too!

I also like reading though it’s hard for me to find books that sound interesting to me, though I find Emily St. John Mandel’s books to be captivating as I really like the way she writes her characters as I love good characterization.

I love music as well, currently my favorite song is Golden Brown by The Stranglers. I like a lot of genres but my favorites are alternative, indie, drum and bass, pop and metal. Some of my favorite artists are Sewerslvt, The Smiths, The Cure, David Bowie, Daft Punk and Kanye West (I miss the old Kanye).

Of course, I can’t forget to expand on games as they are my favorite hobby. Recently I started playing overwatch again after not playing for like 5 years so I’m terribly rusty. I enjoy so many games for many different genres, my favorite genre being rpgs, The Elder Scrolls being among my favorites hence my username.

I have never been in a relationship and will be willing to elaborate if you wish. I also have minor problems with anxiety and depression now but they were much worse in the past, debilitating to an extent. I’m now on medication and they have mostly been solved. I’m working on being better and I’d like if someone were there who loves me as I am now and in the future when I become the best version of myself.

I love making others laugh and have a good time, and know when to not play around. I appreciate communication too so if I go too far I can step it back.

As for who I’m looking for: someone who is open minded and genuinely herself, kind and maybe shares some interests? I would prefer someone in the Americas (North and South) because time zones and all that but if you think we’d get along then feel free to message.

I hope to hear back from you, maybe a little intro or your favorite video games, musicians or books!


r/ForeverAloneDating 14h ago

M4F 24 [M4F] #Japan Hokkaido Sapporo looking for a real relationship

2 Upvotes

Hello, I am a 24 year old living in Hokkaido (near Sapporo). I am looking for a woman in the age range of 18 to 30. Trying to find someone who is willing to get to know me and someone I can share my time with. Going on dates, eating food and playing video games would be fun. I prefer a slower relationship to see if we are compatible. It takes 2 to make it happen so I will try my best to match the effort you put in. I have never been in a relationship before so I will try my best. If you need to know what I look like. I don’t send photos immediately if I see that a connection is possible then photos sharing is possible. I would prefer to meet somewhere public like Sapporo station or a cafe. I prefer someone in Japan. America (California) and Japan only.

More about me
My hobbies include kendo, hiking, traveling and anime figure collecting. I have done many combat sports in the past like Boxing, and wrestling. The current sport right now is Japanese sword fighting (Kendo). I am an eagle scout so I excel in outdoor survival skills and hiking. I have been to more than 16 countries so I like traveling and learning languages.I typically spend my free time working out and going to local festivals and looking for new restaurants. My favorite food is Mexican food and hamburgers. I cook sometimes and I make some good pasta. I speak English and Japanese. I like doujinshi authors and their art so I collect figures from my favorite artists. I like anime and manga. Some of my favorites being Frieren, Chibi Maruko-chan and To love ru. I am east asian, 160cm tall, 5Ft 3in.  

Start a chat with me if you’re interested, thank you. Serious people only please. I don’t respond to low effort messages. Provide some information please.


r/ForeverAloneDating 19h ago

M4F 31 [FTM4F] Online/Anywhere - looking for a lifetime and meaningful connection

3 Upvotes

Just a fully transitioned guy looking for true and meaningful connections, whether you are looking for a friend or lifelong partner, count me in

I'm 31, soon to be 32 in a couple months. FTM, started 5 years ago with HTR and surgery, if that's important. I can share pics of my looks once we get comfortable with each other but I've been told that my beard is awesome 😅

Weight: 155 pounds (69kg) / Height: 5'7 (170cm) latin american genes can't be beat

Taking care of my body and mind is the main goal everyday. I work out 6 days per week, altering from cardio to weight lifting. I eat mostly homemade meals, focusing on good fats and protein ... but I'm also the kind of guy that enjoys a good pizza with a pin of beer every other weekend

I love music, wouldn't be here today without it. My top 3 favorite bands are Green Day, Kings of Leon and Twenty One Pilots but I listen to pretty much any gender, from kpop to death metal or dubstep, you name it ... ofc there are exceptions when it comes to some artists but rest assured I've tried with pretty much every artist and gender. I listen first then judge

My motto or mantra is pretty much live and let live. If someone is doing something, is not harming anyone and is happy, then why should I judge them?

ISTJ if that's important as well

Within the activities I engage in my free time: I love art and doing DIY things/props, painting or drawing. I also love watching movies, anime (currently rewatching Death Note), series, playing videogames, cooking/baking, watching sports like UFC, football and baseball... trying so hard to get into reading at the moment.

