There's the common narrative of victims of Luo Men. Young, naive, lover girl (or hopeless romantic) that fell for the lies of their luo boyfriends only to discover they are the side chick or 5th girlfriend in the second year of the relationship. And over the last few years this has gathered online discourse with trends like Fear Luo Men. But this post is not about those victims. This post is about the other victims that people rarely notice. The other luo men 😂. Okay here me out please.

There's the general perspective agreed upon by many right now about luo men in the dating scene and this can be split down to two categories. Firstly, they know how to love financially. Often lavishing their partner(s) with expensive gifts and vacations and date nights and the likes and making all of them (if more) feel most loved. To a point we've broke people take massive loans to impress their mates. And secondly, they have multiple partners and that means 90 percent of these relationships usually end in tears.

While I am not here to refute any of the claims what this means for other luo men is ladies start to have those expectations on us. Early last year I had a girl who we were just basically in the talking stage and all she kept taking about is 'she just wants to feel the luo love'. I was a brokie. She didn't see me for who I am she just saw the tag the society had placed on me and wanted to experience it. Couldn't offer that. Also recently, another one turned me down saying simply 'she knows how it usually ends. In tears'. And she's not ready to experience that with another luo man again.

And so the rest of us are out here suffering on the consequences of the actions by our fellow tribesmen.

First, WANTAM

The sweetness of ndizi goes really well with the savoury and spicy choma sauce.

Try it then LOVE YOUR LIFE

Came across this project called Build Kenya and honestly thought it was worth sharing here.

The idea is pretty interesting, and more importantly, it seems like they're trying to solve an actual problem rather than just building something for the sake of it.

The person behind it is also actively looking for feedback from Kenyans, so I figured this would be a good place to share it and get some local perspectives.

Would be interested to hear what you guys think.

https://www.reddit.com/r/Opportunities_Kenya/s/RxuGKUQZeB

I always try to tip service workers, be it male or female.

Hii economy imetuonyesha shege that nowadays fuliza haitoshi.

Are the tips still coming in? Earnings ziko aje?

My largest was 7K hapo Artcaffe. Nilipeleka ngeus birthday hapo; service was so nice, and we were the only ones. They waited till we finished; nikawaita wote, niwadunga kila mtu thao thao.

It been two and half decades since I came to this world. I am not where I wished I would be by the time I was to be celebrating this . it's been a journey though. Born 2000 nnaendelea aje . Mimi I am back home nothing to show for the past years. But grateful some few lessons hapa kule. But I guess twenties are for this making mistakes and learning from them.

Mr. Kasongo has actually done a good job building this stadium to international standards, but we all know one mashemeji derby here and we are looking at a millions in damages. We are always crying that Kenya needs modern well lit roads, modern schools, hospitals but we cannot even take care of simple cabros or the "chandeliers" installed by bwana dimples. Maybe the below average IQ of a typical Kenyan is to blame but we are not ready for first world infrastructure.

Motorcycle wipes out after a truck spills some hydraulic oil ahead

So yesterday I got chased by some random dude in gikomba. Mind you this wasn't my first time in the place so I don't know what he was on about, apparently I refused to talk to him when he was trying to take me to buy sweatshirts sijui wapi. I had my earphones on, and general rule of the place, { Even if you meet your dad in gikomba, there's a huge chance that that is not your dad and you may end up getting robbed. Kama ni yeye mtaongea ukirudi home, better not risk it.}

However, I was there because some girls I had met last week separately wanted clothes for reselling and buying from vendors would cut into their margins but they also did not have enough money to get a full bale so I pooled their money and took a bale and divided it then repackaged and sent it to them. This had me thinking that I may be sitting on a good side hustle, it's not the first time I've met people who need like half or a three quater of a bale to start a business.

Do ya'll think this could be something? All thoughts are welcome.

I've been at this construction company for about a week now.. Man, things are so different here. We were all issued with PPEs(Personal Protective Equipment), that is helmet, gloves, safety goggles, safety boots and a mask. All people at the site must wear full PPEs at all times. It's crazy man.

Arival time ni by 8am, but hauwezi ingia kama supervisor hajafika so kazi inaeza from 8.30 hapo. No entering bila ID.

There's a mandatory lunch break everyday from 1 - 2 pm. The tools we use pale kwa site are in the very best condition. It makes the work so much easier.

Kazi huisha 5pm. Whatever remains ni ya kesho. Also, the pay is very good, 1000/= per day.

The foreman na yeye, ako very good. He's strict yes, but Hana story mingi, if you've ever worked in a site before unajua venye hao wasee hukuwa. Ukiona unachelewa, unamshow tu na ataelewa na bado utapata full pay yako, no issues at all.

Hadi ikifika time ya koroga, I thought Sisi ndio tutaingia ground but wapi, walileta premixed cement kwa truck na ikamwgwa hapo ndani, only 2 people were required to do the work. Yaani, huku, the place and work is very modernised.

Of course kazi bado inachosha, but as we wait for better opportunities, I'll keep on pushing huku.

