r/MakeFriendsOver30 3h ago

32F, single, looking for someone to chat with

30 Upvotes

I'm a 32 year old single woman looking for someone to chat with. If you're also interested in chatting, feel free to message me


r/MakeFriendsOver30 7h ago

[F4M] 39f anyone wants to chat?

23 Upvotes

39f quite lonely and feeling delusional. Anyone wants to be online friends?


r/MakeFriendsOver30 18h ago

35f no friends 😔

16 Upvotes

I'd love to find a few good friends who could chat, perhaps a group chat.. u don't mind what country you're from or if you're male or female.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 9h ago

31F U.S.A

14 Upvotes

Well, here goes nothing 😂 I’m 31, from Louisiana, single, employed and somehow still manage to be funny as fuck. I enjoy laughing, talking about absolutely anything, and meeting people with actual personalities. Not looking for drama or weirdness, just some cool people to talk to and hopefully build genuine friendships with.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 9h ago

Hey!! 32 F - well next month😂

13 Upvotes

A little about me!
Hey everyone! 👋 I thought I’d put myself out there and share a little bit about me as I’m hoping to make some new friendships! 💕
I’m a very bubbly, chatty and confident person — I can honestly talk to pretty much anyone! 😂 I love helping people, supporting others and being someone my friends know they can always turn to. 🫶🏼

I’m also really ambitious and motivated. I’m always trying to better myself, work towards my goals and make the most out of life. ✨

I’ve unfortunately had a bit of a rough time with friendships recently, so I’m at the point where I’d really love to meet some new people and build genuine friendships — even if it’s just online to begin with! 💗 I’m all for good conversations, having a laugh, supporting each other and hopefully creating some lovely friendships along the way.

So if you’re also looking for someone to chat to, feel free to message me! 😊

P.S. My phone has decided to break on me 🤦🏼‍♀️😂 so if I don’t reply instantly, I promise I’m not ignoring you! I’ll get back to you as soon as I can. 💕


r/MakeFriendsOver30 14h ago

34F UK easy-going, looking for chill friends and chill chats

11 Upvotes

Happy, chatty 34F from the UK here. Currently WFH and feeling a little isolated so would be good to have a friend to chat to throughout the day :) happy to chat about pretty much anything, love learning and hearing about new things. If you’ve got a specialist interest or hobby, let’s hear about it! I don’t mind about age, gender or location.

A little bit about me - I am a creative type; I love to read/write, I dabble occasionally in drawing. Not really much of a film person (it’s safe to assume I’ve basically not seen most films), but I’m a fan of shows such as Breaking Bad, The Sopranos, and most UK comedies (big Alan Partridge fan, AHA!)

I’m really easy-going so please don’t be shy. I’m not looking for a relationship/flirting/anything spicy. Other than that - let’s talk 🙂


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

31F, single, looking to make new friends

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I am a 31-year-old single woman looking to make some good friends to share daily life and hobbies with, and to chat with every day. If you’d also like to make a new friend, feel free to send me a private message


r/MakeFriendsOver30 17h ago

33m. Looking for a Bro best friend.

8 Upvotes

Hey there. I'm married, but don't have any close friends. Would love to find someone to chat with!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 4h ago

[F4R] 32f looking for friendship

6 Upvotes

Hi sooooo ima start by saying I’m a mom. Been since I was 17 and comepletely lost myself in that role. I am starting to get back out there in general but man is it hard 😅and I’m not even thinking romantically but just platonic friendships are soooo hard so I decided to try here. I’m in SoCal SGV to be more precise but I would love to meet new people both girls and guys that are down to talk meet maybe for some drinks some dancing something to forget the problems 😂 me encanta la música en español and im a biggggg paisa at heart . I love horror and comedy. Gym is a huge one for me right now it’s mostly therapy but man I love ittt ! definitely not a gym rat pero si es mi tiempo. I just honestly want someone to talk too to be able to talk to them about my day. idk if this sounds like u might be down then message me ! Worst that can happen is us never talking again 😅😂


r/MakeFriendsOver30 22h ago

[F4R] Awkward outdoorsy nerd looking for new friends!

6 Upvotes

Hi! I am really just looking for friends or people to chat with today, or as long it lasts! I recently had some big life upheaval including a big move and have found myself fairly alone and bored.

Anyway, some about me: I'm 38F on the west coast US, and a pretty awkward introvert, so am really not good at getting out and meeting people 😅. I have a lot of varied interests. I'm really into outdoorsy stuff, hiking, nature, fantasy books/tv/movies, plus some other genres, sometimes video/board games, science, cooking/baking, walking. I like to learn new things, if there's anything you like to tell people about, I'm all ears/eyes. I am studying Greek, if you speak it and would like to help me that would be awesome! Probably numerous other things I'm forgetting at the moment, but if any of this interests you, send me a message!