I love animals and nature as well, fully into outdoor activities mainly like taking a one day trip to the beach or going for a hike.

I work full time, from monday to friday, but that's no obstacle to keep in touch everyday with chatting about random topics or sending memes, reels, photos.

I studied digital animation, and currently work on a design related job. Fun fact: I created a short manga for Uni

I'm on the mindset that I should never stop learning, whether is something technical or manual. I'm pretty handy with house chores/maintenance. Next thing I want to learn is to weld

My red flag is that I'm too neaty with my space. I need to keep things clean and organized. Same with my looks. Can't go out with dirty sneakers, dirty car or a wrinkly shirts ... I'm pretty sure there's a name for this 😅 not sure if it's OCD, hopefully not

In regards of relationships and my view of love, I'm old fashioned in the sense that I need to have feelings for a person first before thinking of kissing or intimacy. So no "one night stands" for me or casual things. I express love with details: something I made or giving you something that reminded me of you just because... cooking something for you or recommending you a song that made me thought of you.

I hope I can get into a relationship one day with a really special woman that would accept me for the way I am and love me unconditionally because that's exactly what I will commit to do. I can say for certain that I'm a hopeless romantic

If we get to chat and we find that we have mutual feelings for each other, I'll do what is posible to meet in person. I'm from Costa Rica but can make it happen and travel anywhere. In the meantime, videochat would do hopefully

Thanks for reading to this point. Hit me up if you're interested with a fun fact about yourself or your favorite movie and I'll hit you with one back


r/ForeverAloneDating 19h ago

M4F 22 [M4F] #SanDiego - our love is God, let’s go get a slushie!

2 Upvotes

Hey everyone!
A little about me: I'm a college student in the San Diego who is half European and half Mexican. I have longish wavy black hair, big dark brown eyes and I’m pretty skinny/lean. I like to think I’m a pretty good looking guy so don’t be shy! Just shoot me a text message! I am however looking for something relatively local and in the area near where I live in, I just don’t think I can have a realistic LDR.
I’ve been kinda burnt out on the dating apps and that leads me to here! Outside of that, I'm a huge fan of rock music, love watching movies. If you’re into any of that we should get along great. I’m pretty easy going and very easy to talk to! I also just love going bar hopping and maybe doing some karaoke even though im pretty terrible at it. I am looking for a serious dating relationship if anyone is interested!

Some of my favorite rock bands are Oasis, Arctic Monkeys, The Strokes, Queens of the Stone Age and so many more! I do love all kinds of music though! I also have letterbox, so if you’re a self proclaimed movie buff, maybe something can spark between us! In terms of who I’m looking for, I don’t mind any age, even older than me! I don’t really have a lot of preferences so no pressure let’s just talk and have some low-stakes conversations to see where it all leads! If any of this sounds like something you’d be interested in just shoot me a text and I’ll answer! Looking forward to meeting some great people here!


r/ForeverAloneDating 21h ago

M4F 25 M4F looking for my person online/Arizona

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looking for my person :3 not a type exactly.

I come off quiet and a little nerdy at first. Give it a minute and I’m loud with the people I trust, sarcastic, and pretty honest about what I mean. What I can give you is attention that doesn’t fade after the first week, someone who listens, and a foundation that actually feels steady. Mutual respect and real conversation matter more to me than matching on paper.

I work and I’m stable. I’m staying in AZ because family and my kiddo are here, but I’m open to long distance if what’s between us is worth it. I am Catholic but age, faith, and the rest don’t need to line up perfectly imo. Connection does tho. I’ll respect your hobbies if you respect mine :3 I’m getting back into games, going through old drawings, and guitar and Spanish are waiting until I have more room.

Im also5'9, brown eyes, short dark hair, glasses, light brown skin. Mixed but people keep guessing Egyptian or Greek ha. 145lb now, heading toward 155 to 160 for a cosplay on Halloween(lean and fit physique character)

I show up more with acts of service than with the perfect words. I’m capable of both; one just comes easier.

Pictures are cool when it feels natural. I’d want to we see if we are a match personally and go from there 🙏

To my future love, hi 😶‍🌫️👋


r/ForeverAloneDating 22h ago

M4F 27 [M4F] Canada/Anywhere - Any tall women out there?

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Just a lonely dude out here looking for someone to spend my time with. I'll be honest I'm very inexperienced in the relationship department so you might have to bear with me as I figure it all out but I guess since we're all on reddit we have an excuse to take it especially slow (or maybe not!)