Other strange things here: 1. Absolutely no music at all times 2. No working on Sundays or holidays 3. Saturday kazi huisha from 2pm tupatane Monday asubuhi.

Today I was overwhelmed with work and I just needed to cool off. I felt so much on my shoulders even in my life I just decided to take a walk. Then I saw a beautiful restaurant and decided to get in. Bro, I have just realised that I have never truly treated myself like this.

The tea is good and the place is good. The only time I do this is when I am doing it to someone's daughter. Not that I will be doing this often but y, I am happy I have realized there is goodness in self appreciation. Okay. I hope y'all have a good day and CBD is actually peaceful in some places.

I am no expert in toilets and bathrooms, but one thing that completely irks me ia how poorly planned washrooms are, even in the middle of CBD(UoN I'm looking at you). There is no water, broken cisterns, no air freshener, a constant foul smell and water leaking everywhere.

What infuriates me is how pointless the work of the cleaners is. They wash and use all sorts of products just for the washrooms to go back to smelling bad 30 minutes later. The situation gets progressively worse as you move further from the capital, kuna choo zingine ukiingia unaskia enyewe hauko nairobi. Is building nice toilets that hard? Or does the public have a hand in this situation.

I applied role ya casino dealer, got called to the interview, and passed. We started our training today. Training takes 3 months, and in those 3 months, you'll only be given an allowance of 300 kenyatta shillings per day.

I'm still thinking about whether to attend tomorrow or just don't show up. How does someone expect you to show daily ndio akupee 3 hundred daily for 3 months? Don't forget you're supposed to be there early since training starts at 7. Lazima niamke 4 ndio nifike mapema daily.

These days I feel like I’m just travelling through life with no clear idea where I’m going.

I’ve made mistakes. Some of them I regret, some I just have to accept and move on from. I’ve lost friends along the way, and I’ve also disappointed people who expected better from me.

The pressure is real. Everyone expects you to have your life together, but inside you are still trying to understand life .

I've learned to enjoy the depression, the long nights.

Actions have consequences and I've stopped wanting more and accepting.

So mimi hupenda kusoma economic/financial reports, ziwe za yearly/quaterly reports za makampuni ama za nchi. Leo nikiwa raundi za za net nimekutana na economic report ya TZ ya 2024/2025. Its very interesting.

Economic Overview

GDP yao ni 5.5 but thats not the kicker. The interesting part it the composition of the GDP.

*Tourism

Tourism is not a GDP metric nor does it feature as a standalone industry in its GDP calculations. Its rather scattered into various sectors e.g transport and trade. I added it because it is a vital discussion topic, but it is not a wholesome GDP metric.

International tourists, Tanzania walikuwa na 2.29 million arrivals. (In comparison, Kenya which had 3.3 million foreign arrivals)

Tourism Earnings

Hawa wajamaa waliunda doo mingi kutuliko,

Agriculture production:

Agricultural Exports:

Total Export destination by country

Export & Import destination by Region:

1. COMESA

(a) Exports to COMESA countries

Hawa wasee waliexport a total of 220.60 billion KSH to in 2025, an increase of 57% from 2020.

(b). Imports from COMESA countries

Imports(113.46 billion KSH) zao ziko chini kuliko export. So, wako na positive trade surplus.

2. SADC

Trade with SADC countries

These guys had a fucking 150% increase in exports to SADC. From $525.9 million (ksh 68.08 billion) to 816.4 million USD (ksh 101.51 billion), almost double!!!!

1. East Africa

Damn! I fell off. I got lost in the sauce. From never repeating a class in primary all through to high school, to stagnating in Uni. As we speak, the earliest I can complete my undergrad is 2029 making it 10 years since I joined. People perceive me with this type of intelligence, in its literal generic definition, based on my prior academic prowess but that person is gone. All the ingenuity and potential and ceiling praise for someone who plateaued long before they themselves were even conscious of it. I effin messed up and I have been punished severely but rightfully. What's eerie is that I have tried replaying the past events and every time, I arrive at the same result. Like everything happened the way it was intended and even if I went back, I would still act the same.

Now going back to the program, I don't feel any excitement. Everything is just so unsavory. I feel cornered and institutionalized by something I had already broken up with. My toxic ex, with a witty and sweet mouth, full of promises about the future if I see this relationship through to the end this time. How do you show up every day for someone you've grown to mistrust for the last 7 years? How do you reveal that incentive, the motivation that fuels you to build tenacity and push forward?

I was of the opinion, I start something different a new, but the financial aspect made it a huge impediment. I'm already a burden for how long I have dragged this and the kindest thing I could do is make it easier for those who have and continue to support my education, I think. Being born in a third world country with very limited economic opportunities, education proves a much more reliable path towards financial freedom, and so I have to see this through however much it hurts. Going to class, I feel like a gumbaru.

Kilometres ngapi?

Niko na very many ideas za funny videos tiktok acting but shida ni mmoja tu I only created one video my people hawako serious nime wa push for over 3 weeks nothing is happening 😑