r/MakeFriendsOver30 Oct 21 '25

Join the MFO30 Discord Server

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We're a small but active SFW 30+ community discussing a wide range of topics every day. It's an amazing group of friendly people and we're always glad to see new folks join in: https://discord.gg/mfo30


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

32F, single, looking for someone to chat with

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I'm a 32 year old single woman looking for someone to chat with. If you're also interested in chatting, feel free to message me


r/MakeFriendsOver30 6h ago

[F4M] 39f anyone wants to chat?

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39f quite lonely and feeling delusional. Anyone wants to be online friends?


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

29F looking to make lasting connections

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Hey there! I’m Aimee, 29 years old from England living just outside Paris 😊

I love reading, hiking, and simply enjoying the company of my dogs 🐶

When I’m comfortable with someone I’m very fun and outgoing, but I guess I just have trouble getting past the initial ‘getting to know you’ phase, but I’m at the point in life where I know I am completely unfulfilled by not having any real close friends.

I’m an introvert really, but I’d love to get close enough to some people that my extroverted side comes out and i can enjoy life in a different way 😊 please send me a message 😊


r/MakeFriendsOver30 3h ago

[F4R] 32f looking for friendship

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Hi sooooo ima start by saying I’m a mom. Been since I was 17 and comepletely lost myself in that role. I am starting to get back out there in general but man is it hard 😅and I’m not even thinking romantically but just platonic friendships are soooo hard so I decided to try here. I’m in SoCal SGV to be more precise but I would love to meet new people both girls and guys that are down to talk meet maybe for some drinks some dancing something to forget the problems 😂 me encanta la música en español and im a biggggg paisa at heart . I love horror and comedy. Gym is a huge one for me right now it’s mostly therapy but man I love ittt ! definitely not a gym rat pero si es mi tiempo. I just honestly want someone to talk too to be able to talk to them about my day. idk if this sounds like u might be down then message me ! Worst that can happen is us never talking again 😅😂


r/MakeFriendsOver30 8h ago

31F U.S.A

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Well, here goes nothing 😂 I’m 31, from Louisiana, single, employed and somehow still manage to be funny as fuck. I enjoy laughing, talking about absolutely anything, and meeting people with actual personalities. Not looking for drama or weirdness, just some cool people to talk to and hopefully build genuine friendships with.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

[F4M] 29F wants to teach some new friends

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Looking to make new friends in the US? If you're also looking for friends, feel free to contact me!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

41M | Married, a little lost, and hoping to find some new people

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Does anyone else ever look at their life and realize they aren't really sure where they fit into it anymore?

I'm married, a dad of four, work in IT, and from the outside I'm probably doing exactly what I'm supposed to be doing.

But somewhere along the way, I think I lost track of myself.

I know what everyone else needs from me. I know the responsibilities, the routines, the things that have to get done.

What I don't know lately is what I actually enjoy.

What makes me excited? What do I want to talk about for hours? What hobbies are actually mine instead of things I used to enjoy? Hell, I'm not even sure what version of myself I'd introduce if someone asked me who I am beyond "husband, dad, and guy who works in IT."

So I'm trying something different.

I'm looking for some new friendships and conversations with people who don't already have a preconceived idea of who I'm supposed to be.

Someone to talk about random nonsense with.

Someone who can introduce me to a new interest or remind me that it's okay to have interests that serve absolutely no practical purpose.

I like being outdoors, hiking, camping, fishing, road trips, music, sarcasm, stupid humor, and conversations that somehow start with "random question..." and end up lasting two hours.

But I'm also hoping to discover some new things along the way.

Maybe I need a new hobby. Maybe I need to get out of my comfort zone. Maybe I just need people around me who remind me that I'm still a person underneath all the responsibilities.

I'm not looking for someone to fix me.

Just someone willing to talk, laugh, share their weird interests, and maybe help me remember that there's more to life than checking things off a list.

So tell me something:

What is something you genuinely enjoy that you think I should try?

