r/MakeFriendsOver30 3h ago

32F, single, looking for someone to chat with

29 Upvotes

I'm a 32 year old single woman looking for someone to chat with. If you're also interested in chatting, feel free to message me


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

31F, single, looking to make new friends

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I am a 31-year-old single woman looking to make some good friends to share daily life and hobbies with, and to chat with every day. If you’d also like to make a new friend, feel free to send me a private message


r/MakeFriendsOver30 7h ago

[F4M] 39f anyone wants to chat?

23 Upvotes

39f quite lonely and feeling delusional. Anyone wants to be online friends?


r/MakeFriendsOver30 24m ago

[F4F] 36f

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Looking for another female to chat with about girl stuff.
Maybe we can read a book together, share skin care tips, bake some treats together virtually.

Be online besties.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 51m ago

[M4F] 35M - Looking for the person who’ll eventually have way too much access to my socials 😂

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Trying this Reddit thing again because apparently I’ve decided meeting interesting people through the internet is a perfectly reasonable life choice. 😂

I’m hoping to find a genuine connection that starts casually and eventually turns into one of those friendships where you automatically think of each other whenever something funny, weird, exciting, or mildly concerning happens.

The kind where a simple “how’s your day going?” somehow becomes a two-hour conversation.

Random memes with absolutely no explanation.

“Okay, hear me out…” followed by an idea that probably should’ve stayed in your head.

We can make fun of each other, disappear for a day because life got busy without making it awkward, celebrate tiny victories, complain about ridiculous things, and occasionally end up having unexpectedly deep conversations at an unreasonable hour.

Basically, a friendship with good chemistry and questionable levels of chaos. 😂

A little about me:

I’m 35, work in tech, go to the gym, and try not to spend my entire existence staring at a screen. I’m into volleyball, soccer, F1, gaming, travelling, scenic drives, beaches, mountains, cold weather, and anything that gives me a good excuse to get outside.

I’m also very much into thrillers, mysteries, horror, and action when it comes to movies and shows.

And I should probably confess this now:

I’m terrible with music. 😂

I rarely listen to it unless I’m driving, and even then I mostly care whether it has a decent beat.

So if you’re someone who has a playlist for every possible mood, occasion, weather condition, and minor emotional inconvenience, I’m probably going to need some lessons.

I’m pretty laid-back and naturally curious. I like asking random questions, learning how people think, discovering oddly specific interests, and getting into completely unnecessary debates about things that have absolutely no consequences.

I also have no problem double texting.

Or triple texting.

If the conversation is good, I’m not going to suddenly start pretending I’m too cool to reply. 😂

I’m not expecting anyone to be glued to their phone either. Everyone has work, responsibilities, friends, life, and all that annoying adult stuff.

I just appreciate consistency and genuine effort.

I’d much rather build something that naturally becomes part of our everyday lives than have an intense conversation for 48 hours before we both disappear into the Reddit void.

Ideally, this eventually becomes that kind of friendship where something happens and your first thought is:

“I need to tell them this.”

Send a ridiculous meme.

Share a random thought.

Recommend a show.

Drop a completely unnecessary voice note.

Complain about your day.

Start an argument over pineapple on pizza.

Whatever.

If you decide to message me, skip the standard “hey, how are you?” and tell me one completely random thing about yourself.

Something weird.

Something oddly specific.

Something that makes absolutely no sense without context.

Those are usually the best conversations anyway. 😂


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

29F looking to make lasting connections

6 Upvotes

Hey there! I’m Aimee, 29 years old from England living just outside Paris 😊

I love reading, hiking, and simply enjoying the company of my dogs 🐶

When I’m comfortable with someone I’m very fun and outgoing, but I guess I just have trouble getting past the initial ‘getting to know you’ phase, but I’m at the point in life where I know I am completely unfulfilled by not having any real close friends.

