r/TalesFromTheFrontDesk 3d ago

Weekly Free For All Thread

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r/TalesFromTheFrontDesk 8d ago

Medium We need to have a talk, everybody

1.6k Upvotes

This is directed more towards the "guests" that have been frequenting our subreddit.

Now I, personally, do not mind tales from the guest AS LONG AS the front desk is a prime feature of the story and I also don't mind it as much if the story is told in a respectful manner. I also don't mind when guests put in their 2 cents in the comment section. For me, personally, it can be beneficial to get another perspective.

But I haven't been seeing that as much anymore. Lately, what I have been seeing are comments or posts that aren't tales. I'm seeing a lot of complaining about the way that we do our jobs. I'm seeing a lot of infiltration of guests who are putting this subreddit and our users down because we have the AUDACITY to use this subreddit as our safe space. I'm seeing a lot of people accusing users of making shit up or using AI with absolutely nothing to go on.

I'm losing my patience. And I'm at the point where if I start seeing any type of confrontation from a "guest", I'm just going to ban them full stop. This is a subreddit for front desk tales. It is a subreddit where we all encourage each other, lift each other up, and yeah, you know what? Some front desk people on this sub can be absolute dicks here as well. But just like how we're the only ones allowed to pick on our siblings, WE are allowed to point out when they're being a dick. Not you (unless, as I stated above, it's done respectfully and a decent conversation comes from it). If you want to bitch about us, complain about how we aren't going to stress out our housekeeping staff by constantly asking them when your room is going to be clean because YOU decided to check in at 10 AM on a Saturday morning when check in time is at 3 or 4 PM, get pissed off because you brought your husband/wife/mom/dad's credit card but they aren't there and we can't check you in without a credit card authorization form on file, THEN DO IT ON YOUR OWN SUBREDDIT. Not on ours.

This is OUR community. Not yours. If you're going to come on here and be a dick, you're getting banned. There won't be a warning.

Enjoy your stay :)


r/TalesFromTheFrontDesk 4h ago

Short Weep for us children, as Burning Man is upon us.

451 Upvotes

For those who do not know, Burning Man is a week long Bacchanal in the desert near where I work. Back in the 90s, it was more inclusive, but now it is mostly for upper middle class or rich people. There are art events, music events, drug events, and sex events. Basically everything goes at Burning Man, and numerous famous people have gone. Both Elon Musk and Chris Rock have been there recently.

Many people take months to prepare for Burning Man- You need to provide your own food, water, possibly electricity (If you're fancy), costumes, working materials for any art, lube for any sex. If you are international, you need to rent/purchase an RV. Also, international guests need to pay airfare for the US, plus shipping for anything they want they can't bring over.

You'd think a bunch of Bohemian drug users would be, in general, fine right? You would be dead wrong. They are the rudest guests, and I need to warn new agents every year that they are unpleasant. They do not prepare their shipping, but will blame you for the shipping. They will complain about the price that is only inflated by all of them coming in. They will complain about the dirt they actively tracked in.

I have been yelled at by so many Burners I feel numb at this time of year, mostly. I get infuriated by the trash they irresponsibly throw basically everywhere, and the waste of throwing away so many vehicles every year. But hey, That's what I guess I signed up for. A bunch of hedonistic millionares laying waste to as many states as they an.


r/TalesFromTheFrontDesk 9h ago

Medium That’s one way to get a free cancelation I guess…

387 Upvotes

As we all know, many hotels have incidental deposits. It’s not complicated in my opinion, we hold the money til check out and then it’s all yours again minus what you spent if you bought anything from the market.

As we also all know, third parties are trash. My new favorite scam from them, I have learned, is they tell guests to PAY them $5 and check the little box and that will cover their incidentals. In what way does that make sense? Genuinely asking. It’s a $50 temporary hold, how can one possibly think paying $5 will waive it?

Well this guy wasn’t super pleased with that. And insisted he doesn’t have to put a card on file and he does this at all hotels. I told him I can’t help what other hotels do and idk what the 3rd party is doing but no in no way shape or form does $5 and a box on a website waive the incidental deposit.
Then he tells me he doesn’t have a card…while holding his wallet open exposing several well known major bank cards. I didn’t point that out though, felt too snarky.
He storms out and I begin to check in 2 other guests that had been witnessing this.

As soon as he walked out “he booked with this specific 3rd party didn’t he? Yeah we’ve been through that lol” and basically they were of the mindset that yeah that sucks for him and oh yeah that specific 3rd party is especially bad. Had lovely interactions with those 2.

He comes back in shoving his tablet at me because he can pull up on the 3rd party. By this point he’s yelling and dropping F bombs all over the place. We go back and forth about he does this everywhere and that’s nice but not how our policy works.

He then demands I call the 855 number. No. You’re acting like this and now want me to do you a favor? No. I tell him I won’t be doing that as I have all the information right in front of me and can see there is no card for incidentals and no notations about it being in the portal as all the rest are if they have it.

He demands a manager “I’m the front desk manager, thank you” admittedly that was snarky as all hell. So that gets me a new tirade of “BULL F-ING SH-T!!”

Now it’s 10 minutes after I’ve already clocked out but my next front desk agent is busy setting up some food for long term guests. This guy is still hollering in my lobby. I tell him he needs to stop yelling. It gets to the point that I say I’m done and just walk to the back and get my stuff to the tune of “F-ING LAZY B-TCH!!”

When I walked out I cancelled his reservation, DNRed him, and let my front desk know that he no longer has a reservation and that if he didn’t want to leave we’d be happy to provide a police escort.

Learn how to treat people and handle your problems like a big boy.


r/TalesFromTheFrontDesk 4h ago

Medium Sometimes the Day Shift Runs Into Weird Guests Too

64 Upvotes

I'm pretty sure that most of us who work the front desk have some kind of notation system on the computer, it's just a matter which one our respective hotels have chosen to go with so we can document guest requests and concerns, or where we put things that other departments might need to know, etc. Most of the time the notations put in there are pretty normal and don't register a second look. But every now and then, you read something that makes you say, "What the hell?"

