No, I'm not talking about putting out Halloween or even Christmas decorations earlier and earlier, even though that is annoying.

I'm talking about putting out the winter/fall clothes and getting rid of all the summer stuff in August.

It's motherfucking Texas, it's 100 today, and it will still be 90 in October. I don't need a fleece hoodie or flannel lined jeans you dumbasses.

I need shorts! What's that you got rid of all the shorts two weeks ago? Fucking why? I'll be in shorts till mid November.

I hate fashion cycles and how fast everything gets tossed.

I don't like these overly expensiv food experience crap. Something about them gives me the ick. It feels gentrified and ostentatious for the sake of pretentiousness and feeling important.

A single piece of broccolli freeze dried. Bunch of sauce sprayed all over the dish and using some teaspoon to scrape em off.

Washing my hands with chocolate and eating it off my hands.

Flavored bubbles as dessert. Yes.

And paying $500+ for these bullshit experiences.

Leaving fully hungry still.

Whats the point of this? To make you feel like you're part of some unique experience.. when you could have as well experienced it with 1% of the cost?

Or dentists offices should be open better hours. Id take either.

I started my new job last week. I have no PTO, and taking an unplanned day off on your second week is a bad look at best. I discovered today, I have a dental abcess. This is classified as a dental emergency, so I start looking. There are 100 dentists offices near me. 90 of them are open monday-friday 9am-4pm, or some other standard work day variation.

Maybe 5 are open until 6pm, which would be great for standard dental work, but this will be a longer procedure, so those are out.

Then there's the "24/7 dental emergency offices". Which are actually just call directories that route you to other places, if anywhere at all.

That left me with 2 options. One that is open for 4 hours on Saturday, and is booked out until late October, or a place over an hour away that doesnt take insurance.

I have a dental emergency, but my best bet is to go to urgent care for some antibiotics to bridge the gap until I can hopefully get a walk in appointment on Friday when we get to leave early. I have an emergency, but a hospital cant do anything for me until the abcess ruptures and I go septic, and even then all they can do is stabilize me. Id still have to go into a dentist.

Like, imagine this but with any other emergency. Oh, you cut your hand really badly? Unfortunately the stitching doctor is only open monday through Friday from 10am to 3pm and closed for a 2 hour lunch from 12-2pm. You broke your leg? Well all we can do is give you some Tylenol until you can hopefully get a walk in appointment at the bone clinic because their appointments are booking out 6 months.

And I get it, no one wants to work nights and weekends, but you're a DOCTOR. You chose healthcare (so did the hygienist and receptionists, I dont want to hear it). Just one dentist, on call. Or a surgen who doubles as an oral surgeon. Or a dentists office open nights and weekends.

It shouldn't be this hard to get emergency treatment.

This irritates me more than anything. I’ll say I’m American or from America and people will look at me like I’m speaking Latin. They’ll then say “you mean the United States…? America is a continent.” Or “North American or South American?” Even though they know well I mean the United States.

Everyone in the world knows I mean the United States when I say America. It’s literally the only country with America in the name, so it’s perfectly reasonable to shorten it with “America” and it causing literally 0 confusion. I doubt it even causes confusion at all, it’s just someone trying to be on a high horse of pretentious attitude.

I’ve even seen someone say “USAian” instead of “American” because they’re so stubborn to even use American since it would go against them saying “well, actually America is a continent 🤓☝️”

Stop being stubborn. It’s okay to say America. It’s okay to call us Americans.

I was homeschooled for 2 reasons.

1). My mother couldn’t afford childcare, but had to work. I had to get my younger siblings ready for school.

2). I simply didn’t want to go.

Now that I’m in my early 30s, I would give ANYTHING to go back and change that. Does it consume my thoughts every minute of every day? No…but do I wish I could’ve just been a normal 16 year old? Yes.

I wish someone would’ve told me to get my lazy ass to school. The couple people I know, who were also homeschooled, also regret it.

I think parents selfishly homeschool their children for various reasons, but I think the majority of them don’t want to deal with their school districts, and want to indoctrinate their children into the same thinking as them.

It also bugs me when parent bloggers post on social media media the phrase “my child is thriving academically and socially”

Really? They hardly ever interact with children their own age…and have their parent (who is not a trained teacher) grading their tests and quizzes. I’d hardly call that “thriving”…

With the new trend of parents homeschooling their children, I think we’re going to have an influx of working adults years from now with poor social skills, zero critical thinking, and tons of regret for their parents decisions.

I have a feeling this will make some people angry, but that’s just my opinion.

It's just super annoying when there's a big thing happening and you know it's gonna do well, like a tv event, game, movie etc. And it's gonna impress people how big it is but then there's people who don't understand it or just make up ridiculous numbers that aren't possible at all and I have to be like "no bro, actually that doesn't make sense" while initially wanting to be hyped as well, any of you know that?