I’m an introvert really, but I’d love to get close enough to some people that my extroverted side comes out and i can enjoy life in a different way 😊 please send me a message 😊


r/MakeFriendsOver30 4h ago

[F4R] 32f looking for friendship

7 Upvotes

Hi sooooo ima start by saying I’m a mom. Been since I was 17 and comepletely lost myself in that role. I am starting to get back out there in general but man is it hard 😅and I’m not even thinking romantically but just platonic friendships are soooo hard so I decided to try here. I’m in SoCal SGV to be more precise but I would love to meet new people both girls and guys that are down to talk meet maybe for some drinks some dancing something to forget the problems 😂 me encanta la música en español and im a biggggg paisa at heart . I love horror and comedy. Gym is a huge one for me right now it’s mostly therapy but man I love ittt ! definitely not a gym rat pero si es mi tiempo. I just honestly want someone to talk too to be able to talk to them about my day. idk if this sounds like u might be down then message me ! Worst that can happen is us never talking again 😅😂


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

[F4M] 29F wants to teach some new friends

4 Upvotes

Looking to make new friends in the US? If you're also looking for friends, feel free to contact me!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

46 M Australia

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Finished yet another work course and back in the Office, Come Say Hi

whats your weirdest taste combo of foods?


r/MakeFriendsOver30 9h ago

31F U.S.A

14 Upvotes

Well, here goes nothing 😂 I’m 31, from Louisiana, single, employed and somehow still manage to be funny as fuck. I enjoy laughing, talking about absolutely anything, and meeting people with actual personalities. Not looking for drama or weirdness, just some cool people to talk to and hopefully build genuine friendships with.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 9h ago

Hey!! 32 F - well next month😂

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A little about me!
Hey everyone! 👋 I thought I’d put myself out there and share a little bit about me as I’m hoping to make some new friendships! 💕
I’m a very bubbly, chatty and confident person — I can honestly talk to pretty much anyone! 😂 I love helping people, supporting others and being someone my friends know they can always turn to. 🫶🏼

I’m also really ambitious and motivated. I’m always trying to better myself, work towards my goals and make the most out of life. ✨

I’ve unfortunately had a bit of a rough time with friendships recently, so I’m at the point where I’d really love to meet some new people and build genuine friendships — even if it’s just online to begin with! 💗 I’m all for good conversations, having a laugh, supporting each other and hopefully creating some lovely friendships along the way.

So if you’re also looking for someone to chat to, feel free to message me! 😊

P.S. My phone has decided to break on me 🤦🏼‍♀️😂 so if I don’t reply instantly, I promise I’m not ignoring you! I’ll get back to you as soon as I can. 💕


r/MakeFriendsOver30 4h ago

41M | Married, a little lost, and hoping to find some new people

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Does anyone else ever look at their life and realize they aren't really sure where they fit into it anymore?

I'm married, a dad of four, work in IT, and from the outside I'm probably doing exactly what I'm supposed to be doing.

But somewhere along the way, I think I lost track of myself.

I know what everyone else needs from me. I know the responsibilities, the routines, the things that have to get done.

What I don't know lately is what I actually enjoy.

What makes me excited? What do I want to talk about for hours? What hobbies are actually mine instead of things I used to enjoy? Hell, I'm not even sure what version of myself I'd introduce if someone asked me who I am beyond "husband, dad, and guy who works in IT."

So I'm trying something different.

I'm looking for some new friendships and conversations with people who don't already have a preconceived idea of who I'm supposed to be.

Someone to talk about random nonsense with.

Someone who can introduce me to a new interest or remind me that it's okay to have interests that serve absolutely no practical purpose.

I like being outdoors, hiking, camping, fishing, road trips, music, sarcasm, stupid humor, and conversations that somehow start with "random question..." and end up lasting two hours.

But I'm also hoping to discover some new things along the way.

Maybe I need a new hobby. Maybe I need to get out of my comfort zone. Maybe I just need people around me who remind me that I'm still a person underneath all the responsibilities.

I'm not looking for someone to fix me.

Just someone willing to talk, laugh, share their weird interests, and maybe help me remember that there's more to life than checking things off a list.

So tell me something:

What is something you genuinely enjoy that you think I should try?