I like meeting different types of people, no real limits on who I want to hear from. I'm in the PNW, but love to hear from people around the world and would like to travel more someday!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 8h ago

[F4M] 31Fswedish looking for a friend to talk to

6 Upvotes

🌸 Looking for a preferably long term friendship 🩷

Hej! I’m autistic/ADHD, so my energy is VERY inconsistent 😂 Sometimes I’m hyper and talkative, other times I’m slow and quiet. I might write you a whole book one day and reply with one word the next. I’m pretty straightforward, but also love
cute things, so good luck figuring me out 🧸😂

I’m trying to
Get over my ex, so I’d love someone I can talk to about it without being judged.
I’m not really a gamer, but I play Hogwarts Legacy, Life is Strange, Firewatch, Edith Finch, Phasmophobia and Minecraft (I suck at Minecraft ngl).
I love nature, animals, walks and coffee ☕🌿
feel free to message me


r/MakeFriendsOver30 13h ago

[F4R] 29f lf a friend

5 Upvotes

Hi!

I enjoy reading and writing, also a fan of TV shows/movies - though often a few months/ years behind on those, so if you're interested in getting someone invested in your fave film/series, I'm your girl 😆

I like to game but I feel like it's increasingly difficult to find time for it, so maybe we can play single-player games adjacently:-)

Little more niche, but I watch wayy too much YouTube (things like TheQuickSlice, Creepcast or EWU/bodycam channels). Just something to put on while I'm doing chores etc. I have yet to find a podcast I enjoyed more than the first season of dungeons & daddies.

Looking for someone to discuss any of the above with, share recommendations and funny TikToks, chat and just generally build a friendship with.

More general info: married with children, I'm in the UK. I might not get around to your message right away but will reply when I can. I am not interested in video/voice calling or joining discord etc, would prefer to keep any chats to Reddit.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

29F looking to make lasting connections

6 Upvotes

Hey there! I’m Aimee, 29 years old from England living just outside Paris 😊

I love reading, hiking, and simply enjoying the company of my dogs 🐶

When I’m comfortable with someone I’m very fun and outgoing, but I guess I just have trouble getting past the initial ‘getting to know you’ phase, but I’m at the point in life where I know I am completely unfulfilled by not having any real close friends.

I’m an introvert really, but I’d love to get close enough to some people that my extroverted side comes out and i can enjoy life in a different way 😊 please send me a message 😊


r/MakeFriendsOver30 9h ago

F 30 Ulyana, who is always happy to meet new people and discuss a variety of topics

5 Upvotes

Fashion designer looking for active and creative minds

Hey there. I’m hoping to build solid, long-term platonic friendships here.

My days are split between my job in fashion design and my hobbies. I’m super into fitness, hiking, traveling, reading books, and tracking tech innovations.

I believe a good friendship is all about being there for each other and having great conversations. If you share these interests or just want to chat, my PMs are open


r/MakeFriendsOver30 10h ago

[M4F] 31M Its so difficult making friends when youre older

5 Upvotes

I get it, we all have our lives to tend to but once everything is quiet I get lonely tbh.

Anyone feel the same? but im just here to find friends and chat. Could be short/long term, I'd like to get to know you and chat about anything.

For me I love working out and playing video games. I also enjoy going outside and thrifting or fishing ( im new to it ) I take care of many animals and plants.

Thats some some of what I enjoy doing but I'd love to chat with anyone, I'm very available as i dont have a partner to keep me busy lol


r/MakeFriendsOver30 17m ago

[F4F] 36f

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Looking for another female to chat with about girl stuff.
Maybe we can read a book together, share skin care tips, bake some treats together virtually.

Be online besties.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 44m ago

[M4F] 35M - Looking for the person who’ll eventually have way too much access to my socials 😂

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Trying this Reddit thing again because apparently I’ve decided meeting interesting people through the internet is a perfectly reasonable life choice. 😂

I’m hoping to find a genuine connection that starts casually and eventually turns into one of those friendships where you automatically think of each other whenever something funny, weird, exciting, or mildly concerning happens.

The kind where a simple “how’s your day going?” somehow becomes a two-hour conversation.

Random memes with absolutely no explanation.

“Okay, hear me out…” followed by an idea that probably should’ve stayed in your head.

We can make fun of each other, disappear for a day because life got busy without making it awkward, celebrate tiny victories, complain about ridiculous things, and occasionally end up having unexpectedly deep conversations at an unreasonable hour.