And over the past few days, when checking my notation system at the start of my shift, I've seen some stuff put in there by the AM and PM shifts that has had me saying that. Here are a few of my favorites...

The police had to be called when guests on their way to and from the parking lot reported that there was a strange man on the property who was at first talking to himself, who then proceeded to start stripping and began dancing naked to music only he could hear. Since they called the cops instead of giving him dollar bills, I'm assuming he wasn't very good or wasn't very attractive.

Another guest wanted to file a complaint because as he was coming back in from taking his dog out to do it's business, another guest was on her way out to take her dog to do the same. As they were passing each other, the dog exiting barked at his dog, scaring it. After talking with the AM shift, I know which guests these are. The first guy has a 70 pound German shepherd. The other lady's dog who apparently frightened such a beast? Her dog is a 5, maybe 10 pound Yorkie with pretty pink bows put on her fur.

And finally, a guest became upset because she was called and asked if she was going to move her vehicle since it had been parked in the fire lane for almost 45 minutes after she checked in. She moved the car, but then she came back in and -- this is the reason for the notation -- wanted to know why our valets hadn't moved her car for her, after all, "I left the keys in the ignition for them." Despite not seeing any valets when she arrived, and upon discovering that we actually didn't have valets, she suddenly wanted to speak to the manager the next day (this one happened at like 9:30 pm) to discuss why we would mislead her into thinking we did.

There was a follow-up notation about her. Apparently, now that she was upset, she turned into the kind of guest that was now finding everything wrong that she could and was adding it to the list of things she would speak the manager about, obviously to use as ammunition to try and get compensation. By time I came in, the list included: she could hear the elevator from her room. We didn't have a selection of non-alcoholic beers. She wasn't told we don't have room service. Breakfast didn't end late enough in the day for her. And how dare we schedule renovations to coincide with her stay.

Some guests, and non-guests, sometimes make sure our job is not boring.


r/TalesFromTheFrontDesk 19h ago

Medium "We were treated like third-class citizens!" - Complaint after requesting a 6AM check-in

350 Upvotes

We all want things. And sometimes, acquiring something may require a favor. In the service industry, certain folks genuinely believe that requesting a favor with an air of politeness should mean an instant win. Should you dare deny them, you are no better than historical tyrants.

One of our Night Auditors had a wonderful interaction with a lovely couple. Due to some flight mishaps, they ended up landing far earlier than expected: 5:30am, to be exact. They scooted into the lobby just after 6 and, while acknowledging how tall of an order it was, asked if getting in early would be possible.

Seeing that the place was sold out the night before, the NA had to be the bearer of bad news. This went fabulously.

When my colleague and I came in for the first shift, she told us about her interaction with this couple. She didn't go into great detail but just summarized that they wanted an early check-in, and after being denied, they ventured off to the business center to wait around.

About two hours later, the husband came up and spoke to my colleague. He lamented how "the last lady was so extremely rude to us!" My colleague soothed him a bit with her warm charm and simply focused on his desire to get in early. He came up a few more times. Finally, around noon, something was ready, and so she got him in. He was all smiles and laughs by then.

Despite ultimately getting what he wanted, it's not really a surprise he recently left a review recounting the ordeal. In it, he retold the details about the flight debacle and admitted that while he knew he was asking for a lot, he couldn't believe how the "first lady treated us like third-class citizens!"

He didn't elaborate on what exactly he meant by that. He simply pivoted to contrasting that interaction with that of my other colleague who got him in later on. Despite the fact that even she reiterated that the hotel was sold out, it's her explanation that he praised, saying, "The way she handled and informed us is a model of how patrons should be treated." He also made a weird mention of how he "knows that some hotels keep extra rooms for flight crews." Again, no elaboration. And even still, not sure where he was going with that thought.

I wasn't there for the initial conversation with the Night Auditor, though I do know she can be a bit of a sharpshooter. Even so, asking to check in about 9 hours early (for free) is a request that can only be denied so politely.


r/TalesFromTheFrontDesk 4h ago

Medium My Tales from the Nugent and fire alarms.

19 Upvotes

When I initially started at the Nugent (not it's real name), it was in bad shape. The former owner was beloved by the community (and starred in his own commercials), but 9/11 took a huge toll on our tourist based city, & hotel/casinos suffered from that.

He would also comp guests dinner or even a night if he liked them, and he wasn't about to stop because people were afraid of flying or the DHS was making travel far more difficult. He thought he was doing the right thing for the business, just as he had for the previous 40 years.

Turns out, he was dead wrong. By the time the new owners announced the sale, they had already been paying employees for a few months just to finalize the deal. And the new owners made no secret that they were going to be cutting every corner just to make a profit & possibly flip the place. Because the previous owner was so popular, many trusted people left. Including engineers, because they provide upkeep.

When I arrived a few months after the sale, we had fire alarms go off nearly every 2 weeks. I learned from engineering that there was a stripped wire in our gift shop that would trip the alarm every time it rained or there was a leak. We had an alarm that told people to evacuate immediately, so everyone did do this in a 1,200 room 28 floor hotel/casino. It was then up to the FD to determine what kind of compensation to give, as well as calm panicked guests down. It was a nightmare.

One time, the new restaurant (basically Hooters but with cowgirls) lit one of their stoves on fire, setting off every goddamned alarm on the property. It wasn't even close to being able to touch rooms (there was a marble floor and later I learned asbestos between), but sure. Every room needed to know.

This did not stop until the new owners did what they implied- they sold the company to another person. The newest owners seemed to actually think they could make money off the property, and spent a good amount of time fixing the facility, but alas, they sold the property a few years ago to a gambling company in Colorado.

They say brevity is the soul of wit, and unfortunately I am not witty.


r/TalesFromTheFrontDesk 1d ago

Medium Dealt with a guest who wouldn’t understand employee safety, twice

505 Upvotes

I (male) work at a select service roadside hotel, where often times after 4 or 5 in the evening, I am the only person in the building for the 3-11 shift, unless somebody else is on desk with me.