Bonus points if it's weird, random, outdoorsy, nerdy, or something you could spend way too much time talking about. 😂


r/MakeFriendsOver30 8h ago

Hey!! 32 F - well next month😂

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A little about me!
Hey everyone! 👋 I thought I’d put myself out there and share a little bit about me as I’m hoping to make some new friendships! 💕
I’m a very bubbly, chatty and confident person — I can honestly talk to pretty much anyone! 😂 I love helping people, supporting others and being someone my friends know they can always turn to. 🫶🏼

I’m also really ambitious and motivated. I’m always trying to better myself, work towards my goals and make the most out of life. ✨

I’ve unfortunately had a bit of a rough time with friendships recently, so I’m at the point where I’d really love to meet some new people and build genuine friendships — even if it’s just online to begin with! 💗 I’m all for good conversations, having a laugh, supporting each other and hopefully creating some lovely friendships along the way.

So if you’re also looking for someone to chat to, feel free to message me! 😊

P.S. My phone has decided to break on me 🤦🏼‍♀️😂 so if I don’t reply instantly, I promise I’m not ignoring you! I’ll get back to you as soon as I can. 💕


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

36M just looking for conversation

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Hello,

I've been dealing with breakup for the last couple of months and I feel I kinda lost who I was. Im looking for someone to talk to, I usually enjoy gaming, reading, I'm currently learning about PC hardware, I'm a cook by trade. If anyone wants to talk feel free to DM me! Have a nice day!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

34TF - Looking for minimalism, cooking or new hobby friends! Let's celebrate the little joys of our current obsessions

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In a bit of a transition phase (in more ways than one) and have really been enjoying embracing minimalism and being able to spend the time on simpler focuses. Would absolutely adore finding someone to share the little daily joys with and learn about your own obsessions!

A few of the things that have been keeping my brain overthinking itself lately:

- Minimalism (mostly the perfect capsule wardrobe but also cleaning up the vestiges of an old video game collection)

- Finding recipes beyond muffins and little apple pies to bake more often (and more practical meal ideas)

- Urban planning and history (only just recently learned about the Marchetti constant), on the lookout to try moving from just pop video sources to "actual" ones

- Eternally procrastinating on a home project to teach myself JavaScript programming

If you think there might be some overlap in interests or just really enjoy teaching others about your own hobbies please come say hi!

I can be a bit feast or famine-y with my social energy so long term my ideal is probably something more penpal like but so up for a proper chat to see if click!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 7h ago

[F4M] 31Fswedish looking for a friend to talk to

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🌸 Looking for a preferably long term friendship 🩷

Hej! I’m autistic/ADHD, so my energy is VERY inconsistent 😂 Sometimes I’m hyper and talkative, other times I’m slow and quiet. I might write you a whole book one day and reply with one word the next. I’m pretty straightforward, but also love
cute things, so good luck figuring me out 🧸😂

I’m trying to
Get over my ex, so I’d love someone I can talk to about it without being judged.
I’m not really a gamer, but I play Hogwarts Legacy, Life is Strange, Firewatch, Edith Finch, Phasmophobia and Minecraft (I suck at Minecraft ngl).
I love nature, animals, walks and coffee ☕🌿
feel free to message me


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

[R4R] 35F Seriously need friends

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RN living in SWFL. - Book nerd (dark romance, I need to talk about the books right now on Lights Out🔥🔥) - Looking for nearby friends and far away friends. - I mostly use discord, if you DM me, I’ll give you my username; I’m on there more often. - I love RPing (writing), and playing video games in my free time.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 3h ago

[M4F] Looking for a friend

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43 year old male looking to chat. I've been going through a lot and could use a friend to message.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 8h ago

F 30 Ulyana, who is always happy to meet new people and discuss a variety of topics

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Fashion designer looking for active and creative minds

Hey there. I’m hoping to build solid, long-term platonic friendships here.

My days are split between my job in fashion design and my hobbies. I’m super into fitness, hiking, traveling, reading books, and tracking tech innovations.

I believe a good friendship is all about being there for each other and having great conversations. If you share these interests or just want to chat, my PMs are open


r/MakeFriendsOver30 3h ago

I'm looking for new friends . Any age, gender, place ... just like minded people.

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Hello and everyone is welcome.

I'm 31 M

I have been through the experiences of life that made me isolate myself because society just doesn't work for me.

I'm a polymath, with existential paralysis.

I'm a psychologist ( psychoanalysis and existential) , a practical applied astrologer, and a mythology researcher, I love to write, and I'm into creative arts.

I like to sing but I'm pretty bad at it.

Despite that I managed to land with someone I love, money and success.

My interests include literally everything... I love to explore different things.

