r/MakeFriendsOver30 4m ago

[M4F] 32M hoping for some fellow people who like to chill and have good vibes!

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Looking for fellow night people who can hold a conversation, I’m a night worker so it’s pretty dull at night so having friends that can be chill would be awesome from 4.20 sessions or being 4.20 friendly would be a plus or even just talking about whatever, I’m a avid gamer on PS5 and PC so I’m always open to a good game I’m more of a go with the flow but I have a hard time meeting new people due to being shy and having social anxiety! I am looking to also connect with a women in a non platonic way if it happens. I am shy at the beginning and slowly get warmed up and would be nice if you're a patient person. Anyone above 21 and from the US, so please send me a DM briefly introducing yourself and your age. I am looking forward to make some new friends if that's possible. And give it a try. So having people who are understanding of that would be awesome! Bonus points if you got snap or discord!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 15m ago

[M4R] 45M | Leeds (UK) | Freshly refurbished and accepting visitors (virtually)

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I've recently had surgery, which means I've been benched for two weeks. Apparently "just go for a run" isn't considered recovery, so here I am instead.

I'm 45, from Leeds, dad of two, and usually keep myself busy with running, the gym, hiking, DIY projects that are definitely only one trip to B&Q (they're not), baking things I probably shouldn't eat all in one sitting, reading, films, and the occasional TV binge that somehow becomes "just one more episode" at 2am.

Looking to chat with good people from anywhere. Tell me about your latest obsession, your worst DIY disaster, the film you'll defend to the death, or convince me your favourite biscuit is objectively the best.

Bonus points if you can make me laugh while I'm pretending to follow the recovery instructions.

And if we've chatted before but life got in the way, don't be shy—message again. I don't do the "we already spoke once, that's illegal now" rule.

Come say hi. Worst case, we exchange terrible jokes. Best case, we accidentally become friends.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 20m ago

[F4F] 36f

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Looking for another female to chat with about girl stuff.
Maybe we can read a book together, share skin care tips, bake some treats together virtually.

Be online besties.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 24m ago

[R4R] M30 would love to chat

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Hey 👋🏻 how’s it going? Would love to meet some new people and learn about your hobbies that you love. I love going camping and hiking in the mountains. I’m pretty laid back guy so would love to chat. Hope to hear from you.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 39m ago

just trying to make new friends 32M

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Hey I’m Jack. I’m 32 from the U.S. originally now living in France. I work as a tour guide but in the off season I renovate homes for family and friends.

In my free time I love archery, playing cricket, darts and pool as well. I also love to travel and go explore places and read.

There’s more to me but like to keep the conversation going. If you want to chat feel free to message me!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 41m ago

Hi there!

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I'm Willow, 32, in central US (GMT-5).

Looking for genuine, long term friendships not just another name on my list. I can message frequently, and I'm open to voice notes/calls!

A little about me:

I'm a disabled, and alternative person. Half and half hair, pierced, tattooed, and yes, I will absolutely talk your ear off about alt music and body mods lmao.

Enjoy cooking and baking, like almost anything. So let's talk foods, snacks, and share photos/recipes!

As far as tv shows and movies, I have no preference for main genre and will atleast try to watch almost anything. I'm really enjoying anime again lately, we can even stream and watch/introduce our fave stuff to each other, and yap about it in real time if you want!

I crochet a lot, and I'll happily share my projects. Right now, I'm working pieces for my Ren Faire fit! If you make art, don't be greedy. Share, so we can hype each other!

Play video games, just Xbox currently. Things like Minecraft, Forza 5/6, and Palworld, though I'm open to others that aren't fps. Let's compare game list, or try something new together!

We can always just chat, keep each other company while we exist. I can be a listening ear if you want/need to vent, or a distraction if things feel rough and you need a break.

There's more I could write I'm sure, but instead let's get to know each other. Feel free to dm me!

Wherever you are, thanks for reading and I hope you have/had a good day/night!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 45m ago

40m giant nerd feeling the call of adventure and wanting to touch grass by creating side quests and fun!

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Winter is coming and maybe it’s a midlife crisis maybe it’s just living a ground hogs day life. But I’m feeling like Walter Mitty , having that call for adventure and head out on an unexpected journey.

I would love to find my Motley Crue my band of misfits or dynamic duo to share ideas with share our journeys and just make life a little less bland.

Maybe your like me someone that likes creating lists, a fall or winter bucket list , focusing on your winter arc goals get in shape for next year or find a new mindset.