Two days ago, I had a woman call and ask for a blanket to be brought to her room. I explained I was unable to bring it up, but she could come retrieve it at the front desk. Her husband, an older gentleman came down, alcoholic, drink in hand and I came out from my back office where I was working on stocking our little convenience store and got him the blanket.

He proceeded to launch into an 8 or so minute rant about how he’s never been to a hotel where he has to come down to the front desk to get something for his room and despite multiple attempts seemingly refused to accept that it was a safety issue. He goes on implying that we don’t trust our guests, we host violent guests etc.

I just kept reiterating. These have been isolated incidents and that it only takes one person to stop a service for everyone else when it becomes a risk to employees. He then decided to ask what if he requested towels in the middle of the day if they would send a woman alone to his room to bring them. I further explained we have radios and alert tags that they can set off if there is an issue, plus we have multiple housekeepers on the floors at any time. This would go on and on until he realized there was a line of people behind him, which I had tried to point out to him that he ignored until then, and walked away.

Cut to today he comes down to inquire about a maintenance ticket we put in for his room, I had just come in an hour prior and was unaware of the status, to which he was very unhappy I had to check with maintenance about it, as did the morning shift apparently. Then he realized who I was and launched back into his big to do about not bringing a blanket to his room.

He thankfully seemed sober this time, but still refused to accept that it was a safety concern and a policy that I have had it every hotel I’ve worked at in the three years I’ve been in the industry. After maybe three minutes, I just broke and admitted to him that I have been harassed and sexually harassed about five or six times when I brought things to rooms while I was the only employee in the hotel and that it is a policy that has to be in place due to those kinds of isolated incidents.

The gentleman proceeded to just look me in the eyes and ask me “who is the common denominator in those incidents?”. I was very taken back by the implication that I was asking for it (the sexual harassment) and just looked at him and asked if he realized what he was implying. He should’ve thought before he spoke, but he did realize and apologized and said that’s not what he meant.

Sadly, he did not stop and walk away and instead went into how he is a lifetime high ranking member (second from the top) and had never seen this rule at a hotel. I told him my family is the same rank as him and have run into it many times, which of course he denied. He finally asked when a manager would be in, I told him tomorrow morning and he finally left.

I’ve dealt with my fair share of belligerent and rude customers, but this was a first and a new low for a guest to imply that I am at fault for being harassed at my job by guests.


r/TalesFromTheFrontDesk 1d ago

Medium That's a new one!

205 Upvotes

This happened yesterday.

I should mention that on this day, I have three housekeepers A family of three, mother, father, and son. Father is training the son, mother is on her own elsewhere in the building. And two in laundry who are related somehow (I forget exactly how)

My housekeepers arrived about thirty minutes early and started knocking on doors earlier than checkout.
Room 225 checks out in the app, but doesn't vacate the room immediately. So, the system shows the room is vacant, when it's actually not.

Not even two minutes after the housekeepers show up, 225 comes storming to the desk. Here's how the conversation went:
Guest: "Do you know that your help is barging into rooms and demanding we leave before our scheduled checkout?! I want a FULL AUDIT OF WHO HAS BEEN GIVEN KEYS TO ROOM 225 IN THE PAST WEEK!"

(big oof, calling our Latino housekeepers "The help")

Me: "I'm sorry, They're training and probably just excited to get started on traini-"
He cuts me off
"No! This is unacceptable, he (pointing at the son) was trying to rape my wife!"

As an aside, if that were true, why would you come to the front desk, and not the police first?!

anyway, I say "They have a big assignment of rooms (about five more than a usual Saturday), and probably just wanted to get started as soon as possible, to get out on here at a decent hour. If you want a full audit of who has keys, you'll have to contact the manager, she'll be here Monday morni-"

he cuts me off again, "But your checkout is at noon!"

"True, but you checked out on the app, so we assumed the room was vacant."
"But we weren't planning on leaving until then!"

At this point, the housekeeper speaks up, "His door was latched and he screamed 'still occupied' when he heard the door opening. The door didn't open wider than the closed latch would let."

At this point, I say to the guest, "How could you even know they were intending to assault you? Plus he said he was sorry and moved onto the next room. You just assumed that since someone was trying to enter the room, they were trying to assault you (That's a crazy first thought). Also, according to the system the room is vacant. We had no way of knowing you were still in the room. And it sounds like no harm was done."
He storms off and stomps back not even one minute later.

He just says, "You haven't heard the last of me! I'm going to complain to corporate!"

In my head: "Okay buddy, corporate will say "No harm no foul, thank you for the money."

It's just WILD that his first thought when someone was trying to enter the room was "This establishment gives out room keys to anyone so that they can assault others!"

PS I know the manager won't conduct a full audit of who issued key and when. Mostly because the process is a huge pain in the ass....She'll watch the cameras and see that our housekeepers tried to open the door, couldn't and moved on

PPS this guy is a super shiny member and probably just wants extra points/a free night out of complaining.
Knowing the boss, she'll give them a free night or 2x points just to get them to shut up. All of this while he constantly kept repeating "how can you people be so blazé about rape!?" As if our housekeepers actually raped someone! Finally, I highly doubt that our Latino (most likely catholic) father son housekeepers are going to be doing any sexual assault together, while the matriarch of the family is elsewhere in the building, and TWO OTHER FAMILY MEMBERS ARE IN THE PROPERTY, TOO! That's probably the least likely scenario!!!

-sigh- People, am I right?

What would have been funny would have been, "you're accusing our housekeepers of attempted assault? We take these claims very seriously, I'm calling the police who will take your statements." If only, to see how he would react.


r/TalesFromTheFrontDesk 1d ago

Long Extremely Sophisticated/Coordinated Phone Scam

72 Upvotes

I am a PBX phone operator, so my entire job is to handle the phone calls. Not entirely sure where to post this, but thought this sub would be a good idea. If you have heard anything similar to this, I'd love to hear.