Frm an south asian country,and everyone around me been migrating which i love for them but today I was told that the transformative effect migration gives you cant be attained from anything else.And i jst wanna yell at that idea,migrating is such an expensive thing (but sometimes I get its allso for survival i get that) and transformation is about seeing ,knowing and adapting,the transformative effect is insulated by lack of curiosity or self introspection (which is consider as main contributors for growth arc).Plus I dong wanna face the brutality of the world lemme jst be

Everything is horrrible or the worst on that channel. is there one thing that isn't bad?

They are learning the recorder this year! Why???? I have to apologize to my neighbors in advance now and get the bus schedule in case I want to jump in front of it!!

But seriously…..why??? Those things are the worst! And why do they have to bring it home to “practice”? No one is gonna grow up to be a professional recorder player!!

I love my child and do everything I can to ensure he thrives in school and in life but the recorder is where I draw the line. I just might “lose” the damn thing!

Geniuely why do I need to a “convince“ fee ?? You guys already add tax when I pay my rent through the app. For what reason other sickening greed do you guys need to charge a convince fee that raises depending on how much I decided to pay. On top of we have new management so they raised the price of everything including the convince fee rate. I’m so pissed I shouldn’t have to pay an extra 40 dollars to pay my rent.

Idk how but i want to
I willl figure it out
I will lock tf in
Ik
I have the hunger and it is jot going anywhere anytime soon till i am there

I’m a dude who’s got a good number of friends, friends that would fight for me and risk their life for me and I’d do the same for them. I once was very self deprecating but now I’ve gotten better, I no longer hate myself and I give myself a bit more grace than I did in my early teen years (I’m about to be 20). My biggest goal for my life is to do what I can to help the people important to me be happy. I want so badly to feel needed, and yet I’ve always thought everyone would be better off if they forgot about me. Not in a sense that I should do something permanent I’ve long since stopped thinking about that, but I feel like if I could I’d use the men in black neurolyzer and make them all forget me. I probably won’t feel this way when I wake up in the morning but I needed to rant and I didn’t wanna make my homegirl worry about me since she’s off at college, yall have a blessed night and I hope you conquer whatever troubles you face !

(In terrible at wording things so bare with me 💔)I’ve had a few things happen that made me really uncomfortable and are hard for me to think about but I feel like some of them I shouldn’t be so affected by bc it’s not technically sa I don’t think? For example today I was on a roller coaster on the end seat and my brothers were there but on the other side (4 seats a row) bc I wanted the end seat but then some guy came out of nowhere and filled in the spot but whats weird is the people in line behind us was a family and that guy wasn’t there before I didn’t even see where he came from but he randomly jumped in last second and I guess cut in front of them? Which was no big deal I prefer to not have to sit next to a random person bc I have issues with socializing and stuff which is why I usually always make sure I’m seated next to one of my brothers or parents but I didn’t think much of it obviously he wasn’t doing anything wrong but then as soon as the ride started he just started staring at me the entire time and touching me? Like genuinely the entire fucking ride I don’t get it I don’t even know what exactly he was looking at bc I was scared to look for some reason like I said before I have issues with socializing and a big thing with that is eye contact but at first it started with just the staring but then he started to like force his arm over to mine and then like get closer to my body and yk im not going into details (full grown man and I’m a minor btw) and it made me really uncomfortable and idk if it was just like stress or what but I felt like I was going to black out and started to see sparkles while panicky I’ve noticed I do this a lot in uncomfortable situations not sure why but anyways when the ride ended the dude got up and genuinely jumped out of his seat and ran? My one brother said he saw him looking at me the whole time and he thought he was talking to me but still thought it was weird too but anyways I feel like that’s not sa? Even though he was sexually touching me it doesn’t feel extreme enough to classify as sa bc it seems anytime something like this happens if I tell my parents they brush it off like it’s no big deal and “just a part of life” which may be true ig but I’m not really sure if that a normal thing to have to go through as a legal child? like they don’t even care about how I feel? Like even though it’s not that extreme it still lowk ruined my day and made me feel really uncomfortable but as if that wasn’t already bad enough next thing you know guess who I fucking see behind us on the next ride we go on luckily the row was full already but it’s weird he was on the same exact ride when it’s on the other side of the park that the first ride was on then after we left that ride we saw him again walking around and he was just watching me I was so uncomfortable and when I tried to tell my parents about it they wouldn’t even listen they just kept talking to my aunt that was there but after that we left which I’m glad but I still feel weird about it idk why whenever I have an interaction like this I can stop thinking about it and I keep replaying it in my head over and over even though I hate thinking about it I can’t stop it I don’t understand why my brain even does that it like fixates on bad experiences until they become blurry if that makes sense but anyway yeah

Im 23F 6‘ tall, normal weight, standard face, clear skin, very curvy, engineer, no kids, have a lot of friends and hobbies, travel a lot and volunteer often.

