Do ya’ll say anything in custom vids generally? Like when it’s not specified and something kinda simple. Like, would you add in some dirty talk to a vid where someone just wants you bent over? And what do you say? I guess I know my way around dirty talking enough, but I don’t know how I’d start off the video.

Hello everyone! I am trying to fill out the W-9 for only fans but the section 6 where I have to put in city, state and zip code (United States) is gray and I am not able to enter anything in that field. It seems like it may be a bug. Is anyone else encountering this problem right now? Thank you and have a good day

I’m very about other peoples experiences with various costars. Ive had so many varying interactions from getting to know one another, agreeing to work with one another, to the actual in-person scenes. But some trends stand out more than others.

1. The "Let's totally work together" [not]. I feel that when you first meet costars online, a good chunk of people will say something like "Oh yea, I like yours style/vibe, lets get together soon" and they eventually just fade away and stop talking to you. They never commit to a date. They continue to post and just went from leaving you on read to never reading your messages entirely. Is this a common trend for men and women alike?

2. The one-size fits all assumption. Some creators love flirting and sexually connecting with their costars and love going out for drinks and socializing for that building of rapport. Others strictly say "This is business, you wont know anything about my personal life as I keep my work/personal lives separate and we wont be doing anything extra off camera, socially sexually, or otherwise" In either case, I see that the social butterfly personality assumes that the "exclusively business" creators are like them or visa versa. A lot of people seem to assume "everyone is just like me" What kind of conversations does one have to bridge the gap between opposing views? Or does a creator just stick to people with more like-minded views?

3. The Mine but not Yours dilema. Some creators have specific brands or a style they want to adhere to. Some costars invite others to film for them on their website but don’t want to make an effort on "How can I return the favor?" Ive had plenty of invitations to come costar for them but because they make no effort to acknowledge my requests to do another shoot featuring them on my pages, I kind of deny myself from working with those types of folks. Does anyone else run into this? Is there maybe a way where fusion styles are proposed? I’m so bothered by this one because I see multiple shoots being better for networking and exposure but some people just don’t want to break away from their brand.

I’m sure there are other issues that I have not ever faced. But I’m curious what people think or how they navigate similar interactions or lack thereof.

The hypocrisy and inconsistance of this plataform as a promo channel is ridiculous. Too vanilla content just doesnt have engagement and just die flat. Edgier content, but still SFW, get engagement, account starts to get distributed, 2 weeks after, that content gets flagged and the account gets restricted distribution. Then IG itself suggests other accounts for inspiration: all with fucking EXPLICIT content. To quote Mugato on Zoolander "I feel like I'm taking crazy pills"!

Hey everyone, my question is how's it going being a MILF? I feel like a lot of my fans subscribe who don't have the financial means to pay what I ask, since they're young and don't have much money. Please tell me about your experiences, thank you very much.

I’m really interested to know how often everyone posts on Reddit and how many different subreddits you tend to use.
Do you generally choose a set number of subreddits and consistently post your content across those, or are you constantly trying out new ones?
Also, for those who monitor what performs well, have you found that changing the posting time or caption can make a noticeable difference when a post doesn’t get many views?
And when deciding whether to post again in a particular subreddit, do you base that more on engagement, views, or a combination of both?
I feel like I need a much better system for Reddit rather than just posting and hoping for the best…

I’m a little scared, someone got into my account. I received an email saying they had tried to access from another location, so I changed my password immediately and activated two-step verification. Luckily, they weren’t inside for a long time, but now I’m worried that they’ve seen my personal data. Has this happened to anyone else? What did they do about it?

UPDATE: It was the pishing emails, damn it 😭😭. Turns out I had already used one back on August 2nd, fucking hell, I just want to cry because those bastards always try to get away with it. I’ve got 2-step verification set up now; I’m going to try looking for a site that checks for data leaks.

Hi all... i've searched the subreddit and the newst post about that was from 6 month ago. Since things change a lot in this business, Id like to know if you guys promote on Bluesky, what strategies you use, if it better than X... i dont like X, and just the fact thats its own by Elon Musk... urgh....