I've been working as a phone operator at a large hotel chain, not large domestically, since May. I haven't dealt with any phone scams up until this point because the hotel I work at is the only one from this chain open in the US.

To begin, I got an outside call asking to connect to our bell desk. I tried to connect them over, the bell team was busy, and the call bounced back. I informed the caller the bell team was occupied, and he asked to connect to "his room" and gave the exact room number along with the full first and last name. There were 3 guests on the reservation and no one answered the phone, so the call bounced back and I informed the caller of this. Without saying anything, they hung up.

Not too long later, I received an inside call who identified their name and said they were from the bell team. They asked to connect to the same room that the outside caller provided, no one answered, and I informed them. The caller then said "Can you connect me to their direct phone number? I tried to call but didn't get through". This person said they dialed 9 then the phone number. I said for outside calls, you need to dial 91, then the phone number, but that I'd connect them over.

We recently expanded on staff over the summer, so there are some new hires in a few departments. The training hasn’t fully covered more advanced phone scams, however we know to ask for the name and reason for calling. Oftentimes, I have had actual employees from different departments calling to ask about things they may have been unclear on in regard to requests.

I have also had people from other departments call to connect to the same guest twice because more information was needed/they needed to communicate something that hadn't been completed in the first phone call. I'll also admit I'm not the most informed on some protocols and policies. To me, it made sense that the bell team, who I knew received a new hire, was unaware of how to fully call outside.

I then received a call of someone claiming to be from housekeeping asking about a guest request and they named the specific software we use. It's not niche, but it also isn't posted online that we use this specific system. She asked if we made any requests recently because the room number wasn't showing up. I said I hadn't and asked my coworker also in PBX if he had. He hadn't, and I said it may have been from the front desk, so I connected her to the FD manager.

On the phone, we can see whether a call is in house or an outside call. I have to press the "source" button to see the number of who calls, and I've had the habit of always pressing it when I pick up calls. I have never had issues seeing numbers, but this one did not show it and showed RT: 27. I've seen this very few times before, but some calls consistently this day were showing the RT: 27.

Later, this same person called back, identified themself with the same name and said they were from housekeeping and requested to speak to a certain room. As they called, stated they were from housekeeping, connected to the FD manager, and identified our guest request software, I didn't see this as being out of the ordinary. I assumed they were following up on the request or delivering it. Maybe 5-10 minutes later the same person called to connect to the same room.

Around this time, my colleague received a call from someone who identified themselves from the bell team, and stated a name. We have a summer intern and this was the one who was identified, and he asked to connect to a room. The caller gave the room number and exact last name as on the reservation. The guest didn't pick up.

Maybe 30 minutes later, while my colleague was on break, the FD manager came in to say that the guest from the housekeeping request room call came to the front desk hysterically. The guest informed us the caller said that our front desk system had shut down and that they needed a credit card for the file and asked for their information over the phone. Maybe this guest didn't pick up the first call, which is why the caller tried a second time. Thankfully, the guest didn't give their credit card info over.

I told her everything I typed. Our manager followed up on the guest who's direct phone was called (from the bell team) and the guest informed us it was the same thing, except this guest did provide their credit card information.

What confuses me the most is how connected and sophisticated this attack is. There were at least 3 people involved, some on the property (as some calls were from the phones on the property itself) and some not, who were aware of our systems, our team members, and guest information. To me, I think it has to be someone who is involved with our property, but why would they do this? Our hotel is known for having great benefits for employees and a lot of people are happy here.

My coworker worked at a very well known luxury hotel chain that had proper training regarding safety protocols and the different types of scams. He had never heard or experienced anything like this.

I realized that the person who called and tried to connect to the bell desk then their room was most likely trying to set up a story to make the call from the bell desk easier to connect to the guest's actual number. They gave me reason to believe the bell desk's request was not out of place. But they also confirmed the guest wasn't in the room twice, so then they connected to the direct number when they also said how they tried to call the number and SPECIFICALLY explained they only dialed 9, then the number.

With the housekeeping one, they set up the story by mentioning our specific request software, got an actual guest request from the FD manager, who told me she gave a room number and request the FD made around that time, and called back to connect to that room. There was no reason for me to believe anything was out of the ordinary. Later, in our email chain, the FD manager explained that she asked who placed the request (from our request system, where you can see that), and the caller hung up immediately after.

We have received outside calls from employees on shift with requests regarding guest rooms, like our in room dining. Not everyone here follows protocol, which further adds to their story. They knew that we'd slip up. Today, one of our IRD team members called and informed me about a request that couldn't be completed and it made me think about the RT: 27. I called the hotel phone from mine but hid my number with *67, and the RT: 27 came up again. The only person who called from outside hid their number, so I'm assuming maybe they are an employee or a former one.

Any thoughts? Has anyone experienced anything like this? I'm currently working while completing undergrad for hospitality management, so I'd love to hear honestly anything.


r/TalesFromTheFrontDesk 2d ago

Short So, this is a thing that just happened.

1.4k Upvotes

A very nice lady came in, wanting to check in on her reservation. The problem is, she made it for the 30th, not the 29th, and I didn't have her room type available for check in right now. So, because she booked through Licepine, I told her she needed to contact them to get both the date and the room type changed so I could check her in.

The Licepine agent calls me and asks if I can process a cancellation with no penalty, to which I say no, because all we want is a date and room type change, also it's marked as no cancellation on my computer, so there's that. This dude says that they are unable to make changes to a reservation on their end, that it's up to me to make those changes. I told him that he knows very well that I can't make any changes to third party reservations, they have to be done on his end.

We go round and round, and I finally told him that this was bullshit, I want a supervisor. He says he'll have one call me, which actually happens. But the supervisor is just as useless. I told him that it was bullshit, that he was the most useless person I've ever spoken to, and that I hoped he had the day he deserved before hanging up.