Basically, a friendship with good chemistry and questionable levels of chaos. 😂

A little about me:

I’m 35, work in tech, go to the gym, and try not to spend my entire existence staring at a screen. I’m into volleyball, soccer, F1, gaming, travelling, scenic drives, beaches, mountains, cold weather, and anything that gives me a good excuse to get outside.

I’m also very much into thrillers, mysteries, horror, and action when it comes to movies and shows.

And I should probably confess this now:

I’m terrible with music. 😂

I rarely listen to it unless I’m driving, and even then I mostly care whether it has a decent beat.

So if you’re someone who has a playlist for every possible mood, occasion, weather condition, and minor emotional inconvenience, I’m probably going to need some lessons.

I’m pretty laid-back and naturally curious. I like asking random questions, learning how people think, discovering oddly specific interests, and getting into completely unnecessary debates about things that have absolutely no consequences.

I also have no problem double texting.

Or triple texting.

If the conversation is good, I’m not going to suddenly start pretending I’m too cool to reply. 😂

I’m not expecting anyone to be glued to their phone either. Everyone has work, responsibilities, friends, life, and all that annoying adult stuff.

I just appreciate consistency and genuine effort.

I’d much rather build something that naturally becomes part of our everyday lives than have an intense conversation for 48 hours before we both disappear into the Reddit void.

Ideally, this eventually becomes that kind of friendship where something happens and your first thought is:

“I need to tell them this.”

Send a ridiculous meme.

Share a random thought.

Recommend a show.

Drop a completely unnecessary voice note.

Complain about your day.

Start an argument over pineapple on pizza.

Whatever.

If you decide to message me, skip the standard “hey, how are you?” and tell me one completely random thing about yourself.

Something weird.

Something oddly specific.

Something that makes absolutely no sense without context.

Those are usually the best conversations anyway. 😂


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

[F4M] 29F wants to teach some new friends

4 Upvotes

Looking to make new friends in the US? If you're also looking for friends, feel free to contact me!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 4h ago

41M | Married, a little lost, and hoping to find some new people

3 Upvotes

Does anyone else ever look at their life and realize they aren't really sure where they fit into it anymore?

I'm married, a dad of four, work in IT, and from the outside I'm probably doing exactly what I'm supposed to be doing.

But somewhere along the way, I think I lost track of myself.

I know what everyone else needs from me. I know the responsibilities, the routines, the things that have to get done.

What I don't know lately is what I actually enjoy.

What makes me excited? What do I want to talk about for hours? What hobbies are actually mine instead of things I used to enjoy? Hell, I'm not even sure what version of myself I'd introduce if someone asked me who I am beyond "husband, dad, and guy who works in IT."

So I'm trying something different.

I'm looking for some new friendships and conversations with people who don't already have a preconceived idea of who I'm supposed to be.

Someone to talk about random nonsense with.

Someone who can introduce me to a new interest or remind me that it's okay to have interests that serve absolutely no practical purpose.

I like being outdoors, hiking, camping, fishing, road trips, music, sarcasm, stupid humor, and conversations that somehow start with "random question..." and end up lasting two hours.

But I'm also hoping to discover some new things along the way.

Maybe I need a new hobby. Maybe I need to get out of my comfort zone. Maybe I just need people around me who remind me that I'm still a person underneath all the responsibilities.

I'm not looking for someone to fix me.

Just someone willing to talk, laugh, share their weird interests, and maybe help me remember that there's more to life than checking things off a list.

So tell me something:

What is something you genuinely enjoy that you think I should try?

Bonus points if it's weird, random, outdoorsy, nerdy, or something you could spend way too much time talking about. 😂


r/MakeFriendsOver30 9h ago

[R4R] 34M; I'm not like a regular scientist, I'm a cool scientist!

5 Upvotes

Hey. Let's be friends. Some things:

-I'm a molecular biologist who currently works trying to find treatments for Breast Cancer(s). I worked on the east coast as a labrat (a corporate labrat, not a literal one, luckily) in Big Evil Pharma™ for about a decade before moving to a different, better-feeling-morally, position. My specialization is in immune cells and absolutely adore the little dudes; always down to nerd out about science.

-After clocking out, I try hard to be whatever the opposite of well-composed and professional man of science is.

-Love love LOVE big pretty and cohesive tattoo pieces. I have few (of hopefully good looking) ones myself... gotta stick it to THE MAN somehow. We'll be instant best friends if you have your own. They're my favorite art form outside of music.

-I peaked in life upon winning the "Best Eyes" award in the popular class of '09 vote in high school, despite being horrifyingly uncool.

-I play guitar and have for over 15 years, anything from jazz fusion, to pop, to the gurgliest of death metal. Country music is an abomination though.

-I live in the middle of the Rockies and, as such, I climb, hike, and bike said Rockies; big fan of putting my life in harm's way for small doses of adrenaline and minimal gain!

