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[u/clementines31]

You both need time to cool off & let things calm down for a bit. After some time has passed, if you want to save your friendship, you should put your ego aside & text her. Say what she did, how it made you feel, and why you were upset. Tell her that you miss her & that your friendship was important to you, etc. Past a certain point if you want to save a relationship with someone you have to put yourself out there & be vulnerable. These situations happen a lot with teenagers & young adults who are still trying to navigate how to build & maintain friendships/relationships.

I hope things work out for you :)