Just a little about me:

On the personality side of things, I'm a bit of a homebody but I really enjoy outings with people I'm familiar with. I'd like to think I'm very open-minded in that I can enjoy a variety of things that I don't normally do on my own if it's with the right people. I love music (I can play the guitar!) and I spend my free time playing video games or watching a horror movie.

As for my physical features, one thing you should know is that I am ethnically Indian. I'm about 5'11" and moderately chubby. I also wear glasses (usually).

I don't know what else to write but if you're down even for just a chat let me know. Looking forward to hearing from you :)


r/ForeverAloneDating 23h ago

M4F 28 [M4F] AZ/US/anywhere a Gomez hoping to find a Morticia

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Hello everyone I'm a soft alt nerdy guy who hopes to find his special someone. I want to be the Watson to your Sherlock, The Sam to your Frodo, the ghost to your guardian. I want to be at your side on your adventures and through life. Loyal and willing to go with you to the end. I want to help lighten your burden and be there for you when you need it. After all a relationship is more than being there for each other through the good times.

I'm willing to move. Whether that's a different state or a different country. Or a different city.

I love history. I think it's incredibly important otherwise we're doomed to repeat the mistakes of the past. I also love to learn mythology and other beliefs. It gives such a fascinating view and insight into our world. Along with having a deep interest in philosophy throughout the ages too.

I adore going to conventions. I've been going to the one in Phoenix since I was 8 and have only missed one year since then. I've also been to the one in San Diego and two in Savannah Georgia while I attended college there for two years. I'm currently trying to get into cosplay.

Now a bit about me. I'm sure you've guessed that I am indeed a bit of a nerd. I'm a sucker for gaming both board and video. I love reading, especially comics. I do hope one day to be a published author even if it only a short story or a few comic issues. I'm also an artist. I draw, sometimes paint, and every now and again create some 3d art out of things lying around. I enjoy shows and movies as well. Of all kinds. I try to explore as many genres as I can in all forms of media. You never know when a new piece in a genre you wouldn't typically try will become a favorite. Or change you.

As far as comics go, John Constantine is by far my favorite character, especially his original Vertigo run. Don't get me wrong, I enjoy Batman and Captain America. But I just love how dark, weird, and interesting more obscure characters like Constantine can be. Though V for Vendetta is my favorite story followed closely behind by DMZ.

I adore horror. I love the feeling of adrenaline it gives. The way that even slashers depict female characters. Often being far more complex and interesting then many of their other counter parts. From the likes of Ripley to what you'll find in 10 Cloverfield lane, Smile, Prey and so many others. To horror's willingness to explore controversial parts of life that no other media seems willing to touch such as mental health. I love how well it mixes with other genres such as historical fiction, comedy, Fantasy, Sci Fi. I also adore a good mystery. A story that unfolds as it goes along.

And for games I have so many different ones I love. But to name a few the BioShock franchise. I adore Mass Effect going so far as having ink for it. Life is Strange. Halo, Dead Space the franchise which awakened my love of the horror genre. To co-op ones like Space Marine 2, Destiny and many others. Lots of RPG's too. Mass Effect, Dragon Age, Avowed, BG and many more.

I adore alternative music like Grandson and Royal and the Serpent. And I love going to concerts. Though my musical taste can be all over the place. From Alt to Soundtracks to Phonk to lo fi to classical. Bring me The Horizon is so good too.

I also love going out and exploring the world with others. Especially someone special. Seeing Museums, galleries, parks you name it. Learning new history and subjects. Seeing new places and countries when I can manage it. Love going to concerts.

As a person though psychically I'm on the short side. I'm fit with some muscle though definitely leaning towards a more feminine body type. I'm definitely alt with asymmetrical long hair. Plenty of tattoos and piercings and plans for more. I usually wear a lot of black and grey. With some color depending on the situation. I've been told I have very pretty eye lashes. And I'm willing to trade pics when we're both ready.

For personality I'm an odd mix of pessimism and optimism. I can very peppy for the people I care about. I will always be there for them when they need me. Whether that's listening to them and giving advice. To spending time with them or to helping them out. I take great pride in helping others and one day hope to work with young adults with trauma and are neurodivergent. I've been told I'm very good at it and it's a field in need. I am also myself Neurodivergent which is worth putting out there. And if the same applies to you. I will always be there.

I'm about as liberal as it gets And agnostic. Which doesn't mean I have any problem with those that are religious. I just ask that you respect me as I will you.

I'm a big supporter of women's and LGBTQ rights. We are all human and deserve to be treated as such. They deserve single right that I do.