I’m 40m Infj , dad , partner, nerd, always busy focusing on everyone else and now it’s time to focus on me. This far I ran a spartan , lost 50lbs and started working on making life better. But yet still on that pursuit of happiness and trying to find my way.

If this sparked your fancy then message me and let me know how many unintentional references I put in this post.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 47m ago

[M4F] 35M - Looking for the person who’ll eventually have way too much access to my socials 😂

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Trying this Reddit thing again because apparently I’ve decided meeting interesting people through the internet is a perfectly reasonable life choice. 😂

I’m hoping to find a genuine connection that starts casually and eventually turns into one of those friendships where you automatically think of each other whenever something funny, weird, exciting, or mildly concerning happens.

The kind where a simple “how’s your day going?” somehow becomes a two-hour conversation.

Random memes with absolutely no explanation.

“Okay, hear me out…” followed by an idea that probably should’ve stayed in your head.

We can make fun of each other, disappear for a day because life got busy without making it awkward, celebrate tiny victories, complain about ridiculous things, and occasionally end up having unexpectedly deep conversations at an unreasonable hour.

Basically, a friendship with good chemistry and questionable levels of chaos. 😂

A little about me:

I’m 35, work in tech, go to the gym, and try not to spend my entire existence staring at a screen. I’m into volleyball, soccer, F1, gaming, travelling, scenic drives, beaches, mountains, cold weather, and anything that gives me a good excuse to get outside.

I’m also very much into thrillers, mysteries, horror, and action when it comes to movies and shows.

And I should probably confess this now:

I’m terrible with music. 😂

I rarely listen to it unless I’m driving, and even then I mostly care whether it has a decent beat.

So if you’re someone who has a playlist for every possible mood, occasion, weather condition, and minor emotional inconvenience, I’m probably going to need some lessons.

I’m pretty laid-back and naturally curious. I like asking random questions, learning how people think, discovering oddly specific interests, and getting into completely unnecessary debates about things that have absolutely no consequences.

I also have no problem double texting.

Or triple texting.

If the conversation is good, I’m not going to suddenly start pretending I’m too cool to reply. 😂

I’m not expecting anyone to be glued to their phone either. Everyone has work, responsibilities, friends, life, and all that annoying adult stuff.

I just appreciate consistency and genuine effort.

I’d much rather build something that naturally becomes part of our everyday lives than have an intense conversation for 48 hours before we both disappear into the Reddit void.

Ideally, this eventually becomes that kind of friendship where something happens and your first thought is:

“I need to tell them this.”

Send a ridiculous meme.

Share a random thought.

Recommend a show.

Drop a completely unnecessary voice note.

Complain about your day.

Start an argument over pineapple on pizza.

Whatever.

If you decide to message me, skip the standard “hey, how are you?” and tell me one completely random thing about yourself.

Something weird.

Something oddly specific.

Something that makes absolutely no sense without context.

Those are usually the best conversations anyway. 😂


r/MakeFriendsOver30 51m ago

[M4F] 30/M - anybody else avoiding sleeping…

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30/M/UK
Looking to speak to easy going people who also have bad sleep schedules and are avoiding going to bed haha
Talk to me about music and food for brownie points 😀
Open to VC down the line if you aren’t a weirdo (it is reddit though so not hopeful)


r/MakeFriendsOver30 59m ago

46 M Australia

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Finished yet another work course and back in the Office, Come Say Hi

whats your weirdest taste combo of foods?


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

44m Midwest. Looking for interesting people to talk to

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Hey. I’m Chris. I’m outgoing, glass is overfilled and spilling all over the place kind of person. I hate sitting alone like I am with no one to talk to. I am open to any topic. Anyone can message. Just be warned I swear a lot, and I don’t have a filter. I don’t give a shit if you’re weird. Whatever. Everyone is weird. I’m straight, I’m divorced and don’t have any kids. My brain works like a lightning bolt in a jar. Just bouncing around from thought to thought. I’m also a musician so I do have an outlet for this madness. I write lyrics and sing and yell. Sometimes I play guitar. Come talk to me. I’m into the paranormal, ghost hunting, I pretty much gravitate to all things spooky. I hope to hear from someone. I hope you’re fun. Anyone can message me about anything. I don’t judge. Do you need to vent? Let me have it. I love other people’s drama.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

[M4R] 31 M I would love to talk thrifting!