Bonus points if it's weird, random, outdoorsy, nerdy, or something you could spend way too much time talking about. 😂


r/MakeFriendsOver30 45m ago

Hi there!

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I'm Willow, 32, in central US (GMT-5).

Looking for genuine, long term friendships not just another name on my list. I can message frequently, and I'm open to voice notes/calls!

A little about me:

I'm a disabled, and alternative person. Half and half hair, pierced, tattooed, and yes, I will absolutely talk your ear off about alt music and body mods lmao.

Enjoy cooking and baking, like almost anything. So let's talk foods, snacks, and share photos/recipes!

As far as tv shows and movies, I have no preference for main genre and will atleast try to watch almost anything. I'm really enjoying anime again lately, we can even stream and watch/introduce our fave stuff to each other, and yap about it in real time if you want!

I crochet a lot, and I'll happily share my projects. Right now, I'm working pieces for my Ren Faire fit! If you make art, don't be greedy. Share, so we can hype each other!

Play video games, just Xbox currently. Things like Minecraft, Forza 5/6, and Palworld, though I'm open to others that aren't fps. Let's compare game list, or try something new together!

We can always just chat, keep each other company while we exist. I can be a listening ear if you want/need to vent, or a distraction if things feel rough and you need a break.

There's more I could write I'm sure, but instead let's get to know each other. Feel free to dm me!

Wherever you are, thanks for reading and I hope you have/had a good day/night!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 55m ago

[M4F] 30/M - anybody else avoiding sleeping…

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30/M/UK
Looking to speak to easy going people who also have bad sleep schedules and are avoiding going to bed haha
Talk to me about music and food for brownie points 😀
Open to VC down the line if you aren’t a weirdo (it is reddit though so not hopeful)


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

44m Midwest. Looking for interesting people to talk to

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Hey. I’m Chris. I’m outgoing, glass is overfilled and spilling all over the place kind of person. I hate sitting alone like I am with no one to talk to. I am open to any topic. Anyone can message. Just be warned I swear a lot, and I don’t have a filter. I don’t give a shit if you’re weird. Whatever. Everyone is weird. I’m straight, I’m divorced and don’t have any kids. My brain works like a lightning bolt in a jar. Just bouncing around from thought to thought. I’m also a musician so I do have an outlet for this madness. I write lyrics and sing and yell. Sometimes I play guitar. Come talk to me. I’m into the paranormal, ghost hunting, I pretty much gravitate to all things spooky. I hope to hear from someone. I hope you’re fun. Anyone can message me about anything. I don’t judge. Do you need to vent? Let me have it. I love other people’s drama.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

36M just looking for conversation

2 Upvotes

Hello,

I've been dealing with breakup for the last couple of months and I feel I kinda lost who I was. Im looking for someone to talk to, I usually enjoy gaming, reading, I'm currently learning about PC hardware, I'm a cook by trade. If anyone wants to talk feel free to DM me! Have a nice day!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

34TF - Looking for minimalism, cooking or new hobby friends! Let's celebrate the little joys of our current obsessions

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In a bit of a transition phase (in more ways than one) and have really been enjoying embracing minimalism and being able to spend the time on simpler focuses. Would absolutely adore finding someone to share the little daily joys with and learn about your own obsessions!

A few of the things that have been keeping my brain overthinking itself lately:

- Minimalism (mostly the perfect capsule wardrobe but also cleaning up the vestiges of an old video game collection)

- Finding recipes beyond muffins and little apple pies to bake more often (and more practical meal ideas)

- Urban planning and history (only just recently learned about the Marchetti constant), on the lookout to try moving from just pop video sources to "actual" ones

- Eternally procrastinating on a home project to teach myself JavaScript programming

If you think there might be some overlap in interests or just really enjoy teaching others about your own hobbies please come say hi!