If I sound like someone you'd be interested in I hope to hear from you. And I do have a discord we can shift to eventually and most of the other messaging apps. Or if not but you still took the time to read this. I hope that you have a great day and you find your someone. Though there doesn't seem to be quite an option for a tag. I am also okay with Trans men and none binary folks. And thank you if you're ready this whole thing. I realize it's a bit long. but I figure it's better longer then shorter. that way you know what you're getting into it and if you're interested.


r/ForeverAloneDating 59m ago

M4F 28 [M4F] UK/Europe - Compassionate Nurse looking for someone to give all this love to! <3

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Hi everyone! My name's Connor, I'm a second year mental health nursing student living in the south west of the UK!

I'd describe myself as compassionate, empathetic, and caring. I'm the type of guy that has alot of love to give to the people that want it c:

I'm fairly nerdy in terms of interests, such as MTG, gaming, anime, and so on.. But I also enjoy travelling, spending time in nature, camping, bike riding and not opposed to watching a sunset under some blankets ❤️

I'm working on my second degree as a nurse, but my first was in music performance and tech (I play guitar and bass!) My music taste is a little all over the place, but I'm always happy to share what I'm listening to!

I really enjoy the smaller moments with those I care about. Just being at peace and feeling secure is honestly the best feeling in the world ❤️

I have struggled with my mental health in the past, and I can struggle sometimes, but I'll always communicate clearly what I'm struggling with and can be comforted very easily!

Always happy to help you with your problems too, I love trying to solve things and come up with sollutions

All I ask is that you're a kind and compassionate person, someone who can communicate clearly, or at least is willing to try. Please also be either from the UK or Europe or be willing to travel. I'm happy to travel to you or to meet half way if things work out

https://imgur.com/a/jnkpPux - Me


r/ForeverAloneDating 1h ago

M4F 21 [M4F] - Oklahoma/Online What’s your favorite video game?

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Hi! I’m a 21 year old guy living in Oklahoma right now. I’m more of an introvert so on weekends I’d like to stay inside rather than go out and party. Huge crowds stress me out. I really like video games, anime/manga and horror. I just finished the new resident evil game recently. The only things i really don’t like to do are sports, both watching and playing. I think they’re boring honestly.

Physically, I’m Hispanic, 5’8 and have medium length black hair. I’m very left wing and atheist. I don’t have any physical preferences but would like someone close in age to me. But I’m also not going to change my beliefs for someone. I also don’t mind long distance relationships as long as you’re in an adjacent state to Oklahoma. I have 3 cats, Luna, sol and Terra, they’re all the best! I’m willing to send pictures of myself as i think attraction is important!! Text me your favorite video game!!


r/ForeverAloneDating 1h ago

M4F 25 [M4F] Ukraine/Online - Let's be horrible together

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Just a guy trying to figure things out while navigating the difficulties of life. Very open-minded, non-monogamous, and alt in the way I think.

I love art in all its possible forms and believe that video games are the most complex form of art of them all. Games captivated me from a very young age, and ever since then, I’ve had a dream of becoming an indie game developer. That dream is currently in the process of becoming something real.

I’m a very tactile person, so I even started organizing free cuddle parties for my friends and other comfy people.

I’m going through therapy, and maybe this isn’t the most positive period of my life, but I’m doing my best. It would be great to find someone to love, but even if that doesn’t happen, if you feel like we match vibes, feel free to DM me.


r/ForeverAloneDating 1h ago

M4F 39 [M4F] US/Online - What’s your favorite cuisine?

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I’ll tell mine in the end. By then, take a guess.

Hey youu, I’m a 39 year old guy who’s downright terrible at describing himself. I’m looking for someone who loves talking, is kind, enjoys taking part in new experiences, and is always up for an ice cream. I don’t mind long distance, as long as we vibe.

I love taking pictures, playing guitar, checking out random podcasts, eating at new places, exploring vintage points of different areas, and idk many other things that I’m forgetting right now lol. I’m fairly into reading as well. Love to read mystery and drama novels. Career wise, I have a comfortable work life balance with a few perks here and there, earn decently, and love my job.

I make sure I’m fairly active and consistently play one kind of sport or another. Over the weekends, I often hike or play board games. When it comes to religion, I’m an atheist, however, I do believe in spirituality. If you’ve any other questions, ask away!

Aaaand, the most important bit. What was your guess? My fave is Italian.

Have a great day ahead (if you choose to message me :p), and feel free to feel awesome!