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Anyone else big thrifters here? I would love to know what you look for and what you find. Usually old electronics i find interesting. Or a sports jersey. But there is any number of things i have bought since i started about a year ago

So what do you thrift or what have you found recently? I would love to hear from you. Just send a chat request and we can being chatting


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

31F, single, looking to make new friends

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I am a 31-year-old single woman looking to make some good friends to share daily life and hobbies with, and to chat with every day. If you’d also like to make a new friend, feel free to send me a private message


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

35 m uk here. Looking to make some new friends

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35 m uk here. Looking to make some new friends

I have no idea where to start. Im a married dad with a very small circle of friends so looking to expand it a little.

Between work, schedules and life in general I feel like I don't have any time for anything but I feel like being a little selfish for once

I've had a wide range of hobbies over the years so im sure there will be something we can talk about.

Age, gender, martial status makes no difference

Drop me a message if you wanna chat and we can go from there


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

[M4F] 33M - work stress

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Would love to make a connection and be able to complain about work, or whatever peaks your interest. I have no one outside of work to talk about the struggles and sometimes it eats away at me.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

40M- Just looking for a distraction

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Just got home from work, life has been a bit weird lately and just looking to chat for a bit to get my mind off things. Hope to hear from someone soon.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

[M4F] 39M France/Anywhere > Still looking for a mature, no-drama connection, F 25+

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I’ve been posting here for a little while now, and I’ve actually met some genuinely good people from different cultures and countries. One thing I’ve realized is that age matters a lot less to me than maturity, communication and the kind of connection two people can build.
So I’m keeping things pretty open.
I’m 39, French-American, currently living in France. I used to live in the US as well, so I’m pretty comfortable connecting with people from different backgrounds, cultures and parts of the world.
I’m mainly looking to meet women 25+. Sorry guys, nothing personal, but I’m not looking for male friendships or chats here.
What I’m looking for can be pretty flexible. Maybe we become friends who casually talk every day about life, work, random thoughts and whatever happened during the day. Maybe there’s some flirting and chemistry. Maybe it naturally becomes romantic, even an LDR if the connection is right.
I don’t want to force anything into a specific box from the beginning. I’d rather meet someone, enjoy talking to each other and see naturally where it goes.
I’ve been single for about three years since my last breakup, and at this stage I really value peace, honesty, consistency, mutual effort and clear communication.
I’m not interested in games, unnecessary drama, mixed signals or disappearing acts. I’d much rather have an easy and comfortable connection where both people can simply be themselves.
I’m an architect and real-estate investor. I enjoy traveling, discovering different cultures and food, long walks, swimming, forests, tennis, skiing in the French Alps, woodworking, tech and electronics.
I’m also into Star Wars, video games and martial-arts films, and I like conversations that can go from serious and thoughtful to completely ridiculous within five minutes. 😄
I’m supportive, I enjoy giving sincere compliments, and I appreciate women who are comfortable being honest, sharing their opinions and showing some personality.
And yes, I NEVER GHOST 👻
If something feels off, I’d rather communicate like an adult than suddenly disappear.
Distance itself isn’t a big issue for me. I’m happy talking to someone from France, Europe, the US, Asia or pretty much anywhere else. Time zones matter a little more, simply because it’s nice if we can actually find some overlapping hours to talk without one of us always being half asleep.
I’m also open to meeting in real life eventually if we build a good connection. I travel and I don’t believe everything meaningful has to stay permanently behind a screen.
So whether you’re looking for a casual daily friend, something a little flirty, a romantic connection, or potentially an LDR if things naturally develop, feel free to say hi.
Women from anywhere are welcome.
And yes… if you know the proper response to “Hello there”, that’s still a very good start.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

44F | East Coast US. Seeking fellow intellectual raccoons: books, games, weird facts, existential questions, workout routines, and absolute nonsense.

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One of my favorite things about Reddit has been connecting with people and having great conversations that have ranged from deep, intellectual thoughts (like quantum entanglement) to absolutely ridiculous ones (like the Would You Rather question about the snail and whether or not trapping it in an inescapable box counts in this scenario), most of which never have a segue... we just jump right in with whatever we're thinking about in the moment. (It's pretty great.)

