Ask me how I did it

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Voice training, makeup, styling..it feels like everything about me is characteristically female. I'm tall, 6"2, and have a deeper voice. I feel like that always "gives me away". NO ONE ever genders me correctly besides friends who know I'm trans and other trans people. I'm so exhausted. I just want to pass on a daily basis. Its so frustrating. I feel like Everytime I get misgendered I should just go back to baggy clothes because what's the point??? Feels like society just says no to me being the woman I want to be.

Edit: thanks for the kind words. Y'all cheered me up :) for context, I'm living in a new city, super blue, etc....i thought I'd escape the daily misgendering by moving somewhere socially more liberal, but here we are. I promise this wasn't bait! I struggle severely with my self esteem surrounding my appearance. I was put down constantly as a kid for how I looked, and even though I'm pretty now, I haven't quite kicked the self hate. Being trans, at times, adds an additional weight to that original burden.

Again, thank you for the kind words. You all are angels. I love this community. Be safe, be well, and, on your next bad day, try to love yourself a little more than usual. :)

I've been on HRT for (soon to be) 5 years now, and I still primarily get assumed to be a man unless it's someone I directly tell otherwise. To be fair Im 6' and my voice is pretty Andro on the masc side, but would still love to hear any advice I could get on how to improve. Thank!!

i've been gaining a lot of weight recently, but having an active lifestyle has managed to stave off some of the negatives while keeping a lot of positives! fat redistribution is crazy

Hello ! I am a really anxious girl but last week I decided to go to a concert in my hometown with some friends while wearing make up.

It was scary at first but all went well and now I'm really euphoric.

I have finally found the courage to start the process for getting HRT !!!

Sorry for them being so overexposed Xd

As a trans girl I've painted this with so much love! Knowing Petra is becoming so trendy warms my heart!

Couldn't be bothered with hair today! I think I still look OK for an oldie 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️💗💗

So I want to express myself more fem but I have no idea and my parents won't really support me with transitioning and my brother is homophobic so I can't express myself to the best I can and I just need someone to help please

I know the top is a mess. 🥰

I love clothes. Retail therapy is amaaaazing

How's your style developing?

kinda confident enough to wear bikini now <3

I got a lot of compliments though, so there's that at least

August 29th.

Hey I'm fairly new out as a women to my friends I'm still debating a name but I think I really like the one Seraphina a lot anyways I took some body pics to record what I look like a while before estrogen because I've been told it's a good idea, so here goes

love it so much 🏳️‍⚧️💯😻