This poor lady has her baby with her, and my audit is at least two hours away, so I made the executive decision to put her in a room type I do have that's the same cost, and I'll just check her in via the virtual card after audit, and waive the early check-in fee. She started bawling and gave me the biggest hug.

And here I thought Shmooking was the worst third party.


r/TalesFromTheFrontDesk 2d ago

Short Lost and found is a courtesy service

660 Upvotes

To all you Goobers that can't take an extra 30 seconds to double check your small hotel room, or were too hung over to realize you left a whole wardrobe of clothes behind in the bathroom. Lost and Found is a courtesy service.

Its not our fault you lost your shit. I repeat, its not our fault that YOU lost your shit.

We don't care if you spent a lot of money. Everyone staying here spent a lot of money and many clean up after themselves.

We aren't replacing your air pods. You lost them.

We understand that your toddler son needs his blanket, but if the blanket was that important you should have taken an extra 30 seconds to double check your room. Yelling at the front desk agent doesn't improve your sleepless nights.

We are not paying for your shipping, its your fault you lost your shit.

If you call us three months later because it took you three months to realize you lost your shit, we don't have it. That was 90 days ago its gone. We don't care if you think that's unfair. We have limited space to store all the shit left behind by other Goobers.

We don't care that you have a flight to catch. You can either pay for shipping, or come pick your shit up before your flight. No we are not driving it to the airport for you.

We don't care that its an inconvenience to you that the shit you left at our hotel is hard to reacquire. Don't lose your shit.

Be nice to employees. If you're nice, respectful, and acknowledge your mistake, employees will be more willing to help you.

If you call us looking for your shit, but can't even describe what it was that you lost. That checks out. Also you're a Goober.

Seriously, the amount of people who call us asking if we picked up any golf clubs today, but can't describe their lost golf clubs. I know they're probably just fishing for free shit, but they're Goobers. You aren't fooling anyone.

In conclusion, stop being fucking Goobers.


r/TalesFromTheFrontDesk 2d ago

Short First Hotel Job…Is This all Normal?!

73 Upvotes

UPDATE 9/1/26: I listened to y’all and I have an interview Wednesday for a restaurant that pays 1-2 dollars more 😭 thank you for all of your honesty and helpful advice!
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Hello! I (21f) recently started as a part-time NA for a hotel with 72 rooms. This is my first ever hotel/hospitality job. I was previously a fast food closer and pretty much everything labor-wise is a breath of fresh air. I love night shifts!! However, I’ve been struggling with my GM’s scheduling, which was something I did not expect.

When I was hired almost 3 months ago, it was SPECIFICALLY for the Night Audit position at 25-35 hours a week. My GM confirmed I would get these hours during the hiring process. He said I would have to work a couple odd shifts during training which I understood.

Soooo here I am, barely getting 25 hours a week and getting thrown at every shift. I’ve randomly worked 1st, 2nd and NA, sometimes all in the same week? The worst part for me is how late my manager posts the schedule. I’m currently waiting to see if I even work tomorrow and it’s already halfway through the goddamn day!!! My GM also has called me when he knows I’m asleep bc then he’ll make a joke about he can tell I just woke up. No fucking shit I worked an overnight!!

Another thing: I requested ten days off over a month in advance as I have a pre-planned trip (where I will be visiting universities/other personal issues). I texted my GM about it to just let him know. He ended up making a deal out of it because ONE of the ten days conflicted with another coworker…I’ve seen plenty of days where more than one FD worker was approved (8 days in a row too!) The Housekeep schedule is usually printed out a few days in advance but ours is never.

I don’t think my GM has a vendetta against me or anything. We seemed to get along super well and he is very appreciative when I help out. Many of my coworkers have told me I can’t quit because they like me. It’s all so frustrating and I’m trying to figure out if this is just a normal thing for the hotel industry or what?!

Edit: thank you so much to everyone who took the time to read my post and respond. 🫶 It’s really validating to hear that my frustrations and concerns are real and he’s fucking me over. I thought i was losing it a bit!


r/TalesFromTheFrontDesk 2d ago

Short Night Audit

40 Upvotes

Hello. Maybe I just suffer from anxiety and depression but lately I feel like this shift and my sleep schedule have been causing me to lose my mind. Are there any other night auditors who feel the same, am I being dramatic? I just feel so lonely and isolated. This shift has taken a toll on me mentally and thankfully I am going to school so I hope to pursue that and move forward. I just go into panic attacks being here alone with my thoughts. Its just me during the shift. Anyway, just wanted to see if anyone else felt crazy after working this shift?


r/TalesFromTheFrontDesk 3d ago

Short Tell me about a time you gave it all back to a nasty guest

584 Upvotes

I hung up on woman once who verbally bashed me. I was a Concierge, and a guest had been pestering me about getting her tickets for an MLB game. Unfortunately, the times, they are a-changin', and it is near impossible to get other people MLB tickets without the MLB app, and buying them online for other people, without their credit card (she insisted I charge the tickets to her room) is even a bigger hassle. Brokers are useless in the 21st century and near-extinct.

After several back and forth emails asking her for help and giving her options, and please understand, as a concierge, it is my personal goal to fulfill EVERY request, no matter how large or small, she was getting so demanding, so rude, changing what exactly she wanted, her price point, and the amount of tickets, she called me to harangue me. She asked how old I was. I don't know why I told her my age. She said "I have two sons that age!!!! One's a CEO and the other is a blah blah blah of a bazillion dollar startup!!!! They're successful and that's why you're only a concierge in (expletive removed) hotel!"

I yelled at her about demeaning my station and slammed the phone down.

I had to work the day she checked in. I told the FD to notify me when she was checking in. They did, and I went on lunch. I was off next two days and resumed when she had left.

She never mentioned me to management, or a survey, or online reviews.


r/TalesFromTheFrontDesk 3d ago

Long Gave a guest good news; he was still mad anyway

177 Upvotes

One of my favorite parts of the job is getting yelled at for things out of my control. Bonus points if I offer sympathy and get snark as a response. That's about how this situation went down.