Is anyone else insanely block happy? As soon as I get a weird vibe I so quick to hit the block button. First message you send to me weird? Block. Talking around in circles? Block. Can’t follow basic instructions? SO blocked.

I just don’t have time, or patience, or genuinely energy for anything that disturbs my vibes. I wonder sometimes if I’m too quick to the draw or if it’s worth it to keep standards high with cleaning out the garbage.

What about you guys? How often do you block subs and what makes you block them?

Hi everyone! I’m looking for advice on how I can get more engagement from advertising, or any advertising tips (especially from other trans creators).

I just launched my OF a few days ago (no customers yet), and I’ve immediately noticed I don’t get the same level of engagement on Reddit as I did when I was just posting my body to see what kind of reactions I would get. I’m trying to learn how to use instagram and TikTok, but I’ve never been great at those things.

I’m only a few months into HRT but I’ve been doing body feminizing training 5 days a week since March, and I’m getting really happy with how I look. I thought I could start in femboy and twink spaces and move into trans spaces the more feminine I start to look, but I’m thinking I’d be shooting myself in the foot if I try to build a following of gay men, and then become more and more effeminate over time.

I get more consistent reactions from these spaces, but when I try to post in trans spaces, the response is like radio silence. Maybe I’m jumping the gun trying to start this too soon, but I’m really tired of working normal jobs that I don’t find creatively fulfilling, and I earnestly want to do OF and other stuff online. I’m also planning on doing SFW YouTube and Twitch, and was hoping I could get good engagement cross-promoting with OF, but I just feel quite disparaged with how it’s been going so far.

Any thoughts?

I’m hoping some of you who actually use Reddit successfully for discovery can tell me what I’m missing, because I feel like I’m stuck in a loop 😭

I really want to use Reddit more because I know it can be a great place to get discovered, but I’m having an incredibly hard time figuring out where I’m actually allowed to post.

It seems like every subreddit I find has a different reason I can’t participate yet. I don’t have enough karma, NSFW/OF profiles aren’t allowed, sellers aren’t allowed, I misunderstand something about the caption/title rules, verification is required, etc.

I’ve been trying to do this the “right” way by finding a relevant subreddit, carefully reading ALL of its rules, making a post specifically for that community, and then posting. But even after doing that, I’ve had posts removed, and a lot of the time I don’t even know what rule I broke or why it was removed. I’m getting nervous about experimenting because I obviously don’t want to get banned from communities or put my actual Reddit account at risk.

I've tried going the completely non-promotional route and participating normally just to build karma. I posted a random question to AskReddit hoping to get some comment karma/participation going, and even THAT was removed. 😂

Then I thought, okay, I’ll find a subreddit specifically meant for OnlyFans promotion but it looks like that subreddit was deleted/

So…am I missing something obvious about how creators are supposed to get started on Reddit?

For those of you who successfully use Reddit for discovery:

• What subreddits were you actually able to use when you were newer/had low karma?

• Are there creator-friendly subreddits that allow people with OF/NSFW profiles to participate, even if the post itself is completely SFW?

• How did you initially build enough karma to get into the communities you actually wanted to use?

• Is there a better way to find appropriate subreddits than searching, reading every single rule, trying a post, and hoping you interpreted everything correctly?

I’d also genuinely appreciate advice about discovery OUTSIDE of Reddit. I use other social platforms too, but I’m trying to be extremely careful because I know some platforms are not friendly toward adult creators or direct OF promotion. I don’t want to sacrifice an established social account just trying to get more eyes on my content.

Basically, I’m looking for any advice on safely getting discovered as an adult creator without constantly having posts removed, getting kicked out of communities, shadowbanned, or risking my accounts.

I’m absolutely willing to put in the work. I just feel like I’m spending wayyy more time figuring out where I’m allowed to exist than actually promoting. 😭 And when I think I followed all the rules, I still get removed.