I have seen and experienced thing that made me literally numb to reaction. However, I don't lose humanity I think it will be better for me to be in touch with my human counterparts. As I have seen in my practices and life that everybody is some or the other way suffering and fighting their own battles.... So this is the opportunity for everyone.

Hope that it all works out well.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 13h ago

34F UK easy-going, looking for chill friends and chill chats

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Happy, chatty 34F from the UK here. Currently WFH and feeling a little isolated so would be good to have a friend to chat to throughout the day :) happy to chat about pretty much anything, love learning and hearing about new things. If you’ve got a specialist interest or hobby, let’s hear about it! I don’t mind about age, gender or location.

A little bit about me - I am a creative type; I love to read/write, I dabble occasionally in drawing. Not really much of a film person (it’s safe to assume I’ve basically not seen most films), but I’m a fan of shows such as Breaking Bad, The Sopranos, and most UK comedies (big Alan Partridge fan, AHA!)

I’m really easy-going so please don’t be shy. I’m not looking for a relationship/flirting/anything spicy. Other than that - let’s talk 🙂


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1m ago

31F, single, looking to make new friends

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I am a 31-year-old single woman looking to make some good friends to share daily life and hobbies with, and to chat with every day. If you’d also like to make a new friend, feel free to send me a private message


r/MakeFriendsOver30 3h ago

34 m Looking for Discord Friends

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Reddit is bad for my mental health, so I'm going to delete it, but I'd like to take some new friends with me if I can! I'm a happily married toddler dad. I'm an alt dude who loves metalcore. I'm a practicing Catholic. I prefer deep conversations over small talk. I value a sense of humor. I listen to true crime. I watch MLB and NHL. Last NFL season was the first one I followed from start to finish. Going to try to add NBA into the rotation this year. DMs open.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 10m ago

35 m uk here. Looking to make some new friends

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35 m uk here. Looking to make some new friends

I have no idea where to start. Im a married dad with a very small circle of friends so looking to expand it a little.

Between work, schedules and life in general I feel like I don't have any time for anything but I feel like being a little selfish for once

I've had a wide range of hobbies over the years so im sure there will be something we can talk about.

Age, gender, martial status makes no difference

Drop me a message if you wanna chat and we can go from there


r/MakeFriendsOver30 11m ago

[M4F] 33M - work stress

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Would love to make a connection and be able to complain about work, or whatever peaks your interest. I have no one outside of work to talk about the struggles and sometimes it eats away at me.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 6h ago

34M Easygoing Australian guy looking for long term consistent friends and people who want genuine connections :) photos welcome but absolutely not required, just bring a friendly fun attitude and be entirely yourself 😊 timezones aren’t a problem! Everyone is welcome always!

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Hi everyone, I’m terrible at this whole introduction thing so go easy on me 😅 I’m a pretty basic and easygoing guy, I am super introverted and very much a homebody so I don’t really have any irl friends and that’s why I’m here trying to make some good connections with people online. I am a very cool calm collected and grounded type so picture me more as the gentle giant type of friend rather than the erratic high energy type 😅

I am an avid gamer on PlayStation but pretty much tend to stick with mostly single player games. I listen to a lot of music and would probably die without Spotify. I wish I could say I’m also an accomplished reader of books, but realistically I’m far better at buying and displaying them than I am at reading them 😅 although I really am trying.

I work a lot and I’m a night shift worker so I’m up and about at all sorts of odd hours so timezones don’t concern me. I’m the very sincere, friendly and caring type of friend who tends to gravitate towards people who are really friendly and easy to chat with also
I do have my flaws, I tend to care too much and get emotionally invested in people, hence why I really don’t like wasting effort on people who just disappear without a care in the world. So even if you’re the clingy friend type, you’re welcome here :)

I am open to chatting with anyone and everyone, but admittedly in my many experiences here on Reddit I find my personality tends to gel a lot better with women rather than men (speaking platonically of course). I’m also very LGBTQ+ friendly and would love more friends that are members! Variety is the spice of life after all, or so they say anyway. I’m very open minded and easy to chat with and enjoy people most when they are just genuinely themselves

What I hope to build is some consistent long lasting friendships that endure without the pressure of talking 24/7
We all have lives and so long as we work to maintain contact and get to know one another on more than just a surface level, I know we can make it work :)