The most delightful of combinations at my hotel: a sold-out night and a late-going event in a space that some of our rooms face. So, inevitably, there will be noise complaints.

Honestly, though, only one or two rooms actually complained this particular night. But one of them, Mr. Grizz, was the most notable. Around 9:30pm, he called down in a fury: "Listen, this is ridiculous! I've been traveling all day, and I need to go to bed NOW!" I empathized with his situation but alerted him that due to being sold out, a room move was off the table.

"No, no, no! You have to do something!" At that point, I remembered the 'noise machines' management purchased a while ago. I've never offered one before, but since the conversation was basically going in circles (I've truncated it thus far), I figured he may at least have become intrigued.

Of course not.

"What the $@*(! is that supposed to do for me? Are you kidding me right now?!" he jabbed. To be fair: I had the same thought when they were first purchased, but that wasn't my call.

Anyway, I reiterated that I was trying to help with the available options, and he simply got snarkier and snarkier: "No, you're not doing anything! You don't 'understand' because you're not doing a single thing right now. If you understood, you would make sure the only people in these rooms would be the people partying right now!!"

Keeping cool, I simply re-explained that by virtue of being sold out, this was simply the reality of the situation. Still, I tried to be sympathetic through it all and kept my voice low. He eventually got sick of it and slammed the phone down. Boo-hoo.

I simply moved on, and my colleague and I were talking about a few different things. About ten minutes later, Mr. Grizz rolled up to the Desk (though I didn't know it was him immediately, as I hadn't seen him before.) His opening line was, "You guys talking $@!)3 about me?!"

I looked at him weird and simply replied, "Talking about reservations. But how can I help you?" He pipes out: "So which one of you was I just on the phone with?!" Now realizing who it was, I continued on: "Oh, that was me. From [room#], right?"

"Yeah, and I'm begging you to please do something!" I repeated myself for the umpteenth time, but with an added disclaimer: "I do have some good news, though. I made a mistake before; the event actually ends at 10, not 11." He glared at me for two seconds, let out a deep, annoyed sigh and simply hoofed off. There were two ladies coming down the hallway who he apparently knew, and he belts out: "I'm gonna just go outside because they aren't doing #$@! for me!"

It was about 9:45pm at this point. So, the noise he wanted gone would be gone in 15 minutes. Somehow, rather than just realizing he had no further reason to be (as) angry, he must've figured he was too committed to the bit to back down now.

The ladies came up to us, a lot nicer than Mr. Grizz. One said she offered him to come to her room, but he declined. The other asked if he could at least get a refund for the night, and I told her, "I already gave him $30 off for tonight. I'm assuming you're in the same group block? If so, your rates are already severely discounted." They accepted the explanations and went to go find him. Security was called up to hang out for a bit just in case Mr. Grizz came for a final round. Thankfully, he disappeared for the rest of the night.

TL;DR - Guest was upset about noise from an event below his room and called to yell his complaints. He couldn't be moved due to the hotel being sold out and was unwilling to accept any other answer than what he deemed to be an appropriate solution. He eventually slammed the phone down but then stomped down to the desk a few minutes later to yell some more. I informed him the event would be over in just 15 more minutes (when I initially mistakenly told him it'd be done in another hour and change.) Rather than calming down, he stormed out the front door cursing but didn't do anything else after that.


r/TalesFromTheFrontDesk 3d ago

Short My FDM micromanaged everything

71 Upvotes

I got called into the office on Monday because I didn’t get license plate numbers (I was never told to do it but apparently that doesn’t matter) we got a new FDM a few weeks ago and now all of the sudden I’m being told about things I’ve been doing wrong. Apparently I was taken off of first shift because of these supposed things I’m messing up. I just find it crazy that I’ve heard nothing about it until now. This FDM also makes sure I know every time I make a mistake or forget something. It’s went from a friendly reminder to a constant burden. I constantly get embarrassed in front of the guests when he jumps in to tell them that I forgot to tell them when breakfast is or how to get to the elevator. Maybe I’m just crazy but I personally don’t like it when I check in to have someone escort me down to the elevator or the restroom. This is a small hotel so it’s not hard to give verbal directions.

I just don’t feel like I deserve to be told after the fact about mistakes I’ve made if it’s been a problem for weeks. I dread coming in every week because of a constant fear of being reprimanded. Maybe it’s just the former manager in me but I just feel like if mistakes are made they need to be addressed in private and not weeks after the fact.


r/TalesFromTheFrontDesk 4d ago

Short Clock in on time for your first shift. Not too early, not too late.

609 Upvotes

This story is from when I worked in in-house Reservations, but it applies to new Front Desk agents as well. And really anyone starting a new job.

We hired a couple new reservations agents, and agents always started with a week of classroom training. The assistant manager goes to collect the new hires, finds them waiting by the employee entrance where the shift clock is, as expected. She conducts them to the classroom, introduces them to the system software we use, yadda yadda, starts the first day of training.

Cut to one hour before the end of the day, one of the new hires raises their hand. "I clocked in one hour early, can I go home now?" The assistant manager is somewhat stunned at this, since it means they arrived, clocked in, and just sat there for an hour doing nothing but wait. However, under our labor agreement, trainees can't do overtime, so she releases the new hire. She finishes the day with the rest of the new hires and then consults with the reservations manager and HR. The new hire who clocked in early is informed they will be paid for the day, but they are terminated effective immediately.

To this day I don't know what they were thinking.


r/TalesFromTheFrontDesk 5d ago

Medium Really Bad Hotel Scammers

1.8k Upvotes

This couple that looked to be in their early 20s walked in saying they were there to check in. I brought up their reservation and asked for the boyfriend's ID and credit/debit card since it was in his name. He gives me his ID and a sheet of notebook paper. The ID matches, but then I ask him what the paper's for. He tells me that the card on the reservation is his mother's card, and that the paper is a letter from her explaining that it's okay to use that card and not to ask him for one. I didn't even bother opening the letter, I just told him I can't accept that, gave a quick explanation of the hotel's check-in policy regarding credit or debit cards, and then asked him for a credit or debit card with his name on it.