Any advice, subreddit recommendations, strategies that worked when you were starting out, or things you wish you had known would be incredibly appreciated. ❤️

I know every niche and marketing strategy is different, but just for perspective — how long did it take you to grow to decent numbers? And please tell us what you consider “decent numbers” too, so we have something to compare with! 😄

Getting started is hard, and consistency is key. But sometimes it would be nice to know what kind of timeline is realistic. 🙌

Recently got one of these. And it’s ok but I can’t seem to get it right. Mostly for POV BJ vids

On her knees
On the bed
In a chair

I can’t seem to get the lighting right. The angles right. Etc

Anyone that has one of these- is there a specific option best for this. Or any accessories.

Also, would like some ideas about lighting since in the past I’ve used an iPhone in the dark with a cheap MagSafe flash and it worked well

Thanks!

Anyone know what’s going on with r/letsverify ? I posted my request 19 days ago and still nothing. I scrolled all the way back to my post and there were maybe 3 randomly people verified through that scroll. Everyone else is still under review, and the item of the week is still changing every week so I’m assuming it’s still being watched? My first account I made was verified in like 2 days in January.

Hey all,

I need some advice. I've been doing OF as a super casual side hustle for several years now, only ever really posting when I felt like it, not really promoting it whatsoever, and never really ever having more than 5-10 paid subscribers at a time. I have a medium-sized following on TikTok (about 30k), so most of my subs come from that.

This year, after a several month hiatus, I decided to start taking OF more seriously. I completely revamped my page, added a menu, and started posting every day as well as actually promoting. I actually did pretty well the first 2-3 weeks, and made it up to 40 paid subs. However, after the first month, my growth has slowed to a trickle. After getting about 2 subs a day when I first started promoting a month ago, I'm now only getting 1 or 2 subs a week.

I've read on here that promoting on Reddit is the best place, and I try to post in like 20-30 subs in my niche several times a week. But I honestly haven't gotten any subs from Reddit at all, most of my subs still come from TikTok, and even those have slowed down. The main things I know that are working against me are probably that my page is fairly new, and doesn't have tons of content (about 100 photos and 8 videos so far). But even so, for how often I promote, 1-2 subs a week feels like so little 😭

My main question is, what can I do to speed things back up, or are dry spells this slow just part of the game? My low content count didn't seem to be bothering people a few weeks ago, but maybe I just got lucky. My page isn't too expensive, it's $10, and it's almost always on sale for 50% off anyway. Do other creators often go through dry spells where suddenly nobody is subbing or buying? Do I just need to post more often/have more content? Am I just taking terrible photos? Have I just deluded myself into thinking this is for me? Help! 😭

Hi everyone! I think I’ve mentioned this in a previous post, but I’m fairly new to this type of content and my OF page is only a few weeks old.
So far, most of my messages have really just been getting to know my subs, figuring out what kind of content they’re interested in, and then offering to send them something for a fee. Some of it has turned into sexting too, which I’m still trying to navigate. I haven’t quite figured out how to stop a casual conversation before it gets too heated and bring up pricing without making it awkward 😂
Anyway, yesterday I had someone subscribe and tip me based on my profile, and then immediately message me. They were extremely nice, but also very to the point that they were just looking for photos. They told me what they wanted, I sent them a photo series, and they paid for it. Super easy interaction.
The only thing that made me a little suspicious was that when I looked at their profile, the account had literally been created that day. Part of me wondered if they were just trying to get content to steal/repost somewhere else, but maybe I’m being paranoid and this is totally normal?
Once someone purchases our content, I’m assuming there’s only so much we can do to control what happens to it afterward, right? Are there any red flags or obvious signs you guys look for that might indicate someone is buying content specifically to steal or repost it?
Still learning all of this, so I’d appreciate any advice!

To be honest I am not sure if I got blocked or if the user just deleted their account…

I sent earlier some messages to my subscribers, including pics, but he just blocked me. The conversation just disappeared. I checked my stats and his name appears as gray.