It is extremely easy to get a date.

Even with „high class“ man.

But the pool of man I am willing to date is extremely small.

My extremely selfish/femminist Feminist criteria are the following

My life with him in it is better than without.

He is an adult that can communicate his desires and feelings.

He doesn’t take his anger out on me.

He is not threatening to kill himself if I leave him.

He is not expecting me to step into the role of his mother.

He can listen to me talking about my desires and feelings.

He is not ashamed of being with me in public (very important as a tall women who has dated small man)

He wants me for me and not because I was the best he was able to get.

He makes me exited to spend our future together

Those man are extremely rare.

Because the ones that meet the above criteria have a lot of women competing for him.

I'm just laughing it off at this moment. Today, I received a birthday letter from my employer that came with a Timmies gift card. I opened it, read the letter, and said to myself "ok, cool". I checked the balance, and there I just couldn't believe my eyes. The card only holds five freakin dollars ($5), like is this some kind of an April fool's joke, or are we in poverty?

I have worked in this manufacturing company for over 5 years and am handling an account that brings 60% of the revenue. Today is August 31, and my birthday is not even until 2 weeks in September. This is just unbelievable, lol. This can't even justify the stress and frustration I encounter daily.

Anyway, I'm grateful for getting gifts and these sorts of gestures, but just can't get my head around about the $5.

Thanks for hearing my story. :)

As bad as it sounds I can’t help it, I’m very insecure in general about lots of things even though anyone who would see me would probably say I have a good life. I just don’t see it that way, I see the negatives and the bad over all the good.

Recently my gf has started to make more than me and I don’t like it for multiple reasons. For starters im jealous she is younger than me and making more. On top of this her parents despite earning less than mine were good with money and helped her out a lot whereas I basically got nothing. She also doesn’t really spend much money on me, and when I was making more I spent more than I should've on her. Lastly it ate away at me so much I picked up a second job just so I could continue to out earn her but now I’m working an extra 3 days per pay period and it sucks.

I have friends who also made jokes about her earning more than me and while I didn’t say anything in the moment and laughed it off it felt bad to have it voiced. I know it’s not her fault and I’m honestly happy she is in her dream job but I still dont like the situation. I’m transitioning to the same field as her soon though which I now regret as I feel the insecurity will follow me if we are working the same job forever.

My dad is a narcissist, and everyone close and around him knows it, he has to have his way or hes yelling and throwing a fit like a child. hes a 48 year old man that has been told for the past what 10 years that he looks more like hes 20 years old and has used that as a pass to act like hes 10, he quickly shifts from being a "dad" to making me be the older and bigger person then he is and im just so sick of it its the most irritating thing in the world.

He takes alot of stuff out on me and disguises insults as jokes, hes constantly joking about things like my weight (never even been past 120 pounds not that it even matters), my style and honestly everything i like, he'll come into a room act a little intrested in what your doing and in the exact same breath make a joke insulting you on it, hes been doing this shit since i've had contiousness. I feel like I've been pushed so hard into being small by him that i feel like nothing all the time and it just fucking sucks.

Sometimes im his favorite person and his bestfriend and other times I dont get to have opinions or beliefs of my own or just anything that doesnt A line with exactly what he thinks, for years i genuinely thought maybe it was something i've done or something i had been doing, when i was younger I'd do absolutely anything to be on his goodside weather it was making fun of myself or honestly throwing anybody else under the bus, sometimes i still catch myself wanting his approval and that upsets me.

One of the worst things about it is the way he treats other people my age or people younger then me, he'll praise these people hes never even met over me any day, he jumps at the chance to be seen as some type of uncle or even a father figure for all these other people but not me? I just dont understand it.

I turned 18 last month and I honestly just feel so lost, Its just so many things maybe im blaming him but it feels like hes played such a big role in me hating myself, Its always been be the best or your the worst and Im not really the best at anything. I dont think i've ever felt genuinely proud of anything i've ever done, graduating high school or just any big milestone for me in general. I feel like I cant do anything right or anything worth while and I wish he got out of my head once and awhile. Im just so angry at it all.

Sorry if this isnt really spaced out or written well

So yeah, the Eisenhower-Kennedy decade was pretty great. The rich were properly taxed, the middle class ballooned and was doing great, optimism reigned. The John-Birch Society hated the civil rights movement and tried to stir up the red-scare and the KKK had it’s last gasps. Even so, life was pretty good, mostly with some exception.

Then Kennedy was killed and the CIA/Military got its opening into and massively failed in Vietnam. The USA era from 1975 to 2001 was relatively bucolic by comparison to the domestic turmoil coincident with the Vietnam war. Lots of shit was going down in Latin America and mostly ignored.