It'd be VERY cool if you weren't creepy :)

Super looking forward to talking with you! Bonus points if you include your favorite deep-cut emoji.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 17h ago

30M - Good morning everyone! Hope you’re all gonna have a great day! If you’re looking for a chat you know where to find me! :)

3 Upvotes

Hey everyone! I’m a newly 30 year old guy from Sweden. I’m very relaxed as a person, I love good, fun conversations and getting to know people. I’d say my main interests are travelling, food and drinks, video games and hanging out with my friends. I’m really bad at describing myself and I don’t want this post to be waaaay too long so I don’t bore you until you’ve finished reading it haha but it’s easier to get to know each other in DMs than from a post anyway.

Also yeah I know the account is new but I’m 100% real, I just recently made this account to be able to reach out to people and make friends!

Sooo yeah, if you find this at all interesting feel free to dm me! I’m always up for new friends and some good convos! Have a lovely rest of your day people! :)


r/MakeFriendsOver30 56m ago

46 M Australia

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Finished yet another work course and back in the Office, Come Say Hi

whats your weirdest taste combo of foods?


r/MakeFriendsOver30 7h ago

34M Easygoing Australian guy looking for long term consistent friends and people who want genuine connections :) photos welcome but absolutely not required, just bring a friendly fun attitude and be entirely yourself 😊 timezones aren’t a problem! Everyone is welcome always!

3 Upvotes

Hi everyone, I’m terrible at this whole introduction thing so go easy on me 😅 I’m a pretty basic and easygoing guy, I am super introverted and very much a homebody so I don’t really have any irl friends and that’s why I’m here trying to make some good connections with people online. I am a very cool calm collected and grounded type so picture me more as the gentle giant type of friend rather than the erratic high energy type 😅

I am an avid gamer on PlayStation but pretty much tend to stick with mostly single player games. I listen to a lot of music and would probably die without Spotify. I wish I could say I’m also an accomplished reader of books, but realistically I’m far better at buying and displaying them than I am at reading them 😅 although I really am trying.

I work a lot and I’m a night shift worker so I’m up and about at all sorts of odd hours so timezones don’t concern me. I’m the very sincere, friendly and caring type of friend who tends to gravitate towards people who are really friendly and easy to chat with also
I do have my flaws, I tend to care too much and get emotionally invested in people, hence why I really don’t like wasting effort on people who just disappear without a care in the world. So even if you’re the clingy friend type, you’re welcome here :)

I am open to chatting with anyone and everyone, but admittedly in my many experiences here on Reddit I find my personality tends to gel a lot better with women rather than men (speaking platonically of course). I’m also very LGBTQ+ friendly and would love more friends that are members! Variety is the spice of life after all, or so they say anyway. I’m very open minded and easy to chat with and enjoy people most when they are just genuinely themselves

What I hope to build is some consistent long lasting friendships that endure without the pressure of talking 24/7
We all have lives and so long as we work to maintain contact and get to know one another on more than just a surface level, I know we can make it work :)

Not sure if any of the above is of any interest to anyone whatsoever but if you read this far I appreciate your time and wish you a wonderful day :) just message me your location if you wish to chat and we can take it from there! 😊 looking forward to getting to know you all and no matter how old this post gets, you’re always welcome to flick me a message!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 10h ago

38M - Florida/Online - I work from home and I am looking for a sarcastic (nerdy) conversationalist. Ideally long term.

3 Upvotes

Like I said I love sarcasm and I love smooth conversation, if you have both awesome, if you are nerdy that's the best news.

A bit about me : I am 6 foot, thinner, nerdy, sarcastic (go figure). I like to read, play video games, watch movies, workout sometimes, LOTR, Star Wars, build lego - ya know nerdy stuff.

If you wanna chat message me your age and gender and something nerdy about yourself.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 15h ago

Looking for people who take this seriously.

3 Upvotes

I'm a 30 year old man from the Netherlands. I'm looking to chat with someone who is looking for a serious friend. I quickly tend to leave people who do not show me mutual interest in each other. I'm really not looking for someone who will want to keep hiding behind their chatbubble for a long time. I want to know what you do, talk to you on voice calls and keep you company during my evening hours.

As for me. I'm an active person. I work out twice a week and i train for hikes because i plan to travel around the world in the next 10 years. So i would prefer if people i talk to share this lifestyle in one way or another. As much as i enjoy games and anime. If thats really your entire personality you will not stay interesting for very long.

Also please don't be a neet. Have some semblance of a life you are living.

And also i have noticed a lot of religious people approaching me i want you to know i'm a red flag for you. I'm not religious in any way never will be and i'm heavily against it.