I can be a bit feast or famine-y with my social energy so long term my ideal is probably something more penpal like but so up for a proper chat to see if click!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 8h ago

[F4M] 31Fswedish looking for a friend to talk to

7 Upvotes

🌸 Looking for a preferably long term friendship 🩷

Hej! I’m autistic/ADHD, so my energy is VERY inconsistent 😂 Sometimes I’m hyper and talkative, other times I’m slow and quiet. I might write you a whole book one day and reply with one word the next. I’m pretty straightforward, but also love
cute things, so good luck figuring me out 🧸😂

I’m trying to
Get over my ex, so I’d love someone I can talk to about it without being judged.
I’m not really a gamer, but I play Hogwarts Legacy, Life is Strange, Firewatch, Edith Finch, Phasmophobia and Minecraft (I suck at Minecraft ngl).
I love nature, animals, walks and coffee ☕🌿
feel free to message me


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1m ago

[M4F] 39M new friends

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Hi, I'm from the east coast in the US. I like watching horror, cryptids, true crime, photography, driving with nowhere in mind, running/working out, & finding new ways to keep active, physically & mentally. I have ADHD & am somewhat shy, yet very open minded & comfortable in my own skin. Looking for new friends that hopefully last longer than a day before ghosting me. I have discord.

What's your most awkward or funniest dm so far? (No answer is right or wrong. It's your experience. I'll share mine too.)

If you don't wish to answer the above question, who inspires you & why?


r/MakeFriendsOver30 8m ago

[M4F] 32M hoping for some fellow people who like to chill and have good vibes!

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Looking for fellow night people who can hold a conversation, I’m a night worker so it’s pretty dull at night so having friends that can be chill would be awesome from 4.20 sessions or being 4.20 friendly would be a plus or even just talking about whatever, I’m a avid gamer on PS5 and PC so I’m always open to a good game I’m more of a go with the flow but I have a hard time meeting new people due to being shy and having social anxiety! I am looking to also connect with a women in a non platonic way if it happens. I am shy at the beginning and slowly get warmed up and would be nice if you're a patient person. Anyone above 21 and from the US, so please send me a DM briefly introducing yourself and your age. I am looking forward to make some new friends if that's possible. And give it a try. So having people who are understanding of that would be awesome! Bonus points if you got snap or discord!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 19m ago

[M4R] 45M | Leeds (UK) | Freshly refurbished and accepting visitors (virtually)

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I've recently had surgery, which means I've been benched for two weeks. Apparently "just go for a run" isn't considered recovery, so here I am instead.

I'm 45, from Leeds, dad of two, and usually keep myself busy with running, the gym, hiking, DIY projects that are definitely only one trip to B&Q (they're not), baking things I probably shouldn't eat all in one sitting, reading, films, and the occasional TV binge that somehow becomes "just one more episode" at 2am.

Looking to chat with good people from anywhere. Tell me about your latest obsession, your worst DIY disaster, the film you'll defend to the death, or convince me your favourite biscuit is objectively the best.

Bonus points if you can make me laugh while I'm pretending to follow the recovery instructions.

And if we've chatted before but life got in the way, don't be shy—message again. I don't do the "we already spoke once, that's illegal now" rule.

Come say hi. Worst case, we exchange terrible jokes. Best case, we accidentally become friends.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 4h ago

[R4R] 35F Seriously need friends

2 Upvotes

RN living in SWFL. - Book nerd (dark romance, I need to talk about the books right now on Lights Out🔥🔥) - Looking for nearby friends and far away friends. - I mostly use discord, if you DM me, I’ll give you my username; I’m on there more often. - I love RPing (writing), and playing video games in my free time.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 28m ago

[R4R] M30 would love to chat

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Hey 👋🏻 how’s it going? Would love to meet some new people and learn about your hobbies that you love. I love going camping and hiking in the mountains. I’m pretty laid back guy so would love to chat. Hope to hear from you.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 4h ago

[M4F] Looking for a friend

2 Upvotes

43 year old male looking to chat. I've been going through a lot and could use a friend to message.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 43m ago

just trying to make new friends 32M

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Hey I’m Jack. I’m 32 from the U.S. originally now living in France. I work as a tour guide but in the off season I renovate homes for family and friends.

In my free time I love archery, playing cricket, darts and pool as well. I also love to travel and go explore places and read.

There’s more to me but like to keep the conversation going. If you want to chat feel free to message me!