The USA struggled with a bad economy, high inflation. The US embassy seizure in Iran was big news and cost Carter a second term. Reagan kept his CIA adventures mostly under the radar and under the apathy of the general public. Nixon’s neo-cons were unleashed when Saddam invaded Kuwait, the US and allies landed troops in Saudi Arabia. Saddam was mostly subdued, Powell and Schwarzkopf became heroes and the Cheney-Rumsfeld cabal established. Under the covers, Al Qaeda’s grievances with the defilement of Saudi soil by infidel troops simmered. Clinton had his big bombing in Serbia to cover his peccadillos instead of figuring out a diplomatic path. His administration bolstered Al Qaeda in the Balkans while chasing bin Laden in Africa/MENA.

The neocons got their big break in 2001 at 911 and it’s been a shitshow ever since. The CIA is firmly in control again. The military industrial complex rules the uniparty, massive deficit spending feeds the Trump-Epstein billionaire class and drops crumbs upon the masses.

I've been doing a hobby and getting better at it. People that I don't know very well, who haven't mentored me, or aren't really related to me keep saying they're proud of me. It's like they think I'm a lot younger than I am (30sF) and also that they've had a part in accomplishing what I've done. I feel a bit infantilized with the statement. That's something that parents or mentors usually tell their kids in my mind. A lot of these folks are more like acquaintances than friends, so they don't really have a thing to share in these accomplishments. They don't really know me. Pride shows that you are a part of it somehow - like school pride, national pride, family pride, company pride.

When someone I don't really know who doesn't have a connection to me says that they're proud of me, it seems more intimate than it should. I I'd rather folks say, "I'm happy for you" or "Good job" or something. Am I taking this too seriously? I'll just brush it off at this point, not going to correct anyone, but I do find it odd. Any way to deal with this?

so i was hanging out with my friends and we were walking around town, we go into this drugstore and i buy a can of deodorant cause it’s a hot sunny day and my deodorant was failing me, yk how it is, and when we leave my friend starts giggling like an 11 year old and starts saying stuff like
‘omg kinda weird that we just had to watch you buy deodorant’ UNIRONICALLY like it was a fucking dildo or something. Like girl it’s a can of deodorant, would you prefer it if i went around stinking of onions??? anyway, had to get that off my chest

I’m calling because I have an out of the ordinary problem and need to talk to someone about a solution.

Yes, I am well aware that I can check my balance online or in the app. No, I am not calling to start service or to make changes to my existing service. If I wanted to do any of those things, I would pull up the app and be done in 10 seconds. I would never subject myself to this horrible phone experience to do something so simple.

Yet here is the phone tree with no option to speak with someone and no option to press a button to be connected to customer service or technical support.

And when the always (purposefully?) idiotic chatbot answers, it is even worse. “Please state the reason for your call.“

I succinctly state the actual reason for my call, only to be met with, “I didn’t get that. You can say things like: check my balance.”

And as time goes on, these systems are only getting worse (again, purposefully?). Things that used to work that don’t work anymore:

Pressing 0 to bypass the phone tree. Speaking in a language other than English. Mumbling incoherently. Repeatedly saying “representative“ or similar. Swearing. All of these things will just loop you back to the beginning or hang up on you.

And by the way, no, your menu options have not changed, and you cannot always be experiencing higher than normal call volume.

And, when I finally do get through to someone, there’s a decent chance that it’s literally just going to be a human reading canned responses off of a monitor who will be equally as unsure what to do with my out of the ordinary issue.

What witch did I piss off to curse me. It's my birthday soon and I celebrated with my friends on saturday and then a different group of friends on sunday, and it's been probably one of the worst birthdays yet, and its one of my first proper birthdays after leaving the jehovah witnesses too. I had an arguement with a friend and a friend "split up" on Saturday, then on Sunday while out with my friends I got called a fat bitch by some random men (btw, these men came up to me with my friend group and said this to me, it was not part of a larger conversation either) , and today someone drove past me and threw a bunch of water all over me. I know this doesn't sound like that big of a deal, but this is all the cherry on top of one of the mentally hardest summers I've ever had, and what was supposed to be a relaxing summer before I start uni has probably been one of the lowest times in my life. Im not saying that for pity, but i have been trying so hard to get better mentally, to get healthy and to not waste my summer on my phone or in my room, and to save money for uni, and it feels like every attempt has backfired and made things worse instead.
I'm turning 21 tomorrow, and a very stupid part of me hopes that this is actually just some big curse that is either lifted as I turn this new age, or that I will prick my finger on a needle, because a very long sleep sounds pretty great right now

Sorry, I just needed to rant because my (remaining friends) haven't responded for a couple days, I just needed it off my chest and to have a little cry