That's when the girlfriend makes her presence felt saying that the letter tells me not to ask that. I inform her that their letter has no bearing in this situation and repeat my request for for a card. The boyfriend is adamant that I need to read the letter. Now, curiosity has me. I open and read it. It's a handwritten letter, in penmanship so bad that I can barely make out some of the words. Even worse, it's written in print, not even cursive. The gist of the letter is basically that her son and his girlfriend are traveling around the country, but they don't have credit cards of their own, so they're using hers to pay for their rooms, and this letter is her authorizing me to let them pay for the room that way. No signature at the end by the way.

I look up and tell them that the letter changes nothing. If his mother wanted to pay for the room she should've called ahead and gotten an authorization form put on file. He says that if she did that she'd be filling out forms for who knows how many hotels and that I need to just listen to the letter. I tell the both of them that I need them to either present a valid card that matches one of their IDs, or I'm going to cancel their reservation and ask them to leave. I then hand them back the letter. They ask to speak to a manager. I tell them the manager is not going to accept the letter either. That's when the girlfriend tries the Hail Mary play.

She tells me that it's illegal of me to not accept that letter and she's going to call the police if I don't check them in. The look of actual shock on her face when I told her to do it... priceless. The look of fear when I offered to do it myself was even more fun. At that point the boyfriend tells me to fuck off and that I'm forcing him and his girlfriend to sleep on the streets. I tell him he's doing that himself but to have a nice night. I cancel the reservation and email everyone at the desk and the managers in case this couple comes back or tries calling.

I'm pretty sure this isn't a new scam, but it's the first time I've come across it. I also wonder if the reason their trying it is because it's actually worked on someone.


r/TalesFromTheFrontDesk 5d ago

Short People with high disgust sensitivities do not belong in hotels.

1.4k Upvotes

2 tales. #1. We have Ninja coffee makers in our hotel. They are dual purpose combining pods and a basket for drip coffee . House keeping cleaned the entire machine just before CI. There must have been condensation from the high heat in the machine bc there were the 2 tiniest coffee drips on the outside of the basket touching the basin that holds the basket. Well, that was enough to gross out a guest. She wrote me a lengthy complaint.

#2. The good ol, there’s a hair in my sheets. This one was top tier crazy though. I get a message “beds are dirty” I walk into the room, for a second my heart dropped bc I thought housekeeping forgot that room, nope. This woman stripped both beds, pulled all 6 pillows out of their pillow cases and was opening drawers, running her finger through them to look for dust, as well as looking underneath the beds for any uncleanliness. I told her flat out, I’d prefer if you’d leave, I don’t think you’ll be satisfied here and refunded them their full amount.

All this being said: why do these types even travel? If their disgust sensitivities are so high, it has to be unbearable for them as well.


r/TalesFromTheFrontDesk 5d ago

Short Do you let guests know when they are wrong?

141 Upvotes

If I was a reader looking at the title of this post, I might go, “Of course, what kind of question is this?”

But, in my hotel... we were taught not to let guests know when they’re at fault.

A guest once asked for a rate quotation but kept changing dates, asking for things that were already mentioned in previous conversations (MULTIPLE TIMES), and eventually ended up making the booking themselves — only for it to be wrong. Then they needed my assistance, accused us of booking them for the wrong dates, yadda yadda, and complained that the conversation was lengthy and complicated (which was the result of their... own actions?)

I pointed it out in the most polite and professional way possible, while also guiding them through some alternatives, and management told me NOT to let them know that it was actually their mistake. Then they got refunded as compensation.

Another guest booked the wrong package, clearly didn't read the terms & conditions, and went for the lowest rate possible. Then they made a fuss at the front desk, accusing the website of giving misinformation, and got compensated anyway.

They basically ended up getting extensive all-inclusive inclusions for the lowest rate available.

This is my first year working at a hotel, and it's honestly very frustrating. Not only is it humiliating, but I also feel like letting rude people get their way will just encourage more rude guests to do the same thing.

We don't have a DNR list. A guest will only be banned if they do something seriously harmful, and even then it requires management's discretion. It's not like we have reliable police officers who can just show up and drag these people away when they make a fuss.

So basically, we're just told to suck it up and give the guests whatever they want.

I wonder if any of you guys' hotels do this too? And how do you become immune to the emotional damage? Any tips?


r/TalesFromTheFrontDesk 5d ago

Medium How would you have handled this situation at the front desk?

110 Upvotes

Italian male, 28, 183 cm (6'0"), around 100 kg (220 lbs), working as a receptionist at a hotel in the Italian Dolomites.

A few days ago, I had one of those guest interactions that I genuinely wasn't sure how to interpret, so I'd like to hear from other front desk people around the world.

Five young women checked in together. They were very loud, playful and clearly in holiday mode from the beginning, but nothing particularly unusual.

While I was showing them their apartment and explaining the hotel facilities, things started getting a little strange.

The elevator was too small for all of us, so I took the stairs while they went up. As the doors were closing, one of them jokingly said something along the lines of:

“Come on, you should have come with us. You would have had fun.”

I just smiled and continued doing my job.

Once we got to the apartment, I was explaining the spa facilities and hotel rules when three of them simply started taking their clothes off and putting on their swimsuits — right in front of me — while I was still there explaining everything.

They also started asking when my shift ended and whether I wanted to go out for drinks with them.

I told them I was in a relationship and politely declined.

I tried to redirect the conversation by suggesting that they could go to the hotel bar after the spa. I jokingly mentioned that our female bartenders would take good care of them.

One of them immediately replied:

“We're interested in the male bartender, not the girls. And if he's not there, we'll just take the handsome receptionist.”

They were laughing and seemed to be treating the whole thing as holiday flirting and a joke. Nobody appeared uncomfortable or aggressive. But I was still standing there in my work clothes, trying to complete a normal guest interaction.

I originally posted the story on an Italian subreddit, and the reactions were VERY mixed.