He subscribed yesterday & today blocked me. Am I getting a CB?

Hi all, I see creators talking about promoting their OF through Snap but I really don't get it how they get the audience. Can someone explain this?

Dear fellow creators :(
My OF is at 7.99 a month, I regularly post and make clear the subscription pay is just to see the content behind the wall. But… I get two types of subs: ones that never talk to me - Im fine with that, but then there are those that talk a lot and pay nothing or little. I don’t know how to still in my persona reinforce payments or otherwise not giving away too much of my time for free. Could I be giving away a wrong impression or is it always like this?

hey all! i’m wondering if i should start promoting on reddit, but i don’t want to post nudity. will it be worth just posting sfw content on here? thank you!

ghosted rant.

no advice. i know i'm dumb. dude subbed to my VIP OF (free sfw chatting) super sweet, kept initiating conversation even when I wouldn't- continued paying : would double text later on or a day later (no love bombing or weird vibes at all) finally just gave him my tele. no lines passed for a little. i sent stuff in that time and chatted a lot. lots of talks of getting involved with me. very flirty- again. i knew. but he was PERSISTENT about that stuff.

first time today he tried something and i made it a joke.
then he mentioned something about the bathrobe ... and I said what bathrobe? Then he covered it up with saying that he had a dream about me in the shower again - i said ... again? he had an excuse, tried to sext again. i said 👀 are you trying to sext for free- he apologizes a bunch said he'd love to pay. i made a voice note about the clear blurred line- he sent a note back but i was busy - went to check my chats a little later, not even 20 mins and he's gone. checked everywhere else we were on - ghosted.

i knew in my head the whole time. but ya know how it goes. no advice needed. i knew better and i don't even know this dude fr 😂 but, I'm in my luteal so anyone else have some .. not heartbreak obvi but like. ... 'oh okay it was just the OF thing' stories to make me feel better?

🤍xx

Hey cuties! I hope August has brought you lots of money and good whales 😁
But that’s not why I’m here. I’m sort of stuck on what to do and could use some feedback.

I have 3 pages. My NO PPV Page is 85% of my OF Income. My OG page I’ve had since 2017 and has over 8k posts is 11% of my income on OF and then rounding out the last 4% is my free page.

With the % being so little…would you just get rid of it? Or revamp it into a video store page? With a free preview pic or trailer for free and the full vid locked behind a paywall.

I love the video store idea but I have over 400-500 videos (I’m a Veteran SW as they call it) and I don’t have the time to make trailers for every video. Nor do I know who to go to for something like that. Maybe just sell bundles then in posts? Idk.

My OG page I’ve turned into an “Slutty Archive” I guess you could say. Filled with photos mainly and short video clips and the rest is locked behind a paywall. Like pussy and the good stuff. I no longer will be posting on it as of the 1st but I’m keeping it because of rebills and people who want to see my old stuff.

Sorry this is so long. My ADHD meds make me yap a lot. I just don’t have the energy to run 3 pages anymore and don’t know what direction my free page should go in.

About 15 days ago, what appears to be the same fan started visiting my profile and constantly requesting fetish content. It has become an obsession. I’m concerned that he may be stealing my content to resell it.

When I contacted OnlyFans, I was told that unusual activity had been detected on the fan’s account and that a refund had been issued. The problem is that the refund is deducted directly from my current balance, which I find completely unfair.

I haven’t been able to withdraw my earnings for two weeks because of this person. I requested an IP block, but I keep being told that there’s nothing they can do.

Just curious if any of you give out your snapchat (or any other messaging platforms) to your OF subs? And if so, what is it mainly used for, sexting? And how do you work payments out when they message you on snap? Do they go back to your onlyfans and send it as a tip?

If I delete posts that have likes, will I lose those likes?

I find it really hard to get likes, so I even give away a free gift when someone likes all my posts. But I already have almost 200 pictures online, and it’s getting too much for me – plus, I don’t like some of them anymore.

If I delete those posts, will the likes still count toward my total number of likes, or will they be lost?