I've recently started grad school and have found myself with a bit more time during the day than I had previously, so I'd love to find some conversations that force me to come up for air instead of drowning in a sea of research papers all day. 😂

A bit about me:

  • Married mama of 2. They're really rad humans, and being a parent is the most exhaustingly awesome thing. They've recently gotten into Pokemon, and it's been fun to learn it along with them.
  • Loves to read. Currently making my way through the Dungeon Crawler Carl series (just bought book 4!). I love fantasy, sci-fi, dark romance, neuropsychology, and could talk about books all day.
  • Enjoys gaming. Mostly RPGs (WoW, BG3), tabletop, and puzzle/strategy games, although I've recently discovered Warhammer and my word, it's a lot. (I'm totally loving it though.)
  • Loves being active. The weather hasn't been great so I've found myself working out inside, but am really excited for the cooler weather.

There's a plethora of other things that I love, but I want to hear about you. What are you currently reading? If I pushed play on your music app right now, what would be playing? What's the most random fact you know?

I look forward to meeting you!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

33 M Ireland - Friendly chit chats

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Hello there! Happy Tuesday and hope you're doing good.

I'm 33, M from Ireland. I spend some of my week from home most of the week, so always down to make a new friend! Born yapper over here. Super laid back, easy to talk to and full of Irish charm and wit haha

My hobbies include

  • gaming
  • music (elder emo here and I play guitar)
  • houseplants (proud plant daddy)
  • sports and gym
  • cooking (although I'm a sucker for coffee and donuts)
  • getting outdoors
  • reading
  • movies/tv/podcasts
  • alt culture like horror, tattoos, etc
  • thrifting
  • lego

It's not a deal breaker if you don't share all the same interests, it's very much about the vibes.

If you'd like to chat, please introduce yourself with your age, gender and location. I only ask that you're 18+ and not a creep!

Hope to hear from you but have a good day if I don't! ✌️


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

[M4F] Looking for friends in the Lansing area

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Hi my name is Micah 🙂

A little about myself: my main hobbies are video games, watching anime and playing magic the gathering.

I mostly play a lot of rpgs and fantasy games. So.e of my favorites are the legend of Zelda, kingdom hearts and expedition 33.

Some of my favorite animes are Freiren: beyond journeys end, full metal alchemist brotherhood, one piece and demon slayer.

I am mostly a homebody and don't get out too much but that doesn't mean that I do not like to go places. I'm happy to go on adventures so long as I am not the only one driving all the time. After being in a relationship for 10 years and being the only one with a license it's kinda exhausting to be the one driving all the time.

I'm really not much of a sports guy at all but I do not mind if it is something you enjoy. I'm not here to tell you what to like. We are adults. I have my interests and you have yours. I just want someone who has a pretty chill vibe.

I am 420 friendly but I do not smoke, I take edibles. If you smoke I only ask you don't do it around me simply because I do also have asthma

Other interests include: listening to music, playing with my dog and 2 cats

I am recently divorced but it was pretty mutual. My partner found out they were trans and I'm not into men. We're still good friends we just have different interests.

What I'm looking for: I'm looking for a nerdy and cute gaming partner. I want someone who I can genuinely connect with and get to know. I'd love to start out as friends first but overall I don't want much more than that. I'm looking for companionship, a friend, someone who gets me.

I've tried dating apps and have had no luck so I'm trying my luck here. I'm happy to answer any questions you might have about me but I'd also love to hear about your own interests as well


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

[M4F] 42[M4F] #GTA Ontario Canada-looking for a good chat with a Persian woman in Ontario

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r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

[M4M] Hey 30M from UK

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Hey, 30M doctor in the UK. Looking for friendship. Into art, music (piano), reading, writing, debating, hiking etc


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

29F looking to make lasting connections

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Hey there! I’m Aimee, 29 years old from England living just outside Paris 😊

I love reading, hiking, and simply enjoying the company of my dogs 🐶

When I’m comfortable with someone I’m very fun and outgoing, but I guess I just have trouble getting past the initial ‘getting to know you’ phase, but I’m at the point in life where I know I am completely unfulfilled by not having any real close friends.

I’m an introvert really, but I’d love to get close enough to some people that my extroverted side comes out and i can enjoy life in a different way 😊 please send me a message 😊


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

[F4M] 29F wants to teach some new friends

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Looking to make new friends in the US? If you're also looking for friends, feel free to contact me!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

[M4F] Recently Separated 45m in Chicago

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I am a nice, successful, and (dare I say) attractive 45m in Chicago who is recently separated and looking to meet new people. Interests include live music, running, sports, reading, and fun restaurants.

I travel quite a bit domestically (and sometimes internationally) for work to most major cities. Very easygoing and fun professional type.