I know my Aunts on my dad's side don't like my beard, I couldn't care less, 3 months ago, I was at my mother's funeral, standing in line, and as she comes thru the line, she points to her chin and says "whats this", and I'm like, it's a beard, and I like my beard, to which she says, "does food get all over in it", so I stopped talking to her, well, my oldest brother just died two weeks ago, and today was his funeral, I didn't interact with her at all the whole time, but I went and stood in line for food that they were serving to the family, and she came in and got behind me, and she points to her chin again, and says "whats this" to which I say, "a beard", she then says, it's disgusting, it's like, woman, I normally see you what, once every couple of years, and every time I see you, you have to make a comment about my beard, and at my moms and brothers funeral no less, it's like, what kind of messed up person are you, so I sent a text to my dad, and said there is something deeply wrong with your sister, and if I never interact with her again, it would be too soon.
And my wife likes my beard, my kids like my beard, I get asked to participate in beard contests all the time, I take good care of it, regardless, though, even if I didn't take care of it, and it really did look disgusting, why would you say that to someone in the fing line at his oldest brother's funeral?