Some people said the behaviour was inappropriate and that, if the genders were reversed, everyone would immediately call it sexual harassment.

Others basically told me: “Dude, you should have enjoyed it.”

And then there were people who simply didn't believe the story.

In fact, one person actually posted a photo of me in the comments to “prove” that I'm not attractive enough for five women to behave this way, therefore the story couldn't possibly be true. 😂

So apparently my physical appearance became part of the investigation.

I'm curious about the perspective of people who actually work behind the front desk:

How would you have handled this situation?

Would you have considered it harmless guest banter, inappropriate behaviour, or something that crosses a professional boundary?

And have any of you had guests behave similarly toward you — regardless of gender?

I'm especially interested in hearing from front desk staff from different countries, because I'm wondering whether this kind of interaction is considered normal, inappropriate, or just bizarre in other parts of the world.

EDIT: Thanks for all the perspectives

Wow, I really didn't expect this many replies, especially from people working in front desks and hotels all over the world. After reading the comments, I think I see the situation a little differently. I never felt physically unsafe, but I was definitely caught off guard and uncomfortable. Several people pointed out that, as a front desk employee, you can't simply walk away from a guest interaction — being available and polite is literally your job. I hadn't really considered that aspect before. I was also surprised by how many of you have experienced similar situations. Apparently, guests hitting on hotel staff is pretty universal. 😂 As for what I did: I kept it professional, politely declined the invitations, redirected the conversation toward the hotel, and eventually left them to get ready for the spa. I didn't report them because, at the time, I genuinely saw it more as an awkward/funny interaction than something serious. I'm not too concerned about whether people want to call it sexual harassment, inappropriate flirting or simply crossing a professional boundary. I think the important point is that the same behaviour shouldn't automatically be considered acceptable just because the employee is a man. That said, I also understand the comments pointing out that the gender-reversed situation can involve a very different level of physical danger. That's a distinction I hadn't really considered when I first posted. And finally, to everyone who questioned the story because apparently I'm not attractive enough for five women to flirt with me: 😂 I still find that absolutely hilarious. Apparently Reddit has now established an official minimum attractiveness requirement for believable flirting. Thanks again for all the stories and perspectives!


r/TalesFromTheFrontDesk 5d ago

Medium I have finally found a good hotel to work at.

77 Upvotes

So over the years I have worked at a bunch of really crappy hotels and dealt with some absolutely insane situations. Following are a few of my posts that I have made previously about some of the crazier situations I have been in in the hotel field. I'm supplying the links to them because my profile is set up so that you can't see my post history.

Drunk Employees threatening to bash people's heads in-

https://www.reddit.com/r/TalesFromTheFrontDesk/s/gV5mGyAPlr

Ruining peoples wedding- https://www.reddit.com/r/TalesFromTheFrontDesk/s/UF2KkIpD9w

Child murders- https://www.reddit.com/r/TalesFromTheFrontDesk/s/S3Mq1OR1VH

So now the good news I have finally gotten myself employed at a good hotel. I've been here for about 3 months so I have a firm handle on how they're running stuff. One of the ways that I know that I am working at a good place is I have / used to have a system where in my left pocket I kept three separate G2 pens. A black one for your standard check-ins, a red one for check-ins where there were severe issues or the guest was rude or just a general pain in the butt, and then a maroon pen which was used exclusively for guests that probably should have ended up on the DNR list and told not to stay with us but for whatever reason they didn't. Since I've started at this new hotel I have not had an opportunity to use my red pen. This place has its stuffed together has a good GM who knows what they're doing has employees who actually do their jobs for the most part and just generally has been an amazing place to work. While I do a lot more work than I ever have that any other Hotel on my audit shift I enjoyed immensely because I'm working for a good hotel. I'm very thankful that I realized that I have hit a point in my life where I was no longer going to wait around for mediocre managers and other hotels to get their crap together and that I was just going to move on to somewhere that knew how to properly run a hotel and treat their employees. So I guess keep your heads up there are good hotels out there to work for enjoy my old posts and have an amazing day!


r/TalesFromTheFrontDesk 5d ago

Short Guest called and said the 3rd floor has no power, I (the hotel operator) notified the manager on duty and the issue was fixed relatively fast. Job done?

42 Upvotes

The entire floor’s electricity was indeed off, however after the guest checked out she gave the hotel a poor rating and implied that she was ignored. The front desk staff then blamed me for not giving them her room number. I didn’t think at the time to give her room number because it was a systemic issue rather than an individual one that affected the entire floor on a hot summer day. Thoughts? Is the hotel operator (me) at fault here? From now on, I learned my lesson to be more specific. I did not think the room number would be relevant.


r/TalesFromTheFrontDesk 6d ago

Short When I tell you everything's free at the library, I don't mean, like, literally.

382 Upvotes

Public libraries are full of incredible free things you can take and use at no charge! Everything is free at the library!

...Asterisk. Listen, we're underfunded as hell. Some services do cost money. Yes, I know that the neighboring county's library system lets you print the first dozen pages for free. Unfortunately, you crossed the county line about 4 miles ago, and brother, we ain't got half the budget of that hilariously wealthy chunk of the state. So it's gonna be twenty whole cents per page from the jump. Yes, sir, even if you pay your taxes. Yes, sir, even if you only have a card. Yes, sir, even though it's hot out and our AC is broken (it breaks every year, it has always broken every year, the local government is not willing to pay for an adequate system) and you're so hot you almost passed out because its 95 and sunny outside and you walked here. Yes, sir, even if you raise your voice and glare down your nose at me while unsubtly clenching your fist.

He only needed to print two pages. 😓

I'd like to say this is the first time someone has threatened me at the front desk over pennies, but it's not, by a long shot. We don't even have late fees anymore! You can scan to email for free! You can use the computer and save files for free! But there's always someone willing to slug you for a quarter, and I'll be honest with you, it's never the folks who actually need that quarter. The nicer they're dressed, the more likely they are to throw down over a nickel or dime. It can't possibly be that serious!