Not sure if any of the above is of any interest to anyone whatsoever but if you read this far I appreciate your time and wish you a wonderful day :) just message me your location if you wish to chat and we can take it from there! 😊 looking forward to getting to know you all and no matter how old this post gets, you’re always welcome to flick me a message!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 28m ago

40M- Just looking for a distraction

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Just got home from work, life has been a bit weird lately and just looking to chat for a bit to get my mind off things. Hope to hear from someone soon.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 37m ago

[M4F] 39M France/Anywhere > Still looking for a mature, no-drama connection, F 25+

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I’ve been posting here for a little while now, and I’ve actually met some genuinely good people from different cultures and countries. One thing I’ve realized is that age matters a lot less to me than maturity, communication and the kind of connection two people can build.
So I’m keeping things pretty open.
I’m 39, French-American, currently living in France. I used to live in the US as well, so I’m pretty comfortable connecting with people from different backgrounds, cultures and parts of the world.
I’m mainly looking to meet women 25+. Sorry guys, nothing personal, but I’m not looking for male friendships or chats here.
What I’m looking for can be pretty flexible. Maybe we become friends who casually talk every day about life, work, random thoughts and whatever happened during the day. Maybe there’s some flirting and chemistry. Maybe it naturally becomes romantic, even an LDR if the connection is right.
I don’t want to force anything into a specific box from the beginning. I’d rather meet someone, enjoy talking to each other and see naturally where it goes.
I’ve been single for about three years since my last breakup, and at this stage I really value peace, honesty, consistency, mutual effort and clear communication.
I’m not interested in games, unnecessary drama, mixed signals or disappearing acts. I’d much rather have an easy and comfortable connection where both people can simply be themselves.
I’m an architect and real-estate investor. I enjoy traveling, discovering different cultures and food, long walks, swimming, forests, tennis, skiing in the French Alps, woodworking, tech and electronics.
I’m also into Star Wars, video games and martial-arts films, and I like conversations that can go from serious and thoughtful to completely ridiculous within five minutes. 😄
I’m supportive, I enjoy giving sincere compliments, and I appreciate women who are comfortable being honest, sharing their opinions and showing some personality.
And yes, I NEVER GHOST 👻
If something feels off, I’d rather communicate like an adult than suddenly disappear.
Distance itself isn’t a big issue for me. I’m happy talking to someone from France, Europe, the US, Asia or pretty much anywhere else. Time zones matter a little more, simply because it’s nice if we can actually find some overlapping hours to talk without one of us always being half asleep.
I’m also open to meeting in real life eventually if we build a good connection. I travel and I don’t believe everything meaningful has to stay permanently behind a screen.
So whether you’re looking for a casual daily friend, something a little flirty, a romantic connection, or potentially an LDR if things naturally develop, feel free to say hi.
Women from anywhere are welcome.
And yes… if you know the proper response to “Hello there”, that’s still a very good start.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 39m ago

44F | East Coast US. Seeking fellow intellectual raccoons: books, games, weird facts, existential questions, workout routines, and absolute nonsense.

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One of my favorite things about Reddit has been connecting with people and having great conversations that have ranged from deep, intellectual thoughts (like quantum entanglement) to absolutely ridiculous ones (like the Would You Rather question about the snail and whether or not trapping it in an inescapable box counts in this scenario), most of which never have a segue... we just jump right in with whatever we're thinking about in the moment. (It's pretty great.)

I've recently started grad school and have found myself with a bit more time during the day than I had previously, so I'd love to find some conversations that force me to come up for air instead of drowning in a sea of research papers all day. 😂

A bit about me:

  • Married mama of 2. They're really rad humans, and being a parent is the most exhaustingly awesome thing. They've recently gotten into Pokemon, and it's been fun to learn it along with them.
  • Loves to read. Currently making my way through the Dungeon Crawler Carl series (just bought book 4!). I love fantasy, sci-fi, dark romance, neuropsychology, and could talk about books all day.
  • Enjoys gaming. Mostly RPGs (WoW, BG3), tabletop, and puzzle/strategy games, although I've recently discovered Warhammer and my word, it's a lot. (I'm totally loving it though.)
  • Loves being active. The weather hasn't been great so I've found myself working out inside, but am really excited for the cooler weather.

There's a plethora of other things that I love, but I want to hear about you. What are you currently reading? If I pushed play on your music app right now, what would be playing? What's the most random fact you know?

I look forward to meeting you!